Author Topic: Guys+girls=friends??? (Read 3820 times)

Cap · « **on:** January 21, 2007, 04:56:32 PM »

Let me preface this by saying this is an ongoing discussion between me and my gf. We are both convinced of our points but I want to hear some other opinions/reasons why one of us or both may be right/wrong. I think that 99% of guys aren't friends with girls just to be their friends. They either want more or just want someone to bitch too, with the former being the main reason. Any thoughts?

Earl1972 · « **Reply #1 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:00:29 PM »

you are correct

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beatmaster · « **Reply #2 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:03:21 PM »

friends = no

but if you see that person 2 times a month, as a friend, different story ( maybe not, could become a fuckfriend )

sandycoosworth · « **Reply #3 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:04:56 PM »

in general id say guys would bang their female friends in a heartbeat ...

Cap · « **Reply #4 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:05:54 PM »

Quote from: sandycoosworth on January 21, 2007, 05:04:56 PM

in general id say guys would bang their female friends in a heartbeat ...

Tom Leykis said that if any girl called her "guy friend" and said come over and fuck me that he would be there before she could hang up the phone.

Deedee · « **Reply #5 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:22:02 PM »

Quote from: cap86 on January 21, 2007, 05:05:54 PM

Tom Leykis said that if any girl called her "guy friend" and said come over and f**k me that he would be there before she could hang up the phone.

Of course! But most women are not attracted to their guy friends so that doesn't happen all that often. Men are of the "bring beer, come naked" mindset so it's usually up to women to keep it under control.

But notice how all the guys say NO to girl friendships, and yet every girl has at least one, so somehow these numbers aren't matching up.

Earl1972 · « **Reply #6 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:24:19 PM »

Quote from: Deedee on January 21, 2007, 05:22:02 PM

But notice how all the guys say NO to girl friendships, and yet every girl has at least one, so somehow these numbers aren't matching up.

what isn't matching up?

these guys would bang these "friends" in a heartbeat

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sandycoosworth · « **Reply #7 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:26:30 PM »

Quote from: Deedee on January 21, 2007, 05:22:02 PM

Of course! But most women are not attracted to their guy friends so that doesn't happen all that often. Men are of the "bring beer, come naked" mindset so it's usually up to women to keep it under control.

But notice how all the guys say NO to girl friendships, and yet every girl has at least one, so somehow these numbers aren't matching up.

thats guys saying no to friendships with girls they dont want to bone ... weather she knows it or not

i dont think its anything against hanging out with chicks, just that a guy would rather spend his time on something with the chance for pussy than not

Cap · « **Reply #8 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:26:55 PM »

Quote from: Deedee on January 21, 2007, 05:22:02 PM

Of course! But most women are not attracted to their guy friends so that doesn't happen all that often. Men are of the "bring beer, come naked" mindset so it's usually up to women to keep it under control.

But notice how all the guys say NO to girl friendships, and yet every girl has at least one, so somehow these numbers aren't matching up.

Deedee on the attact. Jk. I just don't think that girls realize that most guys they know would fuck them if they got the chance.

Earl1972 · « **Reply #9 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:31:07 PM »

Quote from: cap86 on January 21, 2007, 05:26:55 PM

Deedee on the attact. Jk. I just don't think that girls realize that most guys they know would f**k them if they got the chance.

alot know, they like the attention

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G o a t b o y · « **Reply #10 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:38:18 PM »

Quote from: Deedee on January 21, 2007, 05:22:02 PM

But notice how all the guys say NO to girl friendships, and yet every girl has at least one, so somehow these numbers aren't matching up.

Deedee.... let me 'splain it to you: that guy who you're "just friends" with? He wants to fucck your brains out.

Hope this helps.

Cap · « **Reply #11 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:39:02 PM »

Quote from: Earl1972 on January 21, 2007, 05:31:07 PM

alot know, they like the attention

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Yes, they are sluts/cock tease.

I think alot don't know and are suprised when the guy kisses her or whips it out.

Deedee · « **Reply #12 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:42:13 PM »

Yes I KNOW all guys would "bone" their "girl" friends in a second. I already said this on the girl board in answer to this question. All I'm saying is, that women are aware of this, and it's up to them to fend off the inevitable come on, (can take between 3 weeks to 3 months

) and still keep the guy as a friend.

