Author Topic: Difference between arrogance and confidence in the eyes of women? (Read 18253 times)

Earl1972 · « **Reply #25 on:** June 01, 2007, 12:22:09 PM »

exactly

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Migs · « **Reply #26 on:** June 01, 2007, 12:56:02 PM »

Quote from: Always Sore on June 01, 2007, 11:27:29 AM

It's been awhile...Missed you crazy...

haha

xxxLinda · « **Reply #27 on:** June 01, 2007, 01:07:41 PM »

is that arrogance or confidence you're doing?

Neither
...in the eyes of this woman

xL

How do I get this .gif to go to avatar?

Camel Jockey · « **Reply #28 on:** June 01, 2007, 01:09:44 PM »

Quote from: Earl1972 on June 01, 2007, 11:07:56 AM

I don't agree

guys that are truly confident are arrogant and cocky too, they just are socially intelligent enough hide their arrogance and come off somewhat humble

inside their minds they think they are better than most

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Thanks, Earl.

I had come to same conclusion, but in my mind I thought 'why the need to hide the arrogance if they like it'

I guess it's all the same shit.

xxxLinda · « **Reply #29 on:** June 01, 2007, 01:11:53 PM »

Quote from: Camel Jockey on June 01, 2007, 01:09:44 PM

Thanks, Earl.

I had come to same conclusion, but in my mind I thought 'why the need to hide the arrogance if they like it'

I guess it's all the same shit.

Provided you don't call it arrogant.
xL

...can I come back to this thread, it's bugging me. It's not the same shit. Ego is one thing. Most women past the age of 20 can comprehend that. Ego is a male thing. Perhaps they can't spell it right.

Confidence is something you either have or don't have. Not sure where you get it from, but I understand it.

And arrogance is not nice, it's kinda maybe a class thing in my opinion, it's a holier than thou thing and it's hugely unattractive.

You cannot be better than me. Perhaps equal. (That's if we're playing on a level field...

I don't have a problem with vanity, that's fine.
xL

xxxLinda · « **Reply #30 on:** June 01, 2007, 04:00:26 PM »

I like your veins.

x

INSOMNIA · « **Reply #31 on:** June 02, 2007, 11:06:16 AM »

Quote from: Camel Jockey on May 31, 2007, 06:05:35 PM

I know and often hear that women love confidence in a man. However, I see many women who enjoy the whole 'badboy' and 'asshole' thing where a guy is arrogant and displays false ego.

Do women enjoy a bit of both? Or is it just confidence?

Can I start off confident and play nice guy and then switch to being an ass if I know I have the girl's admiration? I've seen women who seem head over heels in love and they seem to enjoy the 'badboy' routine. But will that work in the initial date or when I'm trying to get that number?

I seem to get mixed answers, so I thought I'd ask women on the internet.

Depends on the age of the woman your with. I think most in late teens, early 20s women are drawn to/turned on by the badboy approach. As we get more maturity and experience in life, arrogance is a complete turn off.

Confidence is always in, so is kind-heartedness, honesty and generosity. (I am happy to say I have a man with all those qualities

) I like to be treated like a lady.
I dont think any women like being treated badly, although very young immature women may see that as a challenge.

Trying too hard and getting SHIT on time and time again is often times a sign that youre simply dating out of your league, or you are a bad judge of character... not that "nice guys or girls finish last". Be more realistic, and stop chasing a dream!
You should value each other equally.

Being too clingy or being a doormat is a turnoff also. If you dont value yourself how is anyone else supposed to? There is alot to be said for self respect!

Ask yourself, do you really want a woman that only likes arrogant assholes anyway? Why play games?

My question to you is, WHY, if the girl digs your nice guy routine, would you switch to acting like an asshole? I dont see the logic.

Camel Jockey · « **Reply #32 on:** June 02, 2007, 03:23:16 PM »

Quote from: INSOMNIA on June 02, 2007, 11:06:16 AM

Depends on the age of the woman your with. I think most in late teens, early 20s women are drawn to/turned on by the badboy approach. As we get more maturity and experience in life, arrogance is a complete turn off.

Confidence is always in, so is kind-heartedness, honesty and generosity. (I am happy to say I have a man with all those qualities ) I like to be treated like a lady.
I dont think any women like being treated badly, although very young immature women may see that as a challenge.

Trying too hard and getting SHIT on time and time again is often times a sign that youre simply dating out of your league, or you are a bad judge of character... not that "nice guys or girls finish last". Be more realistic, and stop chasing a dream!
You should value each other equally.

Being too clingy or being a doormat is a turnoff also. If you dont value yourself how is anyone else supposed to? There is alot to be said for self respect!

Ask yourself, do you really want a woman that only likes arrogant assholes anyway? Why play games?

My question to you is, WHY, if the girl digs your nice guy routine, would you switch to acting like an asshole? I dont see the logic.

These women seem harder to come by(the young ones). Older women seem to like being treated like ladies, while younger women don't respond much to it. But I am not interested in older women as I am only 20.

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I dont think any women like being treated badly, although very young immature women may see that as a challenge.

