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The numbers game. You and your woman have the conversation. How many people have you slept with? (Sex not BJs). Obviously age plays into this. For shits and grins lets say you're both 30.
My policy is I don't want to know because I'll never be satisfied with the number or I'll think she's lying.
Assuming she does drop her number on you. How many is too many for you or does it matter at all?
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doesnt matter at all.
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doesnt matter at all.
So if you found out your woman slept with 80 men before you it wouldn't matter? I think you're not telling the truth.
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Women will say it's a double standard and there is. The more men they sleep with the less their perceived value is. This has been going on for thousands of years. No one wants a used up cum-dumpster. This is fact. We have double standards that work against us and they them. This is one of theirs. Being realistic. No one in this culture of sluttery in our modern western civilization expects their woman to be virgins. There must be some sanity to this. I don't have a specific number. I'm just generating conversation and would like to hear my brethrens' thoughts.
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So if you found out your woman slept with 80 men before you it wouldn't matter? I think you're not telling the truth.
I concur dr wigglestein
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So if you found out your woman slept with 80 men before you it wouldn't matter? I think you're not telling the truth.
No, it wouldn't matter, Im an adult not a pre-pubescent teenager.
All you are doing here is showing your own insecurity.
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Wouldnt care.
Id marry an ex pornstar and jerk off to her vids.
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If you love the gal ...... TRUST me don't ask ...
But If you do ...count BJs too ....
I rather have a girl that has slept with 15 guys (intercourse fair and square)
than a girl that has given blow jobs at random guys at a parking lot of a club more than once.
Specially If she gave head to 2 guys at same time!!!!! Simply,cause they were "SMOKING" and she was drunk/high already .... Cmon man' FUNK THAT !!!!!
you don't want that picture in your head buddy
Wooossssshhhhhh
WoooSSSHHHHHHHHHHHH BEyEkE
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i ask, but only so i can win by saying ive slept with even more and had even more bj's.
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it only matters if you are insecure
she aint been living in a box
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No, it wouldn't matter, Im an adult not a pubescent teenager.
All you are doing here is showing your own insecurity.
No I'm not. If you want to make loose women your girlfriends that's your business. Your average male would have big problems if they found out their woman slept with 80 men before them. If that makes me insecure, so be it. Teenagers don't sleep with 80 men. Grown sluts do. If you accept a woman that does. It shows how much you value yourself. Bottom line is, it's disgusting and you'd go to great lengths to ensure your friends never found this out because it is shameful behavior.
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you need a virgin Wiggs for biblical perfection
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:D
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Whatever number the man says, divide by 2 for the true number.
Whatever number the woman says, multiply by 2 for the true number.
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you need a virgin Wiggs for biblical perfection
No. I don't want a virgin. But I don't want a slut either.
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Whatever number the man says, divide by 2 for the true number.
Whatever number the woman says, multiply by 2 for the true number.
Yes, we've all heard this garbage before.
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Yes, we've all heard this garbage before.
Just a reminder. You're welcome!
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I was seeing a chick that admitted to sleeping with 50 blokes. I used to think it didn't bother me, but when we used to have a big row it was always one of the first things I'd bring up.
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The numbers game. You and your woman have the conversation. How many people have you slept with? (Sex not BJs). Obviously age plays into this. For shits and grins lets say you're both 30.
My policy is I don't want to know because I'll never be satisfied with the number or I'll think she's lying.
Assuming she does drop her number on you. How many is too many for you or does it matter at all?
I once read a good book about Malcolm X, in which Malcolm stated that you should:
"Never ask a woman about other men. Either she'll tell you a lie and you still won't know, or she tells you the truth you might note have wanted to hear it in the first place."
I think that adage is true of all relationships. Never explore your partner's past, because in doing so, you will attribute any feelings/emotions of present day to their past actions. By doing so, you inevitably adopt the anger and/or jealousy that their present behavior/actions do not warrant.
In other words, your present feelings for them will spill to their mistakes/actions of the past and you will judge them not by their present day merit, but by their past mistakes/actions.
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P.S. Regarding whether or not the number should matter at all, think about the potential for STD's. There are many STD's for which condoms are ineffective against.
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I once read a good book about Malcolm X, in which Malcolm stated that you should:
"Never ask a woman about other men. Either she'll tell you a lie and you still won't know, or she tells you the truth you might note have wanted to hear it in the first place."
I think that adage is true of all relationships. Never explore your partner's past, because in doing so, you will attribute any feelings/emotions of present day to their past actions. By doing so, you inevitably adopt the anger and/or jealousy that their present behavior/actions do not warrant.
