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Title: does this make me racist?
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on November 03, 2007, 06:29:38 PM
ok i think racism as a concept is stupid since everyone can be judged on an individual basis...ive had no racism whatsoever in my upbringing, ive had friends of all ethnicities, hell ive got a few black aquaintences now, etc, etc.. but shit, everytime im surfing porn and come across a pic of a black dude doing a white(or asian, or latina for that matter) girl such as the pic Bastiano posted of that kim kardashshahasian girl getting drilled by the black dude, for some reason it DISGUSTS ME!!! it just seems so unnatural to me.

why does it spontaneously create this response in my brain? it seems like in my case it is an innate response rather than a learned/conditioned one. just as natural as flinching at a sudden loud noise for example.

surely im not the only one?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: chaos on November 03, 2007, 06:30:58 PM
ok i think racism as a concept is stupid since everyone can be judged on an individual basis...ive had no racism whatsoever in my upbringing, ive had friends of all ethnicities, hell ive got a few black aquaintences now, etc, etc.. but shit, everytime im surfing porn and come across a pic of a black dude doing a white(or asian, or latina for that matter) girl such as the pic Bastiano posted of that kim kardashshahasian girl getting drilled by the black dude, for some reason it DISGUSTS ME!!! it just seems so unnatural to me.

why does it spontaneously create this response in my brain? it seems like in my case it is an innate response rather than a learned/conditioned one. just as natural as flinching at a sudden loud noise for example.

surely im not the only one?
AHAHAHHAHA hold on brother, you're in for a Blutroll tongue lashing ::)
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: slaveboy1980 on November 03, 2007, 06:31:48 PM
ok i think racism as a concept is stupid since everyone can be judged on an individual basis...ive had no racism whatsoever in my upbringing, ive had friends of all ethnicities, hell ive got a few black aquaintences now, etc, etc.. but shit, everytime im surfing porn and come across a pic of a black dude doing a white(or asian, or latina for that matter) girl such as the pic Bastiano posted of that kim kardashshahasian girl getting drilled by the black dude, for some reason it DISGUSTS ME!!! it just seems so unnatural to me.

why does it spontaneously create this response in my brain? it seems like in my case it is an innate response rather than a learned/conditioned one. just as natural as flinching at a sudden loud noise for example.

surely im not the only one?

if you feel like that be honest, dont try to hide it.

let the rage out.

personally i love to watch when white chicks get degraded.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: koho on November 03, 2007, 06:32:38 PM
ok i think racism as a concept is stupid since everyone can be judged on an individual basis...ive had no racism whatsoever in my upbringing, ive had friends of all ethnicities, hell ive got a few black aquaintences now, etc, etc.. but shit, everytime im surfing porn and come across a pic of a black dude doing a white(or asian, or latina for that matter) girl such as the pic Bastiano posted of that kim kardashshahasian girl getting drilled by the black dude, for some reason it DISGUSTS ME!!! it just seems so unnatural to me.

why does it spontaneously create this response in my brain? it seems like in my case it is an innate response rather than a learned/conditioned one. just as natural as flinching at a sudden loud noise for example.

surely im not the only one?

Penis evny  ;)
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: slaveboy1980 on November 03, 2007, 06:33:46 PM
Does it turn you on though? 

im sure it does, although he dont want to admit it.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: slaveboy1980 on November 03, 2007, 06:34:49 PM
ur not the only one everyone feels that way but everyone is going to be politically correct.

ITS LOOKS FUNNY. CASE CLOSED.

Im not saying people shouldnt be together, but lets face it sometimes things DONT MATCH APPEARENCE WISE!

yes, stick to monkeys moverullah.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: koho on November 03, 2007, 06:36:12 PM
ur not the only one everyone feels that way but everyone is going to be politically correct.

ITS LOOKS FUNNY. CASE CLOSED.

Im not saying people shouldnt be together, but lets face it sometimes things DONT MATCH APPEARENCE WISE!

???....it looks funny..lololol..this is a funny thready....I've dated black girls before and I thought it looked just fine when I was railing them!! lolol
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: slaveboy1980 on November 03, 2007, 06:37:02 PM
maybe matrix is telling us he wants to fuck a black girl.

to make it even?

ying and yang shit.

fire and water

darkness and light

hand in hand thru time.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: koho on November 03, 2007, 06:39:58 PM
maybe matrix is telling us he wants to fuck a black girl.

to make it even?

ying and yang shit.

fire and water

darkness and light

hand in hand thru time.