I have seen this from my own observations. Why are these girls like this? I used to have this semi-friend who was with this asshole guy who didn't aspire to shit, yet she was still with him. I felt sorry for her because it seemed as though she was longing to be saved or something. Despite my pity, I kinda saw her as damaged goods. Why would a pretty girl be with a slob like that? I couldn't comprehend it then, and I sure as hell can't now.

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #33 on:** June 02, 2007, 04:59:59 PM »

confidence is when ys fart in bed and hold your woman down under the sheets..

let the bitch scream and struggle a little..

Migs · « **Reply #34 on:** June 02, 2007, 05:35:44 PM »

rofl. you're gonna get slapped!

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #35 on:** June 04, 2007, 08:47:02 AM »

Quote from: Migs on June 02, 2007, 05:35:44 PM

rofl. you're gonna get slapped!

no i'm not..if she slaps me i'd dump her on the spot..and then fuck her friends in the following weeks..

in all seriousness i'm a nice guy....and everyone pretty much knows that...i just got a mean streak for jokes

Mydavid · « **Reply #36 on:** June 04, 2007, 09:06:39 AM »

Quote from: ProteinFarts! on June 04, 2007, 08:47:02 AM

no i'm not..if she slaps me i'd dump her on the spot..and then fuck her friends in the following weeks..

And you were calling me a "used car" or whatever that was

Lisa

Al-Gebra · « **Reply #37 on:** June 04, 2007, 09:10:01 AM »

last year I bought a new car, and then immediately wished i'd bought a slightly used car. Slightly and gently used cars are the best value for your money. what do you guys think?

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #38 on:** June 04, 2007, 09:49:44 AM »

Quote from: Mydavid on June 04, 2007, 09:06:39 AM

And you were calling me a "used car" or whatever that was

Lisa

you r married...hense not part of any train of thought i posses..

i admire your candor and honesty though...and thats all.

cheers

Al-Gebra · « **Reply #39 on:** June 04, 2007, 10:15:52 AM »

so a "used car" can become new?

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #40 on:** June 04, 2007, 10:37:44 AM »

you r reading 2 much into this mate..

married women as far as it concerns me are not sexual beings..PERIOD!

Hustle Man · « **Reply #41 on:** June 04, 2007, 10:59:38 AM »

Quote from: ProteinFarts! on June 04, 2007, 10:37:44 AM

you r reading 2 much into this mate..

married women as far as it concerns me are not sexual beings..PERIOD!

Depends on who they are married too!

INSOMNIA · « **Reply #42 on:** June 04, 2007, 11:12:10 AM »

Quote from: Al-Gebra on June 04, 2007, 09:10:01 AM

last year I bought a new car, and then immediately wished i'd bought a slightly used car. Slightly and gently used cars are the best value for your money. what do you guys think?

Yes, the depreciation is 5 times greater in the first year. and the market is usually flooded with one year old lease returns, so you can buy them at wholesale book or below often times.

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #43 on:** June 04, 2007, 11:12:52 AM »

Quote from: Hustle Man on June 04, 2007, 10:59:38 AM

Depends on who they are married too!

does not matter to me...

married women are OFF LIMITS
girls with Boyfriends are OFF LIMITS

i get hit on by enough women to warrent me considering other options..

and even if i didn't..i'd still stick to my morals..

Al-Gebra · « **Reply #44 on:** June 04, 2007, 11:29:21 AM »

Quote from: INSOMNIA on June 04, 2007, 11:12:10 AM

Yes, the depreciation is 5 times greater in the first year. and the market is usually flooded with one year old lease returns, so you can buy them at wholesale book or below often times.

did you get a 'gently used' car recently, insomnia?

jtsunami · « **Reply #45 on:** June 04, 2007, 12:58:06 PM »

Morals, they are gonna hold you back in life brotha, married women are freaky, and don't mind cheating has been my experience.

xxxLinda · « **Reply #46 on:** June 04, 2007, 03:19:43 PM »

giggling (or if I was in America I'd be ROFL and the carpet) at your arrogance and lack of confidence. Maybe because I'm way over 30.

mad thread.

You wanna talk about the confidence or whatever that married women may have? Not that I would know. I thought the topic was about male ego.

Listen to ProF. There are plenty of 20/25 year old babes with £3,000 fake tits their mothers & absent fathers paid for which you can go pat (troll.

That's if you wanna big up your male ego confidence thingy.

Get real.
xL

trab · « **Reply #47 on:** June 04, 2007, 06:50:11 PM »

Arrogance is over the line by definition. It's past the point where your looking for trouble by virtue of
overconfidence. You have to allow for things not to go 100% your way, they don't for anyone.
Arrogant is not a trait of successful self-made guys.

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #48 on:** June 04, 2007, 07:46:42 PM »

Quote from: jtsunami on June 04, 2007, 12:58:06 PM

Morals, they are gonna hold you back in life brotha, .

its gonna be a tough life..YES...

..but nothing worth having ws easy having..yes brother?

i can wake up every day ..look meself in the mirror and know i'm a good man..

honour trumps all..

trab · « **Reply #49 on:** June 04, 2007, 07:55:00 PM »

I agree with the not mess w/ married women, there's plenty others. And there plenty guys that will kill you for messing w/ their wife. And thats fine by me.