you sound butt hurt old man..cause i´m not a Queer 
Try harder. I could care less whether you are gay or straight. Regardless, you are a cad and a exceptionally poor excuse for a human being. You are obviously a very immature person. The best thing that could happen in this situation is that your mother-in-law exposes you for what you are and your wife takes a hike. She definitely could not do worse than to have you as her husband.
BTW, you titled this thread 'Opinions please'. I doubt you want folk's opinion unless they support your abhorrent behavior.