Hey Ladies, Migs and even random men I would like your opinions on this. Since my "advice" seems to greatly differ from most of you I would like some insight, please. I have pretty well already made up my mind about what I will do, but I like to think of you gals as "the better Angels of my soul".
A guy I have known since I was sixteen (and yes he was my first) contacted me for dinner and drinks.
We hadn't really spoken in the last few years as his wife doesn't like me. I ran into him at a Stampede party in July and we laughed and talked like no time had passed. He even gave me a job as an office cow for two entire days before I screwed that one up (Damn funny story in my books). We parted ways and I hadn't heard from him since then.
He called my Friday and invited me out for Dinner, Dancing and some Drinks, I accepted. So during drinks on Saturday he told me his wife left him and took the kids earlier in the week and he wished to have somebody he could talk to about his feelings. Now I know where this is going to lead it always has with us. We've tried being together at least 6 times and it never works out. We have travelled together numerous times to places like Vegas and we have "played the slots" without leaving the hotel room.
Then at the end of the trip, a peck on the cheek and we go our own separate ways.
I know he is looking for emotional AND physical comfort. I am just not sure I can do this right now as I am still a little bit of a emotional train wreck myself.
That is the advice part...