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Title: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Tre on July 05, 2009, 09:35:45 AM

Guys - I know it's hard having a wife/baby mama at home nagging you about everything, while so many little baggage-less hotties who haven't let themselves go are making themselves available to you. 

But before you even go down that road, you need to evaluate the costs, because believe me, it's going to cost you something and I'm not talking about what you'll be spending on the girlfriend.  That's negligible compared to what you might lose in terms of your family relationships...and half yo' shit. 

No one - male or female - expects to die for getting a little piece on the side, and yet, it happens.  Is that the right price?  No, but it seems someone saw it differently...regardless of who pulled the trigger in the Steve McNair case.

I'm not in any position to make value judgments on this man's life, as I know nothing of his relationship with his wife, who also happens to be the mother of his 4 kids.  But I do know that he had no business dating a 20-year-old woman.  If you're a guy over 30 and you're dating a girl under 22-23, there's a problem.  And yes, there's a HUGE difference between a 20-year-old woman and a 23-year-old woman. 

I don't understand the ways of the modern sugar daddy.  When I was younger, most guys didn't want their wives finding out anything.  Men have been buying women cars for years, but if it's a secret affair, they're always put in the woman's name, period.  None of this her name *and* my name nonsense.  What were you doing, Steve??  Now, if you're not married and you're just the sugar daddy, then of course, the vehicle goes in the guy's name only, so that he can take it back if the sugar baby ever fucks up.

But, sugar babies typically get smarter as they get older.  A 24- or 25-year-old woman isn't going to be running the streets telling everyone she's dating you.  A 20-year-old?  You'd better damn believe she was.  If you've got a clandestine 'thang' going on, even if your wife is totally cool with it (and she's NOT! lol), you don't want people knowing your business.  People are always gonna suspect things about others, but don't let it be out there.  If neighbors know you're showing up at the girl's place at 2am - that you rented for her - then the assumption is that there's a relationship.

I'm hurting for the McNair family right now, but I hope that other guys in similar situations will take heed and stop their involvements with women that are just too young to understand how this is supposed to work. 
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: 240 is Back on July 05, 2009, 09:39:19 AM
Men should masturbate before making any decision in life regarding a woman.

With that bullet in your chamber, you're never 100% rational.

It's safe to say about 20 seconds after you bust, you are the wisest man on earth.

If McNair had cranked one out about a minute before that young drama mama showed up asking for a car and an apartment, he would have told her to kick rocks and gone back to managing his millions.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Army of One on July 05, 2009, 10:59:46 AM
It's safe to say about 20 seconds after you bust, you are the wisest man on earth.

Youve said this before and Ive quoted it before but it deserves quoting once again.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Brixtonbulldog on July 05, 2009, 11:00:26 AM
Men should masturbate before making any decision in life regarding a woman.

With that bullet in your chamber, you're never 100% rational.

It's safe to say about 20 seconds after you bust, you are the wisest man on earth.

If McNair had cranked one out about a minute before that young drama mama showed up asking for a car and an apartment, he would have told her to kick rocks and gone back to managing his millions.

Agreed
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: MethodGNA on July 05, 2009, 11:06:43 AM
one of the good guys.??........he was a piece of shit............lettting your dick point you in the wrong direction a few times is one thing.............but having a wife and kid on a farm somewhere, while putting up some skank in a condo in the city.............your kid always wondering why now that dad is retired, he still keeps dissappearing for days on end ...........lowlife, that is a rotten and selfish thing to do to your wife and child.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: G o a t b o y on July 05, 2009, 11:09:29 AM
I'm not in any position to make value judgments on this man's life, as I know nothing of his relationship with his wife, who also happens to be the mother of his 4 kids.  But I do know that he had no business dating a 20-year-old woman.  If you're a guy over 30 and you're dating a girl under 22-23, there's a problem.  And yes, there's a HUGE difference between a 20-year-old woman and a 23-year-old woman. 


Use the "half your age plus seven" rule and you can't go wrong.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: bigdumbbell on July 05, 2009, 11:22:23 AM
one of the good guys.??........he was a piece of shit............lettting your dick point you in the wrong direction a few times is one thing.............but having a wife and kid on a farm somewhere, while putting up some skank in a condo in the city.............your kid always wondering why now that dad is retired, he still keeps dissappearing for days on end ...........lowlife, that is a rotten and selfish thing to do to your wife and child.

dude was a messed up screwball, who happened to be a sports icon.  i bet he was mentally ill with selfish grandiosity about what he can get away with because he's the shit. he's worse than that bi-polar governor sanford.  both are bags of garbage.  it's the children who get victimized in these situations.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: nodeal on July 05, 2009, 11:24:40 AM
Men should masturbate before making any decision in life regarding a woman.

