Sadly, you represent about 5% of Christians. Which is why it's a polluted religion. Sadly. Maybe when it first began to be written 2000 years ago, it was pure and consisted solely of those who adhered to it the way it had been intended to be. It's been warped out of all proportion by bigotry, sectarianism, cultism, violence, greed, etc. all done in Jesus's name.
Well, I really don't think any of us knows what percentage of the followers of the Nazarene I may or may not be indicative of, but I suspect it to be more than a mere 5%.
Violence done by men, no matter in whose name it is done is done by men. You can say it is done in the name of Jesus but if you look at what the Christ taught you would know (and doubtless already do) that it is not of Christ. Greed and the rest? All done in the name of men.
If it is bigoted to abhor sin, then I am a bigot but I think rather the term bigotry is used by those who desire only that their sins be made somehow sinless. Their desires, no matter how base they may be, be made pure. Lies turned into truth. Wrong is right and all this and more in the name of men.
It is no different. Men doing what they do for their own desires and naming them good. Christ condemns such and that is why the world turns its back on Him. There may well come a time when that which you call wrong will be deemed righteous and unless you bend your knee they will break your spirit and then your back. It has happened before and may well happen again.
One of the reasons I believe Christ to be true is that Apostles such as Peter died for their belief in Him. If that belief were based upon just collecting tithes and reciting a party line he did not truly follow why would he die for that faith? Why would he request to be crucified upside down (a request made because Peter felt he did not deserve to die exactly as did Jesus)? No man is so insane as to die for cause he knows false. I know I wouldn't.
The Apostles knew Jesus. They walked with Him. Were witness to His works and teachings. If those were false, then they would have denied Him upon pain of death. They did not.
I have said before that I am not come to make any wear the same shoes as I, much less any shoes. Our paths may differ but our final destination is the same. We shall just have to wait and see what comes next.
As always, be well.