Didn't know Sweden was such a violent place that random people would start shit or you see kids getting beat up. I live in London which is arguably one of the biggest shit holes in Europe and yet I've never had an issue or anyone start on me, ever. Sure I've been bumped into in bars and clubs yet I didn't react violently and start slitting throats.
I'm not saying you're violent, just that you seem ready to start swinging the moment negative events start happening to you. Remember, nobody would think less of you if someone accidentally barge into you and you don't rock them straight away.
I havent a problem getting bumped into if I know it was an accident etc Im far from the dudes that gets fucking nuts right away someone looks at them the wrong way or accidentally bumps into them or accidentally stepn on your shoes or anything, 99% of people are Super appologetic right away and say oh im sorry etc etc, which is just fine, shit happen.
But if someone bumps into you on purpose and gives you a mean look or whatever that shit pisses me of like crazy. But no fighting right away either, but if someone does it twice, you have to do something.
I remember one time when I stayed very calm haha, I was with the armenian girl, which I have posted photos of, super super goodlooking, anyway she had this friend that has been trying to get with her forever and trying and trying acting like a tard and hes angry that Im with her at that party all the time, she sits in my lap etc.
Anyway so she wants to go out for a smoke and we do, and hes out there, so he lights his cigarette and remember im in a Really good mood because Im for once having a good time at a fucking party and I dont wanna ruin it, so he out of fucking nowhere Throws the damn lighter at me for No reason at all lol. Hes standing a few feet away.. hits my chest, doesnt hurt or anything but disrespecting as fuck, and sure some people can handle that etc but I cant, dont know if I have a fragile ego or what I would just haunt me or hours if I dont do anything about it right away, So instead of puncing the guy or anything I pick up the lighter and throw it at his face and said you throw a lighter at me and I throw one at you.
And he just turns around and walks in again, random fucking shit like that happends to me all the time haha. well Used to happen to me. Without me doing Anything wrong..
I dont know if I just hang around the wrong people or what, But usually a good night would be a a good part some nice girls and at the end before you go home a fight.. 90% of the times in the fights no punches etc would be thrown but someone woudl always starts shit with someone and there would be a scuffle, and I used to like it... But Im so sick of that shit these days, but everyone still loves it..
I just wanna have a decent time and I dont wanna have to backup my friends because they're are doing stupid like like I always used to do.. Sick of it.
A shaven head and a mean mug which i apparently look when im just RELAXING seems to be a recipe for disaster lol.