I see your point and I feel the same way for the most part. If my wife screws around on me I'm sure I will feel a lot of emotions. Beating her ass wouldn't come up on my radar. At the same time Wiggs is right about "You can't always tell what someone will do when you cheat them so you might be at risk of an ass whoopin or death". I wouldn't say they should expect that, but it is a possibility as some people are borderline crazy as it is. That dude in the video probably wasn't a stranger to resorting to violence when angered and this was just something she probably should have seen coming, though it was way overboard and he should be held accountable
why would you marry or be in a relationship with someone who you know is borderline crazy?
If I cheated on my wife she would just dump me, its that simple, no screaming and shouting, just gone for good, its because the trust has gone.
Works both ways.
My wife is currently on a 21 night holiday cruising around the far east and India, if she wanted to cheat she could, I could do the same over here, we don't because we respect each other.
If she or I had the desire to sleep or start a relationship with someone else then we are both adult enough to understand the relationship is over.
We wouldn't have to resort to killing each other.