Author Topic: Ladies, could you...? (Read 3468 times)

BayGBM · « **on:** December 10, 2007, 10:15:31 AM »

Ladies:

Could you date or marry a man with a gay porn past? Not just one scene in a movie years ago, but say ten films to his credit over several years. If he tells he you he is bisexual and wants to have a life with you could you go for it?

Let’s assume he is now gainfully employed, could be a good provider, and otherwise has great chemistry with you. Could you overlook his gay porn past?

mbell · « **Reply #1 on:** December 10, 2007, 10:33:00 AM »

Nope, Nada, never gonna happen.

Mydavid · « **Reply #2 on:** December 10, 2007, 10:40:47 AM »

Have to agree with mbell!!!

Lisa

BayGBM · « **Reply #3 on:** December 10, 2007, 10:49:30 AM »

I figured as much... so imagine my surprise when I learned that male porn star Tom Katt walked away from a long gay porn career and up and married a woman. He has always said he was bi. Presumably she knows about his past. I’m casting no judgment on their union; I sincerely wish them the best.

I just wonder what goes through the mind of a woman who is comfortable with that. I would always be thinking, “will he always be satisfied with a woman?”

Can you offer any insights into his wife's thinking?

mbell · « **Reply #4 on:** December 10, 2007, 12:06:49 PM »

DENIAL!!! I know I don't know either party but from everything I have heard, men that like men, well they like men! $:-\$

drkaje · « **Reply #5 on:** December 10, 2007, 02:32:37 PM »

What's the big deal, Bay. Losing one from the flock shouldn't matter that much.

I am a little surprised they let the penis pic stay considering that more harmless stuff hasn been deleted in the past.

Butterbean · « **Reply #6 on:** December 11, 2007, 07:07:30 AM »

Quote from: Mydavid on December 10, 2007, 10:40:47 AM

Have to agree with mbell!!!

Lisa

Me too.

Quote from: BayGBM on December 10, 2007, 10:49:30 AM

Can you offer any insights into his wife's thinking?

Like mbell says Denial or Love is blind or the gal really believes he will be true to her and fulfilled w/only her. Or maybe they have one of those open-marriages deals.

mbell · « **Reply #7 on:** December 11, 2007, 07:29:07 AM »

Hey what happened to the peeping penis??? $:-\$

Laura Lee · « **Reply #8 on:** December 11, 2007, 07:44:01 AM »

I totally agree with mbell. Absolutely not.

Butterbean · « **Reply #9 on:** December 11, 2007, 08:11:04 AM »

Quote from: mbell on December 11, 2007, 07:29:07 AM

Hey what happened to the peeping penis??? $:-\$

drkaje reported to mod.

Just kidding

There isn't supposed to be any nudity on this board so it had to go. Maybe Bay could put a black bar over it and repost? $:-\$

xxxLinda · « **Reply #10 on:** December 11, 2007, 08:13:44 AM »

Quote from: mbell on December 10, 2007, 12:06:49 PM

DENIAL!!! I know I don't know either party but from everything I have heard, men that like men, well they like men! $:-\$

not sure.

I reckon most straight men would do gay porn if paid sufficiently?

xL

After all, most men (and I've done a survey on this) have already been molested by either a teacher or a priest or their best friend and think "gay" sex is something which just happens...

Also, men are likely to have a far better idea of how to suck a dick than women are.

I've stayed away from men who can't decide ever since my best (heterosexual) girlfriend died of aids. It was awful, she had to bury her lover first.

When I was extremely young, everyone except me experimented.

Let's Ask Grant?

mbell · « **Reply #11 on:** December 11, 2007, 09:52:50 AM »

Quote from: STella on December 11, 2007, 08:11:04 AM

drkaje reported to mod.

Just kidding

There isn't supposed to be any nudity on this board so it had to go. Maybe Bay could put a black bar over it and repost? $:-\$

No really, it's ok!

xxxLinda · « **Reply #12 on:** December 11, 2007, 09:56:39 AM »

Quote from: mbell on December 11, 2007, 09:52:50 AM

No really, it's ok!

no it's not, i missed the pic which was deleted

so can those of us who missed it see it please?

is it male oriented porn or what?

w8m8 · « **Reply #13 on:** December 11, 2007, 10:15:12 AM »

Quote from: BayGBM on December 10, 2007, 10:49:30 AM

He has always said he was bi.

I just wonder what goes through the mind of a woman who is comfortable with that. I would always be thinking, “will he always be satisfied with a woman?”

Can you offer any insights into his wife's thinking?

I could venture a guess and say she has no problem strapping one on if he wants to be the receiver.
He's said he was bi so he's not disliking va jay jay action.
He should be satisfied

she can do anything a man can do correct ? she just needs to use an attachment

I say to each their own

BayGBM · « **Reply #14 on:** December 11, 2007, 10:35:23 AM »

There's a wiki page on him

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Papaleo

mbell · « **Reply #15 on:** December 11, 2007, 11:00:31 AM »

Quote from: w8m8 on December 11, 2007, 10:15:12 AM

I could venture a guess and say she has no problem strapping one on if he wants to be the receiver.
He's said he was bi so he's not disliking va jay jay action.
He should be satisfied she can do anything a man can do correct ? she just needs to use an attachment

I say to each their own

Yuck! Not so much into strapping on and fucking my man, thank you! Hey, but to each is own!

