Perhaps 'attraction' is the wrong word. They are easier to converse with, and less stand-offish.
I am not talking about women that are already known/friends, I am refering to the 'girl at the counter' type of situation.
In regards to Jaguars' take on the matter...
I have also considered that, once married, most (not all) guys cease caring about hitting on and impressing the random woman. In my case... when I got married, I really stopped caring about wooing the random cutie, because nothing could ever come of it anyway. Is that unusual in y'alls experience?