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Need help with Girl Issues
« on: November 28, 2008, 04:21:36 PM »
Ok guys, I need some help.

I have an issue with becoming too "attatched" to girls very quickly.
I am at Uni, and my course is comprised of 90% girls.
Here is my situation:
Currently i am working on a project, and earlier this week a girl approached me and explained that she was doing an almost identical project to me, and that we should help each other out. I had never seen the girl before, and we talked for awhile, kinda laughing and joking. Anyway, i saw her a couple more times this week, and we are getting along really well. She is kind of playful (came up behing me and pinched me) but not a "tease". She seems really innocent and nice.

Anyway, i last saw her yesterday, and i said i was glad i had found a new friend, and that she was nice.
I am not going to see her in any classes now for over a week. I do however have her  e mail adress. (no phone number yet  :'()

My problem is that although i only met her this week, i already can't get her out of my head and know that i will go insane if i don't see her again for awhile.

Should i send her an email asking to meet up? I am probably abit too shy for that. What should i do? I have had a few of these situations in the past and it always ends up with me obsessing over the girl for a few weeks and losing focus of everything else (work, gym etc)

Btw, the girl is more cute than "hot". She is kinda short 5"3 and kind of thick (not fat but not skinny). She has South Asian/Indian blood, so is fairly tanned with jet black hair and a really nice smile.

Am open to any comments, I don't blaim you if you couldnt be bothered reading this as it may sound pathetic  :'(

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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #1 on: November 28, 2008, 04:25:36 PM »
Noob.

If you are nervous about giving her a email/ contacting her, you're not ready to be in a relationship with such a girl.
Give it a try anyways, dont care about the outcome.

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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #2 on: November 28, 2008, 04:26:45 PM »
Ask her if she wants to fuck, why play games?
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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #3 on: November 28, 2008, 04:30:36 PM »
Dick meet(meat) girl.... :)
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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #4 on: November 28, 2008, 04:47:18 PM »
NOOOO!!! no contact whatsoever!  Pretty obvious she buddied up to you to steal your ideas from your project and incorporate it into hers. 

Also if you act like its no bg deal, then she will go crazy that you aren't al over her and she'll come on to you more and then give you a bj under the desk.

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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #5 on: November 28, 2008, 07:32:14 PM »
Haven't we been through this before Boost?
Liar!!!!Filt!!!!

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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #6 on: November 28, 2008, 10:05:31 PM »
NOOOO!!! no contact whatsoever!  Pretty obvious she buddied up to you to steal your ideas from your project and incorporate it into hers. 

Also if you act like its no bg deal, then she will go crazy that you aren't al over her and she'll come on to you more and then give you a bj under the desk.


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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #7 on: November 28, 2008, 10:55:59 PM »
Ok guys, I need some help.

I have an issue with becoming too "attatched" to girls very quickly.
I am at Uni, and my course is comprised of 90% girls.
Here is my situation:
Currently i am working on a project, and earlier this week a girl approached me and explained that she was doing an almost identical project to me, and that we should help each other out. I had never seen the girl before, and we talked for awhile, kinda laughing and joking. Anyway, i saw her a couple more times this week, and we are getting along really well. She is kind of playful (came up behing me and pinched me) but not a "tease". She seems really innocent and nice.

Anyway, i last saw her yesterday, and i said i was glad i had found a new friend, and that she was nice.
I am not going to see her in any classes now for over a week. I do however have her  e mail adress. (no phone number yet  :'()

My problem is that although i only met her this week, i already can't get her out of my head and know that i will go insane if i don't see her again for awhile.

Should i send her an email asking to meet up? I am probably abit too shy for that. What should i do? I have had a few of these situations in the past and it always ends up with me obsessing over the girl for a few weeks and losing focus of everything else (work, gym etc)

Btw, the girl is more cute than "hot". She is kinda short 5"3 and kind of thick (not fat but not skinny). She has South Asian/Indian blood, so is fairly tanned with jet black hair and a really nice smile.

Am open to any comments, I don't blaim you if you couldnt be bothered reading this as it may sound pathetic  :'(


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cuz u sound like one...

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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #8 on: November 28, 2008, 11:11:20 PM »
Punch her in the face...
No doubt about it...

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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #9 on: November 29, 2008, 10:28:27 AM »
Ejaculate on her nose and then tell her to drink the dripping man juice as it falls from her nose to mouth. :)
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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #10 on: November 29, 2008, 11:25:06 AM »
Better yet, tell her the experiment involves the fundementals of fluid mechanics,blindfold her and tell her she has to suck it out of a hose!!!
PARTY LIKE A PIRATE!

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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #11 on: November 29, 2008, 09:29:18 PM »
Ejaculate on her nose and then tell her to drink the dripping man juice as it falls from her nose to mouth. :)

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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #12 on: November 29, 2008, 09:38:43 PM »
Ready to crack one off reading this.

No calls, you'll see her soon enough. You can hang out after class sometime and take it from there. As far as obsessing on her, ya that can be tough but you have to develop a little patience, know that it will or won't happen in time. In the meantime pound one out as needed in between workouts. ;)

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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #13 on: November 30, 2008, 01:17:08 PM »
hahah this thread is funny


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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #14 on: December 03, 2008, 01:47:08 PM »
This thing has turned 180 on me.

Bottom line is that we have hung out alot the past few days, and i honestly don;t find her attractive anymore.
I think she is getting really attatched to me  :-\. I kind of went to end it completely. I was with her for about 5 hours today chattin,
and she has been calling and texting me alot. She is acting super clingyyyy

The awkward thing is, i want to make my intentions clear and distance myself from her, but we have to work on a project together for the next few months.

How can i kill this.

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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #15 on: December 03, 2008, 03:48:52 PM »
This thing has turned 180 on me.

Bottom line is that we have hung out alot the past few days, and i honestly don;t find her attractive anymore.
I think she is getting really attatched to me  :-\. I kind of went to end it completely. I was with her for about 5 hours today chattin,
and she has been calling and texting me alot. She is acting super clingyyyy

The awkward thing is, i want to make my intentions clear and distance myself from her, but we have to work on a project together for the next few months.

How can i kill this.
Fuck the shit out of her.
Liar!!!!Filt!!!!

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Re: Need help with Girl Issues
« Reply #16 on: December 03, 2008, 06:47:05 PM »
This thing has turned 180 on me.

Bottom line is that we have hung out alot the past few days, and i honestly don;t find her attractive anymore.
I think she is getting really attatched to me  :-\. I kind of went to end it completely. I was with her for about 5 hours today chattin,
and she has been calling and texting me alot. She is acting super clingyyyy

The awkward thing is, i want to make my intentions clear and distance myself from her, but we have to work on a project together for the next few months.

How can i kill this.

next time she calls you, tell her that you got another call from some girl you met at starbucks and you'll give her a call back.  Then forget, until you see her again.  Did you tell her you are single?