True...or maybe when he sees that he pictures himself as the girl and is having trouble facing the truth....
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Parker on November 03, 2007, 06:41:06 PM
ok i think racism as a concept is stupid since everyone can be judged on an individual basis...ive had no racism whatsoever in my upbringing, ive had friends of all ethnicities, hell ive got a few black aquaintences now, etc, etc.. but shit, everytime im surfing porn and come across a pic of a black dude doing a white(or asian, or latina for that matter) girl such as the pic Bastiano posted of that kim kardashshahasian girl getting drilled by the black dude, for some reason it DISGUSTS ME!!! it just seems so unnatural to me.

why does it spontaneously create this response in my brain? it seems like in my case it is an innate response rather than a learned/conditioned one. just as natural as flinching at a sudden loud noise for example.

surely im not the only one?

So , what do think about when white guys are having sex with black, latina or Asian women?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: slaveboy1980 on November 03, 2007, 06:41:33 PM
True...or maybe when he sees that he pictures himself as the girl and is having trouble facing the truth....

or he wants to pimp his gf to black dudes?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: NarcissisticDeity on November 03, 2007, 06:42:27 PM
ok i think racism as a concept is stupid since everyone can be judged on an individual basis...ive had no racism whatsoever in my upbringing, ive had friends of all ethnicities, hell ive got a few black aquaintences now, etc, etc.. but shit, everytime im surfing porn and come across a pic of a black dude doing a white(or asian, or latina for that matter) girl such as the pic Bastiano posted of that kim kardashshahasian girl getting drilled by the black dude, for some reason it DISGUSTS ME!!! it just seems so unnatural to me.

why does it spontaneously create this response in my brain? it seems like in my case it is an innate response rather than a learned/conditioned one. just as natural as flinching at a sudden loud noise for example.

surely im not the only one?

I doesn't bother me to watch black guys bang white chicks I can watch it and whenever I am looking at various porn clips I watch them as well as others it doesn't bother me and never has.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Parker on November 03, 2007, 06:43:44 PM
???....it looks funny..lololol..this is a funny thready....I've dated black girls before and I thought it looked just fine when I was railing them!! lolol

Yep, of course it did, because black women and white men having "relations", is a lot more acceptable, because white men have been doing it for soo long.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: spinnis on November 03, 2007, 06:44:30 PM
Ghetto gagger is the best porn ever :) (if the dude is white)
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: slaveboy1980 on November 03, 2007, 06:46:18 PM
Ghetto gagger is the best porn ever :) (if the dude is white)

GGG, gaggingwhores etc is good too  ;)
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 03, 2007, 06:57:53 PM


Im not saying people shouldnt be together, but lets face it sometimes things DONT MATCH APPEARENCE WISE!

says the guy who's married to grandma. ::)


and matrix, yes you are racist.  but one would expect no less from someone who lives where you do.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: chaos on November 03, 2007, 07:07:57 PM
says the guy who's married to grandma. ::)


Is this his grandma??
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: chaos on November 03, 2007, 07:13:41 PM
my " grandma" would have u drooling if she walked by you on the street  :-*
Does she carry swastika cookies in her pockets?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on November 03, 2007, 07:14:16 PM
1. mcfarland, no it absolutely does not turn me on.

2.parker, white dude with black girl is just as strange

3. yes aljewbra, every resident of texas is a racist ::)
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Cap on November 03, 2007, 07:16:02 PM
says the guy who's married to grandma. ::)


and matrix, yes you are racist.  but one would expect no less from someone who lives where you do.
The problem is that people on think this if it is dealing with black and white relations.  If you said the same about white and arab, asian, hispanic, etc then nobody would call you on it.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 03, 2007, 07:17:00 PM
matrix, you dumb fuck, i don't think every resident of texas is racist. 

just where do you think i live? if i hopped on 35, i'd show up at your doorstep a lot faster than you'd like . . .
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 03, 2007, 07:18:36 PM
The problem is that people on think this if it is dealing with black and white relations.  If you said the same about white and arab, asian, hispanic, etc then nobody would call you on it.

