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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Marty Champions on January 27, 2010, 05:53:21 AM
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life is good aint it? all u need now is to attain epic leans right?
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Yip, have no interest in it, cant think of anything worse personally.
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Yip, have no interest in it, cant think of anything worse personally.
having a kid with a hoe doesnt really garantee that pussy for life, quite the contrary as most of the hoes ive banged were young milfs in there 20's with a kid
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That's me!!
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No kids, but if I had the money, at least 4
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having a kid with a hoe doesnt really garantee that pussy for life, quite the contrary as most of the hoes ive banged were young milfs in there 20's with a kid
Is that what you think having a kid is for? If so, you are sadly mistaken. Some women have kids to bring a man to settle down. Not the opposite. Only a fucked up guy with very little knowledge of women would think that way.
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Is that what you think having a kid is for? If so, you are sadly mistaken. Some women have kids to bring a man to settle down. Not the opposite. Only a fucked up guy with very little knowledge of women would think that way.
most have a kid by mistake anyways, alot of bros are too dumb to pull out or wear a condom, and dont jack off enouhg=premature ejaculate, im assuming you have a kid now by this speech test i have inflicted upon you, props to you for being a father
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That's me!!
Me too. No kids / brats.
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most have a kid by mistake anyways, alot of bros are too dumb to pull out or wear a condom, and dont jack off enouhg=premature ejaculate, im assuming you have a kid now by this speech test i have inflicted upon you, props to you for being a father
I have a kid, chose to after years of being "happily" single. I loved my previous life but I love even more being a dad. But if you fucked a lot of Milfs in their 20s, it's for a simple reason: once a woman becomes a mother, her needs just multiply and becomemuch more difficult to meet. Most men can't or don't want to) face the challenge and the relationship unravels.
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I don't want any kids taking attention away from me >:(
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Me too. No kids / brats.
same here...its nice
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If I wanted a kid I would go out and make one. Kids are great, but not for me. I leave all the baby makin to my siblings
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No kids and won't be having any for a while, but I like diaper porn.
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DINKs here. There are more than 100 million orphans in need of a home; sometimes I feel guilty for not adopting a couple. :-\
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DINKs here. There are more than 100 million orphans in need of a home; sometimes I feel guilty for not adopting a couple. :-\
Will you raise them by the "Schmoeing code"?
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DINKs here. There are more than 100 million orphans in need of a home; sometimes I feel guilty for not adopting a couple. :-\
Would rather it have my genetics...To many f'up people in the world with f'up genetics.
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I don't want any kids taking attention away from me >:(
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Calvin's right. And honest. Once there's a toddler at home, you've got to send fuckin' flares in the house to get your woman to pay attention to you. At least for the first six months.
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hmm perhaps..yes the first 6 months are usually the toughest..just sleep alone..goodness..
Having a 4 and half year old..she is great..I get cleaning and stuff done while she plays and knows that she has to clean up her room on her own..
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Would rather it have my genetics...To many f'up people in the world with f'up genetics.
Your genetics are probably f'up too. You just don't know it yet. :-[
(if you think having good genes are important check out this film...)
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hmm perhaps..yes the first 6 months are usually the toughest..just sleep alone..goodness..
Having a 4 and half year old..she is great..I get cleaning and stuff done while she plays and knows that she has to clean up her room on her own..
and if she doesn't you make her beat her pet hamster to death with a hammer right? 8)
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This thread is filled with the products of generation nothingness. All hedonistic self centered useless immature and emotionally, intellectually -psychologically - underdevelopped lost souls who dont know how to communicate or what "caring about someome else" means anymore.
Trying to find a meaning to their existences into their materialistic and individualistic behaviors, failing to do so, and becoming more and more frustrated and a pain in the ass for the others as a result. No end in sight to their suffering, cause they keep looking for something they cannot comprehend, where it isnt.
