Thanks. The hardest part for me is that he chose to make it his time. One thing I have really learned is to have your affairs in order. My dad really left a mess behind for us to clean up. Its a year later and we are still trying to get it straightened out. Death brings out greed in a lot of people!
Colby you are sooooo right...I dont have alot, but its all layed out in my will, my durable health care power of attorney and power of attorney. My father FINALLY got all his affairs in order, he gave me and my brother a copy, set up trusts for his grandkids (so they dont have to pay estate taxes), I'm the only one that knows where his cc statements are to pay out of his estate. In fact he knows where mine are. Not sure where you are, in CT if the will states this this this, then that is what the probate judge goes by for the most part. Anyone can fit the last will, but you better have some clear proof to take away from it