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Title: insecurity
Post by: bigmc on October 31, 2008, 02:15:18 PM
is posting a pic of your girl the ultimate statement in insecurity

the sickening whiff of "i am a stud"desperation as you seek

validation of your manliness on an anonymous internet board

are people that insecure  ???
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: johnnynoname on October 31, 2008, 02:16:23 PM
posting a pic of yourself (when nobody asks for it)> posting a pic of your girl
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: tbombz on October 31, 2008, 02:16:44 PM
if your girl is hot its highly unlikely you gonna be insecure
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: bigmc on October 31, 2008, 02:18:50 PM
if your girl is hot its highly unlikely you gonna be insecure

the guys with the hot girls are sometimes the most insecure

never quite sure if they are batting out their league
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: tbombz on October 31, 2008, 02:19:22 PM
the guys with the hot girls are sometimes the most insecure

never quite sure if they are batting out their league
i dont agree with that
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: avesher on October 31, 2008, 02:20:02 PM
posting a pic of yourself (when nobody asks for it)> posting a pic of your girl

strangely I 100% agree with you here
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: bigmc on October 31, 2008, 02:21:21 PM
i dont agree with that

no offence

but aren't you a fag
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: musclehedz on October 31, 2008, 02:22:44 PM
is posting a pic of your girl the ultimate statement in insecurity

the sickening whiff of "i am a stud"desperation as you seek

validation of your manliness on an anonymous internet board

are people that insecure  ???

Let's see your pic big guy.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: tbombz on October 31, 2008, 02:23:04 PM
no offence

but aren't you a fag
if by fag you mean homosexual, no, im not homosexual. i am bisexual. which means i get the best of both worlds..  ;)
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: johnnynoname on October 31, 2008, 02:23:29 PM
strangely I 100% agree with you here

it's called "the sevatese effect"

and we've all been exposed to it on this forum
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Jeffro on October 31, 2008, 02:24:55 PM
is posting a pic of your girl the ultimate statement in insecurity

the sickening whiff of "i am a stud"desperation as you seek

validation of your manliness on an anonymous internet board

are people that insecure  ???
Yes, "james001" is quite the insecure emo little queef.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: bigmc on October 31, 2008, 02:25:22 PM
Let's see your pic big guy.

i have posted pics on here but not of my wife

where are yours "stud"
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: The GodFather on October 31, 2008, 02:25:44 PM
This is a BB board most here spend 15 -20 hours a day some of these Fuks don't even work it's a feel good place for Nobodies just like the rest of us Nobodies who come here for the light relief.Look at the Falcon DaddyW vids that Fukka makes me laugh he is CRAZY Stoned Motha Fokka.It's all Fun until some Fat guy comes along. ;D
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Jeffro on October 31, 2008, 02:29:31 PM
This is a BB board most here spend 15 -20 hours a day some of these Fuks don't even work it's a feel good place for Nobodies just like the rest of us Nobodies who come here for the light relief.Look at the Falcon DaddyW vids that Fukka makes me laugh he is CRAZY Stoned Motha Fokka.It's all Fun until some Fat guy comes along. ;D
Mizzelt dizzown.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: The GodFather on October 31, 2008, 02:34:45 PM
Just come by here for some of you Funny Crunts. ;D
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: bigmc on October 31, 2008, 02:36:48 PM
Yes, "james001" is quite the insecure emo little queef.

you should post on the y board more jeffro

you got the touch
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Jeffro on October 31, 2008, 02:39:27 PM
you should post on the y board more jeffro

you got the touch
That's truly an honor coming from a legend such as yourself, bigmc.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: whateva on October 31, 2008, 02:40:38 PM
if by fag you mean homosexual, no, im not homosexual. i am bisexual. which means i get the best of both worlds..  ;)
How old were you when you started feeling attraction for the cock Candi  ?



Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: elite_lifter on October 31, 2008, 02:45:59 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Jeffro on October 31, 2008, 02:46:15 PM
How old were you when you started feeling attraction for the cock Candi  ?
Why he would take a cock in his anus over fucking a nice juicy snatch is beyond me.  ???  :-X
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cleanest Natural on October 31, 2008, 02:52:05 PM
 :-*
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on October 31, 2008, 03:18:19 PM
the guys with the hot girls are sometimes the most insecure

never quite sure if they are batting out their league

Or they know they are and paranoid that the girl is going to figure out she can do better and dump their ass.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: flagadajones on October 31, 2008, 03:44:56 PM
if by fag you mean homosexual, no, im not homosexual. i am bisexual. which means i get the best of both worlds..  ;)

ok, so it means you' re a fag.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: WillGrant on November 01, 2008, 01:25:47 AM
:-*
Is that your new lover Sebby?  ???
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: WillGrant on November 01, 2008, 01:26:44 AM
no offence

but aren't you a fag
LOL Bigmc lands a knockout with a truthfull blow.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Tapeworm on November 01, 2008, 01:41:07 AM
if by fag you mean homosexual, no, im not homosexual. i am bisexual. which means i get the best of both worlds..  ;)

Slut
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Tapeworm on November 01, 2008, 01:46:28 AM
 :-X 
Thanks for that.


No.  Honestly I think he's just fucking with us.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: w8m8 on November 01, 2008, 06:25:28 AM
Or they know they are and paranoid that the girl is going to figure out she can do better and dump their ass.

here's me thinking ... why get into any relationship if you are thinking you can do better ... or is the part where she "figures" it out afterwards and dumps their ass when the better comes along ?

all of it seems a bit immature IMHO  :-\
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: MAXX on November 01, 2008, 06:33:44 AM
:-*
(http://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=243705.0;attach=283932;image)
*after a hard day at work*






(i.e. trolling getbig/jerking it to gay porn 16 hours straight)
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: TrueGrit on November 01, 2008, 06:35:17 AM
Or they know they are and paranoid that the girl is going to figure out she can do better and dump their ass.

Is this going out to James001?
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 01, 2008, 04:00:39 PM
here's me thinking ... why get into any relationship if you are thinking you can do better ... or is the part where she "figures" it out afterwards and dumps their ass when the better comes along ?

all of it seems a bit immature IMHO  :-\

I was referring to the insecure person thinking that their significant other can do better than them.  I agree... getting into a relationship believing you can do better is ridiculous and immature (although I'm sure it happens all the time). 
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: tbombz on November 01, 2008, 04:06:21 PM
How old were you when you started feeling attraction for the cock Candi  ?




    :o  an angel  :o


i was messing around with boys when i was 5...
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 01, 2008, 04:29:40 PM
Is this going out to James001?

That goes out to no one imparticular.  More just a theory based on many experiences and observations.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: avesher on November 01, 2008, 04:33:06 PM
That goes out to no one imparticular.  More just a theory based on many experiences and observations.

couldn't find that word in any Webster's
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 01, 2008, 05:02:15 PM
couldn't find that word in any Webster's

typos are a real bitch.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: avesher on November 01, 2008, 05:32:15 PM
I'm a  real bitch.

typo fixed
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: chaos on November 01, 2008, 05:41:41 PM
typo fixed
LOL
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 01, 2008, 08:14:08 PM
typo fixed

good one. 
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: chaos on November 01, 2008, 08:16:33 PM
Or they know they are and paranoid that the girl is going to figure out she can do better and dump their ass.
So when you dumped james001 did he go on a 4 day tweak bender and stalk you endlessly?

How far away does the restraining order say he has to stay, 100feet or 100 yards?
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cap on November 02, 2008, 03:07:01 PM
Or they know they are and paranoid that the girl is going to figure out she can do better and dump their ass.
This is where the controlling nature comes in.  You always see busted dudes break down their hot gfs and make them think they can't do better.  I saw it a lot in college.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 02, 2008, 04:15:46 PM
This is where the controlling nature comes in.  You always see busted dudes break down their hot gfs and make them think they can't do better.  I saw it a lot in college.

I still see it a lot. 
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 02, 2008, 04:17:30 PM
So when you dumped james001 did he go on a 4 day tweak bender and stalk you endlessly?

How far away does the restraining order say he has to stay, 100feet or 100 yards?

So far, no restraining orders have been necessary, lol.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cap on November 02, 2008, 05:28:44 PM
I still see it a lot. 
Yeah, I had a few friends who were gorgeous and you wonder about the connection and most seemed trapped.  Unfortunate.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: chaos on November 02, 2008, 05:33:25 PM
Sounds to me we may have an internet love connection going on here!

Damn Cap even scores over the internet!!! :o
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 02, 2008, 06:12:26 PM
Yeah, I had a few friends who were gorgeous and you wonder about the connection and most seemed trapped.  Unfortunate.

