not triggered or melting down just meeting fire with fire.
ya wow clearly thats the spiritual way to handle it

Spirituality handles criticism by reframing it as a tool for personal growth, ego dissolution, or an opportunity to practice humility, compassion, and detachment. Instead of reacting with defense or anger, a spiritual approach encourages viewing criticism with calm awareness, separating one's true self from the ego being judged, and responding with, or offering, silent love.
absolute 100% phony human being