Seriously, do humanity a favor, and never ever have kids. You obviously have nothing worth to teach em anyway. It's not entirely your fault, it's mainly your parents fault in the first place.
This is the byproduct of institutionalized hedonism in the western countries since decades, this is the result of going from authoritarian societies in the last century to laxist societies nowadays without finding a balance.
There has to be a middle ground. It has to be built, conquered. Laxism = anxious people with ton of freedom but who dont know what to do with it, authoritarism = people who are told they can only do what the most powerful tell em they can do.
We need a society with Fathers who reclaim their role. We need a society where women once they get what they want, dont ask for more and also learn and accept their own limits. We need societies where human beings are raised with the correct amount of freedom AND authority.
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Your genetics are probably f'up too. You just don't know it yet. :-[
(if you think having good genes are important check out this film...)
I was considering on the mental aspect. My family has no history of addictions nor mental disorders. Both sides of my family that is. I got a divorce and happy for it. The woman I was married to had a fucked up family history all the way around. Thank God I didn't produce children with her.
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and if she doesn't you make her beat her pet hamster to death with a hammer right? 8)
haha no...her only pet hamster are those zhu zhu pets her Uncle got her for xmas...I come from a strict father who was in the military for 28 years and did'nt put up with shit, so in turn I am the same way..For the most part she does'nt whine or have fits..I'm lucky..Hell she has never had an ear infection..But I dont believe in the time out crap..If you act up and you get warned then you do it again..smack on the ass
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learning to pull out (not copious amounts of gay sex likewise to popular opinion) has put me in this sect
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Your genetics are probably f'up too. You just don't know it yet. :-[
(if you think having good genes are important check out this film...)
Terrible film.
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the products of generation nothingness. All hedonistic self centered useless losers who dont know how to communicate or what "caring about someome else" means anymore.
Trying to find a meaning to their existences into their materialistic and individualistic behaviors, failing to do so, and becoming more and more frustrated and a pain in the ass for the others.
Seriously, do humanity a favor, and never ever have kids. You obviously have nothing worth to teach em anyway. It's not entirely your fault, it's mainly your parents fault in the first place.
Well,people don't want to take responsabilities anymore. Better not having any kids if you know you're not up the task or if you hope that your life will stay the same. Still a lot of people have kids (many kids sometimes) and just don't think about the consequences 'til shit hits the fan.
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Well,people don't want to take responsabilities anymore. Better not having any kids if you know you're not up the task or if you hope that your life will stay the same. Still a lot of people have kids (many kids sometimes) and just don't think about the consequences 'til shit hits the fan.
Agreed. I also believe if someone has to go on welfare they should have to automatically get their tubes cut to prevent bringing in more children
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Well,people don't want to take responsabilities anymore. Better not having any kids if you know you're not up the task or if you hope that your life will stay the same. Still a lot of people have kids (many kids sometimes) and just don't think about the consequences 'til shit hits the fan.
The problem is that their instinct of survival will eventually kick in, it's biological and for most, unconscious; even if they have nothing or very few to offer, transmit to their kids, they will have em. This is how Nature works. Even johnny falcon the painter with no education at all , who spends his spare time lifting weights and smoking drugs at past 30 y/o while dreaming about teens, will have kids because he will figure out someday it's his only key to eternity, immortality.
Can you believe that.
Seriously if johnny ever has a daughter, I fear for her, the guy obviously has pedophile tendencies, women dont interest him, little teens or prebuscent girls do.
Stupid people also tend to breed even more than smarter people for some reasons. Looks like the ratio smart people/ stupid people will always be like 1 vs 9.
And we wonder why the societies have always been pyramidal....
Everything is cyclic, hydraulic, and systemic. Everything is process of survival.
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Well,people don't want to take responsabilities anymore. Better not having any kids if you know you're not up the task or if you hope that your life will stay the same. Still a lot of people have kids (many kids sometimes) and just don't think about the consequences 'til shit hits the fan.
