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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Tom on April 22, 2007, 07:22:13 PM
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okay, before the ragging on me begins on this post/question. let's face it before you can get a woman to be attracted to you if your a bber shes' got to like what she sees when your wearing clothes before they come off in the bedroom! so i guess if you want to wear form fitting jeans,shirts, ( no not skintight painted on, but if you feel like it then whatever), what type of physique would/does look best. i'm guessing a top natural physique like a mike o'hearn or a bill davey or maybe the symetrical bb like a ronnie rockel,dexter jackson, guys who have the small waist, no gut,wide upper body, huge legs, etcetera.
it seems the mass monsters cutler for example just look like big overweight football players in clothes, of course i've never seen a pic of cutler in "bar picking up a woman showing it off" clothes.
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okay, before the ragging on me begins on this post/question. let's face it before you can get a woman to be attracted to you if your a bber shes' got to like what she sees when your wearing clothes before they come off in the bedroom! so i guess if you want to wear form fitting jeans,shirts, ( no not skintight painted on, but if you feel like it then whatever), what type of physique would/does look best. i'm guessing a top natural physique like a mike o'hearn or a bill davey or maybe the symetrical bb like a ronnie rockel,dexter jackson, guys who have the small waist, no gut,wide upper body, huge legs, etcetera.
it seems the mass monsters cutler for example just look like big overweight football players in clothes, of course i've never seen a pic of cutler in "bar picking up a woman showing it off" clothes.
Great post... Women in general, are attracted to the athletic/healthy physiques. They are repulsed by the mass-monster look.
Show most women photos of Cutler and you will have them spontaneously vomitting in your lap. The freakaziod/steroid monsters are hideous and revolting.
To all the Bodybuilders i say, train hard and stay healthy. However, dont dream of becoming a Cutler if you want to be attractive to the opposite sex!
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matt c, since when was ok = he is great
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Matt C, you put effort and thought into all your posts. They are always interesting and informative. Keep up the good work.
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Howdya think Luke Wood does with the ladies, Hank?
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great thought and inquireing minds
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No problem Matt. i appreciate your contributions.
i have learnt a lot about 'the sport' from reading your posts.
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I was told by a female that if a woman says she doesnt like big huge muscles (like as in a bodybuilder) that she is lying. Thats a big fantasy for a woman being taken by a huge man....this is what a woman told me...
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It is common knowledge that women are repulsed and reviled by the mass-monster.
Most women prefer the lean and athletic physique of a healthy-natural-male. Throw in a nice car, house and cash, to complete the perfect package.
-If you want to have success with the ladies, do not go down the steroided-bodybuilder path!
Thankyou.
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This woman told me thats a lie....on an island if shipwrecked...a woman would go for the biggest, strongest guy...hence the bigger bodybuilder...she would choose the mass monster
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okay, before the ragging on me begins on this post/question. let's face it before you can get a woman to be attracted to you if your a bber shes' got to like what she sees when your wearing clothes before they come off in the bedroom! so i guess if you want to wear form fitting jeans,shirts, ( no not skintight painted on, but if you feel like it then whatever), what type of physique would/does look best. i'm guessing a top natural physique like a mike o'hearn or a bill davey or maybe the symetrical bb like a ronnie rockel,dexter jackson, guys who have the small waist, no gut,wide upper body, huge legs, etcetera.
it seems the mass monsters cutler for example just look like big overweight football players in clothes, of course i've never seen a pic of cutler in "bar picking up a woman showing it off" clothes.
Tom.
I once had a friend named Tom.
Then one day I found out that he had 100 million other friends, and that I was nothing special.
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Matt C, you put effort and thought into all your posts. They are always interesting and informative. Keep up the good work.
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matt has no life
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this one
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Matt C gives credibility to this forum. He is articulate and well informed.
Getbig is message-board full of disdain and hate. Matt C is a positive and honest contributor amidst all the negativity.
i just wish there were more like him.
Keep up the good work Bro.
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Thats rodney st cloud.
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Matt C gives credibility to this forum. He is articulate and well informed.