With that bullet in your chamber, you're never 100% rational.

It's safe to say about 20 seconds after you bust, you are the wisest man on earth.

If McNair had cranked one out about a minute before that young drama mama showed up asking for a car and an apartment, he would have told her to kick rocks and gone back to managing his millions.

HAHA! Very insightful.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: lax on July 05, 2009, 11:28:28 AM
Guys - I know it's hard having a wife/baby mama at home nagging you about everything, while so many little baggage-less hotties who haven't let themselves go are making themselves available to you. 

But before you even go down that road, you need to evaluate the costs, because believe me, it's going to cost you something and I'm not talking about what you'll be spending on the girlfriend.  That's negligible compared to what you might lose in terms of your family relationships...and half yo' shit. 

No one - male or female - expects to die for getting a little piece on the side, and yet, it happens.  Is that the right price?  No, but it seems someone saw it differently...regardless of who pulled the trigger in the Steve McNair case.

I'm not in any position to make value judgments on this man's life, as I know nothing of his relationship with his wife, who also happens to be the mother of his 4 kids.  But I do know that he had no business dating a 20-year-old woman.  If you're a guy over 30 and you're dating a girl under 22-23, there's a problem.  And yes, there's a HUGE difference between a 20-year-old woman and a 23-year-old woman. 

I don't understand the ways of the modern sugar daddy.  When I was younger, most guys didn't want their wives finding out anything.  Men have been buying women cars for years, but if it's a secret affair, they're always put in the woman's name, period.  None of this her name *and* my name nonsense.  What were you doing, Steve??  Now, if you're not married and you're just the sugar daddy, then of course, the vehicle goes in the guy's name only, so that he can take it back if the sugar baby ever fucks up.

But, sugar babies typically get smarter as they get older.  A 24- or 25-year-old woman isn't going to be running the streets telling everyone she's dating you.  A 20-year-old?  You'd better damn believe she was.  If you've got a clandestine 'thang' going on, even if your wife is totally cool with it (and she's NOT! lol), you don't want people knowing your business.  People are always gonna suspect things about others, but don't let it be out there.  If neighbors know you're showing up at the girl's place at 2am - that you rented for her - then the assumption is that there's a relationship.

I'm hurting for the McNair family right now, but I hope that other guys in similar situations will take heed and stop their involvements with women that are just too young to understand how this is supposed to work. 


too bad his wife and four kids can now live a life of eternal shame
dirtbag
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: lax on July 05, 2009, 11:30:31 AM
Men should masturbate before making any decision in life regarding a woman.

With that bullet in your chamber, you're never 100% rational.

It's safe to say about 20 seconds after you bust, you are the wisest man on earth.

If McNair had cranked one out about a minute before that young drama mama showed up asking for a car and an apartment, he would have told her to kick rocks and gone back to managing his millions.

240=smart, smart guy
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: divcom on July 05, 2009, 11:30:47 AM
Guys - I know it's hard having a wife/baby mama at home nagging you about everything, while so many little baggage-less hotties who haven't let themselves go are making themselves available to you. 

But before you even go down that road, you need to evaluate the costs, because believe me, it's going to cost you something and I'm not talking about what you'll be spending on the girlfriend.  That's negligible compared to what you might lose in terms of your family relationships...and half yo' shit. 

No one - male or female - expects to die for getting a little piece on the side, and yet, it happens.  Is that the right price?  No, but it seems someone saw it differently...regardless of who pulled the trigger in the Steve McNair case.

I'm not in any position to make value judgments on this man's life, as I know nothing of his relationship with his wife, who also happens to be the mother of his 4 kids.  But I do know that he had no business dating a 20-year-old woman.  If you're a guy over 30 and you're dating a girl under 22-23, there's a problem.  And yes, there's a HUGE difference between a 20-year-old woman and a 23-year-old woman. 

