How come it's generally ok if a woman uses a man's money in a relationship to stay afloat. But woe betide the man who needs his woman's money to stay afloat.
Monster double standard.
To answer the OP: I believe love does not equal money. Women can't help who they love, rich or poor (ref: Hope Solo). But they will get the money from someone, somewhere. That might not be the guy they love...so they'll fake love with someone else to get his money. Not all women do this. My wife and I are fine being poor together, because when we met, we were both as poor as church mice coming out of school. Now we have money, and it does change you to some extent. But not enough to forget who you are, if you're a good person.
We have a mutual friend, though, who's stepping out on her wealthy husband because his company isn't doing as well as she thought it would do for her financial future (she likes big expensive things, and if the IPO doesn't payout, say good-bye to the lease on the mercedes and the big house/mortgage). She's shoring up her options with a wealthy retired gentleman on the side to make sure she's taken care of in case the IPO doesn't go as well as originally expected. Sick, and I don't respect her for it. But she's doing what she feels she needs to. Glad I didn't marry her.