X2
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i only want to sodomize women these days.
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the problem is that their instinct of survival will eventually kick in, it's biological, and even if they have nothing to offer, transmit to their kids, they will have em. This is how Nature works. Even johnny falcon the painter with no education at all , spends his spare time lifting weights and smoking drugs at pat 30 y/o, will have kids because he will figure out someday it's his only key to eternity, immortality.
Can you believe that.
Stupid people also tend to breed even more than smarter people for some reasons.[/b] Looks like the ratio smart people/ stupid people will always be like 1 vs 9.
And we wonder why the societies have always been pyramidal....
Gregarious instinct is still strong in humans not matter what distance has been put with nature. Smarter people have a deeper understanding of what makes an individual, not simply buying the "individualism" that is sold right now in magazines like they sell toilet paper. Having a kid nowadays is a task, a commitment for twenty+ years. My lifestyle has changed completely since i became a father. Good thing I was prettymuch prepared for it. I wasn't as prepared to understand the immediate repercussions on my couple though. But I'm trying now harder and it's working. Just need to set priorities. "Shopping" is not a concept that applies to parenthood.
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We're trying for kids next year when we're married. Looking around me I see little feral fucking idiot kids raised by parents that should have been sterilised after their first primary school test paper result. My wife-to-be's brother has a 5 year old I want to throw against the wall and stomp on until the blood is drained into the carpet and bones a pulpy grey mess. Then again, a friend of ours have two kids (6 and 3) I'd adopt right now and raise them as my own. The kids are a reflection of their parents, and parents these days are mostly fucking morons. I hope I do a better job
Edit, I'm 29 turning 30 this year.
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Getbiggers that shouldn't have kids : Johnny Falcon (never)
Sevastase (never)
Swede (not yet )
Ironneck (not yet )
Disturbia (never)
JNN (not yet )
Vince Goodrum (never)
MattT (hmmmmmm)
Tbombz (hmmmmmm)
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We're trying for kids next year when we're married. Looking around me I see little feral fucking idiot kids raised by parents that should have been sterilised after their first primary school test paper result. My wife-to-be's brother has a 5 year old I want to throw against the wall and stomp on until the blood is drained into the carpet and bones a pulpy grey mess. Then again, a friend of ours have two kids (6 and 3) I'd adopt right now and raise them as my own. The kids are a reflection of their parents, and parents these days are mostly fucking morons. I hope I do a better job
Edit, I'm 29 turning 30 this year.
Children are the physical, biological, and psychological sum of what their parents were and are. This can be either MODIFIED or REINFORCED by education.
Parents who keep improving themselves on a daily basis will teach their kids to improve themselves on a daily basis.
Know yourself and your kids will know who they are.
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Most parents have quit their duties. They try to feel good about themselves by saying that kids are only kids, that they need to be respected and treated like adults would though (strange conflict there), that they have their right to choose this or that. But kids are not that way, they reproduce what they see and most of them they are just dead anxious to be around parents who have no ability to make decisions. Kids need to be relieved of the stress of choosing things that only grown ups can choose. That's how they learn: learn to obey to learn to make decisions later on.
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We're trying for kids next year when we're married. Looking around me I see little feral fucking idiot kids raised by parents that should have been sterilised after their first primary school test paper result. My wife-to-be's brother has a 5 year old I want to throw against the wall and stomp on until the blood is drained into the carpet and bones a pulpy grey mess. Then again, a friend of ours have two kids (6 and 3) I'd adopt right now and raise them as my own. The kids are a reflection of their parents, and parents these days are mostly fucking morons. I hope I do a better job
Edit, I'm 29 turning 30 this year.
If you want a girl, hit it from the front.
If you want a boy, hit it from the back.
It's an exact science.