In other words, your present feelings for them will spill to their mistakes/actions of the past and you will judge them not by their present day merit, but by their past mistakes/actions.
"1"
P.S. Regarding whether or not the number should matter at all, think about the potential for STD's. There are many STD's for which condoms are ineffective against.
Agree 100% and this is why I don't want to know. I'm a judgmental asshole. I make no qualms about it.
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ive never kept count of how many women ive slept with im 34, and lost virginity at 17... but one girl i dated was a high class dallas girl she asked me how many ive been with.. i said i didnt know i never kept count.. i asked her she said 60-70.. i lost total interest in that slut
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ive never kept count of how many women ive slept with im 34, and lost virginity at 17... but one girl i dated was a high class dallas girl she asked me how many ive been with.. i said i didnt know i never kept count.. i asked her she said 60-70.. i lost total interest in that slut
Oh fuck yeah. I'd have left at the end of that sentence.
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We may want to fuck sluts but no one wants a slut as a wife or girlfriend.
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No. I don't want a virgin. But I don't want a slut either.
So its fine for you to have a lot of partners but if a woman does it she's a slut.
Gotcha.
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Guys with small dicks worry about stuff like ths.
you're worried that some guy with an 11 inch cock made her see God
the more partners she's had, the higher probability that if happened
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It's a question best left unasked. If you find the woman of your dreams who fulfills all her duties and is a great partner, why care?
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So its fine for you to have a lot of partners but if a woman does it she's a slut.
Gotcha.
No, I don't think more of a man if he brags he's bedded 100 women. I think less of him. If you reread my previous post, I stated there is a double standard. Men have gotten a pass for thousands of years. I don't make the rules fella. Bottom line is, yes, she is still a slut and be treated as such and the man is also a slut be in most cases he will be revered.
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The numbers game. You and your woman have the conversation. How many people have you slept with? (Sex not BJs). Obviously age plays into this. For shits and grins lets say you're both 30.
My policy is I don't want to know because I'll never be satisfied with the number or I'll think she's lying.
Assuming she does drop her number on you. How many is too many for you or does it matter at all?
Why worry about the past? You're thinking about it the wrong way. The only numbers game that matters is how many she sleeps with once you're committed together. And the only number that she should have is you.
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Women will say it's a double standard and there is. The more men they sleep with the less their perceived value is. This has been going on for thousands of years. No one wants a used up cum-dumpster. This is fact. We have double standards that work against us and they them. This is one of theirs. Being realistic. No one in this culture of sluttery in our modern western civilization expects their woman to be virgins. There must be some sanity to this. I don't have a specific number. I'm just generating conversation and would like to hear my brethrens' thoughts.
Would you take a 2014 Mercedes with 100k on the clock?
We live in a society where excess is celebrated and pushed, yet when it comes down to admitting to it, we feel shameful. Whether it be food, drugs, or sex partners. Now ask yourself, "why is that?"
Because excess, gluttony, particularly with our bodies is ultimately a bad thing, and the momentary happiness that we get does not compare to the physical and spiritual damage we cause ourselves.
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Would you take a 2014 Mercedes with 100k on the clock?
We live in a society where excess is celebrated and pushed, yet when it comes down to admitting to it, we feel shameful. Whether it be food, drugs, or sex partners. Now ask yourself, "why is that?"
Because excess, gluttony, particularly with our bodies is ultimately a bad thing, and the momentary happiness that we get does not compare to the physical and spiritual damage we cause ourselves.
but it's okay that you have 100k , right ? ::)
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Guys with small dicks worry about stuff like ths.
you're worried that some guy with an 11 inch cock made her see God
the more partners she's had, the higher probability that if happened
Then why is she not with him? Try again Groink. I'm 100% sure you of all people wouldn't make some broad that had slept with 80 men before you your woman. Quit fronting. If it was so awesome, she'd still be with him. Your gigantic ego wouldn't allow it.
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but it's okay that you have 100k , right ? ::)
nope. Neither is ok.
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it only matters if you are insecure
she aint been living in a box
question is who has been living in her box
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Then why is she not with him? Try again Groink. I'm 100% sure you of all people wouldn't make some broad that had skept with 80 men before you your woman. Quit fronting. If it was so awesome, she'd still be with him.
Could be a lot of reasons..maybe he dumped her, and she thinks about him every time she has sex with you and your penis is too small.
the point I'm trying to make, is it an insecurity thing....the dick size is just as language that everyone can understand. nobody likes the thought of that woman that they care about being intimate with someone else...I know I don't.
but I certainly wouldn't judge her . Ive cared about other people, been horny for them....she has led a life too.
and trust me, I wasn't always like this....this is a lesson learned.