wtf are you talking about? if you discriminate against someone based on their heritage, you're racist . . . have the balls to own it if you are.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: EL Mariachi on November 03, 2007, 07:20:38 PM
Fuck, its not just you, its with everybody. I remember when i dated a black chick, all black people on the street were giving me bad looks, like ive been fucking their sister type of look.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on November 03, 2007, 07:20:58 PM
matrix, you dumb fuck, i don't think every resident of texas is racist. 

just where do you think i live? if i hopped on 35, i'd show up at your doorstep a lot faster than you'd like . . .
i have no idea where you live.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: webcake on November 03, 2007, 07:23:53 PM
No it doesn't make you racist. I too am not a racist, yet find this situation odd at times. Yet i guess the women in the porn knew that they would be degraded anyway, so it doesn't matter.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Cap on November 03, 2007, 07:25:39 PM
wtf are you talking about? if you discriminate against someone based on their heritage, you're racist . . . have the balls to own it if you are.
Then I guess a majority of the black community are racist because of their views on the white community.  I guess the same would apply to those of color that make derogatory remarks against hispanics, but nobody ever calls them out on it.  Remember, only whites can be racist.  ::)
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 03, 2007, 07:26:11 PM
i have no idea where you live.

don't be coy. you thought (until two minutes ago) that i lived in phoenix.

but don't worry, I'm a little more than an hour away from you right now.  so I know texas residents (and those who live in the hill country) a little better than you think i do . . .
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: JOHN MATRIX on November 03, 2007, 07:32:30 PM
oh yeah i forgot you are a suns fan.
why do you think i live in the hill country?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: chaos on November 03, 2007, 07:33:25 PM
No it doesn't make you racist. I too am not a racist, yet find this situation odd at times. Yet i guess the women in the porn knew that they would be degraded anyway, so it doesn't matter.
RACIST!!!!

If you claim to not be racist, why would a white chick having sex with a black man be "degrading" her?


Before you pop off at the mouth, I think it's wrong, and openly admit it, fuck off.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 03, 2007, 07:35:07 PM
oh yeah i forgot you are a suns fan.
why do you think i live in the hill country?

i'm not a suns fan . . .
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Tapeworm on November 03, 2007, 08:08:28 PM
So if the girl is lighter than the guy it's degrading?  Like a sweedish chick and an italian dude? 

I'm sure plenty of white guys here have degraded the hell out of a darker skinned woman.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Wanocki on November 03, 2007, 08:12:02 PM
maybe you think blacks aren't so good looking so it's one of those "what does she see in him" type of thing
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 03, 2007, 08:16:17 PM
afghani = terrorist scum is one that i've found helpful.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 03, 2007, 08:20:35 PM
::)

Congress approved an invasion of afghanistan for shits and giggles, i suppose?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 03, 2007, 08:21:57 PM
who cares, you look like a goddam terrorist sympathizer. how much money have you sent to the taliban this month?  
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 03, 2007, 08:23:49 PM
hey, you're the guy w the wisdom on stereotypes . . . goddam terrorist/taliban supporter.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: youandme on November 03, 2007, 08:28:22 PM
anyone ever notice anytime a black dude is in porn he talks the whole fucking time?

"yea boo spread dem pussy lips"
"get mad on it, boo get mad on it"
"spit of dat dick dog spit on dat dick"

Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: G o a t b o y on November 03, 2007, 08:30:04 PM
I'm not racist....  I hate everybody equally.  >:(
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: youandme on November 03, 2007, 08:30:43 PM
same with asian chicks,  damn they are into some weird shit.

"yea mee wove it when you swap me and shyte on mee"
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: youandme on November 03, 2007, 08:33:24 PM
are you trying to say if muvirse was in porn he would wear a durka, sandals, and possibly put a condom over his tongue?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 03, 2007, 08:37:38 PM
are you trying to say if muvirse was in porn he would wear a durka, sandals, and possibly put a condom over his tongue?

he would also try to blow up the set (probably fail, you know how technologically inept these afghanis are),, and then send his earnings to support the taliban.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Hypo on November 03, 2007, 08:38:35 PM
I don't mind seeing black on white. But when the whore talks shit about how much better black guys are to perpetuate a bullshit stereotype (and they say it just for that purpose), it tends to degrade the bitch even more than the slut that she is.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 03, 2007, 08:39:56 PM
I don't mind seeing black on white. But when the whore talks shit about how much better black guys are to perpetuate a bullshit stereotype (and they say it just for that purpose), it tends to degrade the bitch even more than the slut that she is.

our terrorist friend thinks that stereotypes are based on truth . . . what do you say to that?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: BFP on November 03, 2007, 08:43:41 PM
Link to pic?? ;D ;D

Jason
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: suckmymuscle on November 03, 2007, 08:46:53 PM
  90% of white pople who claim that it wouldn't bother them if their son or daughter married a black person are lying. There are the really liberal types who genuinelly wouldn't matter, but most people would. This is also true for Black, Asians, Latinos, etc: they all want their children to marry inside their own race.

