I often point out that Goodrum's treatment of you was extremely arbitrary and quite unfair (ie, he basically picked your offhand comment because you had a name and was old on here), but I can't excuse you starting this shit up again.
Basile is hardly a victim here. He tried for years to get under Goodrum's skin to make him as angry as possible. Basile eventually found the magic formula: Calling Goodrum the
wife of his previous relationship.
Basile knew very well that Goodrum was a dominant top, and not a bottom. Neither did he have the wife role in that relationship.
That really got under Goodrum's skin, and the conflict just escalated from there.