Linda plse don't make me go back and remove every time you've said "wanker" or something similarly negative.
You know how to modify, plse use judgement.
As to the thread... I think anyone who has dignity behaves with dignity, no matter what your looks are. Whether you sleep with one or a whole congregation, your choices, who you choose to be intimate with, show who you are. Probably that goes for men as well as women.