Some guys know how to make a girl feel less than she is. 
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Tapeworm on November 02, 2008, 06:25:40 PM
Some guys know how to make a girl feel less than she is. 

Take it easy "O."  Maybe they're just getting what they need.

 ;D
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 02, 2008, 06:48:05 PM
Take it easy "O."  Maybe they're just getting what they need.

 ;D

And what would that be?
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Tapeworm on November 02, 2008, 06:57:45 PM
You never read The Story of O?

Actually, I'm being semi serious.  A lot of people get off on ego deflation and some take it too far, let it guide them into toxic relationships, etc.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 02, 2008, 07:32:07 PM
You never read The Story of O?

Actually, I'm being semi serious.  A lot of people get off on ego deflation and some take it too far, let it guide them into toxic relationships, etc.

No, that wasn't on the required reading list when I was in school  lol.  I do know of it, just haven't read it. 

Being in a dominant/submissive relationship is slightly different.  There are two willing people agreeing, on some level, to pre-determined roles.  In this case, I'd bet that both have significant insecurities that are being catered to in some way by these roles.  It may not be healthy, but a situation like that could actually work. 

An overblown ego is also a sign of insecurity.  Those who excessively talk themselves up are usually the most insecure of all.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: BlueDevil on November 03, 2008, 07:23:11 AM
you've come to the right board to talk about your feelings and emotions

welcome !
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Tapeworm on November 03, 2008, 07:34:06 AM
No, that wasn't on the required reading list when I was in school  lol.  I do know of it, just haven't read it. 

Being in a dominant/submissive relationship is slightly different.  There are two willing people agreeing, on some level, to pre-determined roles.  In this case, I'd bet that both have significant insecurities that are being catered to in some way by these roles.  It may not be healthy, but a situation like that could actually work. 

An overblown ego is also a sign of insecurity.  Those who excessively talk themselves up are usually the most insecure of all.

Gee, I didn't realize you were so knowledgeable about that stuff.  You sound like quite an expert.  ;)
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 03, 2008, 05:13:47 PM
Gee, I didn't realize you were so knowledgeable about that stuff.  You sound like quite an expert.  ;)

 ::)  lol
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Tapeworm on November 03, 2008, 05:50:44 PM
::)  lol

Glad to hear it, Sara.

We protect our members here on Getbig.  We don't want to see you get trapped in a situation where you're just getting used.  No one wants that for you. 

Some of those poor girls get fooled into thinking they're enjoying themselves, but really they're not.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 03, 2008, 06:32:44 PM
Glad to hear it, Sara.

We protect our members here on Getbig.  We don't want to see you get trapped in a situation where you're just getting used.  No one wants that for you. 

Some of those poor girls get fooled into thinking they're enjoying themselves, but really they're not.

I wasn't just referring to my past mistakes.  Although I've made a few, lol.   

It's a mistake many of us make.  Looking to someone else to make you feel happy and loved will inevitably lead to misery because no other person can do that except for you.  I no longer get involved with people for any other reason except that I see beauty in them, and want to be a part of it. 
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: TrueGrit on November 04, 2008, 03:28:35 AM
  Looking to someone else to make you feel happy and loved will inevitably lead to misery because no other person can do that except for you.

 I don't agree with this. I do think you can find someone who makes you feel all those things. Being loved and in love is about the most inflamed one can be, emotionally. The problem is always , for me at least, keeping it alive. Sadly, people are less wonderful after a year or two.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Tapeworm on November 04, 2008, 04:09:05 AM
I can't say for sure, but I think Sara has had good luck keeping things interesting with the leather restraints she has hidden in the darkest corner of her closet, but it seems like she'd rather talk about "feelings" instead.




Kidding!  I'm kidding! Feelings are...ya know... good, 'n stuff... important.

Oi gevalt!
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: w8m8 on November 04, 2008, 06:24:27 AM
An overblown ego is also a sign of insecurity.  Those who excessively talk themselves up are usually the most insecure of all.

what distinguishes between an overblown ego .. vs .. true self worth and confidence ?

Looking to someone else to make you feel happy and loved will inevitably lead to misery because no other person can do that except for you.

