Groink is she your ex-wife or ex-girlfriend?
Can you be more specific about what she is going through right now that you think you should leave her alone for now?
What was the break-up like?
Ex-girfriend, but very serious. together 24/7 for over a year, talking about marriage...the whole nine.
I'll PM ya if you want with details,no way i'm posting that shit here. suffice to say she is in a very bad place in all aspects of her life. And my first impulse is to want to help her, i mean shit...i love this woman
the break-up was fucking brutal, lots of thing were said and done in anger that we both wish we could take back. PS it was all my fault....she was 1000% committed to me and i had (still have) a lot of guilt over not being a full-time dad so I never commited to her 100% and she just couldn't take it anymore. it destroyed her.
Im just going out on a limb. If you have sex with her, and you still feel the same...then i would try and make it work angain. you only live once...FUCK IT
RUN!!!........................ .
So when you say FUCK IT you are being literal? ;Dlol. Im saying. If you love her that much and you think that you would be happier with her. Why not see where it goes, life is short, why not be happy. Fuck it.
In all seriousness that would be a ways off, there's a lot of damage here that i caused
i don't see her jumping in the sack with me anytime soon, but i've been wrong before 8)
lol. Im saying. If you love her that much and you think that you would be happier with her. Why not see where it goes, life is short, why not be happy. Fuck it.
And , no homo, but i find it hard to beleive that a she will turn you down for sex.. Before you see her do a few hundred push ups, oil up and wear a tank top...BOOM.!!!
i hear you Mal, you only live once.
It cracks me up that after all these years we still have to say "no homo" before we say something about each others looks ;D
lol. Im saying. If you love her that much and you think that you would be happier with her. Why not see where it goes, life is short, why not be happy. Fuck it.hahaha i do this before going to the grocery store, works everytime ;D
And , no homo, but i find it hard to beleive that a she will turn you down for sex.. Before you see her do a few hundred push ups, oil up and wear a tank top...BOOM.!!!
lol. Im saying. If you love her that much and you think that you would be happier with her. Why not see where it goes, life is short, why not be happy. Fuck it.
And , no homo, but i find it hard to beleive that a she will turn you down for sex.. Before you see her do a few hundred push ups, oil up and wear a tank top...BOOM.!!!
There's a reason things didn't work out the first time.because big G fucked up...if i fuck up and a broad takes me back.that=win win
because big G fucked up...if i fuck up and a broad takes me back.that=win win
Teh Doc..Bringing teh Shrink talk...
Guysfuckmess up for a reason, they don't care. Being bored, lonely, needing a challenge, horny, grew up some, broke, ego boost, trying to relive the past, etc... isn't going to change that simple fact.
Only someone who is stupid or just has low self-esteem lets the same dog bite them twice.
Like I said, there a reason things didn't work out the first time. Figure out what that reason was and move on to the next mistake. :)
i had (still have) a lot of guilt over not being a full-time dad so I never commited to her 100% and she just couldn't take it anymore. it destroyed her.
but i also think that the last thing she needs right now is getting involved again, she has so much other stuff she is dealing with. and if i really loved her i would let her be for now, just let her know I'm there for her if she needs help
I'm a little confused by that statement ???i was confused over that as well and i agree simply letting go seems the best thing, id put dollars to donuts that says thats not what you do though no offense groink.
With limited information, I'm gonna say that's your best advice.
Big mike is the only one here offering good advice. You broke up with her for a reason, let it go brother.