Has pornography distorted relationship expectations of men and women?

[Hustle Man]

Who is most affected (negatively) by viewing or exploring pornography (Men or Women)?

Conversely, can any positives come from viewing or exploring pornography?


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[Lord Humungous]

No, it hasnt!

Its only fair to expect all women to were lingerie  and stilettos at all times. 

[Laura Lee]

No, it hasnt!

Its only fair to expect all women to were lingerie  and stilettos at all times. 

Well this only goes to show ya...it's men that are most negatively affected by this, as they are the ones who are deeply upset when they are rudely awakened to the fact that not all women are/act like those in porn.  There are some...but let it be known that if you truly go looking for "those" women...you had better be packing the same, and able to perform the same as the men in those movies.   

[powerpack]

No, it hasnt!

Its only fair to expect all women to were lingerie  and stilettos at all times. 

I agree, I think stilettos in bed should be compulsory for all woman.......... at least once a week 

[Lord Humungous]

Well this only goes to show ya...it's men that are most negatively affected by this, as they are the ones who are deeply upset when they are rudely awakened to the fact that not all women are/act like those in porn.  There are some...but let it be known that if you truly go looking for "those" women...you had better be packing the same, and able to perform the same as the men in those movies.   

What do you mean "not all wonmenare/act like those in porn"!

I agree, I think stilettos in bed should be compulsory for all woman.......... at least once a week 

Thanks powerpack, Im glad someone knows what the hell they are talkin about here!! 

[Playboy]

There's nothing wrong with watching a little porn to help engage your sex life and pick up a few pointers and lingerie ideas.

[Laura Lee]

There's nothing wrong with watching a little porn to help engage your sex life and pick up a few pointers and lingerie ideas.

Heya PB.  I'm gonna be a PB bunny for Halloween   

[xxxLinda]

i reckon it was feminism that distorted the relationship expectations between men and women...

pornography came later



xL

[xxxLinda]

Who is most affected (negatively) by viewing or exploring pornography (Men or Women)?

Is it not odd that you wonder about the negative effects first?


xL

[xxxLinda]

No, it hasnt!

Its only fair to expect all women to were lingerie  and stilettos at all times. 

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Conversely, can any positives come from viewing or exploring pornography?





the women make so much more money than the men.



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[Playboy]

Heya PB.  I'm gonna be a PB bunny for Halloween   

Actually now that you mentioned halloween.....my buddy's wife is going out as a hooker and her 1-1/2 year old is going as a pimp. He of course id stuck on candy duty. Can you imagine opening up your door to see a woman in a short tight as high riding skirt with the hair and makup all done, the high boots and stockings and then the little guy in a little shite suit with a fedora hat with a feather sticking out the top?  I think thats an awesome costume.

[xxxLinda]

Actually now that you mentioned halloween.....my buddy's wife is going out as a hooker and her 1-1/2 year old is going as a pimp. He of course id stuck on candy duty. Can you imagine opening up your door to see a woman in a short tight as high riding skirt with the hair and makup all done, the high boots and stockings and then the little guy in a little shite suit with a fedora hat with a feather sticking out the top?  I think thats an awesome costume.

i reckon you've totally answered the question about expectations of men and women (in your life) which is why I worry.

I'll come up with a much better outfit than that.....

[Hustle Man]

Is it not odd that you wonder about the negative effects first?


xL

Negativity always get's the attention first! Are you Dr. Phil's sister now? What do you think is odd about it Ms. Thang!

[24KT]

Who is most affected (negatively) by viewing or exploring pornography (Men or Women)?

Conversely, can any positives come from viewing or exploring pornography?


Note: MODs, I respectfully request that if this topic is deemed to be inappropiate for this board please delete instead of moving it to another board!

It's hard to say, ...because both suffer from the negative effects of pornography.
I think most women are more easily repulsed by the degradation of porn, but in terms of being negatively effected by it... even if a woman is able to dismiss the perverse absurdities within the genre, if she is in a relationship with a man who is into porn, she can't help but be negatively effected by it.

Any woman who has ever had a man treat her like the star of a porn video, and then be totally clueless as to why she's not turned on, but in fact turned OFF by his vulgarity will understand where I'm coming from.