If you love yourself and are happy .. it only makes life more incredible to include someone into your life that makes you happy and makes you feel loved ... misery comes from not being genuine and honest .. lots of people "think" it's more than it is when they hook up .. then when the going gets a little rocky ..they cut and run

I see girls "advertising" themselves .. so what kind of men will they get ? better question is what kind of man do they want ?

shallow ..and maybe even someone else's .. but not one that is interested in them for more than the initial hormonal attraction

Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: chaos on November 04, 2008, 06:37:08 PM
what distinguishes between an overblown ego .. vs .. true self worth and confidence ?


A nice rack. :-*
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 10, 2008, 03:13:00 AM
what distinguishes between an overblown ego .. vs .. true self worth and confidence ?

There's a difference between being confidant and being cocky.  Cocky is self-absorbed and unable to see past themselves in any situation because they desperately need to feel important.  Confidance is more balanced.  There's value placed on oneself, but not at the expense of others. 

If you love yourself and are happy .. it only makes life more incredible to include someone into your life that makes you happy and makes you feel loved ... misery comes from not being genuine and honest .. lots of people "think" it's more than it is when they hook up .. then when the going gets a little rocky ..they cut and run

I see girls "advertising" themselves .. so what kind of men will they get ? better question is what kind of man do they want ?

shallow ..and maybe even someone else's .. but not one that is interested in them for more than the initial hormonal attraction



I couldn't agree more.  Being genuine and honest with yourself makes it nearly impossible to be anything but that with another. 

People are far too quick to, "cut and run," as you put it.  People seem to forget that relationships are tricky.  They take work, patience, honesty, and a genuine desire to get through the rough days and enjoy the beautiful ones.  Loyalty is a quality that is hard to find these days, in both genders.  The sanctity of relationships, whether one's own, or another's seems lost in the world of instant gratification. 
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: drkaje on November 10, 2008, 05:40:20 AM
Happiness is an internal event.

Good people in your life can contribute to happiness but never cause it.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 10, 2008, 02:43:03 PM
Happiness is an internal event.

Good people in your life can contribute to happiness but never cause it.

My goal is to be happy just how things are, and for the presence of another to only enhance it.  I readily admit to being a work-in-progress. 
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: drkaje on November 10, 2008, 03:37:58 PM
My goal is to be happy just how things are, and for the presence of another to only enhance it.  I readily admit to being a work-in-progress. 

Smart way to look at things.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: CAPTAIN INSANO on November 10, 2008, 03:42:53 PM
I wasn't just referring to my past mistakes.  Although I've made a few, lol.   


God, you're hideous

(http://a186.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/76/m_9b39746349671d56b457038eecdd3739.jpg)  :-X

Welcome to Getbig!
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 10, 2008, 05:51:58 PM
God, you're hideous

(http://a186.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/76/m_9b39746349671d56b457038eecdd3739.jpg)  :-X

Welcome to Getbig!

Hideous?  That's a nice change to shemale... lol.  And thanks for the warm welcome from everyone. 
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: TrueGrit on November 10, 2008, 06:15:05 PM
Not remotely hideous. Also, boasts superb glutes and hams.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Sara on November 10, 2008, 06:42:49 PM
Not remotely hideous. Also, boasts superb glutes and hams.

You're too, too kind  ;D
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Tapeworm on November 10, 2008, 11:38:49 PM
Not remotely hideous. Also, boasts superb glutes and hams.

Pics for proof.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Hereford on November 10, 2008, 11:41:45 PM
Sara is hot.


Piss off you haters...  >:(
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Tapeworm on November 10, 2008, 11:45:39 PM
Something in latex or rubber perhaps.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cleanest Natural on November 10, 2008, 11:56:53 PM
God, you're hideous

(http://a186.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/76/m_9b39746349671d56b457038eecdd3739.jpg)  :-X

Welcome to Getbig!
Gayest post and monster coming out on your part ....


I would would give sara anice warm oil massage followed by painting her ass and pussy in godiva sauce only to be licked/sucked clean ... and this would be only part of the foreplay

Horny in Romania ( in a romantical non gay way of course )

