Im sure you will feel the same when it affects a family member who gets injured by a "poor misunderstood individual"
Every incident is different and needs to be evaluated on a case by case basis. Using hypothetical situations is not helpful at all.
If a family member was the victim of a random crime, that would be horrible and heartbreaking. Thus, it would be very hard to forgive/excuse the perpetrator.
But what if the family member decided to “play with fire” or foolishly get involved in something they were warned to stay away from? Like dealing drugs or participating in a stolen car syndicate?
And if something bad happened as a result to them, of course you would feel horrible being it’s a family member. But at the same time, they put themselves in the middle of a dangerous situation despite being warned.
We don’t know the full details of this incident. All we’ve been told is she’s a “deranged lady who flipped out”.
What happened leading up to the freak out? What if she was homeless and living in her car? And she had to shower in the gym? And then what if she had mental issues and was talking loudly to herself? And members knew she wasn’t mentally stable and enjoyed getting her upset? Or they ignored her obvious unstable behavior and approached her harshly. This could have caused her to freak out. Maybe she thought people were trying to attack her and she was hallucinating.
Seems like filming her for viral IG content was what they all were concerned with.