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The quick-and-dirty... (stop me if you've heard this rant before)
I fly in from Vegas the other night and on my way out of the airport, it seems that I've drawn eye contact from an attractive young, ebony-skinned woman. I can tell by the way her coat fits that she doesn't have much ass, but rate her as a 7.5+ on looks and hair alone.
I look towards her, and as I'm about to throw her a slight 'thanks, but no thanks' smile ;), *she* quickly dismisses *me*...a pre-emptive strike from the little slut!
I'm floored and just a little bit miffed, but it speaks directly to what's been said all along about these hoochies. I dress like a guy who doesn't give a fuck (aka 'bum') and because I didn't look like a business traveler with significant means to support her broke ass, she decided I was not to receive a smileback. Bitch.
Put a little white girl in the same situation, though, and the outcome is completely different. There needs to be a place where black women can go to smarten up. (again, no racist)
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cliff notes.....my head hurts...i am not reading more than 30 words at a time today.
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The quick-and-dirty... (stop me if you've heard this rant before)
I fly in from Vegas the other night and on my way out of the airport, it seems that I've drawn eye contact from an attractive young, ebony-skinned woman. I can tell by the way her coat fits that she doesn't have much ass, but rate her as a 7.5+ on looks and hair alone.
I look towards her, and as I'm about to throw her a slight 'thanks, but no thanks' smile ;), *she* quickly dismisses *me*...a pre-emptive strike from the little slut!
I'm floored and just a little bit miffed, but it speaks directly to what's been said all along about these hoochies. I dress like a guy who doesn't give a fuck (aka 'bum') and because I didn't look like a business
traveler with significant means to support her broke ass, she decided I was not to receive a smileback.
Bitch.
Put a little white girl in the same situation, though, and the outcome is completely different. There needs to be a place where black women can go to smarten up. (again, no racist)
write to For Sistas Only. Ask them incorporate this in their "relationship" workshop.
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cliff notes.....my head hurts...i am not reading more than 30 words at a time today.
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Bitch blew me off, cuz I wasn't dressed right. White girls never do that, though, only the black ones. I don't understand, so I get mad.
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Bitch blew me off, cuz I wasn't dressed right. White girls never do that, though, only the black ones. I don't understand, so I get mad.
because black Americans are the most materialistic people on the planet......not their fault, have you watched TV lately.....i don't need to tell you this...but blacks haven't really been in the money for that long....the culture will grow out of the flashy shit in a few years..and stop "showing off" how much, or how little money they have.
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because black Americans are the most materialistic people on the planet......not their fault, have you watched TV lately.....i don't need to tell you this...but blacks haven't really been in the money for that long....the culture will grow out of the flashy shit in a few years..and stop "showing off" how much, or how little money they have.
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good falcon eyesight/foresight
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good falcon eyesight/foresight
i captured a half man/half reptile earlier today.....what do i do with it?
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because black Americans are the most materialistic people on the planet......not their fault, have you watched TV lately.....i don't need to tell you this...but blacks haven't really been in the money for that long....the culture will grow out of the flashy shit in a few years..and stop "showing off" how much, or how little money they have.
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hahahahah riiiiiiiiiiiiiight
SO you're saying blacks aren't gonna wanna drive Escalades with 30" rims in a few years or won't wanna wear chains and diamond earrings?
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ypu should always dress smart when flying.....
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because black Americans are the most materialistic people on the planet......not their fault, have you watched TV lately.....i don't need to tell you this...but blacks haven't really been in the money for that long....the culture will grow out of the flashy shit in a few years..and stop "showing off" how much, or how little money they have.
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...I work with an educated black guy and few black doctors here in the hospital. One of the Docs has a Yukon with HUGE chrome rims (he probably has less than an inch of rubber on the wheels). The black doc I work with everyday always talks about his beemer and lexus.
...as opposed to the white docs that I work with who drive stock GM or Toyotas.
Even educated blacks love having the glitz.
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...I work with an educated black guy and few black doctors here in the hospital. One of the Docs has a Yukon with HUGE chrome rims (he probably has less than an inch of rubber on the wheels). The black doc I work with everyday always talks about his beemer and lexus.
...as opposed to the white docs that I work with who drive stock GM or Toyotas.
Even educated blacks love having the glitz.
like i said...they will grow out of it...maybe not them...but there kids or grandchildren will.
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Why do you think they will grow out of it?
I disagree.
Ignorance breeds ignorance.
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Why do you think they will grow out of it?
I disagree.
Ignorance breeds ignorance.
every culture has grown out of stupid shit......
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...I work with an educated black guy and few black doctors here in the hospital. One of the Docs has a Yukon with HUGE chrome rims (he probably has less than an inch of rubber on the wheels). The black doc I work with everyday always talks about his beemer and lexus.