(http://www.bcbgroup.com/public-relations-lg-images/godiva-lg.jpg)
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Tapeworm on November 11, 2008, 12:03:22 AM
Little backed up from your time in the clink Sev?  ;)
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cleanest Natural on November 11, 2008, 04:13:04 AM
Little backed up from your time in the clink Sev?  ;)
catching up

however .. Sara is one serious piece of yummy ass ..search for her photo on the bed face down ... if you don't get a bonner you are def gay  :D
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: chaos on November 11, 2008, 05:14:47 AM
catching up

however .. Sara is one serious piece of yummy ass ..search for her photo on the bed face down ... if you don't get a bonner you are def gay  :D
I see Ron took sympathy on a convict dying of AIDS and gave you early release.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cleanest Natural on November 11, 2008, 05:36:25 AM
I see Ron took sympathy on a convict dying of AIDS and gave you early release.
::)

you need new material hombre ... you are not even funny letalone offensive


but keep on trying .. it's 1% talent an 99.......
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: BlueDevil on November 11, 2008, 06:01:54 AM
::)

you need new material hombre ... you are not even funny letalone offensive


but keep on trying .. it's 1% talent an 99.......

good the see you on the V bro

just say the word and i'll ban the conehead
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: NaturalWonder83 on November 11, 2008, 06:17:55 AM
yes!!! welcome back sev!!!
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cleanest Natural on November 11, 2008, 07:07:28 AM
good the see you on the V bro

just say the word and i'll ban the conehead
I would never ban anyone ...

they all have a place here :)
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: BlueDevil on November 11, 2008, 08:46:30 AM
I would never ban anyone ...



i guess you're right

nobody reads his posts anyway



Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: chaos on November 11, 2008, 06:44:07 PM
good the see you on the V bro

just say the word and i'll ban the conehead
You couldn't ban me if your life depended on it, shitbreath. :-*
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: BlueDevil on November 12, 2008, 04:56:45 AM
You couldn't ban me if your life depended on it, shitbreath. :-*

may your underwear be filled with the fulvous eructate fingering from the refuse void of a clapper-clawed skainsmate
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cleanest Natural on November 12, 2008, 05:05:43 AM
You couldn't ban me if your life depended on it, shitbreath. :-*
Who's the homo in your avatar ?
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: chaos on November 12, 2008, 05:13:43 AM
may your underwear be filled with the fulvous eructate fingering from the refuse void of a clapper-clawed skainsmate
Who's the homo in your avatar ?
I thought nobody reads my posts anyways?

My avatar is the next Mr Getbig, you skrawny twunt.
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cleanest Natural on November 12, 2008, 05:15:39 AM
I thought nobody reads my posts anyways?

My avatar is the next Mr Getbig, you skrawny twunt.
if the criteria would be " fattest loser without a life who doesn't lift " than YES! He'd win hands down .
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: chaos on November 12, 2008, 05:17:14 AM
if the criteria would be " fattest loser without a life who doesn't lift " than YES! He'd win hands down .
I suppose if the criteria were skinniest AIDS victim with a beard.....you would win, right ::)
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: BlueDevil on November 12, 2008, 05:25:21 AM
if the criteria would be " fattest loser without a life who doesn't lift " than YES! He'd win hands down .

better watch out sev or he's gonna release a cloud of opaline off-scum rejecting from the underarm cavity of his male companion
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cleanest Natural on November 12, 2008, 05:25:56 AM
I suppose if the criteria were skinniest AIDS victim with a beard.....you would win, right ::)
I would go 1 month to the gym and not shave and I'd beat you in a bb contest hahahaha

now tell us how you reaaally feel ..
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: chaos on November 12, 2008, 03:15:00 PM
I would go 1 month to the gym and not shave and I'd beat you in a bb contest hahahaha

now tell us how you reaaally feel ..
I reaaally feel.........pity for you, you should be ripped, you only weigh 154lbs!!
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cleanest Natural on November 13, 2008, 03:56:44 AM
I reaaally feel.........pity for you, you should be ripped, you only weigh 154lbs!!
I'm 190 right now and feel pretty good .. am not ripped by any means hahahaha ...dork
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: chaos on November 13, 2008, 05:15:27 AM
I'm 190 right now and feel pretty good .. am not ripped by any means hahahaha ...dork
So you admit you're a skinny-fat queer combing getbig for muscle men ???
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cleanest Natural on November 13, 2008, 05:17:51 AM
So you admit you're a skinny-fat queer combing getbig for muscle men ???
if 190 is skinny you prolly think 200 lbs chicks are models hahahahaha
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: chaos on November 13, 2008, 05:19:28 AM
if 190 is skinny you prolly think 200 lbs chicks are models hahahahaha
I am dumber for having read this post. :(
Title: Re: insecurity
Post by: Cleanest Natural on November 13, 2008, 05:23:09 AM
I am dumber for having read this post. :(
i think you were dumb prior  :D