BayGBM · « **Reply #16 on:** December 11, 2007, 11:05:20 AM »

Quote from: mbell on December 11, 2007, 11:00:31 AM

Yuck! Not so much into strapping on and fucking my man, thank you! Hey, but to each is own!

Are there many women out there that do this?

w8m8 · « **Reply #17 on:** December 11, 2007, 11:17:30 AM »

I wonder that too Bay

I know my man wouldn't ask me to

but

Who knows I could have picked one who did , I'm not too sure what my response would be , obviously it wouldn't be a loud screaming no friiggin way Jose'

maybe I'd ask him some deeper probing questions first ?

BayGBM · « **Reply #18 on:** December 11, 2007, 12:00:53 PM »

Isn't a guy who wants to be done by a strap on a little bi?

mbell · « **Reply #19 on:** December 11, 2007, 02:54:41 PM »

Quote from: BayGBM on December 11, 2007, 12:00:53 PM

Isn't a guy who wants to be done by a strap on a little bi?

You know I want to say hell yeah he's bi at the least. But who am I to judge. I have no idea in regards to that one. I know that I wouldn't want to be in a sexual relationship with any man who wanted anything up his ass at anytime. It would leave me with too many questions $:-\$

Board_SHERIF · « **Reply #20 on:** December 11, 2007, 08:45:56 PM »

Quote from: xxxLinda on December 11, 2007, 08:13:44 AM

not sure.

I reckon most straight men would do gay porn if paid sufficiently?

xL

After all, most men (and I've done a survey on this) have already been molested by either a teacher or a priest or their best friend and think "gay" sex is something which just happens...

Also, men are likely to have a far better idea of how to suck a dick than women are.

I've stayed away from men who can't decide ever since my best (heterosexual) girlfriend died of aids. It was awful, she had to bury her lover first.

When I was extremely young, everyone except me experimented.

Let's Ask Grant?

what - NO NO NO.....all wrong.....

24KT · « **Reply #21 on:** December 12, 2007, 10:14:00 AM »

Quote from: xxxLinda on December 11, 2007, 08:13:44 AM

not sure.

I reckon most straight men would do gay porn if paid sufficiently?

I was once watching an episode of SexTV, and the subject was PORN. They had a bunch of gay men speaking sympathetically about this one gay porn star that was STRAIGHT, and only pretending to be gay in order to have his career. In gay porn he was a star, in straight porn, ...he couldn't get a job, ...and in legit films, ...he couldn't even get arrested!

Hustle Man · « **Reply #22 on:** December 12, 2007, 10:36:38 AM »

Quote from: xxxLinda on December 11, 2007, 08:13:44 AM

I reckon most straight men would do gay porn if paid sufficiently?

I reckon you are kinda off! Straight is straight, gay is gay and if a man does gay porn just for money I think it's safe to say he is gay!!

I would not participate in any homosexual act, no matter the price! Well, unless the money was gonna save one of my kids life then maybe!

But even then... I better stop while I'm ahead, no pun intended!

24KT · « **Reply #23 on:** December 12, 2007, 10:53:48 AM »

Quote from: Hustle Man on December 12, 2007, 10:36:38 AM

if a man does gay porn just for money I think it's safe to say he is gay!!

I would not participate in any homosexual act, no matter the price! Well, unless the money was gonna save one of my kids life then maybe! But even then... I better stop while I'm ahead, no pun intended!

No, ...if a man does gay porn just for the money, I think it's safe to say he is very money motivated.

If you did gay porn to save one of your kids' life, would that make you gay? Are you saying you would then decide to fall in love with and marry a man? ...or would that make you someone motivated to do whatever it took to save your kid's life?

Engaging in sexual activity with a member of the same sex, doesn't make one gay or bi.
Falling in love with, ...fantasizing about, ...or getting sexually aroused by the thought of having sex someone of the same sex does.

Samourai Pizzacat · « **Reply #24 on:** December 13, 2007, 04:59:50 AM »

Quote from: jaguarenterprises on December 12, 2007, 10:53:48 AM

No, ...if a man does gay porn just for the money, I think it's safe to say he is very money motivated.

If you did gay porn to save one of your kids' life, would that make you gay? Are you saying you would then decide to fall in love with and marry a man? ...or would that make you someone motivated to do whatever it took to save your kid's life?

Engaging in sexual activity with a member of the same sex, doesn't make one gay or bi.
Falling in love with, ...fantasizing about, ...or getting sexually aroused by the thought of having sex someone of the same sex does.

good post, the mechanics of a sexual act, are just that; mechanics. The only thing you can say about a man that liks his wife to use a strap-on is that he likes a strap-on latex dildo up his arse. Infering from this that he's gay isn't justified. You really need a lot more cues to draw a valid (or invalid) 'gay conclusion'. Part of the problem is that hetero culture has reduced being gay to 'taking it up the arse', and in a sense have condensed homophily to just one mechanical act.