  A natural degree of racism is innate to Humans. Blacks, however, are regarded by people of all other races as inadequate spouses for their children because they are at the bottom of the social ladder. For instance, most Asians and Whites are far more accepting of their children marrying each other's races than with Blacks.

SUCKMYMUSCLE
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Hypo on November 03, 2007, 08:47:07 PM
Stereotypes are generalisations. Of course there are exceptions...like saying all Asian drivers are shit. Very loose truths.

In porn, that's all they use. The exceptions to perpetuate the stereotype.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: youandme on November 03, 2007, 09:18:13 PM
Stereotypes are generalisations. Of course there are exceptions...like saying all Asian drivers are shit. Very loose truths.

In porn, that's all they use. The exceptions to perpetuate the stereotype.

haha damn a few blocks away we have a asian grocery store, no one drives near it if they value their car.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Condor on November 03, 2007, 09:44:10 PM
Stereotypes are generalisations. Of course there are exceptions...like saying all Asian drivers are shit. Very loose truths.

In porn, that's all they use. The exceptions to perpetuate the stereotype.

Explain to me please how it can be that stereotypes often prove themselves to be true? 

Is it simply chance that a Native American turns to the bottle or hates the white man?  Why don't you visit Minnesota and find out for yourself.

And wow, to use porn, what a truly scholarly example to prove your point.  I think you should be more worried about what garbage pail kids you'll be trading in class on Monday.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: youandme on November 03, 2007, 10:36:48 PM
Explain to me please how it can be that stereotypes often prove themselves to be true? 

Is it simply chance that a Native American turns to the bottle or hates the white man?  Why don't you visit Minnesota and find out for yourself.

And wow, to use porn, what a truly scholarly example to prove your point.  I think you should be more worried about what garbage pail kids you'll be trading in class on Monday.

bro he was just fucin around, it's more of correlations that any thing anyways.

Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: haider on November 03, 2007, 10:43:25 PM
do any of them drive taxis cuz it seems that almost every pathan I meet overseas is in the transportation business  ???
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: youandme on November 03, 2007, 10:47:20 PM
do you cousins shave?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: haider on November 03, 2007, 11:12:38 PM
I don't think thats really a stereotype as we tend to think of as stereotypes.

I think stereotypes touch on attributes largely considered to be innate, like character, habits, etc... For example, abc's are lazy, xyz's have short tempers, klm's are not trustworhty..

And no, they are not really based on truths  ::) But largely perceptions that are a byproduct of simple patternized thinking, only appearing to simpleton's as truths/facts.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Hypo on November 03, 2007, 11:17:40 PM
I don't think thats really a stereotype as we tend to think of as stereotypes.

I think stereotypes touch on attributes largely considered to be innate, like character, habits, etc... For example, abc's are lazy, xyz's have short tempers, klm's are not trustworhty..

And no, they are not really based on truths  ::) But largely perceptions that are a byproduct of simple patternized thinking, only appearing to simpleton's as truths/facts.

Winner
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Don Miracle on November 03, 2007, 11:20:31 PM
I don't think thats really a stereotype as we tend to think of as stereotypes.

whatever you say, bin laden
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Tre on November 04, 2007, 06:35:21 AM
ok i think racism as a concept is stupid since everyone can be judged on an individual basis...ive had no racism whatsoever in my upbringing, ive had friends of all ethnicities, hell ive got a few black aquaintences now, etc, etc.. but shit, everytime im surfing porn and come across a pic of a black dude doing a white(or asian, or latina for that matter) girl such as the pic Bastiano posted of that kim kardashshahasian girl getting drilled by the black dude, for some reason it DISGUSTS ME!!! it just seems so unnatural to me.

why does it spontaneously create this response in my brain? it seems like in my case it is an innate response rather than a learned/conditioned one. just as natural as flinching at a sudden loud noise for example.

surely im not the only one?