...as opposed to the white docs that I work with who drive stock GM or Toyotas.
Even educated blacks love having the glitz.
Two years ago, I was driving a '97 Thunderbird that had been paid off since 2000. It was wintertime and it had developed an oil leak in a naughty spot that was going to cost $2000+ to repair at the dealership. My daughter's mom had been pressing me to get a newer vehicle for quite some time and she finally got her wish, as I couldn't justify spending that amount to repair my trusty T-Bird and I was going to need a 4WD for snow season anyway.
Despite being relatively flush at the time with good credit and a good income, I test drove only one brand-new vehicle. After shopping around, I bought myself a used truck and I've been very happy with it ever since. I do have a few payments left, but it'll be paid off this spring and I don't anticipate having a car payment to worry about for the next 6-7 years.
I don't get into buying lots of 'stuff', but do own a couple of nice TVs (hey, I'm black) that I seldom watch and a PS3 that almost never gets used.
What I do believe in paying for, however, are experiences. I love to travel that gives me more 'life enhancement' than any electronic gadget or car ever could.
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...I work with an educated black guy and few black doctors here in the hospital. One of the Docs has a Yukon with HUGE chrome rims (he probably has less than an inch of rubber on the wheels). The black doc I work with everyday always talks about his beemer and lexus.
...as opposed to the white docs that I work with who drive stock GM or Toyotas.
Even educated blacks love having the glitz.
caddies and black men go back to the days of old. In fact it was in the early to mid 20th century that Caddy was seen as "the it car" to have by blacks, the standard, even though dealerships did not like selling cars to black folk...
And talking about Beemers is no different than my Uncle this past X-mas talking about my grandfather's 67 impala ss, that was suppose to be mine. >:(.
It maybe the a hobby or the one thing he can enjoy
the white doctors may have a boat, or a weed issue, or likes to go on extravagant vactions, or screw his mistress (or nurses), that maybe his thing.
I do agree with Bench though. I also hate huge rims, ricer cars, or kits. I like clean lines. As Chip Foose had said, than any mods need to kept so that the original design or lines of the car are kept.
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The quick-and-dirty... (stop me if you've heard this rant before)
I fly in from Vegas the other night and on my way out of the airport, it seems that I've drawn eye contact from an attractive young, ebony-skinned woman. I can tell by the way her coat fits that she doesn't have much ass, but rate her as a 7.5+ on looks and hair alone.
I look towards her, and as I'm about to throw her a slight 'thanks, but no thanks' smile ;), *she* quickly dismisses *me*...a pre-emptive strike from the little slut!
I'm floored and just a little bit miffed, but it speaks directly to what's been said all along about these hoochies. I dress like a guy who doesn't give a fuck (aka 'bum') and because I didn't look like a business traveler with significant means to support her broke ass, she decided I was not to receive a smileback. Bitch.
Put a little white girl in the same situation, though, and the outcome is completely different. There needs to be a place where black women can go to smarten up. (again, no racist)
Methinks you're inferring a bit much from a bit of eye contact.
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Tre, Please take this in the intended spirit. Both of y'all being black don't mean an immediate friendship or deep spiritual connection.
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Wait...youre mad because you think she blew you off...before you were going to do the same?
And you think its because you look like shit?
1) Her first impression of you was a broke ass man....looking like a bum. She was correct in her assumption. dress better if you wanna pick up higher class meat
2) You tried to engage in eye contact just so you could give her a "no thanks" look
3) she beat you to the punch
4) now youre an angry black man
Tre...im surprised your big head fit in the airport ::)
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I don't wear jerseys, I'm 30-plus
give me a crisp pair of jeans, button up
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Tre, Please take this in the intended spirit. Both of y'all being black don't mean an immediate friendship or deep spiritual connection.
California is weird when it comes to that, but it's surprising to see in NorCal, especially here in Sacramento where there are so few of us.
The Blacks here are often out-and-out dismissive of one another. The Mormons aren't like that and look at how their money has grown.
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It is good not to wear your wallet on your sleeve. Don't change a thing.
Are you getting tired of our women, Tre? :(
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It is good not to wear your wallet on your sleeve.
its not good to keep a turd in your pocket either.
there is a happy medium
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its not good to keep a turd in your pocket either.
there is a happy medium
That wouldn't make for a very comfy flight. I'm a tshirt and fleece guy on planes, although I changed into a collared shirt before border crossing landings last time.
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every culture has grown out of stupid shit......
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Hmmm....not so sure about that....
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Bitch blew me off, cuz I wasn't dressed right. White girls never do that, though, only the black ones. I don't understand, so I get mad.
not trying to be rude, but maybe she thought you were ugly?