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Getbiggers that shouldn't have kids : Johnny Falcon (never)
Sevastase (never)
Swede (not yet )
Ironneck (not yet )
Disturbia (never)
JNN (not yet )
Vince Goodrum (never)
MattT (hmmmmmm)
Tbombz (hmmmmmm)
unfortunately I'm pretty sure johnny, swede, ironneck, jnn and tbombz will. They ll have kids before being mature enough and this will only lead to more problematic troubled children being spawned and reproducing their dysfunctional genitors behaviors. Over, and over, and over and over, and over and over and over...
Sevastase and disturbia are too old , too damaged, too egoistical, and vince goodcum and mattt are gays.
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If you want a girl, hit it from the front.
If you want a boy, hit it from the back.
It's an exact science.
I want two girls.
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awesome
i'm in the "not yet" category
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awesome
i'm in the "not yet" category
Do you agree Johnny ?
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I turn 28 this year, been married for almost 4 years, and don't have kids yet!
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Do you agree Johnny ?
yeah
i have ALOT of things I have to accomplish (or at least, attempt to accomplish) before i try to have kids
you're life isn't over (by any means) when you have kids but it will take a large amount of time
it wouldn't be fair to a kid to be raised by a absent father
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it wouldn't be fair to a kid to be raised by a absent father
of course not. We know what it does dont we?
But you might repair, improve what was broken, if you have enough "balls" - brains - to do it, you can become a father and learn how to be a good one. Nothing is written in stone. But obviously you have to improve yourself before pretending to be able to raise kids. Or you will live vicarously thru them, and hope they will do what you hadnt the balls to do with your own existence, if you dont quit the responsabilites in the meanwhile.
there are people with tons of money and who consider that is the only requirement to be allowed to have kids. Yet spawn anxious and depressed kids who want to kill themselves once they reach their teenage years. So money isnt the only factor either.
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If you want a girl, hit it from the front.
If you want a boy, hit it from the back.
It's an exact science.
Strangely enough, that's what most 'guides' say as well. Go figure.
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yeah
i have ALOT of things I have to accomplish (or at least, attempt to accomplish) before i try to have kids
you're life isn't over (by any means) when you have kids but it will take a large amount of time
it wouldn't be fair to a kid to be raised by a absent father
C'mon, Johnny, we all know how this goes. You'll fall for a girl with a great ass as deep as she is shallow that you will impregnate by mistake and she'll give you a beautiful speech about paenthood and you two growing up and growing old together. Then she'll drop you flat right after the kid's first Bday (I'd say a girl BTW) with the kid. You'll go crazy at first then become once of those overprotective single dads that will prevent his child to do all the things he's done himself. Insisting that she get a great education, a good job, etc....And she'll come visit every sunday when you'll turn old and grey even though she'll get occasionaly tired of your recent political views (for exemple saying Coach is a communist cockroach).
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well what mortalcoil is saying here, which is absolutely true, is that obviously, the woman ALSO has to be as smart as the man. Takes two to make one.
But here we re facing another question: how to select the correct partner? Especially when men are conditionned to just look at the physical traits and dont see the importance of psychological traits in women -which are fundamental to keep a stable, healthy and improving couple relationship, but also to raise children in a healthy environment.
How someone who's dumb, can select someone who's smart as a life partner? why would someone smart fall for someone who's dumb?
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For most women it is 'Please let him have money, I can work on dominating him, suppressing his personality and change him completely later on. Just let him have money'
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fact of the matter is that i'm not ready and i know how to "pull out" (however, i have "finished" inside several times despite being able to control myself)
worst case scenario, my mom and aunt are still alive and they can raise my kid cause lords know the jersey shore reject i end up knocking up wouldn't have a clue to raise a kid
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I want two girls.
Nothing wrong with a threesome as long there aren't annoying kids who spoil the fun :D
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well what mortalcoil is saying here, which is absolutely true, is that obviously, the woman ALSO has to be as smart as the man. Takes two to make one.