No, you're not the only one and no, that reaction to interracial porn is *not* what makes you racist. 

Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: dr.chimps on November 04, 2007, 06:57:10 AM
ok i think racism as a concept is stupid since everyone can be judged on an individual basis...ive had no racism whatsoever in my upbringing, ive had friends of all ethnicities, hell ive got a few black aquaintences now, etc, etc.. but shit, everytime im surfing porn and come across a pic of a black dude doing a white(or asian, or latina for that matter) girl such as the pic Bastiano posted of that kim kardashshahasian girl getting drilled by the black dude, for some reason it DISGUSTS ME!!! it just seems so unnatural to me.

why does it spontaneously create this response in my brain? it seems like in my case it is an innate response rather than a learned/conditioned one. just as natural as flinching at a sudden loud noise for example.

surely im not the only one?
It is obviously not unnatural, but it is seen, and has been seen, as a/the racial transgression -ie. the blonde plantation owner's daughter being taken by the field buck. It signifies both a lack of control/surrender for the white and a dominance/reassertion of the black. I suppose when it is no longer seen as such, America will have finally gained some sort of racial reconciliation. That said, huge market out there for it, so I figure all the Strom Thurmonds who publically rail against it can privately get off on it. :-\
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Deadpool on November 04, 2007, 07:00:24 AM
Never understood the appeal of black/white as being taboo

just not my thing I guess
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 04, 2007, 07:16:24 AM

haha . . . another getbig classic.

Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Cap on November 04, 2007, 07:25:52 AM
  90% of white pople who claim that it wouldn't bother them if their son or daughter married a black person are lying. There are the really liberal types who genuinelly wouldn't matter, but most people would. This is also true for Black, Asians, Latinos, etc: they all want their children to marry inside their own race.

  A natural degree of racism is innate to Humans. Blacks, however, are regarded by people of all other races as inadequate spouses for their children because they are at the bottom of the social ladder. For instance, most Asians and Whites are far more accepting of their children marrying each other's races than with Blacks.

SUCKMYMUSCLE
This is entirely true, and really includes the black community as well.  Many black people I know have parents who have said they don't want their kid dating or marrying white.  It's a taboo thing in every group. 

As far as stereotypes, they exist for a reason.  They exist because they do describe a large population of a group; sad but true.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Parker on November 04, 2007, 07:41:22 AM
  90% of white pople who claim that it wouldn't bother them if their son or daughter married a black person are lying. There are the really liberal types who genuinelly wouldn't matter, but most people would. This is also true for Black, Asians, Latinos, etc: they all want their children to marry inside their own race.

  A natural degree of racism is innate to Humans. Blacks, however, are regarded by people of all other races as inadequate spouses for their children because they are at the bottom of the social ladder. For instance, most Asians and Whites are far more accepting of their children marrying each other's races than with Blacks.

SUCKMYMUSCLE

You are quite wrong about that. look, most blacks are mixed anyway. And a lot are lighted skinned, now many black mothers might take it as a slap in the face that a black woman is not as good as white woman (especially, if he says, "he reminds me of you"). But the majority of black/white relationships are excepted in the black family, because, the kids will be black.  i have have several in my family, and have been around many.

Now, black women CAN NOT STAND it, when they see black men and white women together, you'd think that they would join the KKK, after seeing that. 
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Parker on November 04, 2007, 07:43:22 AM
Then I guess a majority of the black community are racist because of their views on the white community.  I guess the same would apply to those of color that make derogatory remarks against hispanics, but nobody ever calls them out on it.  Remember, only whites can be racist.  ::)

Give examples, I have never heard this (against hispanics). Since I work in a county (the richest in the nation), and we have many latinos asking for black officers that speak spanish.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Deadpool on November 04, 2007, 07:44:12 AM
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMM :D

