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Ok so my buddy has been dating this girl for a couple months and they are just getting serious now. She tells him that about 2 years ago she got raped by a guy she knew, they were in grad school together at the time. It was one of those drunk at a party, go back to his room, make out, and then he wouldn't stop when she told him to. She did not report it to the police or anything. This guy still lives in the general area here. My question is now as this girl's boyfriend is he obligated to beat the hell out of this guy. My thoughts are yes, but only if he fully believes her story is 100% accurate.
Thought?
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If she were raped why wouldn't she report it? Sounds suspect to me.
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Ahhhh, the infamous date rape scenario....
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Ahhhh, the infamous date rape scenario....
Exactly, can he believe she is telling the complete truth.
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kick the shit out of him!!!
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Exactly, can he believe she is telling the complete truth.
Very tough. But if he really doesn't 100% believe her, why is he even dating her?
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I found myself in similar situation...A girl I know claimed a guy locally raped her,I threatened him,he denied it and said she made up the story,I asked one of my cop friends if it'd been reported,he said no,apparently the bitch made up the allegation against this guy and another guy at a different time...She isnt my friend anymore
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Very tough. But if he really doesn't 100% believe her, why is he even dating her?
I think if he assumes it is true he needs to atleast threaten the guy and hear his side of the story.
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Beating up the boyfriend at this point in time does absolutely nothing to ammend the situation. If anything, it will make things worse.
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I think if he assumes it is true he needs to atleast threaten the guy and hear his side of the story.
If he really does believe her, he needs to stomp the guys ass, IMO.
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I think if he assumes it is true he needs to atleast threaten the guy and hear his side of the story.
That what I did and the truth came out
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my thought is he should stop dealing with damaged goods, that bitch is clearly fucked up in the head, she just has a grudge with that guy and is making up shit to get back at him. He probably fucked her and she went along with it 100% then after he didn't stay for cuddles and fucked off. ;D
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Ok so my buddy has been dating this girl for a couple months and they are just getting serious now. She tells him that about 2 years ago she got raped by a guy she knew, they were in grad school together at the time. It was one of those drunk at a party, go back to his room, make out, and then he wouldn't stop when she told him to. She did not report it to the police or anything. This guy still lives in the general area here. My question is now as this girl's boyfriend is he obligated to beat the hell out of this guy. My thoughts are yes, but only if he fully believes her story is 100% accurate.
Thought?
No.
1) Who the fuck knows if she's telling the complete truth about what happened?
2) If she's encouraging him to "beat the guy up" for a two-year old thing she didn't even report, that's fishy as hell.
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ALL rapes get reported
Un-reported rapes are dates that went a bit salty
This was not a rape
She has a vagina
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No.
1) Who the fuck knows if she's telling the complete truth about what happened?
2) If she's encouraging him to "beat the guy up" for a two-year old thing she didn't even report, that's fishy as hell.
No she just told him in confidence one night. Now he is wondering if he should fight the guy or not. She didn't asking him to and wouldn't want him to. He had to pry the guys name from her.
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If he really does believe her, he needs to stomp the guys ass, IMO.
Please look at this picture of the one and only "Showstoppa" before you take advise from him
(http://media.ebaumsworld.com/picture/Realnessmess/wigger.jpg)
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Please look at this picture of the one and only "Showstoppa" before you take advise from him
(http://media.ebaumsworld.com/picture/Realnessmess/wigger.jpg)
haha, that guys arms are twice the size of mine...and why the hate, did I bitter you in another thread? :-*
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he need not do anything.
First, it's not his business. She will have to deal with it in whichever way she feels best, your friend can suggest reporting it.
second, he does not know the full story.
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You 3 will meet in a public place at one time or another.
give the guy a look, if he give s dirty or suspicious look back
blacken his eyes,
otherwise,
leave it alone.
don't be a hero,
it'll kill ya in the end game!
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ALL rapes get reported
Un-reported rapes are dates that went a bit salty
This was not a rape
She has a vagina
Bullshit, I don't know where you get your info from but you are horribly misinformed.
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No she just told him in confidence one night. Now he is wondering if he should fight the guy or not. She didn't asking him to and wouldn't want him to. He had to pry the guys name from her.
He needs to let it go. She wasn't his girlfriend when it happened (did he even know her then?), and as someone else said, it's none of his business. She obviously didn't feel the need to report it. If he goes after someone swinging for something that allegedly happened two years ago, he'll just get himself in trouble, and probably make the situation worse.
