Back to the original idea. Usually, when someone (of the opposite) brings up a sexual dysfunction/problem it is a tacit invitation. Not saying they always want sex, a lot of times all they want is to feel the rush people get from being asked. But you really can't argue that a person saying I can't have an orgasm in a certain way isn't a challenge.
There's no other reason to mention an issue that personal to anyone, other than a therapist, beyond challenging them to give you an orgasm.
Ahhh... but you're failing to take into account the 180 degree differences between Mars & Venus.
When men openly discuss challenges, or problems, ...their instinct is to 'fix it' or to 'offer the solution'. As a result, when
'men' start a discussion about a problem, ...they
ARE looking for the other person to help them fix it.
When women openly discuss challenges, or problems, ...most often we are
NOT looking for the person to
'fix it', ...most often, we simply want to go through the process of venting... getting it off our chests... and having someone listen. That's it. No invitation... just a neutral sounding board. It's bad enough she has to deal with the PE, ...if she voices or vents her frustration to her partner, ...she'll be dealing with PE
AND ED as well.
I sometimes really have to wonder about men. {sigh} A woman pays them a compliment, or smiles in their direction, ...and automatically they assume
'She wants me'. If you're having a great day, ...you dare not show it... you have to walk around with a scowl on your face 24/7, and be an absolute _itch all the time for
'some' guys to not get the wrong impression. That's probably why I like married men so much... they're way safer.
LOL! If I were out drinking and a married chick pulled some crap like that I'd suggest she was the problem. You know, LOL! Intimacy issues. If the woman was single, hot and I was available... "maybe you're just so good men can't control themselves" is the only correct response.
{LOL} A cad til the end.