I don't understand the ways of the modern sugar daddy.  When I was younger, most guys didn't want their wives finding out anything.  Men have been buying women cars for years, but if it's a secret affair, they're always put in the woman's name, period.  None of this her name *and* my name nonsense.  What were you doing, Steve??  Now, if you're not married and you're just the sugar daddy, then of course, the vehicle goes in the guy's name only, so that he can take it back if the sugar baby ever fucks up.

But, sugar babies typically get smarter as they get older.  A 24- or 25-year-old woman isn't going to be running the streets telling everyone she's dating you.  A 20-year-old?  You'd better damn believe she was.  If you've got a clandestine 'thang' going on, even if your wife is totally cool with it (and she's NOT! lol), you don't want people knowing your business.  People are always gonna suspect things about others, but don't let it be out there.  If neighbors know you're showing up at the girl's place at 2am - that you rented for her - then the assumption is that there's a relationship.

I'm hurting for the McNair family right now, but I hope that other guys in similar situations will take heed and stop their involvements with women that are just too young to understand how this is supposed to work. 


crazy woman is a crazy woman.  age aint makin no difference.  he promised that chick stuff with his dollars and than switched gears on her.  my bad...i thought it was a boy friend, didnt catch the gun at the seen.  problem is the "i'm a player, i got game, i'm a baller and i'm cool mentalities of black men in the states."  negro f##ked up, should have stayed home on the farm in mississippi.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: gh15 on July 05, 2009, 11:36:24 AM
Guys - I know it's hard having a wife/baby mama at home nagging you about everything, while so many little baggage-less hotties who haven't let themselves go are making themselves available to you. 

But before you even go down that road, you need to evaluate the costs, because believe me, it's going to cost you something and I'm not talking about what you'll be spending on the girlfriend.  That's negligible compared to what you might lose in terms of your family relationships...and half yo' shit. 

No one - male or female - expects to die for getting a little piece on the side, and yet, it happens.  Is that the right price?  No, but it seems someone saw it differently...regardless of who pulled the trigger in the Steve McNair case.

I'm not in any position to make value judgments on this man's life, as I know nothing of his relationship with his wife, who also happens to be the mother of his 4 kids.  But I do know that he had no business dating a 20-year-old woman.  If you're a guy over 30 and you're dating a girl under 22-23, there's a problem.  And yes, there's a HUGE difference between a 20-year-old woman and a 23-year-old woman. 

I don't understand the ways of the modern sugar daddy.  When I was younger, most guys didn't want their wives finding out anything.  Men have been buying women cars for years, but if it's a secret affair, they're always put in the woman's name, period.  None of this her name *and* my name nonsense.  What were you doing, Steve??  Now, if you're not married and you're just the sugar daddy, then of course, the vehicle goes in the guy's name only, so that he can take it back if the sugar baby ever fucks up.

But, sugar babies typically get smarter as they get older.  A 24- or 25-year-old woman isn't going to be running the streets telling everyone she's dating you.  A 20-year-old?  You'd better damn believe she was.  If you've got a clandestine 'thang' going on, even if your wife is totally cool with it (and she's NOT! lol), you don't want people knowing your business.  People are always gonna suspect things about others, but don't let it be out there.  If neighbors know you're showing up at the girl's place at 2am - that you rented for her - then the assumption is that there's a relationship.

I'm hurting for the McNair family right now, but I hope that other guys in similar situations will take heed and stop their involvements with women that are just too young to understand how this is supposed to work. 


dont pay attention to this post  i just have to do it once for the history book othewise i wont be able to live with myself ,,

m e l d o w n :)  ,,,<--i even kept the spelling fucked up  :D
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Tre on July 05, 2009, 11:53:49 AM
dont pay attention to this post  i just have to do it once for the history book othewise i wont be able to live with myself ,,

m e l d o w n :)  ,,,<--i even kept the spelling fucked up  :D

lol

I just want brothas to stop compounding stupid with more stupid.

Recently spoke with a bright young woman who I thought would completely see it my way with respect to husbands having girlfriends. Wrong.

The number of women who are cool with it is apparently a lot smaller than I thought.   

 
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: mwbbuilder on July 05, 2009, 12:02:55 PM
Real men have been taking risks with young, hot women since the beginning of time. that just the way it works for those men on the top of the food chain.

While a very tiny percentage of men may get caught, the majority don't. The risk taking gets men to the top.

Something the average guy will never understand.

Nothing is ever going to change.