Getbig is message-board full of disdain and hate. Matt C is a positive and honest contributor amidst all the negativity.
i just wish there were more like him.
Keep up the good work Bro.
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matt has a guy
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And who are you jock rider?
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matt has a guy
That's a fair call Goatboy. I respect your opinion (and also Matt's).
This forum is all about the sharing of ideas. It just happens that i enjoy the posts made by Matt C.
Dont take offence Goatboy, you are also a worthy contributor to this message board.
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I like Matt C's post too but I think G O A T B OY can be hilarious at times!!
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I like Matt C's post too but I think G O A T B OY can be hilarious at times!!
Yes Goatboy is a funny dude. I am not hating on him!!!!
Goatboy, i was just stating how i enjoy reading Matt's post. I wasnt having a shot at you. I am not comparing you to Matt nor am i saying his posts are better than yours. Now do you UNDERSTAND?
I repeat, i am sorry if i offended you Goatboy. For christ sake, just get over it. This is Getbig for f**k sake!
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Back to the point - Not everyone who takes up bodybuilding wants to look like a model
You'll find that most women who say they're turned off by bodybuilders would deep down rather you be big, muscular and charming than a stick figure, weak and charming. Point is once they know you got more than just muscles, the size and strength is a bonus for them..
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It's not the physique but the man. 8)
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:)
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Sergio and Vince look PIMP.
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damn, sergio is a st8 up pimp.
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the only guy who looks pimp with his pants that high
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the only guy who looks pimp with his pants that high
true to that :)
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the only guy who looks pimp with his pants that high
when the fuck was that in fashion ???
don't want to diss the myth, but...damn! :-\
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Zane looks pimp too...
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http://www.briansdriveintheater.com/reeves/sreeves178.jpg
Reeves too...
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Flex Wheeler
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It is common knowledge that women are repulsed and reviled by the mass-monster.
Most women prefer the lean and athletic physique of a healthy-natural-male. Throw in a nice car, house and cash, to complete the perfect package.
-If you want to have success with the ladies, do not go down the steroided-bodybuilder path!
Thankyou.
WHY DON'T YOU JUST GO AND GET A PROSTITUTE ...IT IS A LOT CHEAPER....LOLOLOLOLOLOL OLOL
Truth of the matter is most women are clueless as to WHAT THEY WANT IN A MAN.... THe average woman looks at a mans "WALLET" first before anything. Her whole scheme is to be "TAKEN CARE OF" as opposed to TAKING CARE OF. The american woman has nothing in the form of WIFE, MOTHER, CARETAKER traits in her. Her attitude is we are together for the man to take care of her...she looks at a man as her FATHER (of which she feels she should be bought/given whatever she wants and taken care of) as opposed to her HUSBAND (of which she has the responsibility of taking care of him, the children and household). If you think MATERIAL THINGS are going to get or keep a woman...then keep your grip tight and palms smooth cuz there will be many lonely nights ahead for you. Truth is PERSON AND PERSONALITY always wins...Ever wonder why some of the most gorgeous women are hooked up with guys with BIG BELLIES, AVERAGE LOOKS and are more BLUE COLLAR than anything else....
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Matt C gives credibility to this forum. He is articulate and well informed.
Getbig is message-board full of disdain and hate. Matt C is a positive and honest contributor amidst all the negativity.
i just wish there were more like him.
Keep up the good work Bro.
yes if getbig had a homceoming dance Matt would be crowned king :)
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bingo
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arnold looks in good shape there, but he's not wearing much clothes.
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bingo
Arnold was and always be the king......
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arnold looks in good shape there, but he's not wearing much clothes.
Yeah, I know........but those shorts could qualify as casual dress, right?? :D
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Yeah, I know........but those shorts could qualify as casual dress, right?? :D
fair enough. it is arnold afterall.
that photo was probably just before heading off to sydney australia for the 1980 mr o
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fair enough. it is arnold afterall.
that photo was probably just before heading off to sydney australia for the 1980 mr o
Yep....he deserved the win, too.