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Had a fiancee who claimed 4 before me. Woke up one night to find her furiously masturbating to a porn on her laptop. IT WAS HER DRENCHED IN CUM IN A GANGBANG. She claimed "roofies" I said adios.
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Could be a lot of reasons..maybe he dumped her, and she thinks about him every time she has sex with you and your penis is too small.
the point I'm trying to make, is it an insecurity thing....the dick size is just as language that everyone can understand. nobody likes the thought of that woman that they care about being intimate with someone else...I know I don't.
but I certainly wouldn't judge her
Bottom line is, who is she with? Me. Not Mr. 11 inches. You should feel insecure if your broad has slept with 80 men before you It says alot about a women. I certainly would judge her. It's a disgusting shameful behavior woman or man.
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Had a fiancee who claimed 4 before me. Woke up one night to find her furiously masturbating to a porn on her laptop. IT WAS HER DRENCHED IN CUM IN A GANGBANG. She claimed "roofies" I said adios.
LOLOLOLOL. Damn bro. PIP.
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There are two types of men, men who like to marry sluts for some weird perverted reason maybe it turns then on, and men who will never be serious with a slut and when he is ready to settle down gets a clean respectable woman that no guy cant point fingers at and talk some nasty shit, you can decide on which part of the fence you fall.
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I married a wholesome strongly Catholic beauty who only had like 3 boyfriends before meeting me.
(i'm assuming she probably slept with them ... never asked her tho.)
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Bottom line is, who is she with? Me. Not Mr. 11 inches. You should feel insecure if your broad has slept with 80 men before you It says alot about a women. I certainly would judge her. It's a disgusting shameful behavior woman or man.
I wouldn't. I mean, I would definitely form an opinion, and not be too crazy about it..
but if I love this woman, I'm probably going to accept it , im sure she had her reasons.. it seems in a relationship, there is always going to be a couple of thorns in each person side,.that's just life, its never easy
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Had a fiancee who claimed 4 before me. Woke up one night to find her furiously masturbating to a porn on her laptop. IT WAS HER DRENCHED IN CUM IN A GANGBANG. She claimed "roofies" I said adios.
hahahah... that's ridiculous.
Every time a female gets "marked" by a different male - a little bit of her dies inside :)
Quality female must find a quality partner and have kids with him (yes, it's me saying this). These who've been fucked by tens of males are usualy not right in the head, one way or another. period.
I like Ubermans stance on this: find a good girl and make her your personal whore, rather than try to turn a whore into a sweet girl to be with (Not gonna happen).
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Had a fiancee who claimed 4 before me. Woke up one night to find her furiously masturbating to a porn on her laptop. IT WAS HER DRENCHED IN CUM IN A GANGBANG. She claimed "roofies" I said adios.
If only this was true ;D
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I have a bigger ptoblem with girls that have friends that are exes. I don't need to be spending time with someone that was pushing his cock into your mouth.. you know it, he knows t, she knows it....awkward and disrespectful to your current man.
and ironically, it's normally good girls that have this situation. because they don't go out to bars and pick up guys and fuck them, the date coworkers and people they have known for a while and have become friends with. and when it doesn't work out theyre still friends with him
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So if you found out your woman slept with 80 men before you it wouldn't matter? I think you're not telling the truth.
How is Amanda & 3 juniors (not yours) ;D ;D ;D
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Then why is she not with him? Try again Groink. I'm 100% sure you of all people wouldn't make some broad that had slept with 80 men before you your woman. Quit fronting. If it was so awesome, she'd still be with him. Your gigantic ego wouldn't allow it.
Fucking hell, you have got to be trolling.
Do you think just because a guys got a big dick a girl will stay with him even if hes a fucking idiotic douche bag?
If you are not trolling then Im beginning to wonder what type of girls you associate with to form such an opinion.
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Ive had girls that been honest and thrown me a low number like 20 or so and that disgusts me, how can you go through life and not enjoy the sweet pleasure of having sex.
its like asking a girl how many flavors of ice cream she tasted in her life, if she answer "just one, vanilla" then thats not very impressive.
i like my girls to have taste vanilla, chocolate, kiwi, blueberry all kinds of flavor, some on their own, same together...
back in the day i had not have sex with so many women, i felt embarrased, now im proud to say that i rock the three digits and i make sure to tell women even if they dont ask
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why do you even care wiggy, you re a certified class A Loser and no woman wants you, you d be extremely lucky if an ugly fat one ever give you the time of the day, you being a fat unemployed ugly negro yourself.