One other point. It's not a "black thing." Watch a mafia movie or two. Most of the mobsters get killed because of women. They talk too much to a woman. They fuck a superior's wife, etc.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Tre on July 05, 2009, 12:38:06 PM
Real men have been taking risks with young, hot women since the beginning of time. that just the way it works for those men on the top of the food chain.

While a very tiny percentage of men may get caught, the majority don't. The risk taking gets men to the top.

Something the average guy will never understand.

Nothing is ever going to change.

One other point. It's not a "black thing." Watch a mafia movie or two. Most of the mobsters get killed because of women. They talk too much to a woman. They fuck a superior's wife, etc.

You're spot-on, but I'm trying to make everyone see what a 'good (black) guy' I am, deep down. LOL 

Risk-taking is what makes successful people successful...in anything.  You're 100% right about that and I'm glad you brought that perspective to the discussion.

Sugar daddies with a lot to lose - namely, their families - have to mitigate those risks, though. 

I cannot explain attraction - we all like what we like - but we have to keep in mind that every new toy costs something.



Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: chaos on July 05, 2009, 01:36:24 PM
You're spot-on, but I'm trying to make everyone see what a 'good (black) guy' I am, deep down. LOL 


You exploit steroid abusing women for your own financial gain. 'good (black) guy'.......LMAO. ::)
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Deicide on July 05, 2009, 01:38:51 PM
Men should masturbate before making any decision in life regarding a woman.

With that bullet in your chamber, you're never 100% rational.

It's safe to say about 20 seconds after you bust, you are the wisest man on earth.

If McNair had cranked one out about a minute before that young drama mama showed up asking for a car and an apartment, he would have told her to kick rocks and gone back to managing his millions.

Wisest thing you have ever said Rob.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: drkaje on July 05, 2009, 01:44:53 PM
Men should masturbate before making any decision in life regarding a woman.

With that bullet in your chamber, you're never 100% rational.

It's safe to say about 20 seconds after you bust, you are the wisest man on earth.

If McNair had cranked one out about a minute before that young drama mama showed up asking for a car and an apartment, he would have told her to kick rocks and gone back to managing his millions.

The economy would be in shambles if dudes did this, LOL!
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Tre on July 05, 2009, 01:52:00 PM
You exploit steroid abusing women for your own financial gain. 'good (black) guy'.......LMAO. ::)

Welcome to the world of bodybuilding and fitness, new person!  *Everyone* in the business is either exploiting or being exploited or some combination of the two.

Sorta like life everywhere else...

"It's a pimp-or-be-pimped world."
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: JOCKTHEGLIDE on July 05, 2009, 01:56:18 PM
Men should masturbate before making any decision in life regarding a woman.

damn 240 thats the smartest thign I EVER FCKIN HEARD RIGHT THERE!!!
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: drkaje on July 05, 2009, 01:57:27 PM
There's no such thing as free pussy. Guys need to understand/recognize this shit.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Ex Coelis on July 05, 2009, 02:01:45 PM
damn 240 Joe Rogan thats the smartest thign I EVER FCKIN HEARD RIGHT THERE!!!

fixed
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Noel Fuller on July 05, 2009, 02:57:34 PM
I would need to see this 20 year old before I pass any judgment. The only over 35 guy that doesnt hit younger is one that cant get any, its not morals if you guys dont have a choice in it.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Kane89 on July 05, 2009, 03:07:42 PM
Long time reader first time poster.

"Its an african thing"

End thread...
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: chaos on July 05, 2009, 03:09:31 PM
Long time reader first time poster.

"Its an african thing"

End thread...
LOL
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Tre on July 05, 2009, 03:09:43 PM
I would need to see this 20 year old before I pass any judgment. The only over 35 guy that doesnt hit younger is one that cant get any, its not morals if you guys dont have a choice in it.

I gotta disagree with you a bit, Noel.  While, true, there are plenty of older guys who can't get any from a younger woman, there are a whole lot who can, simply because they have more to offer now than when they were broke college grads looking for a job.

Having a quick fling with a young girl, ok, I can understand that.  He was away for the weekend, they met, she made him feel young again, etc. etc...then he goes back home to his wife and loves her like never before.  I get that. 

But starting a relationship with a 20-year-old kid?  Playas have gotta be smarter than that once they hit a certain age.  35 is old enough to know better.   

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Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: drkaje on July 05, 2009, 03:14:05 PM
Tre,

Relationship, No. That would be stupid.