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Matt C gives credibility to this forum. He is articulate and well informed.
Getbig is message-board full of disdain and hate. Matt C is a positive and honest contributor amidst all the negativity.
i just wish there were more like him.
Keep up the good work Bro.
Geez...........just blow the guy and get it over with........
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It's not the physique but the man. 8)
Word, I have to agree with Alexxx on this one. Also, If I was trying to get a girl using a six pack it wouldn't be mine, It would be heineken.
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Segio knew how to dress 8)
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most women like a guy with some safety fat. 6 pack and all, but no veins on the arms/legs, etc.
i think the zane, paris, little smaller flex would be perfect.
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i can't believe so many threads on here seem to be obsessed with what type of body is attractive to women. you guys really are missing the point on what women want imo. hint: they're not as 'visual' as us.
having said that, if i had a guy come up to me and pay me a million dollars for the perfect training regime to attract women, hardcore bbing training would be the least of my priorities.
if you guys actually think that if you develop a muscular body women are just going to flock to you on sight you are seriously deluded and are going to be disilllusioned because what you should be spending your time on is grooming, deportment, career, culture and...wait for it...talking to women :o
just trying to save you guys so much blood, sweat and tears just to become a narcisistic meat head, which btw is exactly what women don't want. ;)
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i can't believe so many threads on here seem to be obsessed with what type of body is attractive to women. you guys really are missing the point on what women want imo. hint: they're not as 'visual' as us.
having said that, if i had a guy come up to me and pay me a million dollars for the perfect training regime to attract women, hardcore bbing training would be the least of my priorities.
if you guys actually think that if you develop a muscular body women are just going to flock to you on sight you are seriously deluded and are going to be disilllusioned because what you should be spending your time on is grooming, deportment, career, culture and...wait for it...talking to women :o
just trying to save you guys so much blood, sweat and tears just to become a narcisistic meat head, which btw is exactly what women don't want. ;)
Great post ! True in every word.
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Great post ! True in every word.
I second that . great post!
I just don't think that your run-of-the-mill, knuckle-dragging-Neanderthal-steroid injecting-narcisist will ever realise this though. However, i will repeat it for the millionth time; WOMEN HATE THE MASS MONSTER LOOK!
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Great post ! True in every word.
Yeah, but it's a lot easier if a woman is attacted to you physically.
People are reading way too much into this thread. It's about the type of physique the majority of women find attractive. Obviously, there's a lot more to attracting women than physique.
Back in the late 80s when a young buck Thin Lizzy was working as a bartender, I asked women that question all the time.
More specifically, I would ask which famous person they thought had the perfect male body.
The answer I got most often? (See pic below)
Another answer I frequently got is that they don't like "Muscleguys."
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its all about game. you can have all the muscle in the world but if you have no game then u aint gettin pussy
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WHY DON'T YOU JUST GO AND GET A PROSTITUTE ...IT IS A LOT CHEAPER....LOLOLOLOLOLOL OLOL
Truth of the matter is most women are clueless as to WHAT THEY WANT IN A MAN.... THe average woman looks at a mans "WALLET" first before anything. Her whole scheme is to be "TAKEN CARE OF" as opposed to TAKING CARE OF. The american woman has nothing in the form of WIFE, MOTHER, CARETAKER traits in her. Her attitude is we are together for the man to take care of her...she looks at a man as her FATHER (of which she feels she should be bought/given whatever she wants and taken care of) as opposed to her HUSBAND (of which she has the responsibility of taking care of him, the children and household). If you think MATERIAL THINGS are going to get or keep a woman...then keep your grip tight and palms smooth cuz there will be many lonely nights ahead for you. Truth is PERSON AND PERSONALITY always wins...Ever wonder why some of the most gorgeous women are hooked up with guys with BIG BELLIES, AVERAGE LOOKS and are more BLUE COLLAR than anything else....
Ouch!
Unfortunately, you speak the truth.