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I think if he assumes it is true he needs to atleast threaten the guy and hear his side of the story.
Threatening someone with physical harm is a crime.
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Please look at this picture of the one and only "Showstoppa" before you take advise from him
(http://media.ebaumsworld.com/picture/Realnessmess/wigger.jpg)
Nice pair of skis on the wall, Showstoppa. Jean Claude Killy signed sports memorabilia? ;D
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she should post about her experience on getbig. Lots of therapuetic follks here.
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If it was a reported, documented rape and the guy got away free because of some legal loophole that would be one thing. This is something else. Did she ever tell anyone at all? Who were her friends at the time? Did they at least notice her going through any sort of crisis? Did she seek any sort of counseling to help her cope? If the answer to all of these is no... hmmm.
She didn't feel the need to report it back then but she feels the need to bring it up now and see what he'll do about it? If she's been a level headed woman for awhile then she gets some slack, but if she has a history of manipulative behavior or if this relationship is new and her answers to my questions raise eyebrows, I'd consider this the last straw. Women like that belong elsewhere.
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take your chance and throw a length yourself. if it took her 2 years to make it up this time, chances are you won't be mates with that dude in your 2 year time scale. happy days
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Pic of the raped girls tits or she does not exist.
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it was before you met her and it's none of your business. Her problem, not yours. So no need to play the tough, white knight for someone you're already starting to fall too hard for....
my .02 cents
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Ok so my buddy has been dating this girl for a couple months and they are just getting serious now. She tells him that about 2 years ago she got raped by a guy she knew, they were in grad school together at the time. It was one of those drunk at a party, go back to his room, make out, and then he wouldn't stop when she told him to. She did not report it to the police or anything. This guy still lives in the general area here. My question is now as this girl's boyfriend is he obligated to beat the hell out of this guy. My thoughts are yes, but only if he fully believes her story is 100% accurate.
Thought?
bwhahahah are you fucking kidding me!? God knows girls make this shit up for pity, and also when you go back to a room after drinking and start to fool around with a guy, it's victim participation and is almost impossible for the guy to get in trouble. Also I wouldn't be suprised if she just hates this other guy for breaking up with her and she is trying to get back at him and makes up this lie so some dumbass believes her and goes and does this, NO fuckin way should he do this, break up with the bitch she is trouble.
jt
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if you interview most men in prisons and ask them why they are there most will start their story with something like "about 3 years ago i met this girl"
dont do shit, listen, show you care and thats it
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i can't think of a single scenario of you getting involved that would "right" things.
like "muscularny" said, just hear her out, show you care and move on.
if you see him in an alley fight down the line getting his ass kicked, feel free to stomp his head in, but don't go out doing anything stupid. don't be a bigger gorilla than him.
was he black?
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i can't think of a single scenario of you getting involved that would "right" things.
like "muscularny" said, just hear her out, show you care and move on.
if you see him in an alley fight down the line getting his ass kicked, feel free to stomp his head in, but don't go out doing anything stupid. don't be a bigger gorilla than him.
was he black?
Why the fuck would you do that, you are taking her word and not hearing his side of the story and ready to commit a crime over it? What a fuckin simp ass move...
jt
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I would say a majority of women claim to have been "raped" at one point or another.... very rarely does it fall into what we automatically envision when we hear the word.
most of these women have obscene amounts of baggage as well.
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she can and should still report it. >:(
then, take it from there.
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she can and should still report it. >:(
then, take it from there.
actually it would look bad on her, like she is trying to get vengeance, the guy won't get in trouble, no physical evidence and such a long time ago, there is completely no point to that and will waste tax payer dollars.
jt
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my thought is he should stop dealing with damaged goods, that bitch is clearly fucked up in the head, she just has a grudge with that guy and is making up shit to get back at him. He probably fucked her and she went along with it 100% then after he didn't stay for cuddles and fucked off. ;D
Totally agree..She is just using him
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actually it would look bad on her, like she is trying to get vengeance, the guy won't get in trouble, no physical evidence and such a long time ago, there is completely no point to that and will waste tax payer dollars.
jt
i disagree, it would look like she is telling the truth. Yes, the guy wouldn't get in trouble, unless he would confess.
Justice and vengeance are 2 different things ;)
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One hint:
NEVER, never never never date a girl that got raped. NEVER. It's not worth it.
She will be a mess some day, the sex may turn into horror, and you're not her psychologist.
Stay away from women that heve been raped, you wouldn't eat a burger someone has spat on as well, even if the burger still looks ok.
