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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #50 on: December 27, 2023, 01:41:28 PM »
Yeah, one mate in particular. Divorced his wife who was traditional in a sense for a boss babe with mental issues and addicted  to social media. A feminist in every sense of the word. I convinced this man 10 years ago to buy btc he had 100btc saved, told him not to touch it for a 10 year period. Anyway feminist got him by the balls, came into his life  and controlled every aspect. They bought a house together and used the btc for renovations and went on a European holiday afterwards. Paid off her debts from her divorce and the rest is history. Still continues to dominate him, refuses sex and basically  worse parts of feminism he is beholden to.

At btc peak that 100btc was work $9.3milliom that stash sits at $6.4million today. He has 0 today and 700k in debt.

Yes if you have enough $BTC you don't have to worry about women.

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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #51 on: December 27, 2023, 02:40:49 PM »
Happens all the time to most men me being an exception. I'm the only Alpha in my house.
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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #52 on: December 27, 2023, 03:37:27 PM »
This is the dynamic  I have at my house my wife hasn't worked since 24 when we started trying for kids  so she was a house wife and then stay at home mother. She is 32, hasn't worked in 8 years and is at home with the kids. I'm the 12 years we've been together she has never been as happy as she has being with our kids at home.  She is a young mother and receives alot of jealousy and hate from other mothers. I can honestly  say I live a stress free marriage, kids are cared for, she cooks 3 times a day for us, gym 5x a week and house is always clean.

From what I've seen older career mothers in their late 30s to early 40s with newborn/toddlers are the most bitter c#nts. Their fading youth combined with declining energy levels and having to work on top of financial and social stress is a recipe for disaster.


I think this is key. If you can earn enough so your wife doesn’t have to work and can take care of your own kids, do that. I think of it as a “gift” I’m able to do that and provide for my family. No more her having to ask a boss if she can take time off work so we can vacation.


 We have a friend who is 42 and she has three kids all under the age of five. Her husband lost his job here recently and when they visited over the summer I could tell she hated him and I’m sure it was because he was being a stay at home dad. Fuck that. Dad is the hammer, mom is the nurturer.

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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #53 on: December 27, 2023, 05:47:52 PM »
This is the dynamic  I have at my house my wife hasn't worked since 24 when we started trying for kids  so she was a house wife and then stay at home mother. She is 32, hasn't worked in 8 years and is at home with the kids. I'm the 12 years we've been together she has never been as happy as she has being with our kids at home.  She is a young mother and receives alot of jealousy and hate from other mothers. I can honestly  say I live a stress free marriage, kids are cared for, she cooks 3 times a day for us, gym 5x a week and house is always clean.

From what I've seen older career mothers in their late 30s to early 40s with newborn/toddlers are the most bitter c#nts. Their fading youth combined with declining energy levels and having to work on top of financial and social stress is a recipe for disaster.

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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #54 on: December 27, 2023, 06:23:53 PM »
How old are you?

We no longer have an economy in which most middle-class men can afford families and homes on one income.

It's not the economy. It's you. A man should be able to take care of a wife and kids. We now have a wife making 75K and a husband making 75K say.  The man should be making 150K so she could stay home. I understand if you have no kids or if the kids are grown to have a wife working but with young kids it isn't the ideal way to have a family.

I do understand some the dire circumstances of needing the wife to work. I grew up poor and never knowing we were poor as a kid. I have been working from the 7th grade, high school, college and working in retirement. My wife was a school teacher but when she got pregnant she never had to work again. We have four kids. All successful. Two of them making around 200K. One in studying to be an MD. One not making a lot but slowly rising.


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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #55 on: December 27, 2023, 07:10:45 PM »
I did the same.......nobody runs my life,not even the woman I love.
I didn`t want this post to come across as me treating my wife like a prick,but I`m always gonna be me no matter what.........I never let  any woman change me to a large degree (though I could have used some changing at times)......I`ll bend and be a great guy but I`m no womans fool............I think !!

Anyway,I can create, and do have enough problems of my own,now my mother in law  is with us................and their fucking problems become my problems too.

I wonder if I could be crafty enough to get away with a Bertil Fox move!   ;D

Saint Kitts here I come!  LOL  ;D

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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #56 on: December 27, 2023, 07:48:56 PM »
I didn`t want this post to come across as me treating my wife like a prick,but I`m always gonna be me no matter what.........I never let  any woman change me to a large degree (though I could have used some changing at times)......I`ll bend and be a great guy but I`m no womans fool............I think !!

Anyway,I can create, and do have enough problems of my own,now my mother in law  is with us................and their fucking problems become my problems too.

I wonder if I could be crafty enough to get away with a Bertil Fox move!   ;D

Saint Kitts here I come!  LOL  ;D

Men get married hoping  the woman won't change.
Women get married hoping to change the man.

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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #57 on: December 27, 2023, 07:56:30 PM »
Once they got married, they turned into a total fucking beta male (perhaps they were always one), began taking on characteristics unlike them, let their wives run them around, control them and ultimately change them into someone you don't know to the point that you lose respect for them?

