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CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« on: January 13, 2008, 04:13:36 PM »
Be honest ! If you could cheat on your SO, with 100 % safety (STD's etc) and guaranteed anonymity - would you ?

All men will answer YES  :-*
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #1 on: January 13, 2008, 04:30:00 PM »
Quote from: Board_SHERIF on January 13, 2008, 04:13:36 PM
Be honest ! If you could cheat on your SO, with 100 % safety (STD's etc) and guaranteed anonymity - would you ?

All men will answer YES  :-*

I want to say no because believe it or not i have some morals, but probably yes. :-\

Lisa

PS. I was cheated on by my first husband for NO obvious reasons and it killed me although i was happy to be out of the relationship.
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #2 on: January 13, 2008, 04:35:51 PM »
Quote from: Mydavid on January 13, 2008, 04:30:00 PM
I want to say no because believe it or not i have some morals, but probably yes. :-\

Lisa

PS. I was cheated on by my first husband for NO obvious reasons and it killed me although i was happy to be out of the relationship.

Any honest person will answer yes - if the one person you fantasise about was somehow available...
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #3 on: January 13, 2008, 04:58:24 PM »
Quote from: Board_SHERIF on January 13, 2008, 04:35:51 PM
Any honest person will answer yes - if the one person you fantasise about was somehow available...

You're right...there is a guy at the gym... ;D

Lisa
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #4 on: January 13, 2008, 06:33:31 PM »
no
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #5 on: January 13, 2008, 06:45:22 PM »
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #6 on: January 14, 2008, 05:09:36 AM »
ABSOLUTELY NOT!
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #7 on: January 14, 2008, 10:24:29 AM »
Easy answer. YES. Not that I agree with it. But both genders cheat on eachother every single day of their lives. Nothing new there.
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #8 on: January 14, 2008, 10:52:45 AM »
Yes. And I will sleep like a baby after cheating.   :)

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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #9 on: January 14, 2008, 03:42:39 PM »
jaguarenterprises and STella you disappoint me  ;) why ? because I think you are saying NO just to give women a good name.......I realy do not believe you would not have sex with someone you are hot for (movie star etc....)
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #10 on: January 14, 2008, 05:19:49 PM »
Quote from: Board_SHERIF on January 14, 2008, 03:42:39 PM
jaguarenterprises and STella you disappoint me  ;) why ? because I think you are saying NO just to give women a good name.......I realy do not believe you would not have sex with someone you are hot for (movie star etc....)

Movie stars are just people.  The scenario of 100% safe and no one would find out wouldn't matter.  I would know what I did and so would God.  On the other hand, we should never think we are above the possibility of committing any sin.....that kind of thinking can lead to trouble.
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #11 on: January 14, 2008, 10:38:21 PM »
Quote from: Board_SHERIF on January 14, 2008, 03:42:39 PM
jaguarenterprises and STella you disappoint me  ;) why ? because I think you are saying NO just to give women a good name.......I realy do not believe you would not have sex with someone you are hot for (movie star etc....)


It's not about trying to give women a good name. It's simply about cheating & being dishonest period,
...even if there was no chance of getting found out. I would know. And deceiving my partner like that would insert a small wedge into our relationship whether he knew about the cheating or not. I would know, and that in itself is enough to undermine the foundation of any relationship.

ps: That's not to say that I wouldn't beg my husband, and promise to cook from scratch every night for the next 6 months if he allowed me to have 1 freebie with that hot star.  :P
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #12 on: January 14, 2008, 10:48:36 PM »
Quote from: Board_SHERIF on January 13, 2008, 04:35:51 PM
Any honest person will answer yes - if the one person you fantasise about was somehow available...

I have found myself in this position. Fortunately, I was single at the time.  :P

Quote from: STella on January 14, 2008, 05:19:49 PM
Movie stars are just people.  On the other hand, we should never think we are above the possibility of committing any sin.....that kind of thinking can lead to trouble.

With this I'm definitely in agreement. I thought for sure... well, I was 99.999999% sure I'd be able to resist.
Turns out the 0.000001% was pretty persuasive. I was single so I didn't have to fight it. If I wasn't I would've.
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #13 on: January 15, 2008, 06:41:28 AM »
Sad to say that when in comes to cheating, a lot of people are not sorry they cheated but sorry that they got caught. There is no excuse for it but we all fantasize from time to time on being with others. Its natural. Plus don't tell me if your a guy and Eva Longoria came up to you and seduced you that you wouldn't get in the sac with her. Or if a Brad Pitt came up to you if your a women. People are very quick to change their tune if oppurtunities presented themselves.
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #14 on: January 15, 2008, 11:36:17 AM »
Morality is a high commodity in North America  ::)

http://ashleymadison.com/

or

http://theeroticreview.com

Just in case someone is actually phishing for information  :-*
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #15 on: January 15, 2008, 05:07:05 PM »
Quote from: Playboy on January 15, 2008, 06:41:28 AM
Sad to say that when in comes to cheating, a lot of people are not sorry they cheated but sorry that they got caught. There is no excuse for it but we all fantasize from time to time on being with others. Its natural. Plus don't tell me if your a guy and Eva Longoria came up to you and seduced you that you wouldn't get in the sac with her. Or if a Brad Pitt came up to you if your a women. People are very quick to change their tune if oppurtunities presented themselves.

Exactly......
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #16 on: January 16, 2008, 06:49:09 AM »
Quote from: Playboy on January 15, 2008, 06:41:28 AM
Or if a Brad Pitt came up to you if your a women.

No thanks.
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #17 on: January 16, 2008, 07:06:19 AM »
 


  no.
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #18 on: January 16, 2008, 07:13:37 AM »
The fact that “cheating” is so widespread, has such a long history in every corner of the globe, and is born of natural impulses suggests that absolute monogamy may not necessarily be the best or most organic type of relationship.  Most of us think it is because we were raised to believe it in--not because it has been proven to be better than the alternatives.

Group marriage, open marriage, open relationships, triads, etc. get mocked in our society but surely they are no more laughable than the under reported incidents of infidelity.   :-\ 
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #19 on: January 16, 2008, 08:09:57 AM »
I'm in the mindset that sex is sex and love is love , in a perfect world I'd love to be just utterly satisfied with one sexual partner who I'm in love with and have it be happily ever after.
In experiences so far in my life , it hasn't appeared that's a great possibility for the majority of us.

I probably would have an affair if the opportunity arose and I was smitten with the other person , a sexual romp for me is not the same as a love making session.

that's just me and I am aware how distasteful it seems to most ,I figure with one life and only so many years in it , I want all that it has to offer , I can't get fame or fortune ( not that I want it anyhow ) so I'm choosing to consider everything else.
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #20 on: January 17, 2008, 01:08:50 PM »
Absolutely not.  I've been on the other end a few times, and I would never even consider the thought.
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Re: CHEAT ?? if 100 % safe ?
« Reply #21 on: January 17, 2008, 04:13:53 PM »


no thanx
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