But here we re facing another question: how to select the correct partner? Especially when men are conditionned to just looking at the physical traits and dont see the importance of psychological traits in women -which are fundamental to keep a stable, healthy and improving couple relationship, but also to raise children in a healthy environment.
Nowadays, one of the biggest problems, specially in big cities, is that people (men and women) have become incredibly cunning. A lot of people when single will give a certain image of themselves which is built to attract. Once in a relationship, things change but never asmuch as when you become parents. That's where you understand if you're dealin' with a spoiled brat who thinks life should be a fairy tale and will blame you for every single obstacle you'll find in life or a woman who knows that nothing is granted, that most things go wrong by nature, that you have to fight though you will never ever be problem-free and that patience is the key.
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Nothing wrong with a threesome as long there aren't annoing kids who spoil the fun :D
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For most women it is 'Please let him have money, I can work on dominating him, suppressing his personality and change him completely later on. Just let him have money'
Men have to change women.
Women have to change men.
Everything in life is about alterating each other's minds. That's how it works. And it's great if everything is transparent, crystal clear and if both know and agree on some common, mutual objectives they both follow.
But none have to dominate the other. Balance has to be found, not domination. Domination, doubts and lack of communication, are the seeds of all later psychological implosions.
It's about complementing each other's strenghts, and IMPROVING each other's weaknesses over time.
It's about learning who both your parents were and are and what you got from em, and how it impacts on both your own existences. How to improve the good, and how to resorb the bad.
It requires that at least one of the two indivuals has high communication, self introspection skills. This is all what is needed. The other one will learn from him/her.
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We're trying for kids next year when we're married. Looking around me I see little feral fucking idiot kids raised by parents that should have been sterilised after their first primary school test paper result. My wife-to-be's brother has a 5 year old I want to throw against the wall and stomp on until the blood is drained into the carpet and bones a pulpy grey mess. Then again, a friend of ours have two kids (6 and 3) I'd adopt right now and raise them as my own. The kids are a reflection of their parents, and parents these days are mostly fucking morons. I hope I do a better job
Edit, I'm 29 turning 30 this year.
Kids are a reflection of their parents..Hell just the example of overweight kids. When you see these young 5 and 6 year olds, they are obese already, then you look at their parents and they too are obese. Probably the main reason I had to loose 150 pounds. Have to set the example for my little one.
I have volunteered in my daughters room at her school and I have to say, the way some of these kids act is UNREAL. One girl bit a teacher then called her fat. I whispered in my daughters ear, "If you ever act like that or say something like that, you will deal with me on a level you never have before".
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Nowadays, one of the biggest problems, specially in big cities, is that people (men and women) have become incredibly cunning. A lot of people when single will give a certain image of themselves which is built to attract. Once in a relationship, things change but never asmuch as when you become parents. That's where you understand if you're dealin' with a spoiled brat who thinks life should be a fairy tale and will blame you for every single obstacle you'll find in life or a woman who knows that nothing is granted, that most things go wrong by nature, that you have to fight though you will never ever be problem-free and that patience is the key.
Then you have to teach her how things really work. Takes skills...takes patience...If you're convinced she's worth it and has something to offer in return of course. Anyone who has kids with a woman after he only spent 1 or 3 years living with her is a moron. I'd say between 5 to 10 years spent living 24/7 with your partner is the minimum before considering having kids with him/her. Takes lot of time to know yourself, and as much if not more to know someone else. You also understand who you are living with others, and you help them know who they are themselves. If your parents know -and accept, tell you- who they are it greatly accelerates your own understanding of who you are and what you want. A decisive advantage in society, for your own survival.
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::) ??? :o
I don't wanna share no boobies! >:(
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Kids are a reflection of their parents..Hell just the example of overweight kids. When you see these young 5 and 6 year olds, they are obese already, then you look at their parents and they too are obese. Probably the main reason I had to loose 150 pounds. Have to set the example for my little one.
