I'm feeling a lot like Laura jaejonna
I will add that you can almost "sense" which way it'll go as soon as the "break" is made or very soon thereafter , unless it's a mutual decision.
Either way it comes down to whether it's worth working on and usually the one that wants the break isn't willing to work that hard
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all above is jmho of course
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