What's so unusual about that? Lots of girls who want to be taken care of financially make no bones about making it quite clear. It cuts out a lot of legwork and research time. Admittedly, most are probably better at it than your example.
Either that, or she's just wondering how far she can go, and feeling you out. Maybe she sees you find her "brutal honesty" refreshing and so that's the way to play it. After some hot sex and brutally honest convos, who knows, maybe you'll be paying her rent too. She sounds needy. Needy people are leeches one way or another. And anyone who spills their guts and talks about what a shit they were to the last guy/girl, openly to someone they've never really spoken to before (at least, that's how you describe it), can't really have much dignity imo.
You make some good points, deedee, but sex would not happen unless I'm sure she's relationship material. I'm not like most men and my willpower is over the top. I've refused sex with women before, and will again, I'm sure.
She's not needy, don't get that impression from her at all. Besides, after the conversation she had with me and what I revealed about her personality/mentality, she has to know that she'd never get away with that behaviour if she was with me.
I dabbled in all areas, from her lack of a father figure, to her tendency to choose weak men, right down to her music tastes and future goals and such. All across the spectrum and the kind of conversation you don't really have with someone you've just met unless you are wanting to reveal that type of information. I suppose I just come from a different angle because I'm not trying to pick her up. No games.
I'll probably get her number and talk to her, just out of curiousity.
She is the type of girl that would whip a younger male, which is probably why she is looking older.
An older guy won't put up with the bullshit games and those boundaries are probably what she is looking for from a man.
y'all ever hear the saying 'don't sh*t where you eat'?
be careful getting involved w/somebody who works at your gym. if it goes bad, it could go real bad. last thing you want is to have to find another gym because the girl goes psycho on you for not being able/willing to be her daddy figure. proceed with caution on this one.
^Yes, barbelle, and this is the
MAIN reason I am hesitant about talking to her at all. I don't need the repercussions.
Is her honesty for the sake of being honest? Or is it a tool in her game?
I wouldn't bite the bait on this one so quickly unless you are simply curious as to what lies behind this door and want the experience tattooed on your memory banks.
I don't know, Jodi.
On some level, she's been very honest, even about her flaws.
If she's that devious, it could be part of her game.
I take people at their word until they give me a reason not to.
You really think I'd be making a mistake in talking to her?
I'm not stupid, Ms. Miller....
If I see peripherals that don't vibe with me, I wouldn't hesitate to cut her loose......totally.
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