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Let me preface this by saying this is an ongoing discussion between me and my gf. We are both convinced of our points but I want to hear some other opinions/reasons why one of us or both may be right/wrong. I think that 99% of guys aren't friends with girls just to be their friends. They either want more or just want someone to bitch too, with the former being the main reason. Any thoughts?
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you are correct
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friends = no
but if you see that person 2 times a month, as a friend, different story ( maybe not, could become a fuckfriend )
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in general id say guys would bang their female friends in a heartbeat ...
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in general id say guys would bang their female friends in a heartbeat ...
Tom Leykis said that if any girl called her "guy friend" and said come over and fuck me that he would be there before she could hang up the phone.
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Tom Leykis said that if any girl called her "guy friend" and said come over and f**k me that he would be there before she could hang up the phone.
Of course! But most women are not attracted to their guy friends so that doesn't happen all that often. Men are of the "bring beer, come naked" mindset so it's usually up to women to keep it under control.
But notice how all the guys say NO to girl friendships, and yet every girl has at least one, so somehow these numbers aren't matching up.
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But notice how all the guys say NO to girl friendships, and yet every girl has at least one, so somehow these numbers aren't matching up.
what isn't matching up?
these guys would bang these "friends" in a heartbeat
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Of course! But most women are not attracted to their guy friends so that doesn't happen all that often. Men are of the "bring beer, come naked" mindset so it's usually up to women to keep it under control.
But notice how all the guys say NO to girl friendships, and yet every girl has at least one, so somehow these numbers aren't matching up.
thats guys saying no to friendships with girls they dont want to bone ... weather she knows it or not
i dont think its anything against hanging out with chicks, just that a guy would rather spend his time on something with the chance for pussy than not
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Of course! But most women are not attracted to their guy friends so that doesn't happen all that often. Men are of the "bring beer, come naked" mindset so it's usually up to women to keep it under control.
But notice how all the guys say NO to girl friendships, and yet every girl has at least one, so somehow these numbers aren't matching up.
Deedee on the attact. Jk. I just don't think that girls realize that most guys they know would fuck them if they got the chance.
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Deedee on the attact. Jk. I just don't think that girls realize that most guys they know would f**k them if they got the chance.
alot know, they like the attention
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But notice how all the guys say NO to girl friendships, and yet every girl has at least one, so somehow these numbers aren't matching up.
Deedee.... let me 'splain it to you: that guy who you're "just friends" with? He wants to fucck your brains out.
Hope this helps.
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alot know, they like the attention
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Yes, they are sluts/cock tease.
I think alot don't know and are suprised when the guy kisses her or whips it out.
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Yes I KNOW all guys would "bone" their "girl" friends in a second. I already said this on the girl board in answer to this question. All I'm saying is, that women are aware of this, and it's up to them to fend off the inevitable come on, (can take between 3 weeks to 3 months ;) ) and still keep the guy as a friend.
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Why would a bloke want to be friends with a woman?
Unless it's a way of getting into her knickers or he's a queer
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Yes I KNOW all guys would "bone" their "girl" friends in a second. I already said this on the girl board in answer to this question. All I'm saying is, that women are aware of this, and it's up to them to fend off the inevitable come on, (can take between 3 weeks to 3 months ;) ) and still keep the guy as a friend.
Deedee... let me 'splain it to you further: if after you fending off the inevitable come on he's "still your friend", this means he didn't quite get it, and still thinks he has a shot at getting in your pants.
Hope this helps.
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Deedee... let me 'splain it to you further: if after you fending off the inevitable come on he's "still your friend", this means he didn't quite get it, and still thinks he has a shot at getting in your pants.
Hope this helps.
So true.
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Deedee... let me 'splain it to you further: if after you fending off the inevitable come on he's "still your friend", this means he didn't quite get it, and still thinks he has a shot at getting in your pants.
Hope this helps.
if theres one thing goatboy knows its cock!
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Deedee... let me 'splain it to you further: if after you fending off the inevitable come on he's "still your friend", this means he didn't quite get it, and still thinks he has a shot at getting in your pants.
Hope this helps.
Lol... yes, occasionally some suffer from the perseverance without hope syndrome... in the meantime, though, those particular guy friends give you great critiques of the guys you ARE dating. Like, this one is no good because he has a uni-brow, the other one is built like a mutant, another one is a pin-head... it's fun for everyone.
