Here's a true story. I'm friends with black guy that was raised in the hood in poverty. As an adult he started to make good money but he didn't want to move out of the hell hole city he grew up in. He would give his kid a nice bike. His son would come back saying he was mugged. One Christmas he gave the kid a nice watch with the same result. Another time he said someone stole his pit bull out of his back yard. He searched for days. One day he saw a bunch of kids playing with his "vicious" pit bull in the streets. He took his dog back. Next he moved into suburbs into a white neighborhood. There his kid left his bike on his front lawn over night and no more problems.