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I have a bigger ptoblem with girls that have friends that are exes. I don't need to be spending time with someone that was pushing his cock into your mouth.. you know it, he knows t, she knows it....awkward and disrespectful to your current man.
and ironically, it's normally good girls that have this situation. because they don't go out to bars and pick up guys and fuck them, the date coworkers and people they have known for a while and have become friends with. and when it doesn't work out theyre still friends with him
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Radus OK with it.
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why do you even care wiggy, you re a certified class A Loser and no woman wants you, you d be extremely lucky if an ugly fat one ever give you the time of the day, you being a fat ugly negro yourself.
It all becomes clear, thanks uberman.
Wiggs is just setting up an excuse why he doesnt have a girl beforehand.
Hello, Im Wiggs
Hi Im Helen
How many guys have you fucked?
errr..........not sure its your business but 35
Fuck you , you whore, Im off home for a Kebab and a wank.
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what about guys who go to prostitutes? do they ask as well? and if the number is too high they demand a refund ???
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Radus OK with it.
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Im going to try and shoehorn him into every thread. ;D
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There are two types of men, men who like to marry sluts for some weird perverted reason maybe it turns then on, and men who will never be serious with a slut and when he is ready to settle down gets a clean respectable woman that no guy cant point fingers at and talk some nasty shit, you can decide on which part of the fence you fall.
Id fall under this category I think.
The real question is how many abortions they had, how often they get tested, and will they be good with kids. Lots of insecure sluts are actually good with kids. Ironically the ones that treat their bodies like some pristine gardens are usually the worst to start a family with, as they think there to precious to serve their children.
EDIT: I lost my virginity to a low self esteem whore, what really annoyed me was that she told all her slut friends I had a big dick. It was ironically very disgusting and annoying as I was completely out of the loop.
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;D
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Id fall under this category I think.
The real question is how many abortions they had, how often they get tested, and will they be good with kids. Lots of insecure sluts are actually good with kids. Ironically the ones that treat their bodies like some pristine gardens are usually the worst to start a family with, as they think there to precious to serve their children.
EDIT: I lost my virginity to a low self esteem whore, what really annoyed me was that she told all her slut friends I had a big dick. It was ironically very disgusting and annoying as I was completely out of the loop.
Wiggs theory totally destroyed.
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Wiggs, listen to this Eric Benet song
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Don't ask, don't tell. As for giant peni? I suppose it would be nice to be proportional, but not happening in this lifetime. Never had a complaint but perhaps the women I have known were all too polite.
It's one thing to have a big dick and another to be one. Had a friend that was of Italian descent and his ex-wife once told me it was too much of everything. Knew plenty of size queen guys though and they were usually total nellies. Think Paul Lynde. Some women I knew were that way too and nope, never dated one as I didn't want to disappoint 'em. Back to the topic.
There's an old song by Bread called "It Don't Matter To Me" with a line that says, "How many came before it really doesn't matter just as long as you're the last". Last.
As it make it last a lifetime.
In closing keep in mind that so many men and women want to have it all without giving their all. Think about that Wiggs.
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Had a fiancee who claimed 4 before me. Woke up one night to find her furiously masturbating to a porn on her laptop. IT WAS HER DRENCHED IN CUM IN A GANGBANG. She claimed "roofies" I said adios.
:o
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Don't ask, don't tell. As for giant peni? I suppose it would be nice to be proportional, but not happening in this lifetime. Never had a complaint but perhaps the women I have known were all too polite.
It's one thing to have a big dick and another to be one. Had a friend that was of Italian descent and his ex-wife once told me it was too much of everything. Knew plenty of size queen guys though and they were usually total nellies. Think Paul Lynde. Some women I knew were that way too and nope, never dated one as I didn't want to disappoint 'em. Back to the topic.
There's an old song by Bread called "It Don't Matter To Me" with a line that says, "How many came before it really doesn't matter just as long as you're the last". Last.
As it make it last a lifetime.
In closing keep in mind that so many men and women want to have it all without giving their all. Think about that Wiggs.
Size queens are disgusting.
Having a big dick, is really a resentful situation. Its one of the few ways a woman can objectify a man, without the man being in control of that objectification.
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Needed a good laugh after a shit day and this thread delivered. Got the insane, insecure, trolls and crazy all posting here :D
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The numbers game. You and your woman have the conversation. How many people have you slept with? (Sex not BJs). Obviously age plays into this. For shits and grins lets say you're both 30.
My policy is I don't want to know because I'll never be satisfied with the number or I'll think she's lying.
Assuming she does drop her number on you. How many is too many for you or does it matter at all?
Never asked. The reason I don't ask isn't because I don't want to know - but because it's irrelevant.
So if it's 1, 20, 200, 2000 - I honestly don't care.
What's more important is how many she plans to sleep with....