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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #125 on: August 02, 2008, 10:13:48 PM »
Quote from: Bast000 on August 02, 2008, 10:12:17 PM
yea but you condone getting hookers and not going after regular girls.  How good can your social skills be?

Debussey = retarded :D

But in all seriousness, that thread was not meant to be taken seriously.
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #126 on: August 02, 2008, 10:14:24 PM »
Quote from: haider on August 02, 2008, 10:04:51 PM
eh, externalised purpose like personal ambition may make your life more exciting but living life itself is an end, IMO. Is there really any objective purpose for life, except for it to exist?

depends on how you look at it.
Are we animals? or are we human?
If we look at ourselves as animals then that answers your question. Humans have a greater purpose than to only exist.  We are all connected in some way.

Are you living to eat? or eating to live?
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #127 on: August 02, 2008, 10:15:34 PM »
Quote from: Bast000 on August 02, 2008, 10:12:17 PM
yea but you condone getting hookers and not going after regular girls.  How good can your social skills be?

Once you actually have a relationship with a regular girl, you'll see the value of hookers. 
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #128 on: August 02, 2008, 10:16:43 PM »
Quote from: Debussey DF on August 02, 2008, 10:10:24 PM
Solution (written a few days ago as well): Find activities you REALLY like to do, activities that you are talented in. Then make a big plan for your life, where you base your career on these areas.

Debussey once heard about a study of millionaires, and they found out that 99% of the millionaires did not start working in their areas they got rich within due to the goal of "getting rich", but simply because they loved what they did.

The cool thing here is that you can look forward to goals you will attain 5, 10, 20, 30+ years down the line, while knowing that every day you work will most likely contain passion and improvement in your performance. At the same time, you get the emotional drive to really push yourself outside your comfort zone by taking on new challenges and working harder and smarter. Thus, you get personal growth included in the deal, and personal growth (like facing fears, and improving your work ethic, social skills ++ ) is a good way to attain more happiness and self confidence for many people.
Addition: This way of thinking is not only for career related stuff, it can be applied to other areas as well, like your social life.

This recepie won't work for everybody, but it works for Debussey :D
thanks for sharing, the part in bold makes a lot of sense. IMO that is key.
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #129 on: August 02, 2008, 10:17:21 PM »
Bast how long did you try the drugs for, most take at least 2 weeks to be effective at all and like a month or so till they are fully in your system.

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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #130 on: August 02, 2008, 10:17:58 PM »
Quote from: MB_722 on August 02, 2008, 10:04:50 PM

Develop some type of purpose that is worthwhile. Otherwise you're just like everyone else.  :-*

Agreed.
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #131 on: August 02, 2008, 10:18:50 PM »
Quote from: calmus on August 02, 2008, 10:15:34 PM
Once you actually have a relationship with a regular girl, you'll see the value of hookers. 

I mean relationships really arn't the way to happiness, being with a hot girl and having great sex will not make you happy if you are not happy to begin with, you need to be happy by yourself, if being with a girl makes you happy that is only temporary.

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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #132 on: August 02, 2008, 10:19:10 PM »
Quote from: jtsunami on August 02, 2008, 10:17:21 PM
Bast how long did you try the drugs for, most take at least 2 weeks to be effective at all and like a month or so till they are fully in your system.



5-6 weeks.  they effectively made my cock not work.  actually i did think about killing myself during those periods since I my cock felt like exploding.
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #133 on: August 02, 2008, 10:20:35 PM »
Quote from: jtsunami on August 02, 2008, 10:18:50 PM
I mean relationships really arn't the way to happiness, being with a hot girl and having great sex will not make you happy if you are not happy to begin with, you need to be happy by yourself, if being with a girl makes you happy that is only temporary.

jt

What if one of the things that you need for happiness is a stable relationship?
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #134 on: August 02, 2008, 10:25:36 PM »
Then you are depressed in my opinion, I can't really figure out why you would need a stable relationship to be happy, if you arn't happy before the relationship, during the relationship sometime the depression will catch up to you again.  I don't really know if that is what you were asking?

You should be able to be happy by yourself at first then have a relationship not the other way around, although that is my opinion only. 

