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Title: its your baby
Post by: big L dawg on August 25, 2008, 03:04:09 PM
how many girls have or know someone who told there man that.when it might not have been his kid
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Laura Lee on August 26, 2008, 07:56:58 AM
how many girls have or know someone who told there man that.when it might not have been his kid
You are watching too much Maury, lol.   ;D
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: big L dawg on August 26, 2008, 11:40:44 AM
You are watching too much Maury, lol.   ;D

haha maybe so.but i kinda got the idiea from another thread,"whats the worst form of cheating".I know men can have a bad rep cheating but......there are plenty women who cheat to.and some end up prego and would rather live a lie than admite wronge doing.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Deicide on August 26, 2008, 12:37:20 PM
haha maybe so.but i kinda got the idiea from another thread,"whats the worst form of cheating".I know men can have a bad rep cheating but......there are plenty women who cheat to.and some end up prego and would rather live a lie than admite wronge doing.

110% right.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Andy Griffin on August 26, 2008, 03:28:24 PM
how many girls have or know someone who told there man that.when it might not have been his kid

My worst moment...  Andy Griffin, in the case of fifty-three year old Opie, you are NOT the father!!  Turns out he was Floyd's kid all along.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Butterbean on August 27, 2008, 06:48:02 AM
how many girls have or know someone who told there man that.when it might not have been his kid
I know someone who once told me she wasn't sure if her first born was her husband's son.  Not sure if she ever told her husband that though :-\
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Hereford on August 27, 2008, 08:56:00 AM
I know someone who once told me she wasn't sure if her first born was her husband's son.  Not sure if she ever told her husband that though :-\

So send an anonomous letter telling the guy to go get one of those DNA tests done.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Butterbean on August 27, 2008, 09:28:13 AM
So send an anonomous letter telling the guy to go get one of those DNA tests done.
No way!!
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Hereford on August 27, 2008, 09:55:59 AM
And why, pray tell, would you not do this?

Does the man not deserve to know the truth?
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Butterbean on August 27, 2008, 10:02:26 AM
And why, pray tell, would you not do this?

Does the man not deserve to know the truth?
His wife should be the one to tell him.  I'm not close to this couple....and definitely have never considered "him" as a friend....ever.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Deicide on August 27, 2008, 12:36:32 PM
His wife should be the one to tell him.  I'm not close to this couple....and definitely have never considered "him" as a friend....ever.

So you let him live in his delusion..?
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Faust on August 27, 2008, 01:12:32 PM
I read that it's something like 10%.
Seems kinda high, but you never know...


Men have the reputation of being cheaters, but in reality women cheat almost as much.
They just can hide it better.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Deicide on August 27, 2008, 01:17:57 PM
I read that it's something like 10%.
Seems kinda high, but you never know...


Men have the reputation of being cheaters, but in reality women cheat almost as much.
They just can hide it better.


This really needs to be brought to the public light.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Hereford on August 27, 2008, 01:54:32 PM
His wife should be the one to tell him.  I'm not close to this couple....and definitely have never considered "him" as a friend....ever.

What possible reason would his wife ever have to tell him?
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: tonymctones on August 27, 2008, 04:34:02 PM
I read that it's something like 10%.
Seems kinda high, but you never know...


Men have the reputation of being cheaters, but in reality women cheat almost as much.
They just can hide it better.
actually probably higher if its self reported which it probably is meaning that they asked the women the question and took her word for it. Surveys with self reports are generally lower than the actual number b/c many dont tell the truth.

Friend of mine dated a girl for probably 2 years decided to get married and soon after she got pregnant, about three months or so after the baby was born he found out that the kid wasnt his...the chick was cheating on him within about a month of marriage and this dude was not the run of the mill ass hole honestly he is one of the nicest and most honest guys around and treated her like a queen too...plain disgusting
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: big L dawg on August 27, 2008, 08:16:44 PM
someone that would let a man become emotionally attached to a kid that they know is not theres,as well as financially attached and let that lie go on threwout the child's life.....i put that same person in a category with rapist and child molesters.because in essence what does a rapist or molester do to someone...they scar them for life.well how would you feel if you raised someone 18 years to find out there not even yours....
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Cap on August 27, 2008, 08:23:17 PM
Is it wrong to want to DNA test all your kids at birth?  ;D

Can you do it without your wife knowing....?
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Hereford on August 27, 2008, 09:09:47 PM
Yes, you can.

I think they make home test kits now days.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: chaos on August 27, 2008, 09:24:37 PM
I work with a guy that found out his old lady had cheated on him, so he had a test done on the kid, it came back as someone elses........
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Hereford on August 27, 2008, 09:40:41 PM
I work with a guy that found out his old lady had cheated on him, so he had a test done on the kid, it came back as someone elses........

And what did he end up doing?