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One hint:
NEVER, never never never date a girl that got raped. NEVER. It's not worth it.
She will be a mess some day, the sex may turn into horror, and you're not her psychologist.
Stay away from women that heve been raped, you wouldn't eat a burger someone has spat on as well, even if the burger still looks ok.
I had a girlfriend that was raped. She wasn't mess up. ::) Being that 1 in 5 women are raped, there is a good change you dated a chick that was raped as well. ;)
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I had a girlfriend that was raped. She wasn't mess up. ::) Being that 1 in 5 women are raped, there is a good change you dated a chick that was raped as well. ;)
who said i didn't speak out of experience? ::) ::)
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she can and should still report it. >:(
then, take it from there.
I totally agree.
Why would you confess something to someone you just met if you can't report it to the police?
In some cases where it goes unreported the "victim" would like to pretend it never happened and would not speak on it EVER!
Sandra
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A girl I dated claimed the same story as the OP and her dad is a cop. At first I believed it and wanted to stomp the guy but then I got to thinking that the story was messed up. Why would she not report the rape?
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Yeah i mean if it is true then it is definitely her fault for not reporting the rape. The guy didn't know her at the time so he couldn't convince her to do anything. He only found out because she got really upset when he made a "rape" joke. You know just messing around and she got really upset and then finally told him the truth. I guess the question is if he eventually marries and fully believes her, now does he do it since she is his wife.
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Yeah i mean if it is true then it is definitely her fault for not reporting the rape. The guy didn't know her at the time so he couldn't convince her to do anything. He only found out because she got really upset when he made a "rape" joke. You know just messing around and she got really upset and then finally told him the truth. I guess the question is if he eventually marries and fully believes her, now does he do it since she is his wife.
I can tell you've put a lot of thought into building this 'scenario' mah man. Props.
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Ok so my buddy has been dating this girl for a couple months and they are just getting serious now. She tells him that about 2 years ago she got raped by a guy she knew, they were in grad school together at the time. It was one of those drunk at a party, go back to his room, make out, and then he wouldn't stop when she told him to. She did not report it to the police or anything. This guy still lives in the general area here. My question is now as this girl's boyfriend is he obligated to beat the hell out of this guy. My thoughts are yes, but only if he fully believes her story is 100% accurate.
Thought?
if it didnt happen under your watch, then you shouldnt worry about it. What next, your gonna go find the driver who rear ended her 5 years ago? if she was that stupid not to report it, the fuck her, its her fault... and its begs the questions, why the fuck would she tell a guy shes seeing now, and not tell the cops?
again, if it didnt happen under your watch ( when you were seeing the girl), then just let it go...
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Dump the skank
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I had a girlfriend that was raped. She wasn't mess up. ::) Being that 1 in 5 women are raped, there is a good change you dated a chick that was raped as well. ;)
Most women don't know the definition of rape
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Most women don't know the definition of rape
He didn't cuddle with her for a sufficient amount of time afterwards, therefore it was "rape". ::)
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she is full of shit
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Why would she not report the rape?
would you report it if a few dudes took your butthole in the supermarket parking lot?
not every crime gets "reported'. there are many factors in which a victim of a sexual crime feels as though it is their fault, feels disgusted with themselves, believe that they can make it just go away by burying it....
rape is about power, not sex. its psychological warfare with a penis.....
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would you report it if a few dudes took your butthole in the supermarket parking lot?
not every crime gets "reported'. there are many factors in which a victim of a sexual crime feels as though it is their fault, feels disgusted with themselves, believe that they can make it just go away by burying it....
rape is about power, not sex. its psychological warfare with a penis.....
And most of the things which goes unreported ,are not crimes ;D
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would you report it if a few dudes took your butthole in the supermarket parking lot?
not every crime gets "reported'. there are many factors in which a victim of a sexual crime feels as though it is their fault, feels disgusted with themselves, believe that they can make it just go away by burying it....
rape is about power, not sex. its psychological warfare with a penis.....
wtf dude? you're in prison?
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he should find the guy and rape him,eye for an eye
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rape is about power, not sex. its psychological warfare with a penis.....
women need to feel powerless sometimes
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wtf dude? you're in prison?
LOL naw....im out now ;) ;) ;)
cant log onto getbig from the clink....so i had to break out!
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This shit is fishy.
Your "friend" (aka YOU) needs to get a posse together and brutally gang rape this guy balkan style and videotape it for your girl.
Anything less makes you a pussy.
Hope this helps.