Just remember Eddie Murphy's rule of half in a divorce. She will take half of everything you have. If you have kids you will be paying till they are out of college. It's amazing how many women get the house, alimony and child support. The guy gets to live in a shit hole apartment and 90% of women don't want anything to do with a broke divorced man.
Best a divorced man can do is hook up with a divorced woman who got the house.
I worked with a guy who got a call from his ex that her car broke down in the drive way. He said he went to his old house now the ex's house to fix it because he felt responsible to his kids that were driven by his ex. While he's fixing the car her new boyfriend opens the window and asks him if he wants a drink? The guy is living in the house he paid for, fucking his wife, drinking his booze; sitting in his chair and watching his big screen tv.
It's funny though how times have changed. My oldest daughter makes a really good living. She told me if she gets married she will require a prenup.
Fuck that!!
A childhood friend of mine was a jeweler and a gemologist.....made great money and built a huge house for he,his wife and his 2 kids.
IMO his wife was the only girl he had ever been with in his lifetime and he treated her like gold.......real nice guy.
One day he comes home early and she`s getting banged on the couch by some dude.
He walks out....ends up losing the hosue to her,has to pay an exhorbatant amount of child support and his wife was a postal worker for 30 years and still was working there.
Anyway,he gets pissed off quits his job and starts personal training under the table.....this way he avoided child support though he still paid for his kids college and bought his young daughter a used car.
You know that those kids surely weren`t getting the money from his child support put to their use for the most part anyway.
Then one day his wife goes to his sisters house where the poor bastard is now living in an attic room and she tells him her ,lover hung himself in her /his former garage..................
he just laughed and she left pissed......like he was actually supposed to give a damn.
There`s more to the story,but anyway he ended up passing away from a heart attack in his mid fifties............she was a whore and a kunt cuz this guy was the salt of the Earth and didn`t deserve to be treated like this and she sure as hell didn`t deserve a guy like him..