Be a pretty tough call for a lot of guys...   :-\
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: tonymctones on August 27, 2008, 10:03:06 PM
And what did he end up doing?

Be a pretty tough call for a lot of guys...   :-\
fuk, it shouldnt be that broad should be out on her ass any dude that cheated on a girl and got another girl prego wouldnt even get the statement out of his mouth before he was single. LOL well actually i know a girl and a guy who that happend to so...iono maybe
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Deicide on August 28, 2008, 01:15:54 AM
Notice how Stella has become omninously silent on the matter... :-X
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Deicide on August 28, 2008, 01:16:44 AM
actually probably higher if its self reported which it probably is meaning that they asked the women the question and took her word for it. Surveys with self reports are generally lower than the actual number b/c many dont tell the truth.

Friend of mine dated a girl for probably 2 years decided to get married and soon after she got pregnant, about three months or so after the baby was born he found out that the kid wasnt his...the chick was cheating on him within about a month of marriage and this dude was not the run of the mill ass hole honestly he is one of the nicest and most honest guys around and treated her like a queen too...plain disgusting

Women really do like assholes. This story is typical.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Deicide on August 28, 2008, 01:19:28 AM
And what did he end up doing?

Be a pretty tough call for a lot of guys...   :-\

I think I would tow the line; if it isn't my genetic material there is no reason to invest in it and in any event if the kid is upset then it can blame the mother who is entirely at fault anyway.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Butterbean on August 28, 2008, 06:35:34 AM
So you let him live in his delusion..?
When she told me she said she wasn't sure if he was his.

Maybe since then she has found out he is.  I don't know.

Yes I would think the man would deserve to know the truth.  Even this man.



Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Butterbean on August 28, 2008, 06:46:35 AM
What possible reason would his wife ever have to tell him?
Maybe if the kid had some health problems or something


Notice how Stella has become omninously silent on the matter... :-X
Dude, I'm on here a lot but I can't be on here 24/7 like some people.  Relax and give people a chance to respond w/o getting your undies in a bundle :)
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Deicide on August 28, 2008, 07:57:23 AM
Maybe if the kid had some health problems or something

Dude, I'm on here a lot but I can't be on here 24/7 like some people.  Relax and give people a chance to respond w/o getting your undies in a bundle :)

A not so subtle allusion...
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Butterbean on August 28, 2008, 07:58:26 AM
A not so subtle allusion...
lol!

- :( -

Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Hereford on August 28, 2008, 08:57:31 AM
Maybe if the kid had some health problems or something


Hahaha, I would tend to believe that it would be MOM that would have the health problems in this situation.....
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Cap on August 28, 2008, 10:11:52 AM
It would be priceless to see a guy walk out of the waiting or delivery room and leaving the cheating skank to raise the kid herself.  You might have to pay alimony but not child support...lol.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: tonymctones on August 28, 2008, 10:15:39 AM
It would be priceless to see a guy walk out of the waiting or delivery room and leaving the cheating skank to raise the kid herself.  You might have to pay alimony but not child support...lol.
you think even if she cheated on him, he would have to pay alimony?
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Cap on August 28, 2008, 10:21:26 AM
you think even if she cheated on him, he would have to pay alimony?
From what I hear, "no fault" divorce states have been known to do that.  I don't know what percentage of states do that but you do tend to get fucked by the long dick of the law if you are a man in divorce proceedings.

Me: "Your honor, you really want me to pay her to go sleep with another man some more?"

Judge: "Well, she has grown accustomed to you paying her Shell bill and you will do so until she gets remarried to the home wrecker.  Next case!"


 ;D
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: Laura Lee on August 28, 2008, 11:43:40 AM
There is so much "who's my baby's daddy" drama on daytime TV.  I truly think that a lot of it is staged to get themselves on TV (15 minutes of fame).  So much of it looks totally over acted.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: tonymctones on August 28, 2008, 11:52:50 AM
From what I hear, "no fault" divorce states have been known to do that.  I don't know what percentage of states do that but you do tend to get fucked by the long dick of the law if you are a man in divorce proceedings.

Me: "Your honor, you really want me to pay her to go sleep with another man some more?"

Judge: "Well, she has grown accustomed to you paying her Shell bill and you will do so until she gets remarried to the home wrecker.  Next case!"
 ;D
You see this is the reason ppl go postal on shit ;D
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: big L dawg on August 30, 2008, 02:18:57 PM
There is so much "who's my baby's daddy" drama on daytime TV.  I truly think that a lot of it is staged to get themselves on TV (15 minutes of fame).  So much of it looks totally over acted.
ree (on tv) but in real life there are probably twice as many cases of this happening that never come to light.
Title: Re: its your baby
Post by: chaos on September 01, 2008, 09:06:19 PM
And what did he end up doing?

Be a pretty tough call for a lot of guys...   :-\
He left her ass and moved to CA........