Hit it, of course. You should always hit the 20 year old pussy, never know when it's gonna come around again.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Tre on July 05, 2009, 03:29:16 PM
Tre,

Relationship, No. That would be stupid.

Hit it, of course. You should always hit the 20 year old pussy, never know when it's gonna come around again.

Gotcha...we're all on the same page, I think.

Hit and RUN!  ;D
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: drkaje on July 05, 2009, 03:40:23 PM
Gotcha...we're all on the same page, I think.

Hit and RUN!  ;D

You should definitely fuck them.

20 year old girls want to spend money and dance, LOL! Let 20 yr old boys waste their money.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: mwbbuilder on July 05, 2009, 05:02:20 PM
Tre

trust me. a 36 year old don't feel "old." so they don't a 20 year old to feel young again. It's just a whole lot better looking, tighter, and less complicated many times than a 35 year old.

How old are you?
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Deicide on July 05, 2009, 05:07:36 PM
Tre=angry black man with a big black cock...
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: BIG_STI on July 05, 2009, 05:12:53 PM
I must say this kind of happened to me, was on the rocks with the wife at age 27 then a 18 year old came along. Guess which way I went.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Tre on July 05, 2009, 05:14:37 PM
Tre

trust me. a 36 year old don't feel "old." so they don't a 20 year old to feel young again. It's just a whole lot better looking, tighter, and less complicated many times than a 35 year old.

How old are you?

I'm 38, but felt very old after I'd gotten divorced, quit working out, and allowed work and baby mama drama to take control. 

I don't feel old anymore, but it was a pretty long process to get my life back and I've *still* gotta deal with drama (you won't believe how territorial this woman is), although it doesn't bother me as much anymore.  There's still a lot of animosity on my end, but that stems from the fact that I bit my tongue and never said anything to her for so many years.  Finally, one day, I'd had enough. 

Getting back on the market again, I had to do some serious upgrading to my life and my health/appearance, but there's no true recovery for my mental health.  I'm damaged, carrying serious baggage, and I know it. 

You may be right in saying that I'm the exception, but I think the young women have helped me to regain my youth, if only temporarily. :)
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Tre on July 05, 2009, 05:16:09 PM
Tre=angry black man with a big slightly-above-average black cock...

Fixed.

Now you...stop that! lol



Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: BIG_STI on July 05, 2009, 05:16:56 PM
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Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Noel Fuller on July 05, 2009, 05:47:33 PM
I'm 46 and dont feel old, divorced and dont feel old , kids and dont feel old, if there two girl at a club or store or whatever and ones hot and 20 and the other is smokim and 35 i'm with the twenty year old every time, I dont know how many times I dated a girl around my age and the bitching about thier life starts at about dinner, i'm not Capt save a ho
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: pedro01 on July 05, 2009, 05:52:36 PM
Men should masturbate before making any decision in life regarding a woman.

Words of wisdom indeed.

For guys on test - masturbate 4 times for the same effect.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: Tre on July 05, 2009, 06:03:15 PM
I'm 46 and dont feel old, divorced and dont feel old , kids and dont feel old, if there two girl at a club or store or whatever and ones hot and 20 and the other is smokim and 35 i'm with the twenty year old every time, I dont know how many times I dated a girl around my age and the bitching about thier life starts at about dinner, i'm not Capt save a ho

LOL @ Save a ho!! 

Not to nit-pick, but haven't you taken good care of yourself pretty much your entire adult life?  I'm definitely not making any excuses - I own my shit - but letting my body go really aged me quickly, mentally and physically. 

Even though I'm pretty relaxed by nature (although you probably can't tell by all my angry GetBig posts!), I'm finding that the older I get, the more I'm complaining about my life, and that just ain't cool, even if I am a good story-teller.  Whenever I start to bitch about 'what she did to me today', I almost always follow it up with how lucky I am to have the life that I do.  Even divorced, I know that 99% of people in the world would kill to be in my shoes, living a dream life. 

And when I think about that, I usually just shut my mouth and smile...and then come talk shit on GB.   ;D
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: G o a t b o y on July 06, 2009, 06:55:56 PM
I'm 38, but felt very old after I'd gotten divorced, quit working out, and allowed work and baby mama drama to take control. 

