HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH... what a "champ" we've got here. I bet you're the kinda "guy" who got his "heart" broken by chubby "2's" too many times thinking that was the last fuck you would ever have and currently sitting on the "gay" fence as we speak.
Lighten dude and grow a pair, you sound like the douche of Omaha.

Wrong on all fronts, mack.
But you're likely used to being wrong. (And it sounds like you spend a lot of time on that "gay fence", so I am sorry to inform that I won't be joining you.)
As far as lightening up, well, I have a heavy week of pressing and squats, so ... not quite yet, okay?