 :D
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Cap on November 04, 2007, 07:49:17 AM
Give examples, I have never heard this (against hispanics). Since I work in a county (the richest in the nation), and we have many latinos asking for black officers that speak spanish.
Examples of what?  Blacks making negative remarks about hispanics having too many kids, only speaking spanish, sneaking across the border, driving like they have no insurance.  Yes, I have heard them all.  I've also heard affluent blacks and those in a good position in life talking about how whites are out to get them and how they are a problem.  After Imus' comments, that's all I heard.  I didn't hear any WOMEN taking offense (which is one of the main parts of his comment) but mainly black men.  Funny how that works. 
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Parker on November 04, 2007, 08:05:02 AM
Examples of what?  Blacks making negative remarks about hispanics having too many kids, only speaking spanish, sneaking across the border, driving like they have no insurance.  Yes, I have heard them all.  I've also heard affluent blacks and those in a good position in life talking about how whites are out to get them and how they are a problem.  After Imus' comments, that's all I heard.  I didn't hear any WOMEN taking offense (which is one of the main parts of his comment) but mainly black men.  Funny how that works. 

Hell, what you've said, the Legal Latinos say the same thing if not worse. And if you work where I work (if you have a magistrate system in your state I work for MD's equivalent) , you see the exact same thing. Lying to you that they don't speak English, been here for 3 yrs and NOT know their address, have 3-5 different names, and yes, driving w/o license and/or insurance and it drives legal Latinos
 crazy. And they expect YOU to know spanish or write it. Not the other way around. Koreans, Russians, Chinese, Africans, Arabs, if they do not understand, they usually have an interpreter  (this is when I am dealing with the public) .

About, Imus, in hip-hop, have you ever noticed, that they might say "ho" or "bitch", but they don't specify "black ho" or "white ho", but yes the women in their videos are black.


There were many black women who were very vocal, more vocal than the men. It was the glory hound Al Sharpton that made it a bigger issue.

Kinda funny how back in the 70's, that the Rolling Stones had a line in a song that said, "Black girls got no jam" or something like that...but blacks, went on dancing to the music...
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Cap on November 04, 2007, 08:16:43 AM
Watch "Beyond Beats and Rhymes".  (I had to for class)  In it they bring up "ho" and "bitch" when a group of young black men are talking about scantily clad women at some black gathering in the South and they pointed out these black women, called them over and talked to them women.  They said that they didn't take offense to them calling women bitches and hoes because they know the rappers weren't talking about them.  The documentary creator then said "if George Bush got on tv and said n iggers, I don't think too many black people would say 'I don't know who he's talking about.  He's not talking about me.' "  I found that interesting and funny.  I think black women accept the language because (like in other issues involving black men under scrutiny , ie domestic violence) they don't want to fuel negative views of black men.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Parker on November 04, 2007, 08:22:45 AM
Fuck, its not just you, its with everybody. I remember when i dated a black chick, all black people on the street were giving me bad looks, like ive been fucking their sister type of look.

I would have been looking at the girl first, now if you were a ugly dude (black women tend to go out with ugly  or dorky looking white guys, for what reason I don't know), I would be looking at you with a confused look.

But, As I said CAP, black mothers, don't like it when their sons date white women. Black fathers not as much, many don't like the "thug" looking black dudes (even though many are cool), they think that white dudes will treat their daughters better :-\
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Cap on November 04, 2007, 08:31:03 AM
I would have been looking at the girl first, now if you were a ugly dude (black women tend to go out with ugly  or dorky looking white guys, for what reason I don't know), I would be looking at you with a confused look.

But, As I said CAP, black mothers, don't like it when their sons date white women. Black fathers not as much, many don't like the "thug" looking black dudes (even though many are cool), they think that white dudes will treat their daughters better :-\
I'd say your comment is accurate from what I've seen but then again I've known only black dudes so I really couldn't speak first hand for the other scenario.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Parker on November 04, 2007, 08:45:45 AM
Watch "Beyond Beats and Rhymes".  (I had to for class)  In it they bring up "ho" and "bitch" when a group of young black men are talking about scantily clad women at some black gathering in the South and they pointed out these black women, called them over and talked to them women.  They said that they didn't take offense to them calling women bitches and hoes because they know the rappers weren't talking about them.  The documentary creator then said "if George Bush got on tv and said n iggers, I don't think too many black people would say 'I don't know who he's talking about.  He's not talking about me.' "  I found that interesting and funny.  I think black women accept the language because (like in other issues involving black men under scrutiny , ie domestic violence) they don't want to fuel negative views of black men.

I agree and yes I 've seen that.  Because of hip-hop, the word "ho" and "bitch" as become synonomous  with the word "woman" or "girl". Like, "that's my Bitch, and what n gga!!"  Jaheim the singer has a song, "Me and my Bitch", the song would be good, if it were not for that word.

