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Getbig Main Boards => General Topics => Topic started by: Ursus on August 19, 2007, 01:35:24 PM
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I have been going with my g/f over 8 months and its nothing she has done i just cant be annoyed with a g/f at the minute.
I dont want to get annoyed with her as she is a nice girl etc though any ideas what is teh best way to tell her. I wish she had of done something so i could drop her guilt free. IM 21 she is only 17.
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say its over and drop it after that.
but don't be a prick. If she is the emo type I'm not sure, run. I would just end it and say fuck it.
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lol not the emo type. just a young girl. dont wanna upset her im her longest b/f and most serious yet
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Say you don't want to waste her time, you don't see the relationship going any further. then end it.
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Weren't you complaining about going bald recently, Goudy?
It's probably best if you don't start getting all "picky".
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lol amc. are u saying i should get her pregnant and trap her lol
oh im ok i thought i was receeding, even if i am im cool with it will just shave it
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Goudy, sit her down, have a heart to heart talk with her explaining to her you are not happy,
that it has nothing to do with her, that it is you, and that you need your space. Do it gently.
ps - I hope you did not take her virginity either. If you did, ...best to make it her idea for the breakup.
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Jag, ty for female perspective. i am not unhappy just kinda fed up/lazy. she is a lovely girl though i jsut dont want to go with her anymore though i really dont want to upset her etc.
lol @ the p.s
i also work with teh girl in teh same place though different days anbd hours. she asserts that she has always stayed firends with her ex's
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I think I've found the real reason for Goudy wanting to give her the heave-ho:
http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=154301.msg2175963#msg2175963 (http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=154301.msg2175963#msg2175963)
He obviously fears splitting the poor girl in two! :)
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LOL she is small tho
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Jag, ty for female perspective. i am not unhappy just kinda fed up/lazy. she is a lovely girl though i jsut dont want to go with her anymore though i really dont want to upset her etc.
lol @ the p.s
i also work with teh girl in teh same place though different days anbd hours. she asserts that she has always stayed firends with her ex's
OK, now that I know the real reason, it's imperative that you be gentle with her. Don't hurt her.
At 17, to be dumped by your 21 yr old boyfriend could be devasting, and have really adverse effects on her,
...especially when you've had incompatibilities issues in the bedroom. Have a heart to heart talk with her.
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lol we were compativble in bedrroom. i just dont want it to be awkward in work. tho i care more that i dont upset her in general etc. she has onlyu worked in our place 9 montsh ive been there 5 years.
neone else ne ideas
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Make a clean break, like Zack Mayo. A text message will suffice. And don't worry about hurting her feelings, it's a part of growing up.
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bang her friend, email her pictures, ask her to pay you to avoid having them posted online...
game, set, match
;D
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Just be honest and tell her your gay.
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Just stop calling her, change your phone # and things will work themselves out.
I just stop answering the phone and it seems to work out fine....
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ok here is what you need to do G.
start being an even greater super nicER guy. Buy her flowers everyother day, take her out, buy her stuff, call her every 10 min, actually listen to her when she talks, refresh to her that you have big hopes and dreams in life and big plans..etc, be very caring and extra loving to her, go to church more, stop swearing, stop drinking, just smother her all the time like you have ZERO LIFE..etc..etc
......keep all this up for about 3-4 weeks........then she'll tell you she needs space or something. Act like you are not understanding why...etc. Then walk out the door with your head down (and a devilish smirk on your face)..and there u go.
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tell her the truth. tell her you like her brother
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Tell her her dad filed statutory charges against him. Perve
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Edit you for him. Still a perve
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don't prolong the relationship if you want it over...get it over with before she falls pregnant.
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well i just spoke to her and was honest.
said i would end up resenting her which i dont want to happen if i dont give myself a break. she was understanding about it which i am glad tho she asserts that it will break her heart though she will get over it.
funny thing is this happened to mem a few years ago except i was on recieving end. i do feel slightly bad thoiugh know it was frustrating me and i think im too nice a guy/cowardly to not answer fone etc tell her top fuck off.
i like the response get out of it before she gets pregnant, i wa sthinking that too.
also LOL at all other comments cheers guys
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ok now..... who's the other girl?
just joking, good for you if she was ok with it
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hopefulluy she is lol.
just hpoe she gets a new boy and then she can work away without me lol she is a lovely wee girl tho i told her it was nothing to do with her.
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hopefulluy she is lol.
just hpoe she gets a new boy and then she can work away without me lol she is a lovely wee girl tho i told her it was nothing to do with her.
You used the "it's not you, it's me" on her? That's George Costanzas line!
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lol its true she never dobe a thing to annoy me tho she sed she seen it coming. i was distant at times.
c'est la vie
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You know she is going to be psycho, right? There is no such thing as a clean break. She will stalk your ass for months, not trying to scare you man, it's just a fact of life.
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You used the "it's not you, it's me" on her? That's George Costanzas line!
LOL
Classic Seinfeld
you should get her to quit, I agree with danielson.
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well i just spoke to her and was honest.
said i would end up resenting her which i dont want to happen if i dont give myself a break. she was understanding about it which i am glad tho she asserts that it will break her heart though she will get over it.
funny thing is this happened to mem a few years ago except i was on recieving end. i do feel slightly bad thoiugh know it was frustrating me and i think im too nice a guy/cowardly to not answer fone etc tell her top fuck off.
i like the response get out of it before she gets pregnant, i wa sthinking that too.
also LOL at all other comments cheers guys
with the crap weather you Irish have to put up with, there's nothing else to do.. ;D
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;D
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lol it seems 100% sorted now. cheers guys. tho who knows i may be bumping this thread in a few months lol
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just smother her all the time like you have ZERO LIFE..etc..etc
......keep all this up for about 3-4 weeks........then she'll tell you she needs space or something. Act like you are not understanding why...etc. Then walk out the door with your head down (and a devilish smirk on your face)..and there u go.
Oh, ...that would do it! :-X
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Can I have her? :D
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:)
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catch her in the back of the head when she's not looking.. ;D
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pee in her mouth when she givers you head
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change jobs. you WILL be miserable working with an ex. I promise you.
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ask her if you can still hit it!~!
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i do differnt hours and different days so it should be ok.
plus i wasthere first lol
iots all done and dusted so hopefully thats the end of it
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Ok, now that you've got that out of the way, how about posting up some pics of her tits.
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I have been going with my g/f over 8 months and its nothing she has done i just cant be annoyed with a g/f at the minute.
I dont want to get annoyed with her as she is a nice girl etc though any ideas what is teh best way to tell her. I wish she had of done something so i could drop her guilt free. IM 21 she is only 17.
tell her it turns you on thinking about taking a ploppery ole dumpard in her mouth...
posibility # 1) she dumps ya...dumps..get it. :D
posibility # 2) she actually goes ahead with it and then ya got one helluva story for the grand kiddies! ;D
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Make a clean break, like Zack Mayo. A text message will suffice. And don't worry about hurting her feelings, it's a part of growing up.
Zack ended up marring the bitch, remember the last scene with them walking out of the factory. Now the other dude, he took the way out where you don't come back.
Back to the question at hand. A 17 year old girl will bounce right back, if she's normal, that is. A physo will pull a Fatal Attraction on your sorry ass.