Yep, for the most part you're right, that's one of the reason why there are problems when a dude asserts himself. But, then that is one of the reason why a lot of Latino and Caribbean women roll out on their men as well, too controlling...
BUt as Jag, siad, if the women ain't happy AND she has mind of her own, she's gonna let you know that she is unhappy!!!
Most traditional Latinas don't roll out because they were raised in the culture, and dating outside the culture is looked down upon.
In fact, most traditional Hispanic women defer to the man as a rule.
It's only the Americanized latinas that go outside the norm......they aren't any different than any other woman at that point.
What I see with black culture is the female controlling things and manipulating the men to do their bidding.......
In many ways black women have all the say in that culture.
That just doesn't go in Latino cultures............it never will.
It's a patriarchal society.......and always has been.
Most Hispanic women who approach me are looking to me for answers, not trying to control or manipulate me.
Why?
Because it doesn't work.
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