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It is good not to wear your wallet on your sleeve. Don't change a thing.
Are you getting tired of our women, Tre? :(
LOL @ tired of!!
Well, with one notable exception, your women have always treated me right, so chances are I won't be going anywhere anytime soon ;)...especially since I *still* can't get a date with a black girl.
not trying to be rude, but maybe she thought you were ugly?
I didn't think of it before, but that's entirely possible. I may have sniffed 'gold-digger' because that's what I *wanted* her to be. You could be right.
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LOL @ tired of!!
Well, with one notable exception, your women have always treated me right, so chances are I won't be going anywhere anytime soon ;)...especially since I *still* can't get a date with a black girl.
I didn't think of it before, but that's entirely possible. I may have sniffed 'gold-digger' because that's what I *wanted* her to be. You could be right.
Tre, this man was speaking to you (Bro man always is on point) The first 2 mina describes your situation right there..."understand the moment"
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Tre, this man was speaking to you (Bro man always is on point) The first 2 mina describes your situation right there..."understand the moment"
LOL @ 'you happened to have a day off'
He was good. Smart brotha.
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LOL @ 'you happened to have a day off'
He was good. Smart brotha.
If you go look at the rest of his vids, he is on point with everything...But Tre, you have to sometimes take a "L" on certain things...I do notice that many times when i am bummy (trust me I have a "homeless militant" look that I rock), I often times see women that I know if I took the beard off and was in my Jos. A Bank "look", I would have pulled them.
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Tre, this man was speaking to you (Bro man always is on point) The first 2 mina describes your situation right there..."understand the moment"
Ha! That was pretty good. Well made, too.
/'toyota money' ;D
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If you go look at the rest of his vids, he is on point with everything...But Tre, you have to sometimes take a "L" on certain things...I do notice that many times when i am bummy (trust me I have a "homeless militant" look that I rock), I often times see women that I know if I took the beard off and was in my Jos. A Bank "look", I would have pulled them.
lol @ homeless militant! That's me. Sure, I'm a bit lazy when it comes to 'dressing' and all that shit, but while I honestly don't give a fuck what anyone thinks of me, I have to admit that there is a part of me that enjoys dismissals like these, knowing that I can have pretty much whatever I want. :D
I listened to a couple more of his clips overnight. Seems like a good guy, and although not quite as book smart as I thought at first, I believe that he's got serious game. He may be a complete poser, though, who knows.
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lol @ homeless militant! That's me. Sure, I'm a bit lazy when it comes to 'dressing' and all that shit, but while I honestly don't give a fuck what anyone thinks of me, I have to admit that there is a part of me that enjoys dismissals like these, knowing that I can have pretty much whatever I want. :D
I listened to a couple more of his clips overnight. Seems like a good guy, and although not quite as book smart as I thought at first, I believe that he's got serious game. He may be a complete poser, though, who knows.
Ive suscribe to his YouTube page, and I've watch all the vids, he is consistent on what he says and does. You might want to check out the "Why black men date outside their race" vids, and the How to talk to a woman vids.
Now Tre you there is diff between knowing you can have something, and actually having it.
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I didn't think of it before, but that's entirely possible. I may have sniffed 'gold-digger' because that's what I *wanted* her to be. You could be right.
LOL @ Tre
Never occurred to you that someone might not find you attractive!?? ::) Ladies and Gentlemen......take notes. Gods gift to women has arrived.
perhaps you should start your own video blog of delusion. I think it would be worth a laugh. (perhaps AT you, not with you), but a laugh never the less.
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when i was a single adolf youth stud, i wanted to shoot a load, or "skeet" as you coloreds say, on a black chick's ass.
never happened though. kinda glad, because i'm pretty sure black chicks can get pregnant by osmosis.
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LOL @ Tre
Never occurred to you that someone might not find you attractive!?? ::) Ladies and Gentlemen......take notes. Gods gift to women has arrived.
perhaps you should start your own video blog of delusion. I think it would be worth a laugh. (perhaps AT you, not with you), but a laugh never the less.
Sounds like you're dealing with some issues there, kid. Weren't breast-fed long enough as a child?
Pipe down until you understand why your statement on attractiveness/attraction here is not even a next logical step from the query posed previously.
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Ive suscribe to his YouTube page, and I've watch all the vids, he is consistent on what he says and does. You might want to check out the "Why black men date outside their race" vids, and the How to talk to a woman vids.
Now Tre you there is diff between knowing you can have something, and actually having it.