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Lol... yes, occasionally some suffer from the perseverance without hope syndrome... in the meantime, though, those particular guy friends give you great critiques of the guys you ARE dating. Like, this one is no good because he has a uni-brow, the other one is built like a mutant, another one is a pin-head... it's fun for everyone.
Sounds like your guy friend is gay. If a girl asked me, I would look at him and say he is a douche and there would be a 1% chance I would be wrong. Haha..
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guys dont have girl ''friends''.... they have girls they havnt fucked... yet
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guys dont have girl ''friends''.... they have girls they havnt fucked... yet
Yes!!! Either that or girls they decided not to
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you're right, unless the guy is receiving other benefits other than sexual or attraction in the freindship - i.e. if she isnt attractive to him.
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Beside a close friend from the age of 6, the only person that has something to offer me in a non-sexual way is my mother. Home cooked meals...mmmm. Haha.
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To a woman a "guy friend" is nothing more than a man with a vagina. Someone she can bitch to about how the dude three nights ago screwed her and hasn't called. As the saying goes, "If your in the friend zone, you will never get into the end zone." Unless she is drunk ;)
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To a woman a "guy friend" is nothing more than a man with a vagina. Someone she can bitch to about how the dude three nights ago screwed her and hasn't called. As the saying goes, "If your in the friend zone, you will never get into the end zone." Unless she is drunk ;)
then by the bitch some drinks >:(
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its all upto you.if you think that a normal friendship is like girlfriend and boyfriend relationship, you won't have any girls as a friend in the future cuz not every girl can be your girlfriend and this really gives the girl the impression that you're just trying to while away your time with her and show off by showing everyone that 'see how many girlfriends i have you guys don't even have one'.in the end the guy becomes lonely and no girl comes near him.eventually the guy becomes an outcast
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its all upto you.if you think that a normal friendship is like girlfriend and boyfriend relationship, you won't have any girls as a friend in the future cuz not every girl can be your girlfriend and this really gives the girl the impression that you're just trying to while away your time with her and show off by showing everyone that 'see how many girlfriends i have you guys don't even have one'.in the end the guy becomes lonely and no girl comes near him.eventually the guy becomes an outcast
Anyone want to take advice from a 19-year-old virgin pedophile who hits on 13-year olds (and gets turned down)?
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Anyone want to take advice from a 19-year-old virgin pedophile who hits on 13-year olds (and gets turned down)?
if you want to you can.its a nice advice though ;D
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its all upto you.if you think that a normal friendship is like girlfriend and boyfriend relationship, you won't have any girls as a friend in the future cuz not every girl can be your girlfriend and this really gives the girl the impression that you're just trying to while away your time with her and show off by showing everyone that 'see how many girlfriends i have you guys don't even have one'.in the end the guy becomes lonely and no girl comes near him.eventually the guy becomes an outcast
And you wonder why you haven't gotten any. :-\
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goaboy has a certain mr garrison from southpark quality to him
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And you wonder why you haven't gotten any. :-\
this is a fact dude..whatever i posted is all true.
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Like Tom Leykis said, if you get a call Friday night from the girl who's been blowing you off and she wants to know what you're doing, don't call back and don't answer. She's calling you because she got stood up and you are second choice.
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You guys are jaded and depressing. :-\
I think if you've known someone since you were kids you aren't going to dump the friendship years later just because they're of the OS and don't want to take you to bed. Also, there are some men in this world who are actually very sensitive, don't like sports, and are bookish. They prefer spending time with girls because they like to exchange ideas and don't "fit in" with the average jock. These type of friends probably won't try to get you into bed, but they do fall in love with their "girl" friends instead. This however can be worse and lead to scenes with a lot of sobbing.
Some guys, those in art-related fields of study, poets, painters, etc... have lots of girl friends because a) they are open to different experiences and also their egos are often so large they can't bear to be near "competition" of any kind. Women tend to make better audiences.
Some guys just happen to really like women and enjoy having them in their lives. :)
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You guys are jaded and depressing. :-\
I think if you've known someone since you were kids you aren't going to dump the friendship years later just because they're of the OS and don't want to take you to bed. Also, there are some men in this world who are actually very sensitive, don't like sports, and are bookish. They prefer spending time with girls because they like to exchange ideas and don't "fit in" with the average jock. These type of friends probably won't try to get you into bed, but they do fall in love with their "girl" friends instead. This however can be worse and lead to scenes with a lot of sobbing.