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Anything under 5'9 and 3/4 looks shit in clothing if you are a bodybuilder :P
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Oak, how right you are! Put a short bodybuilder in some clothes and they just look short and 'fat'.
True presence is a lean and athletic 6 footer +.
I find short bodybuilders sad and funny at the same time. The way they prowl the gym floor, grunting and sniffing, is truely hilarious. No wonder women are revolted by them.
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this one
Thats "Classic" thanks for sharing 8) 8)
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i can't believe so many threads on here seem to be obsessed with what type of body is attractive to women. you guys really are missing the point on what women want imo. hint: they're not as 'visual' as us.
having said that, if i had a guy come up to me and pay me a million dollars for the perfect training regime to attract women, hardcore bbing training would be the least of my priorities.
if you guys actually think that if you develop a muscular body women are just going to flock to you on sight you are seriously deluded and are going to be disilllusioned because what you should be spending your time on is grooming, deportment, career, culture and...wait for it...talking to women :o
just trying to save you guys so much blood, sweat and tears just to become a narcisistic meat head, which btw is exactly what women don't want. ;)
To a "T" you are correct.
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It's not the physique but the man. 8)
Now that is one cool, old pic!
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Oak, how right you are! Put a short bodybuilder in some clothes and they just look short and 'fat'.
True presence is a lean and athletic 6 footer +.
I find short bodybuilders sad and funny at the same time. The way they prowl the gym floor, grunting and sniffing, is truely hilarious. No wonder women are revolted by them.
Yeah the truest thing said on thies forum. I mean height totally outdoes muscles. I mean if you had to compare cutler, and arnold, arnold would win 9 times out of ten even if jaw cutler outweight him by 50 pounds. That being said you still need muscle but height is just as important, i'd rather have lungren's body than any bodyublildedr under 5,11
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how many actual "women" have replied to this thread? ::)
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how many actual "women" have replied to this thread? ::)
I would like to share a secret; women dont frequent Getbig. It is male dominated.
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It's not the physique but the man. 8)
if Vince Giranda did juice he would have been huge.
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Put today's Pro Bodybuilder in a suit, and they appear obese.. That's right, they look like your regular pizza-lovin-fatty! Sad but true.
Put a lean and athletic guy in a suit, and they appear lean and athletic.
Moral to the story...Dont aspire to be a Pro Bodybuilder!
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WHY DON'T YOU JUST GO AND GET A PROSTITUTE ...IT IS A LOT CHEAPER....LOLOLOLOLOLOL OLOL
Truth of the matter is most women are clueless as to WHAT THEY WANT IN A MAN.... THe average woman looks at a mans "WALLET" first before anything. Her whole scheme is to be "TAKEN CARE OF" as opposed to TAKING CARE OF. The american woman has nothing in the form of WIFE, MOTHER, CARETAKER traits in her. Her attitude is we are together for the man to take care of her...she looks at a man as her FATHER (of which she feels she should be bought/given whatever she wants and taken care of) as opposed to her HUSBAND (of which she has the responsibility of taking care of him, the children and household). If you think MATERIAL THINGS are going to get or keep a woman...then keep your grip tight and palms smooth cuz there will be many lonely nights ahead for you. Truth is PERSON AND PERSONALITY always wins...Ever wonder why some of the most gorgeous women are hooked up with guys with BIG BELLIES, AVERAGE LOOKS and are more BLUE COLLAR than anything else....
AAAAAAAHaHAHA Looks like SOMEONE forgot to sign a prenup.
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I second that . great post!
I just don't think that your run-of-the-mill, knuckle-dragging-Neanderthal-steroid injecting-narcisist will ever realise this though. However, i will repeat it for the millionth time; WOMEN HATE THE MASS MONSTER LOOK!
Yeah but these guys arent all just doin it for chicks. Its their hobby and they love it. They want to get bigger for themselves. Just like chicks wont dig the fact that some guy's hobby is toy trains, but hes gonna keep doin it cuz its his joy in life.
The end.
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cool shots of sergio.
what's with the pointing in the second shot? looks gay.
speaking of gay, wtf is on weider's mind in the first shot ???