Diesel1 · « **Reply #13 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:49:11 PM »

Why would a bloke want to be friends with a woman?

Unless it's a way of getting into her knickers or he's a queer

G o a t b o y · « **Reply #14 on:** January 21, 2007, 06:23:10 PM »

Quote from: Deedee on January 21, 2007, 05:42:13 PM

Yes I KNOW all guys would "bone" their "girl" friends in a second. I already said this on the girl board in answer to this question. All I'm saying is, that women are aware of this, and it's up to them to fend off the inevitable come on, (can take between 3 weeks to 3 months ) and still keep the guy as a friend.

Deedee... let me 'splain it to you further: if after you fending off the inevitable come on he's "still your friend", this means he didn't quite get it, and still thinks he has a shot at getting in your pants.

Hope this helps.

Cap · « **Reply #15 on:** January 21, 2007, 06:27:01 PM »

Quote from: G o a t b o y on January 21, 2007, 06:23:10 PM

Deedee... let me 'splain it to you further: if after you fending off the inevitable come on he's "still your friend", this means he didn't quite get it, and still thinks he has a shot at getting in your pants.

Hope this helps.

So true.

sandycoosworth · « **Reply #16 on:** January 21, 2007, 06:28:15 PM »

Quote from: G o a t b o y on January 21, 2007, 06:23:10 PM

Deedee... let me 'splain it to you further: if after you fending off the inevitable come on he's "still your friend", this means he didn't quite get it, and still thinks he has a shot at getting in your pants.

Hope this helps.

if theres one thing goatboy knows its cock!

Deedee · « **Reply #17 on:** January 21, 2007, 06:32:01 PM »

Quote from: G o a t b o y on January 21, 2007, 06:23:10 PM

Deedee... let me 'splain it to you further: if after you fending off the inevitable come on he's "still your friend", this means he didn't quite get it, and still thinks he has a shot at getting in your pants.

Hope this helps.

Lol... yes, occasionally some suffer from the perseverance without hope syndrome... in the meantime, though, those particular guy friends give you great critiques of the guys you ARE dating. Like, this one is no good because he has a uni-brow, the other one is built like a mutant, another one is a pin-head... it's fun for everyone.

Cap · « **Reply #18 on:** January 21, 2007, 07:12:14 PM »

Quote from: Deedee on January 21, 2007, 06:32:01 PM

Lol... yes, occasionally some suffer from the perseverance without hope syndrome... in the meantime, though, those particular guy friends give you great critiques of the guys you ARE dating. Like, this one is no good because he has a uni-brow, the other one is built like a mutant, another one is a pin-head... it's fun for everyone.

Sounds like your guy friend is gay. If a girl asked me, I would look at him and say he is a douche and there would be a 1% chance I would be wrong. Haha..

kh300 · « **Reply #19 on:** January 21, 2007, 07:19:25 PM »

guys dont have girl ''friends''.... they have girls they havnt fucked... yet

Cap · « **Reply #20 on:** January 21, 2007, 07:19:59 PM »

Quote from: kh300 on January 21, 2007, 07:19:25 PM

guys dont have girl ''friends''.... they have girls they havnt fucked... yet

Yes!!! Either that or girls they decided not to

Tombo · « **Reply #21 on:** January 21, 2007, 07:22:34 PM »

you're right, unless the guy is receiving other benefits other than sexual or attraction in the freindship - i.e. if she isnt attractive to him.

Cap · « **Reply #22 on:** January 21, 2007, 08:38:59 PM »

Beside a close friend from the age of 6, the only person that has something to offer me in a non-sexual way is my mother. Home cooked meals...mmmm. Haha.

Parker · « **Reply #23 on:** January 22, 2007, 04:52:22 AM »

To a woman a "guy friend" is nothing more than a man with a vagina. Someone she can bitch to about how the dude three nights ago screwed her and hasn't called. As the saying goes, "If your in the friend zone, you will never get into the end zone." Unless she is drunk

RUDE BUOY · « **Reply #24 on:** January 22, 2007, 04:53:46 AM »

Quote from: Parker on January 22, 2007, 04:52:22 AM

To a woman a "guy friend" is nothing more than a man with a vagina. Someone she can bitch to about how the dude three nights ago screwed her and hasn't called. As the saying goes, "If your in the friend zone, you will never get into the end zone." Unless she is drunk

then by the bitch some drinks