Some guys, those in art-related fields of study, poets, painters, etc... have lots of girl friends because a) they are open to different experiences and also their egos are often so large they can't bear to be near "competition" of any kind. Women tend to make better audiences.
Some guys just happen to really like women and enjoy having them in their lives. :)
Said artsy guys are usually homosexual.
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dude i have one chick friend and she is the sister of my best guy friend. I have known them since i was 4. Thats the only way a guy can have a chick friend. You (like my current girlfriend) cant meet someone when 25 at school and this dude because he is in your class is your friend now. Thats a guy who wants to bone you. And chicks know it.
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Said artsy guys are usually homosexual.
Not necessarily homosexual since they try to eventually "get more" just like everyone else. Just more sensitive and willing to spend hours talking about all kinds of stuff over chai tea at quiet little cafes. :P
Okay, I give up... :'( Men are teh bastards...
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I think if a woman had a bunch of gay friends I wouldn't think anything of it but if I dated a chick and she had like 20 guy friends who all thought it was cool to hang out with her then I would think something of it. I mean honestly, they would all party together and what's to stop Joe Schmoe from getting her drunk and boning her. Despite her best intentions and faithfulness, enough alcohol will black anyone out and they don't know what they say.
I mean Deedee, I work around very gorgeous women. If one of them all of a sudden said she wanted to be my friend, I guarantee my gf would think she was interested.
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I think if a woman had a bunch of gay friends I wouldn't think anything of it but if I dated a chick and she had like 20 guy friends who all thought it was cool to hang out with her then I would think something of it. I mean honestly, they would all party together and what's to stop Joe Schmoe from getting her drunk and boning her. Despite her best intentions and faithfulness, enough alcohol will black anyone out and they don't know what they say.
I mean Deedee, I work around very gorgeous women. If one of them all of a sudden said she wanted to be my friend, I guarantee my gf would think she was interested.
Well to be truthful, of my only two real male friends, one is gay, and the other one has known me since I was 12. But, I do have two "sort of" male friends from school who I like because they're smart and funny and make me laugh, and they always call when their girlfriends dump them (again) and I listen and advise them of their abject stupidity and then introduce them to my friends. I guess I know what you mean... but are you saying you never hang with the women you work with, or even go to lunch with them? I work with only men... one of them just this morning asked me to lunch on Thursday. He's married. We work together really closely and I consider him a semi-friend. Don't you even have any of those?
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You guys are jaded and depressing. :-\
No, we're realistic.
I think if you've known someone since you were kids you aren't going to dump the friendship years later just because they're of the OS and don't want to take you to bed. Also, there are some men in this world who are actually very sensitive, don't like sports, and are bookish. They prefer spending time with girls because they like to exchange ideas and don't "fit in" with the average jock.
Yeah.... they're called "fags".
Some guys just happen to really like women and enjoy having them in their lives. :)
Sure.... as long as they're putting out! ;D
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Well to be truthful, of my only two real male friends, one is gay, and the other one has known me since I was 12. But, I do have two "sort of" male friends from school who I like because they're smart and funny and make me laugh, and they always call when their girlfriends dump them (again) and I listen and advise them of their abject stupidity and then introduce them to my friends. I guess I know what you mean... but are you saying you never hang with the women you work with, or even go to lunch with them? I work with only men... one of them just this morning asked me to lunch on Thursday. He's married. We work together really closely and I consider him a semi-friend. Don't you even have any of those?
Nope. I really have no desire to, to be honest. I figure it's only asking for trouble. I exchange pleasantries but as far as hanging out or lunch, no. Like I said, I have two close girl friends. One since age 6 and the other who helped me through a bad patch. I think long term friendships are okay but as far as co-workers of the OS, I probably never will. To quote Billy Crystal, "I don't want any falase flirtings."
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But, I do have two "sort of" male friends from school who I like because they're smart and funny and make me laugh, and they always call when their girlfriends dump them (again)
It's called a "booty call", Deedee. They're hoping you're going to "help them out". ;D
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My group of friends that hangs out together almost weekend includes about 6 really hot girls. While they're awesome people and pretty chill girls, I'll admit I'd f**k any of them given the chance. Unfortunately, all but one have boyfriends and they don't cheat so this isn't a problem. >:(
I know all of my friends are the same way, too.