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cool shots of sergio.
what's with the pointing in the second shot? looks gay.
speaking of gay, wtf is on weider's mind in the first shot ???
i think they are playing 'pool' or 'billards' , just a guess...but it may reveal why they are pointing , esp if Sergio is calling his shot..
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i think they are playing 'pool' or 'billards' , just a guess...but it may reveal why they are pointing , esp if Sergio is calling his shot..
i've played pool, but i still don't see the need to point like that? maybe there's something i don't know about pool/billiards? i mean, gironda still looks cool but the other guy (expression and everything) looks a little too fake.
i won't lose sleep on it though.
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Great post... Women in general, are attracted to the athletic/healthy physiques. They are repulsed by the mass-monster look.
Show most women photos of Cutler and you will have them spontaneously vomitting in your lap. The freakaziod/steroid monsters are hideous and revolting.
To all the Bodybuilders i say, train hard and stay healthy. However, dont dream of becoming a Cutler if you want to be attractive to the opposite sex!
women are influenced by their childhood view of how their dads treated their moms, usually associating hypermasculine features with mistreatment and unhappiness.
There is nothing wrong with the huge muscle guys but they avoid them because they associate all the mass with brutality, lack of sensitivity, crudeness and disrespect and becoming bare foot and pregnant, which is a blatantly false presumption. Girls tend to like the trimmer less muscular hairless guys believing they will be nicer and kinder and spend more time with them. There is no factual basis to this thinking.
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what's with the pointing in the second shot? looks gay.
This was pre-"thumbs up" era.
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listen to me once and for all,,
with women,,,its not the size that matters,,its the bf%,,,what makes a guy hot for a woman is LOW BODY FAT % WITH DECENT WEIGHT AS IN 170LB +,,
women will give you the description cute if you are double digit bodyfat%
women will give you the description hot if you are single digit bodyfat%
women look at definition and cuts because they dont know shit about muscles,,only thing they care about is what they see with the naked eyes,,for that you need low bodyfat%
size matter mainly for american girls since they themselves are big women,,even the thin ones if you take notice,,are big girls! so thats why they prefer 200lb and take notice of it over a 180lb,,
but then again those 200lb should come with SINGLE DIGIT BODYFAT% FOR THEM TO BE ATTRACTED TO IT
low bodyfat is the key,,,not the size
ofcourse you gotta have your muscle developed because a meth addict low body fat% is as good as a fatzo
face is important too but all said above is with the assumption you have a decent face
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!! :D
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huh?
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From my experince only, girls always like my face (even now), they liked my body because it was big, hard and proportionet(?). I wasn't even close to a BB. At 300 lbs. my waist was less than 37". I never had a six-pack but I did get as high as a 4 pack. It was generally my arms, shoulders, back and chest that girls really liked. They can give a shit about legs and I bet 99% of them do not like big muscular legs with veins all over them. My body was tan 99% of the year. I never did dress fancy or cool. The coolest I got was at night when I would wear cowboy boots with Calvin's or Girbaud's or Caverichi's with a polo shirt. I used to wear a baseball cap 99% of the time. Even night clubs that didn't allow caps let me keep mine on. I always smell great and always have fresh breath. During the day, shorts and a t-shirt with slippas is usually what I wore. Even to meetings. So, not sure what the consensus is here but that is my personal experience. And I think I did pretty fucking good for about 25 years.
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i can't believe so many threads on here seem to be obsessed with what type of body is attractive to women. you guys really are missing the point on what women want imo. hint: they're not as 'visual' as us.
having said that, if i had a guy come up to me and pay me a million dollars for the perfect training regime to attract women, hardcore bbing training would be the least of my priorities.
if you guys actually think that if you develop a muscular body women are just going to flock to you on sight you are seriously deluded and are going to be disilllusioned because what you should be spending your time on is grooming, deportment, career, culture and...wait for it...talking to women :o
just trying to save you guys so much blood, sweat and tears just to become a narcisistic meat head, which btw is exactly what women don't want. ;)
DING, DING, DING!!!
