its your baby

[big L dawg]

how many girls have or know someone who told there man that.when it might not have been his kid

[Laura Lee]

how many girls have or know someone who told there man that.when it might not have been his kid

You are watching too much Maury, lol.   

[big L dawg]

You are watching too much Maury, lol.   

haha maybe so.but i kinda got the idiea from another thread,"whats the worst form of cheating".I know men can have a bad rep cheating but......there are plenty women who cheat to.and some end up prego and would rather live a lie than admite wronge doing.

[Deicide]

haha maybe so.but i kinda got the idiea from another thread,"whats the worst form of cheating".I know men can have a bad rep cheating but......there are plenty women who cheat to.and some end up prego and would rather live a lie than admite wronge doing.

110% right.

[Andy Griffin]

how many girls have or know someone who told there man that.when it might not have been his kid

My worst moment...  Andy Griffin, in the case of fifty-three year old Opie, you are NOT the father!!  Turns out he was Floyd's kid all along.

[Butterbean]

how many girls have or know someone who told there man that.when it might not have been his kid

I know someone who once told me she wasn't sure if her first born was her husband's son.  Not sure if she ever told her husband that though

[Hereford]

I know someone who once told me she wasn't sure if her first born was her husband's son.  Not sure if she ever told her husband that though

So send an anonomous letter telling the guy to go get one of those DNA tests done.

[Butterbean]

So send an anonomous letter telling the guy to go get one of those DNA tests done.

No way!!

[Hereford]

And why, pray tell, would you not do this?

Does the man not deserve to know the truth?

[Butterbean]

And why, pray tell, would you not do this?

Does the man not deserve to know the truth?

His wife should be the one to tell him.  I'm not close to this couple....and definitely have never considered "him" as a friend....ever.

[Deicide]

His wife should be the one to tell him.  I'm not close to this couple....and definitely have never considered "him" as a friend....ever.

So you let him live in his delusion..?

[Faust]

I read that it's something like 10%.
Seems kinda high, but you never know...


Men have the reputation of being cheaters, but in reality women cheat almost as much.
They just can hide it better.

[Deicide]

I read that it's something like 10%.
Seems kinda high, but you never know...


Men have the reputation of being cheaters, but in reality women cheat almost as much.
They just can hide it better.

This really needs to be brought to the public light.

[Hereford]

His wife should be the one to tell him.  I'm not close to this couple....and definitely have never considered "him" as a friend....ever.

What possible reason would his wife ever have to tell him?

[tonymctones]

I read that it's something like 10%.
Seems kinda high, but you never know...


Men have the reputation of being cheaters, but in reality women cheat almost as much.
They just can hide it better.

actually probably higher if its self reported which it probably is meaning that they asked the women the question and took her word for it. Surveys with self reports are generally lower than the actual number b/c many dont tell the truth.

Friend of mine dated a girl for probably 2 years decided to get married and soon after she got pregnant, about three months or so after the baby was born he found out that the kid wasnt his...the chick was cheating on him within about a month of marriage and this dude was not the run of the mill ass hole honestly he is one of the nicest and most honest guys around and treated her like a queen too...plain disgusting

[big L dawg]

someone that would let a man become emotionally attached to a kid that they know is not theres,as well as financially attached and let that lie go on threwout the child's life.....i put that same person in a category with rapist and child molesters.because in essence what does a rapist or molester do to someone...they scar them for life.well how would you feel if you raised someone 18 years to find out there not even yours....

[Cap]

Is it wrong to want to DNA test all your kids at birth? 

Can you do it without your wife knowing....?

[Hereford]

Yes, you can.

I think they make home test kits now days.

[chaos]

I work with a guy that found out his old lady had cheated on him, so he had a test done on the kid, it came back as someone elses........

[Hereford]

I work with a guy that found out his old lady had cheated on him, so he had a test done on the kid, it came back as someone elses........

And what did he end up doing?

Be a pretty tough call for a lot of guys...   

[tonymctones]

And what did he end up doing?

Be a pretty tough call for a lot of guys...   

fuk, it shouldnt be that broad should be out on her ass any dude that cheated on a girl and got another girl prego wouldnt even get the statement out of his mouth before he was single. LOL well actually i know a girl and a guy who that happend to so...iono maybe

[Deicide]

Notice how Stella has become omninously silent on the matter...

[Deicide]

actually probably higher if its self reported which it probably is meaning that they asked the women the question and took her word for it. Surveys with self reports are generally lower than the actual number b/c many dont tell the truth.

Friend of mine dated a girl for probably 2 years decided to get married and soon after she got pregnant, about three months or so after the baby was born he found out that the kid wasnt his...the chick was cheating on him within about a month of marriage and this dude was not the run of the mill ass hole honestly he is one of the nicest and most honest guys around and treated her like a queen too...plain disgusting

Women really do like assholes. This story is typical.

[Deicide]

And what did he end up doing?

Be a pretty tough call for a lot of guys...   

I think I would tow the line; if it isn't my genetic material there is no reason to invest in it and in any event if the kid is upset then it can blame the mother who is entirely at fault anyway.

[Butterbean]

So you let him live in his delusion..?

When she told me she said she wasn't sure if he was his.

Maybe since then she has found out he is.  I don't know.

Yes I would think the man would deserve to know the truth.  Even this man.