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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #135 on: August 02, 2008, 10:28:56 PM »
what is there to be happy about?
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #136 on: August 02, 2008, 10:29:02 PM »
Quote from: MB_722 on August 02, 2008, 10:14:24 PM
depends on how you look at it.
Are we animals? or are we human?
If we look at ourselves as animals then that answers your question. Humans have a greater purpose than to only exist.  We are all connected in some way.

Are you living to eat? or eating to live?
this is getting too philosophical, i love such discussions but I don't think they are neessarily fruitful. IMO the purpose of life has to be realised at some level, rather than philosophised... "He who tastes, knows."
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #137 on: August 02, 2008, 10:30:19 PM »
Quote from: jtsunami on August 02, 2008, 10:25:36 PM
Then you are depressed, I can't really figure out why you would need a stable relationship to be happy, if you arn't happy before the relationship, during the relationship sometime the depression will catch up to you again.  I don't really know if that is what you were asking?

jt

How is needing a relationship to be happy any different from needing whatever else to be happy.

Some guys need to be successful, some need to work out, some need other things.

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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #138 on: August 02, 2008, 10:30:23 PM »
Quote from: haider on August 02, 2008, 10:29:02 PM
this is getting too philosophical, i love such discussions but I don't think they are neessarily fruitful. IMO the purpose of life has to be realised at some level, rather than philosophised... he who tastes, knows.


Bingo! Could not agree more. Spermer knows his stuff 8)
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #139 on: August 02, 2008, 10:30:27 PM »
Quote from: Bast000 on August 02, 2008, 10:28:56 PM
what is there to be happy about?

Not really looking at that way, cause you can't be happy all the time, maybe purpose in life, working towards an end goal or a purpose like God.  Like MB said, purpose in life and goals. 

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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #140 on: August 02, 2008, 10:31:36 PM »
Quote from: Hereford on August 02, 2008, 10:30:19 PM
How is needing a relationship to be happy any different from needing whatever else to be happy.

Some guys need to be successful, some need to work out, some need other things.



Heref thats just my opinion, I really can't answer your question I don't know the answer.

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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #141 on: August 02, 2008, 10:32:09 PM »
if you dont think a woman can make you happy you have never spent the night with a very attractive women before
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #142 on: August 02, 2008, 10:32:52 PM »
Quote from: Bast000 on August 02, 2008, 10:28:56 PM
what is there to be happy about?

A lot of things, even adversity and struggle :D
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #143 on: August 02, 2008, 10:33:09 PM »
Quote from: Debussey DF on August 02, 2008, 10:30:23 PM

Bingo! Could not agree more. Spermer knows his stuff 8)
glad u agree  :)
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #144 on: August 02, 2008, 10:33:59 PM »
i'm happy about the thought of me still posting on getbig in 20 years at age 44.
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #145 on: August 02, 2008, 10:34:27 PM »
Quote from: candidizzle on August 02, 2008, 10:32:09 PM
if you dont think a woman can make you happy you have never spent the night with a very attractive women before

Hahahahaha.

So True.
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #146 on: August 02, 2008, 10:35:45 PM »
Quote from: haider on August 02, 2008, 10:33:09 PM
glad u agree  :)


You are a pretty clever guy, you know that Haider? :D :) ;)
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #147 on: August 02, 2008, 10:39:21 PM »
Quote from: haider on August 02, 2008, 10:29:02 PM
this is getting too philosophical, i love such discussions but I don't think they are neessarily fruitful. IMO the purpose of life has to be realised at some level, rather than philosophised... "He who tastes, knows."

hehe

I agree with you. :)


Life has a purpose but if you are going through without any, then there is no point.

If you have no problems you are dead. Problems are there to help you grow. Otherwise whats the point?

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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #148 on: August 02, 2008, 10:45:28 PM »
Lot's of whiny little kunts in this thread.
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Re: How often do you think about killing yourself?
« Reply #149 on: August 02, 2008, 10:46:16 PM »
Quote from: candidizzle on August 02, 2008, 10:39:11 PM
this should make any of us here be extremely happy


YUMMY!
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