(http://www.jaguarenterprises.net/images/trophy.jpg)
Why do I suspect the above quoted post was written by a woman? ...oh ya, ...'cause it makes sense. ;D
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Oh I forgot another thing that seems to work really great for me. I make people laugh. Allot. Girls like a sense of humor and to be able to laugh. I brek allot of ice by making a girl laugh.
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usually associating hypermasculine features with mistreatment and unhappiness....There is nothing wrong with the huge muscle guys but they avoid them because they associate all the mass with brutality, lack of sensitivity, crudeness and disrespect
Then we get on Getbig.com, and insensitive, crude, and disrepectful bullies reinforce the stereotype. :'(
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great post
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huh?
the ones who need to understand this,,,,did!
it wasnt meant for the girls,,it was meant for the guys
and yes ofcourse you need to open your mouth and talk to women and make them laugh and all that other good stuff,,body alone wont help you for shit
but when it comes to girls that are into health and fitness life style,,my recommendation is gold,,actually in usa when it comes to almost any girl my recomendation is gold
i was only talking about what women like body wize,,not anyother aspect,,
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guy on the right
Is tom prince bulking up or what?
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From my experince only, girls always like my face (even now), they liked my body because it was big, hard and proportionet(?). I wasn't even close to a BB. At 300 lbs. my waist was less than 37". I never had a six-pack but I did get as high as a 4 pack. It was generally my arms, shoulders, back and chest that girls really liked. They can give a shit about legs and I bet 99% of them do not like big muscular legs with veins all over them. My body was tan 99% of the year. I never did dress fancy or cool. The coolest I got was at night when I would wear cowboy boots with Calvin's or Girbaud's or Caverichi's with a polo shirt. I used to wear a baseball cap 99% of the time. Even night clubs that didn't allow caps let me keep mine on. I always smell great and always have fresh breath. During the day, shorts and a t-shirt with slippas is usually what I wore. Even to meetings. So, not sure what the consensus is here but that is my personal experience. And I think I did pretty fucking good for about 25 years.
i still dont believ that chicks like ur face, ur body yes i can accept since you got big arms
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Those guys are so huge, they're sinking into the road!
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DING, DING, DING!!!
(http://www.jaguarenterprises.net/images/trophy.jpg)
Why do I suspect the above quoted post was written by a woman? ...oh ya, ...'cause it makes sense. ;D
lol
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Then we get on Getbig.com, and insensitive, crude, and disrepectful bullies reinforce the stereotype. :'(
the guys that act this way IN PERSON always have chicks
why do people on the net always act like they don't and say women are completely repelled by them ???
I swear they always have chicks
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i still dont believ that chicks like ur face, ur body yes i can accept since you got big arms
Shit my face is all I got now. Girls still call me handsome. Fat yes but handsome too.
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shave the 'stach
Never have even when being paid to shave everything.
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Never have even when being paid to shave everything.
I bet you look great in clothes and even better with your shirt off ::)
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Hey Keith post some pix of hot hawaiian broads dude ;D
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huh?
gh15 is saying that it's all about the bodyfat-level.
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Hey Keith post some pix of hot hawaiian broads dude ;D
hahahaha!
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=143935.0;attach=160826;image)
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Here is my friend who is also a natural.
looks good alexx, but he's got nothing on my landscapper crisco.
BAM!
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=143935.0;attach=160826;image)
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looks good alexx, but he's got nothing on my landscapper crisco.
BAM!
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=143935.0;attach=160826;image)
Chubby people amuse me. :D Especially when they are acting tuff!
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Chubby people amuse me. :D Especially when they are acting tuff!
hahaha! i know I always have to hide my valuables when him and his uncle jesus come over to do my landscapping.
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Hank you won't believe this one, but I've actually see bodybuilders mark their territory like a wolf in some gyms. True story.
I do believe it!
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space between your nose and top-lip too big?
No not at all. Just am used to it for so long. Did a video once where they offered me $1,000 to shave it and still didn't do it.