It's some sad shit. He's in too deep. They have children and his nuts are locked away.  Of course he doesn't see it and there's no showing him a mirror. Anyway, that's all.

Wiggs, beta males have been expecting their wives to become their mommy for thousands of years.

Women aren’t always to blame in the equation. For every woman who is a true bitch, there is a guy out there who is her equal. A successful long term relationship is just too difficult and too complex for most of the adult population in America.


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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #58 on: December 27, 2023, 09:01:00 PM »
Yes, kind of one of the "gang's" alpha males.

Always mocking other guys who would take some weekend with a girl and not going out with the rest of us.
Telling they were on a choker.
Guess who got the biggest choker and never went out anymore.



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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #59 on: December 28, 2023, 01:17:31 AM »
Men get married hoping  the woman won't change.
Women get married hoping to change the man.
Truer words were never spoken!!

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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #60 on: December 29, 2023, 08:25:43 PM »
I don't believe that relationships should be balanced. Someone needs to have final say on stuff - and in my relationship, that happens to be me.

The wife and I have discussed this and she's absolutely fine with it. Let's face it - the life of a housewife isn't half bad - but I have seen a lot of these relationships fail because the man gets bored of her. After all - he's at work/business all day with lots of stuff going on and he comes home to a wife who has no stories to tell - she's been at home all day - so bugger all has happened. So to mitigate this, I encourage her to go out as much as possible with her mates so that she has a more interesting life I won't get bored hearing about. Apart from her occasionally puking in a taxi - it has worked well.

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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #61 on: December 30, 2023, 09:31:20 AM »
there's a good saying for that.

betatization of a thousand concessions.. Very comon...


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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #62 on: December 30, 2023, 11:07:17 AM »
Getting married is the ultimate beta move.   Men are not designed to fuck one women forever.  Marriage is for the woman to find a protector and someone to breed her.  For men it is not natural.  If you give into marriage you are essentially changing physiologically and submitting to the woman.

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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #63 on: December 30, 2023, 04:16:23 PM »
Men don't have friends...just other men they get drunk with and do non homo activities with.


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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #64 on: December 30, 2023, 04:18:39 PM »
Getting married is the ultimate beta move.   Men are not designed to fuck one women forever.  Marriage is for the woman to find a protector and someone to breed her.  For men it is not natural.  If you give into marriage you are essentially changing physiologically and submitting to the woman.

Ever been married?  Had a girlfriend that isn't a blow up doll?

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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #65 on: December 30, 2023, 05:53:26 PM »
Men don't have friends...just other men they get drunk with and do non homo activities with.

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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #66 on: December 30, 2023, 06:58:12 PM »
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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #67 on: December 31, 2023, 04:58:30 AM »
It's not the economy. It's you. A man should be able to take care of a wife and kids. We now have a wife making 75K and a husband making 75K say.  The man should be making 150K so she could stay home. I understand if you have no kids or if the kids are grown to have a wife working but with young kids it isn't the ideal way to have a family.

I do understand some the dire circumstances of needing the wife to work. I grew up poor and never knowing we were poor as a kid. I have been working from the 7th grade, high school, college and working in retirement. My wife was a school teacher but when she got pregnant she never had to work again. We have four kids. All successful. Two of them making around 200K. One in studying to be an MD. One not making a lot but slowly rising.

Though I’m not rich, I earn a higher-than-average income and my wife worked very little for the first three years of both of my children’s lives. I aim to earn enough that she doesn’t have to work.

Besides that, why did you make my generalized statement about average middle-class men about me? You do know what average means, and the average man does not earn 150k per year, although you said they “should,” as if all jobs do pay that.

In the past an average-earning man could support a family on one income. Now he can’t.

It seems my point went over your head, but that is typical of boomers, as is “working in retirement” and bragging about children (the ones who cared about their children, as many did not).

Many successful white boomers and Gen X’ers would be unemployed or low-earning incels if they were young today.

Were you the guy who referred to 40-year old men as kids?

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« Reply #68 on: January 01, 2024, 11:02:08 AM »
Though I’m not rich, I earn a higher-than-average income and my wife worked very little for the first three years of both of my children’s lives. I aim to earn enough that she doesn’t have to work.

Besides that, why did you make my generalized statement about average middle-class men about me? You do know what average means, and the average man does not earn 150k per year, although you said they “should,” as if all jobs do pay that.

In the past an average-earning man could support a family on one income. Now he can’t.

It seems my point went over your head, but that is typical of boomers, as is “working in retirement” and bragging about children (the ones who cared about their children, as many did not).

Many successful white boomers and Gen X’ers would be unemployed or low-earning incels if they were young today.

Were you the guy who referred to 40-year old men as kids?
oldtimer1 is like 90 or something, he's walking around with a stroller
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Re: Have you ever had a friend that...
« Reply #69 on: January 03, 2024, 01:13:49 AM »
Nope.  Don't have any friends like that.

Don't have any friends.
This.