I said to a group of people one time, "Back in the 70's, we called each other "sista" and "brotha", now we call each other "ho" and N igga", have we really progressed?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Tre on November 04, 2007, 12:00:59 PM
You are quite wrong about that. look, most blacks are mixed anyway. And a lot are lighted skinned, now many black mothers might take it as a slap in the face that a black woman is not as good as white woman (especially, if he says, "he reminds me of you"). But the majority of black/white relationships are excepted in the black family, because, the kids will be black.  i have have several in my family, and have been around many.

Now, black women CAN NOT STAND it, when they see black men and white women together, you'd think that they would join the KKK, after seeing that. 

100% correct. 

Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: chaos on November 04, 2007, 12:06:07 PM

I said to a group of people one time, "Back in the 70's, we called each other "sista" and "brotha", now we call each other "ho" and N igga", have we really progressed?
And what kind of reaction did you get?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Stark on November 04, 2007, 02:48:25 PM
Is this his grandma??

hahaha that is awesome
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: dr.chimps on November 04, 2007, 03:24:21 PM
I agree and yes I 've seen that.  Because of hip-hop, the word "ho" and "bitch" as become synonomous  with the word "woman" or "girl". Like, "that's my Bitch, and what n gga!!"  Jaheim the singer has a song, "Me and my Bitch", the song would be good, if it were not for that word.

I said to a group of people one time, "Back in the 70's, we called each other "sista" and "brotha", now we call each other "ho" and N igga", have we really progressed?
Yeah, good point. I have Marvin Gaye's 'What's going on' on my mp3 rotation, and you remember what happened to him?  :'( 
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Camel Jockey on November 04, 2007, 04:15:25 PM
I feel similar..

I mean it seems akward for me to approach certain people, like black women and freckled white women.. Not saying that I'm racist, but they seem akward and at times repulsive.

I don't care about what others do though. Black on white doesn't do anything to me, and neither would a black guy with a hot woman of my demographic. It doesn't bother me.

I mean, I feel more in comfort when speaking to white chicks with black hair/dark brown hair, or my own chicks and latinas. Asian women = fetish thing that turns on and off. But to be honest, they seem unusual to me when I'm not horny.

am I a racist?
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: dorkeroo on November 04, 2007, 05:49:25 PM
Relationship dynamics between two people are determined ONLY by those two people. If one or both people in the relationship decide that popular culture stereotypes and familial pressures are going to dictate the direction of said relationship, they deserve whatever shit comes their way.

As for black on white or vice versa, there are plenty of rotten white people and plenty or rotten black people. If you are smart you date someone that you can trust, is intelligent, good to you, cares about you and is physically attractive to you. Anything beyond this really is nothing more than details I don't think. My biggest problem in relationships is never really being sure what the darn woman wants from me. For some reason I think I am speaking English, however, I am shown more often than I would like, that to them I am not. The stupid head games you can get caught up in should be far more disturbing than melanocyte activity levels.

However, porn is ALWAYS a good thing. :P
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Parker on November 04, 2007, 09:30:38 PM
And what kind of reaction did you get?

Head noddin', cause they knew I was right...

I ain't  scared speak what i beleive, and if there was person who wanted to test, they didn't ...


How about Asian Male/ black woman....I was watching this youtube.com comp about that, kinda madfe me think. I 've only seen two Asian male/black women relationships. Most black women I know wouldn't date a Asian man back in the day, but now they are so hard up for a man, that anything will do.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Al-Gebra on November 04, 2007, 09:38:04 PM
Head noddin', cause they knew I was right...

I ain't  scared speak what i beleive, and if there was person who wanted to test, they didn't ...


How about Asian Male/ black woman....I was watching this youtube.com comp about that, kinda madfe me think. I 've only seen two Asian male/black women relationships. Most black women I know wouldn't date a Asian man back in the day, but now they are so hard up for a man, that anything will do.

i know a hot black chick who's w a dark-skinned indian dude. she might be taller than him too.  they have kids and all.
Title: Re: does this make me racist?
Post by: Parker on November 05, 2007, 04:58:04 AM
i know a hot black chick who's w a dark-skinned indian dude. she might be taller than him too.  they have kids and all.

Is he darker than her, or is she light skinned.