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My group of friends that hangs out together almost weekend includes about 6 really hot girls. While they're awesome people and pretty chill girls, I'll admit I'd f**k any of them given the chance. Unfortunately, all but one have boyfriends and they don't cheat so this isn't a problem. >:(
I know all of my friends are the same way, too.
It's different when there's a group dynamic in play... I think guys can be "friends" with girls when it's in the context of a larger group... i.e. you hang with and do things with a "group" that includes 5 guys and 3 girls. But a one-on-one friendship? Only if you're trying to get in the girl's pants!
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It's different when there's a group dynamic in play... I think guys can be "friends" with girls when it's in the context of a larger group... i.e. you hang with and do things with a "group" that includes 5 guys and 3 girls. But a one-on-one friendship? Only if you're trying to get in the girl's pants!
Yeah, that's understandable. But I'd still love to bang these girls. ;D
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Not necessarily homosexual since they try to eventually "get more" just like everyone else. Just more sensitive and willing to spend hours talking about all kinds of stuff over chai tea at quiet little cafes. :P
Okay, I give up... :'( Men are teh bastards...
I remember in one of education classes all the womens chairs had gravitated into circles around the gay men. >:( Why, well because these men were not hitting on them.
what you say is true, but most hetero males don't want to talk about feelings. I want to talk about Vickies, and like B.I.G. said: "Who you be with, what's your name, what's your sign"
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What are friends for?
Fucking, of course.
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Yes I KNOW all guys would "bone" their "girl" friends in a second. I already said this on the girl board in answer to this question. All I'm saying is, that women are aware of this, and it's up to them to fend off the inevitable come on, (can take between 3 weeks to 3 months ;) ) and still keep the guy as a friend.
That's not doing him any good. :-\
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Guy: "I wanna be your friend too"
Translation: I like your ass can I wear it as a hat?
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Lol, I still can't believe the way you all respond to this thread. Mostly I'm amazed because you all say you wouldn't have a woman as a friend, and yet, I and mostly every woman I've ever talked to, have male friends. Are we all sharing the same four sensitive, arty, metrosexualish, new agey, eunichs alive in the world today? ;D
And if you don't like women as friendship material, how can you stomach having a girlfriend/wife? I mean, isn't the SO supposed to be "the best friend" of all? How can you spend so much time/eternity with a member of the OS if you can't even contemplate being friends with one. (And don't say because of the blow jobs or sex or whatever... >:()
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Lol, I still can't believe the way you all respond to this thread. Mostly I'm amazed because you all say you wouldn't have a woman as a friend, and yet, I and mostly every woman I've ever talked to, have male friends. Are we all sharing the same four sensitive, arty, metrosexualish, new agey, eunichs alive in the world today? ;D
And if you don't like women as friendship material, how can you stomach having a girlfriend/wife? I mean, isn't the SO supposed to be "the best friend" of all? How can you spend so much time/eternity with a member of the OS if you can't even contemplate being friends with one. (And don't say because of the blow jobs or sex or whatever... >:()
Yes you share the same four. ;D
I think having a wife is going to be a mixed blessing because I'm very independent. In terms of marriage, guys will still hang out with the guys and girls the same. Plus there is always work and drinking which can keep you sane. ;D
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Lol, I still can't believe the way you all respond to this thread. Mostly I'm amazed because you all say you wouldn't have a woman as a friend, and yet, I and mostly every woman I've ever talked to, have male friends. Are we all sharing the same four sensitive, arty, metrosexualish, new agey, eunichs alive in the world today? ;D
And if you don't like women as friendship material, how can you stomach having a girlfriend/wife? I mean, isn't the SO supposed to be "the best friend" of all? How can you spend so much time/eternity with a member of the OS if you can't even contemplate being friends with one. (And don't say because of the blow jobs or sex or whatever... >:()
I actually enjoy hanging out with the girls in my group. They're some of the most down to earth, chill people I know and I have no problem with them at all. But then again, I still want to fuck everyone of them.
