Thanks everyone for the words of encouragement. People are stuck in their ways and have their own way of doing things. Im glad I have learned, I have gotten better and I have figured out how to get in shape. Some competitors never do, they dont really want to, either they dont want to learn from somone else becuase they are too stubborn or they dont want to be pushed beyond the pain threshold.
You see the thing about competing and getting in great contest shape is this. Its painfull in the gym, its painfull on the treadmill, its painfull at the dinner table all year long. Thats alot of pain my friend. Getting peeled is not for the weak.
I wish there was a way, I can apply my discipline to something that would make me a rich man. But oh well, im getting by pretty good with a great wife, kid, home and a life that I should me more than proud of. Why am I complaining? I guess im not.