Most guy's find that their triceps, and shoulder girdle, are not flexible enough (too tight) and/or the elbows are not held high enough to handle the bar correctly. When these flaws are corrected, the bar's sets in at a almost cradle position on the shoulders....and fairly easily. Have a bit of muscle mass on the anterior delt also helps.
The more you practice the better (and more flexible) you become adjusted to this movement. Will also boost the confidence a bit. Might suggest watching Olympic lifters and how they handle the front holding positions of the bar.
I've done front bench squats with my last routine, with good results. Good way to relearn that movement, for me anyway. I have long arms, so the resting on the finger tips works good for me.
Good Luck.