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Lol, I still can't believe the way you all respond to this thread. Mostly I'm amazed because you all say you wouldn't have a woman as a friend, and yet, I and mostly every woman I've ever talked to, have male friends. Are we all sharing the same four sensitive, arty, metrosexualish, new agey, eunichs alive in the world today? ;D
No, there are a lot of fags in the world. And even more guys who will be "friends" with a woman because they want to fucck them.
And if you don't like women as friendship material, how can you stomach having a girlfriend/wife? I mean, isn't the SO supposed to be "the best friend" of all? How can you spend so much time/eternity with a member of the OS if you can't even contemplate being friends with one. (And don't say because of the blow jobs or sex or whatever... >:()
No one said we couldn't be friends with women... what we're saying is that if sex is off the table, we tend to lose interest fast. Between women we ARE screwing and our guy friends, who the hell has time to do tea and crumpets with some chick who won't even put out?
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I actually enjoy hanging out with the girls in my group. They're some of the most down to earth, chill people I know and I have no problem with them at all. But then again, I still want to f**k everyone of them.
Don't you tire of them bitching about their scrawny pimple faced boyfriends?
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Like Tom Leykis said,
Take what he says sometimes with a grain of salt. Because he is a ugly fat guy who wears shades and all black. What was he before he got money? A ugly fat guy. Imagine being him in college getting no play, and before he hit it big. Alot of his comments is just animosity directed towards women. Even though sometimes he is correct.
Deedee, I know a this hot girl who has about 20 males friends. Guess where she got them? From dates and from dudes who are hanging around for the opporunity to hit it. All of them waiting to be "put in the game". I was going to be the 21st....but I am an "associate", and don't care about being in the "friend-zone".
Men who are in the friend zone are in two categories, those like above, or those who have resigned to the fact they are friends and there is no chance
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Don't you tire of them bitching about their scrawny pimple faced boyfriends?
Nah, they actually don't talk about their boyfriends much. But yes, their boyfriends are ridiculousy scrawny and dorky. Kind of weird. >:(
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Being friends with a girl can also turn on you. My best friend dated this chick for two years before we started hanging out and being friends. We're friends for two years at this point and he wanted us (me and the girl) to be friends. Well, they broke up and this bitch asked me to prom and she also wanted me to do her a favor, I go over to her house and she wanted to fuck. If she wasn't my best friends ex I would have done he but this is further proof not to befriend chicks.
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Oh who am I kidding? :-\
Usually the guy friendships last about 3 months, then when the hopeless factor sets in, they're gone. >:(
The only ones that last are the ones from childhood or school, because you shared so much, and even then, they still would have tried at some point. The only reason these things work is because you tend to go out in a horde, like BF/GB said, or you've both met each other's SO and everybody gets along. And of the few strays who have hung around, usually they phone when something's crappy in their lives and then of course, you can hear the bf in the backround going "what does that loser douche ( ;)) want now?" The work husband thing works because you leave and go home at the end of the day.
It's kinda sad though...
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if you were a better friend maybe you would have boned them >:(
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haha most girls dont even realise that 99% of the time their guy 'friends' really just want to fuck them silly. its safe to say that id drill the hell out of most of my girl 'friends'.
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Of course! But most women are not attracted to their guy friends so that doesn't happen all that often. Men are of the "bring beer, come naked" mindset so it's usually up to women to keep it under control.
But notice how all the guys say NO to girl friendships, and yet every girl has at least one, so somehow these numbers aren't matching up.
I think those guys are great.
-Hedge
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Nah, they actually don't talk about their boyfriends much. But yes, their boyfriends are ridiculousy scrawny and dorky. Kind of weird. >:(
they hang out with you BF cause they want to bang you bro your the alpha male now get out there an bang em >:(
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they hang out with you BF cause they want to bang you bro your the alpha male now get out there an bang em >:(
hahahaha, I wish. Unfortunately, that's not what's happening. :'(
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they hang out with you BF cause they want to bang you bro your the alpha male now get out there an bang em >:(
haha always a good friend ;D
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The work husband
What is a work husband to you?
Funny, at work several women say I am their 'work husbands" or that we are going get "married", and don't let them catch me talking to a strange woman outside or in the building...then its 20 questions ??? ???
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hahahaha, I wish. Unfortunately, that's not what's happening. :'(
Then 'grow some' and make your move