Understand, when I say pornography, I'm not referring to erotica. i think the two are vastly different.
I'm all for erotica, ...but I detest porn. I'm not sure if many will understand my POV. Sorry I'm unable to articulate it.

[24KT]

I agree, I think stilettos in bed should be compulsory for all woman.......... at least once a week 

I sure hope you don't own a waterbed. 

Trust me when I tell ya.... waterbeds and stilletto don't make for a good combo.     

[Playboy]

i reckon you've totally answered the question about expectations of men and women (in your life) which is why I worry.

I'll come up with a much better outfit than that.....

Chill out. Its only halloween and its for fun. Don't worry about me...i'm a big boy and I can take care of myself.

[Lord Humungous]

It's hard to say, ...because both suffer from the negative effects of pornography.
I think most women are more easily repulsed by the degradation of porn, but in terms of being negatively effected by it... even if a woman is able to dismiss the perverse absurdities within the genre, if she is in a relationship with a man who is into porn, she can't help but be negatively effected by it.

Any woman who has ever had a man treat her like the star of a porn video, and then be totally clueless as to why she's not turned on, but in fact turned OFF by his vulgarity will understand where I'm coming from.

Understand, when I say pornography, I'm not referring to erotica. i think the two are vastly different.
I'm all for erotica, ...but I detest porn. I'm not sure if many will understand my POV. Sorry I'm unable to articulate it.

I have to say Judi im a little disappointed, I had hopes of treating you like a porn star one day 

[Geo]

Can you imagine opening up your door to see a woman in a short tight as high riding skirt with the hair and makup all done, the high boots and stockings

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yes....and pretty often actually

[24KT]

I have to say Judi im a little disappointed, I had hopes of treating you like a porn star one day 

{SIGH} That's fine, ...as long as you realize the price you'd have to pay for the privilege...
...it a hot Timmy Ho's double double, all over your crotch. ...you still up for it? 

[24KT]

Hustleman,
I believe that within this thread, you will find a very definitive & very authoritative answer to your question.

[Hustle Man]

...Understand, when I say pornography, I'm not referring to erotica. i think the two are vastly different.
I'm all for erotica, ...but I detest porn. I'm not sure if many will understand my POV. Sorry I'm unable to articulate it.

I understand your POV and I agree with you!

I think porn objectifies women and strips them of their self worth while the erotic is more artistic in it's various expressions. I know its a thin line between the two and some would even say "what's the difference?" IMO pornography has an extremely negative connotation i.e. the objectification of women and in some cases men but IMO erotic expressions tend to aid in shaping and expressing our sexual identity without degrading the subject.

Hustleman,
I believe that within this thread, you will find a very definitive & very authoritative answer to your question.

Yes I agree!

[Playboy]

Heya PB.  I'm gonna be a PB bunny for Halloween   

I can picture you in a leather outfit....a black leather mini with high boots and a whip. A domenatrix outfit especially with your muscularity. Now there's a costume for you

[Laura Lee]

Actually now that you mentioned halloween.....my buddy's wife is going out as a hooker and her 1-1/2 year old is going as a pimp. He of course id stuck on candy duty. Can you imagine opening up your door to see a woman in a short tight as high riding skirt with the hair and makup all done, the high boots and stockings and then the little guy in a little shite suit with a fedora hat with a feather sticking out the top?  I think thats an awesome costume.

It's different, I'll say that.  I'm not sure I would wanna be walking around town with my child as a hooker and pimp collecting candy, lol.  But to each ... their own.

Mike is going to be Hugh Hefner   

[Hustle Man]

It's different, I'll say that.  I'm not sure I would wanna be walking around town with my child as a hooker and pimp collecting candy, lol.  But to each ... their own.

Mike is going to be Hugh Hefner   

Now that you mention it thats exactly what I would see but again to each her/his own! Hef is definetly a pimp any way you slice it!

Go as Laura Lee "The Good BBer Witch from South Beach"

[Lord Humungous]

{SIGH} That's fine, ...as long as you realize the price you'd have to pay for the privilege...
...it a hot Timmy Ho's double double, all over your crotch. ...you still up for it? 

What a woman!!!!!