Div, if she's looking to get better gas mileage, send her to me.
I can't help her with her issues with her hubby, ...but I've got just the thing to help her get more miles per gallon
....you missed the whole point of the post.
True Premature ejaculation can be unlearned as a couple. Her husband could just get a little help but it would take real commitment on her part to bring the problem up in a way that salvaged his ego. She could also take one for the team and jump his bones in a half hour or so as we all know the second time around lasts longer. My point is that it's a problem that requires a couple soloution.
That's the real issue, bringing it up in a way that doesn't scar the male's ego. Most women don't know how to handle that because as women they can't identify with a male's perspective and the prospect of being told how to fix a problem that is intrinsically male.
Some guy (I'm too lazy to look up his name) surmised that PE is a genetic survival mechanism. Apparently the pH change after female orgasm is too low and kills a lot of the sperm. Essentially a premature ejaculate has a much better chance of making a baby.
Animals that were prey don't have time for romance, LOL! Also the external os dips into the cervix during the female orgasm and siphons some vaginal fluid. The pH difference is more than the swimmers can handle.
It's an animal survival mechanism, true, and to some degree I think it applies to the base instincts in man. Of course there are deeper psychological issues at work here and perhaps in this specific case there are external behavioural factors (which is my belief) but I truly give some credence to the physiological aspects of PE.
Everyone that deals with people in vulnerable positions eventually has to develop boundaries. Good boundaries protect the doctor, trainer, patient, money, etc... We all deal with people who will BS us. Once a hottie tried the old "I just broke up with my boyfriend and just want someone to hang with" line on me. I wished her good luck and watched as she rode away with her boyfriend, LOL! I get why she'd want to trade up just not why she'd think a guy like me would fall for something like that. A man's two biggest enemies in a situation like that are his ego and penis, no joke. 
Trading up........heh......as if it's that easy.
Women sometimes make the biggest mistake in thinking that all guys are alike and that they'd fall for something so simple.
Women and assumptions.
As far as the ego and penis...........
With the amount of women I train and my specific taste in women, a blond tan woman with three kids in tow isn't going to have much of a chance to dent my standards.
My egoism, if it can be called that, is invested in the fact that my penis doesn't control my brain.
This is an interesting one. Her trying to pick you up is wrong as a married woman. I do find her abuse of the client/trainer relationship a nice twist on things.
Funny thing is..... none of the women here called her out for hitting on the trainer. Most of you recognize that she was using buying power on a semi-captive audience to broach a touchy subject. The girl was fishing for Div but didn't have the right bait.
I'm not sure if it's a conscious thought on her part or if it's just that she finds me attractive and captive leading to the whole transference scenario but I don't fault her for it.
I've already told her that she isn't my type and that I'd never date a woman with kids.
Or so he would have us believe. 
......I don't know you and I really don't care what you believe or disbelief.
You're another handle on a website, but one who takes great care in wanting me to invest more of my keystrokes on you.
There.
DIV
