To be honest, it sort of used to bother me, becuase I'm OCD and sort of autistic and they didnt seem to match. THen again, I notice the same thing with all the regular guys/fat wome, and you see that more and more.... IVe had several blak friends that were pretty close, so I don't think its the race so much as the couple doesn't seem to match, but hey if they're happy, its not my business in the least.. does this make any sense at all?