Jay Carsey lead an amazing life. He was very successful consultant and community college President in Maryland, then just disappeared, moved to another state with nothing, lived at a YMCA for a while then built a new life. Became a bartender in El Paso. Then disappeared again. He would build a life, become member of a community, then when established he would disappear again, to a different state with nothing and start all over building a new life. He built life after life, changing name, job and wife. So he lived several lives as different people. But he apparently didn't screw over past wives/girlfriends, as he would leave them the home, money, and once left a note, "I'm leaving you so you don't have to leave me". So he would leave when the relationship was pretty much dead and ready for divorce(which let's be honest happens in most marriages at some point). His quote from the book was ""once you hit six good drives off the tee, do you really need to hit six dozen more?" He wanted to cram several lives into one. Book about him called Exit the Rainmaker.