i know but i dont have much time for bar hopping
POF is the true bottom of the barrel skanks, at least in my area. They typically have multiple children and low income jobs, and are only on there to find a dude to support them.
I have had much better success with Bumble. I think it's because the girl is the one who has to message first, so it attracts much better girls that other free dating sites. The fact that good looking decent girls won't be harassed by low lifes, makes them much more likely to want to join. Why don't you give that site a try and tell the POF skanks to eat a dick!