I don't feel old anymore, but it was a pretty long process to get my life back and I've *still* gotta deal with drama (you won't believe how territorial this woman is), although it doesn't bother me as much anymore.  There's still a lot of animosity on my end, but that stems from the fact that I bit my tongue and never said anything to her for so many years.  Finally, one day, I'd had enough. 

Getting back on the market again, I had to do some serious upgrading to my life and my health/appearance, but there's no true recovery for my mental health.  I'm damaged, carrying serious baggage, and I know it. 

You may be right in saying that I'm the exception, but I think the young women have helped me to regain my youth, if only temporarily. :)


If I got divorced tomorrow, no way in hell I'd date "young".  Your average 20-something bitch of today I couldn't stand to be around for more than 10 minutes.  She'd be fine as long as she was sucking my cock, but the minute she started to speak I'd be like, "get the fuck out"!  And this nitwit McNair set up a 20-yo bitch with a condo and a car?  Seriously??  ::)
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: pedro01 on July 07, 2009, 01:55:53 AM
I'm 39 & my girlfriend is 26. We have been together for 3 years & I can tell you it has been a struggle.

Initially, it started off as a casual thing, she was in a long distance relationship & I helped to 'fill the gap'. In my defense, she is quite hot & I had just split with my wife & was looking for an attached woman so that there would be no strings.  A poor defense for nailing some guys woman - but the logic seemed sound at the time.

One day she came to me all smiles & said "I've left him" to which I replied "What the fuck did you do that for ?". In retrospect, my response could have been a little more tactful. Anyway, a truly auspicious start.

She's fine now, but she was like a kid at first, moody when she couldn't have her way etc. You know, the typical shit your girlfriend did when you were 18.

Like I say - she's 26 now, pretty stable, knows what she has to do to keep her man happy, dotes over my 7 year old boy who loves her to bits, is 5 months pregnant and I couldn't be happier.

Would I do it again ? No fucking chance - I've tamed my last tiger. Next time round, I'm keeping it over 3-zero.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: UPINTHEMGUTS on July 07, 2009, 05:18:24 AM
I'm 39 & my girlfriend is 26. We have been together for 3 years & I can tell you it has been a struggle.

Initially, it started off as a casual thing, she was in a long distance relationship & I helped to 'fill the gap'. In my defense, she is quite hot & I had just split with my wife & was looking for an attached woman so that there would be no strings.  A poor defense for nailing some guys woman - but the logic seemed sound at the time.

One day she came to me all smiles & said "I've left him" to which I replied "What the fuck did you do that for ?". In retrospect, my response could have been a little more tactful. Anyway, a truly auspicious start.

She's fine now, but she was like a kid at first, moody when she couldn't have her way etc. You know, the typical shit your girlfriend did when you were 18.

Like I say - she's 26 now, pretty stable, knows what she has to do to keep her man happy, dotes over my 7 year old boy who loves her to bits, is 5 months pregnant and I couldn't be happier.

Would I do it again ? No fucking chance - I've tamed my last tiger. Next time round, I'm keeping it over 3-zero.

Sounds like you think you have it all figured out. Next time around? You don't think that at this point in your life that this may be the final stop?

You have a 7 year old who's attached to her and she's five months preggo carrying your unborn child(or is it the ex's? get a paternity test done)). Even if you do leave her, she'll always remain a part of your life because you share a kid. Then you'll really have to tame a tiger who's pissed that you dumped her and wants child custody rights and a shit load of money.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: pedro01 on July 07, 2009, 08:08:28 PM
Sounds like you think you have it all figured out. Next time around? You don't think that at this point in your life that this may be the final stop?

You have a 7 year old who's attached to her and she's five months preggo carrying your unborn child(or is it the ex's? get a paternity test done)). Even if you do leave her, she'll always remain a part of your life because you share a kid. Then you'll really have to tame a tiger who's pissed that you dumped her and wants child custody rights and a shit load of money.

I hope it is the final stop but then I thought that the first time around. You just never know.

As for the paternity test - she left the ex 3 and a half years ago, I think I'm safe on that score.
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: needmoresize on July 08, 2009, 09:50:16 PM
This is a good thread. I think it definitely depends on the woman individually, not her age. I solely date younger chicks, and i can most assuredly say that none are similar as regards to age go
Title: Re: To all the 35-and-over wannabe sugar daddies
Post by: needmoresize on July 08, 2009, 10:00:47 PM
Wow, that was retarded. I meant as far as personality goes. Sorry, I'm a little buzzed