Lol Judi!!!
I used to know this really sweet, cute, kind, adorable, intelligent... did I say adorable... paramedic who trained at my gym. We used to talk all the time, then he moved to Toronto. Two years later I catch a doc on polyamory, and guess who's in it? He and his partners also seemed like they made the right choice for themselves, and it didn't look like a hareem situation at all. (Lots of group hugs it seemed.) You never know about people...