Oh, my statement about 'having' wasn't in reference to the woman (or any woman, for that matter), you know. I was referring to the charmed life I'm fortunate enough to enjoy at this time. That girl at the airport didn't miss out on a thing...but neither did I. ;)
I listened to part 1 of his ' dating outside the race' rant, but although the point about attitudes was valid, he seemed to ramble on and I didn't think his examples were that funny. He's got a pretty nice presentation style overall. I'll check out some more of the clips. (no homo)
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Sounds like you're dealing with some issues there, kid. Weren't breast-fed long enough as a child?
Pipe down until you understand why your statement on attractiveness/attraction here is not even a next logical step from the query posed previously.
perhaps you should re read some of your own posts at the top of the page there tiger. settle down yourself. I find it hilarious that someone didnt give you the time of day and that seems to be an error in THEIR judgment? hahha. You seem like a real catch...
you got dissed and tried to make her look to be the bad person, labeling her as a gold digger because you dress like shit. The reality is, she was probably not attracted to you...and the fact that you looked like a self described "bum" didnt help the issue. What i found amusing is that you blamed her for your potential inadequacies as a suitor, and not even recognizing that you could have simply been "not her type".
i was on the formula...perhaps thats my problem.
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LOL @ tired of!!
Well, with one notable exception, your women have always treated me right, so chances are I won't be going anywhere anytime soon ;)...especially since I *still* can't get a date with a black girl.
I noticed one (the only one) on a singles site here. Give me 36 hours and I'll get back to you with the how to. :)
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tre,
not to make you even more upset but the sista's LOVE ME
i think cuz they think i'm like a broke version of enrique iglesias (or, at least, that is what i tell myself)
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perhaps you should re read some of your own posts at the top of the page there tiger. settle down yourself. I find it hilarious that someone didnt give you the time of day and that seems to be an error in THEIR judgment? hahha. You seem like a real catch...
you got dissed and tried to make her look to be the bad person, labeling her as a gold digger because you dress like shit. The reality is, she was probably not attracted to you...and the fact that you looked like a self described "bum" didnt help the issue. What i found amusing is that you blamed her for your potential inadequacies as a suitor, and not even recognizing that you could have simply been "not her type".
i was on the formula...perhaps thats my problem.
Even though we're only talking about, perhaps a 2-3 second interaction, I'm willing to bet money that my overall assessment was spot-on.
We already know she wasn't attracted to me - that was conceded at the start - but would that have precluded a polite exchange of neither-of-us-is-interested pleasantries? That's the next progression. I didn't feel I was owed anything as a black person, but as a person, my thought was that the right thing to do was to acknowledge one another. She obviously did not agree.
I drew the conclusion that she wasn't attracted to me in a way that would garner more than a token acknowledgment because of my style of dress (or lack thereof). If it were possible for an independent party to interview her at some point afterwards, I guarantee that would've been one of the first 2 reasons she'd give for her actions in that situation, the other being that she didn't have the time.
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I noticed one (the only one) on a singles site here. Give me 36 hours and I'll get back to you with the how to. :)
LOL!
The whole internet dating thing is all the rage now, I know, but it's so not me (been there, done that back in the 90s when it was cool). My young friends tell me to get with the program, but I'm anti. Facebook is great for a quick hookup, but that's about it. Webcam is cool, too, but again, that's just sex. There are only two women who want to cook for me and the problem is that one of them is married, the other is totally fucked in the head, and neither of them is black. *sigh* (no racist)
tre,
not to make you even more upset but the sista's LOVE ME
i think cuz they think i'm like a broke version of enrique iglesias (or, at least, that is what i tell myself)
I ain't mad at ya! Do ya thang.... ;)
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Even though we're only talking about, perhaps a 2-3 second interaction, I'm willing to bet money that my overall assessment was spot-on.
We already know she wasn't attracted to me - that was conceded at the start - but would that have precluded a polite exchange of neither-of-us-is-interested pleasantries? That's the next progression. I didn't feel I was owed anything as a black person, but as a person, my thought was that the right thing to do was to acknowledge one another. She obviously did not agree.
I drew the conclusion that she wasn't attracted to me in a way that would garner more than a token acknowledgment because of my style of dress (or lack thereof). If it were possible for an independent party to interview her at some point afterwards, I guarantee that would've been one of the first 2 reasons she'd give for her actions in that situation, the other being that she didn't have the time.
understood. youre first post seemed extremely arrogant....
these are the reflections of a man with a more level head. ;)
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tre,
not to make you even more upset but the sista's LOVE ME
i think cuz they think i'm like a broke version of enrique iglesias (or, at least, that is what i tell myself)
Whats the secret, I'm tryna get them to accept my "I want you look at my inner self, rather than my outer self" aka homeless black bearded militant/zen look. And Lucy, it ain't workin!