Author Topic: How to drop your g/f. (Read 3043 times)

Ursus · « **on:** August 19, 2007, 01:35:24 PM »

I have been going with my g/f over 8 months and its nothing she has done i just cant be annoyed with a g/f at the minute.

I dont want to get annoyed with her as she is a nice girl etc though any ideas what is teh best way to tell her. I wish she had of done something so i could drop her guilt free. IM 21 she is only 17.

MB_722 · « **Reply #1 on:** August 19, 2007, 01:43:01 PM »

say its over and drop it after that.

but don't be a prick. If she is the emo type I'm not sure, run. I would just end it and say fuck it.

Ursus · « **Reply #2 on:** August 19, 2007, 01:46:16 PM »

lol not the emo type. just a young girl. dont wanna upset her im her longest b/f and most serious yet

MB_722 · « **Reply #3 on:** August 19, 2007, 01:51:21 PM »

Say you don't want to waste her time, you don't see the relationship going any further. then end it.

amc1980 · « **Reply #4 on:** August 19, 2007, 01:51:36 PM »

Weren't you complaining about going bald recently, Goudy?

It's probably best if you don't start getting all "picky".

Ursus · « **Reply #5 on:** August 19, 2007, 01:53:39 PM »

lol amc. are u saying i should get her pregnant and trap her lol

oh im ok i thought i was receeding, even if i am im cool with it will just shave it

24KT · « **Reply #6 on:** August 19, 2007, 02:00:25 PM »

Goudy, sit her down, have a heart to heart talk with her explaining to her you are not happy,
that it has nothing to do with her, that it is you, and that you need your space. Do it gently.

ps - I hope you did not take her virginity either. If you did, ...best to make it her idea for the breakup.

Ursus · « **Reply #7 on:** August 19, 2007, 02:08:09 PM »

Jag, ty for female perspective. i am not unhappy just kinda fed up/lazy. she is a lovely girl though i jsut dont want to go with her anymore though i really dont want to upset her etc.

lol @ the p.s

i also work with teh girl in teh same place though different days anbd hours. she asserts that she has always stayed firends with her ex's

amc1980 · « **Reply #8 on:** August 19, 2007, 02:09:50 PM »

I think I've found the real reason for Goudy wanting to give her the heave-ho:

http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?topic=154301.msg2175963#msg2175963

He obviously fears splitting the poor girl in two!

Ursus · « **Reply #9 on:** August 19, 2007, 02:13:08 PM »

LOL she is small tho

24KT · « **Reply #10 on:** August 19, 2007, 02:36:21 PM »

Quote from: Goudy on August 19, 2007, 02:08:09 PM

Jag, ty for female perspective. i am not unhappy just kinda fed up/lazy. she is a lovely girl though i jsut dont want to go with her anymore though i really dont want to upset her etc.

lol @ the p.s

i also work with teh girl in teh same place though different days anbd hours. she asserts that she has always stayed firends with her ex's

OK, now that I know the real reason, it's imperative that you be gentle with her. Don't hurt her.
At 17, to be dumped by your 21 yr old boyfriend could be devasting, and have really adverse effects on her,
...especially when you've had incompatibilities issues in the bedroom. Have a heart to heart talk with her.

Ursus · « **Reply #11 on:** August 19, 2007, 02:50:00 PM »

lol we were compativble in bedrroom. i just dont want it to be awkward in work. tho i care more that i dont upset her in general etc. she has onlyu worked in our place 9 montsh ive been there 5 years.

neone else ne ideas

danielson · « **Reply #12 on:** August 19, 2007, 03:21:05 PM »

Make a clean break, like Zack Mayo. A text message will suffice. And don't worry about hurting her feelings, it's a part of growing up.

WOOO · « **Reply #13 on:** August 19, 2007, 03:48:37 PM »

bang her friend, email her pictures, ask her to pay you to avoid having them posted online...

game, set, match

Bindare_Dundat · « **Reply #14 on:** August 19, 2007, 10:13:16 PM »

Just be honest and tell her your gay.

youandme · « **Reply #15 on:** August 19, 2007, 11:30:26 PM »

Quote from: Patrick_Bateman on August 19, 2007, 11:20:53 PM

Just stop calling her, change your phone # and things will work themselves out.

I just stop answering the phone and it seems to work out fine....

K-1 · « **Reply #16 on:** August 20, 2007, 09:37:53 AM »

ok here is what you need to do G.

start being an even greater super nicER guy. Buy her flowers everyother day, take her out, buy her stuff, call her every 10 min, actually listen to her when she talks, refresh to her that you have big hopes and dreams in life and big plans..etc, be very caring and extra loving to her, go to church more, stop swearing, stop drinking, just smother her all the time like you have ZERO LIFE..etc..etc

......keep all this up for about 3-4 weeks........then she'll tell you she needs space or something. Act like you are not understanding why...etc. Then walk out the door with your head down (and a devilish smirk on your face)..and there u go.

onlyme · « **Reply #17 on:** August 20, 2007, 10:51:48 AM »

tell her the truth. tell her you like her brother

mitchyboy · « **Reply #18 on:** August 20, 2007, 12:24:41 PM »

Tell her her dad filed statutory charges against him. Perve

mitchyboy · « **Reply #19 on:** August 20, 2007, 12:25:44 PM »

Edit you for him. Still a perve

AVBG · « **Reply #20 on:** August 20, 2007, 12:33:39 PM »

don't prolong the relationship if you want it over...get it over with before she falls pregnant.

Ursus · « **Reply #21 on:** August 20, 2007, 01:25:58 PM »

well i just spoke to her and was honest.

said i would end up resenting her which i dont want to happen if i dont give myself a break. she was understanding about it which i am glad tho she asserts that it will break her heart though she will get over it.

funny thing is this happened to mem a few years ago except i was on recieving end. i do feel slightly bad thoiugh know it was frustrating me and i think im too nice a guy/cowardly to not answer fone etc tell her top fuck off.

i like the response get out of it before she gets pregnant, i wa sthinking that too.

also LOL at all other comments cheers guys

beatmaster · « **Reply #22 on:** August 20, 2007, 01:45:31 PM »

ok now..... who's the other girl?

just joking, good for you if she was ok with it

Ursus · « **Reply #23 on:** August 20, 2007, 02:47:18 PM »

hopefulluy she is lol.

just hpoe she gets a new boy and then she can work away without me lol she is a lovely wee girl tho i told her it was nothing to do with her.

danielson · « **Reply #24 on:** August 20, 2007, 02:49:23 PM »

Quote from: Goudy on August 20, 2007, 02:47:18 PM

hopefulluy she is lol.

just hpoe she gets a new boy and then she can work away without me lol she is a lovely wee girl tho i told her it was nothing to do with her.

You used the "it's not you, it's me" on her? That's George Costanzas line!

Author Topic: How to drop your g/f. (Read 3043 times)

AVBG