I have volunteered in my daughters room at her school and I have to say, the way some of these kids act is UNREAL. One girl bit a teacher then called her fat. I whispered in my daughters ear, "If you ever act like that or say something like that, you will deal with me on a level you never have before".
Your parents didn`t forcefeed you to 150 lbs overweight. You single handedly put hoove to mouth under your own volition. You could have had the wherewithal to educate yourself before the problem sustained itself or even got out of hand. Blame yourself for not knowing what a caloric deficit is.
Hopefully you are educating your children by not demonizing foods but instead focusing on overall caloric amounts.
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the idea of getting kids now or about a few years makes me gasping for air.
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Children are the physical, biological, and psychological sum of what their parents were and are. This can be either MODIFIED or REINFORCED by education.
Parents who keep improving themselves on a daily basis will teach their kids to improve themselves on a daily basis.
Know yourself and your kids will know who they are.
You are somewhat incorrect here. You start out correct when you state that Children are "biologically" (I would rather use genetically since Biologically is not really apt in this case, but I understand what you meant to convey) where you made a wrong turn is assuming that the Phenotype determines the Genotype (Parents who keep improving themselves will teach offspring to improve as well. There is no causal relationship whatsoever here to demonstrate correlation.
Furthermore Stephen Pinker, author of The Blank Slate, states "Children are NOT shaped by their parents OVER THE LONG RUN, but only in part by their genes, their culture, the culture of their country at large, their children`s own culture (mainly their peer group) and to a larger extent by chance. Chance events of the wiring of the brain In utero, chance events as one lives their life."
This should be intriguing and worth watching.
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29 and no kids. We have the money to afford a child, but it hasn't happened yet.
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the idea of getting kids now or about a few years makes me gasping for air.
Add Mars to my list .
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Add Mars to my list .
Mars is our father and we are all his children.
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Mars is our father and we are all his children.
Amen
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32/no kids.
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36, married for 3 years, and no kids yet. Wife is 32.
Right now, in a shitty economy, and barely staying afloat, is enough to decide against having a kid.
When the time is right, i can see myself being a 40 year old dad.
My dad become a father a second time at 52, so fuck it.
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30 and no kids.
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With all honesty. The only time I've ever seen a happy relationship with kids involed if by the super rich. The reason being is that they are rich and don't take care of they're children one bit. Nanny's and servants do it. Of course I've heard the new Dad story always so happy going on about how amazing it feels and it changes they're life for the better. Then two years pass and they say the same shite as everyone else. They wish they never did it and are going through a divorce. All the mentors in my life constantly tell me to avoid marriage and children. My Brother is 40 years old and he's still on my Dad's payroll. Once you have a child you never get rid of them. And about the kid taking care of you when your old? Thats BS. They just stick you in a home. Just like where my Grandparents are. Chef Tim votes no to children.
I second the motion! Hear! Hear!
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With all honesty. The only time I've ever seen a happy relationship with kids involed if by the super rich. The reason being is that they are rich and don't take care of they're children one bit. Nanny's and servants do it. Of course I've heard the new Dad story always so happy going on about how amazing it feels and it changes they're life for the better. Then two years pass and they say the same shite as everyone else. They wish they never did it and are going through a divorce. All the mentors in my life constantly tell me to avoid marriage and children. My Brother is 40 years old and he's still on my Dad's payroll. Once you have a child you never get rid of them. And about the kid taking care of you when your old? Thats BS. They just stick you in a home. Just like where my Grandparents are. Chef Tim votes no to children.
lmao x2 ..I love that one also.
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For the life of me I have yet to understand why anyone would choose to have chilfren.
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Oh yeah, 34 no kids.
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That'd be me I can afford mew and kids. I'm pretty much a kid myself.
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I don't wanna come across as a jerk to any Dads out there. But this is just my own personnal experience. A friend of mine has two daughters. 15 & 16. They're both HS drop outs, doing drugs, and dating dirtbags that are like 25 years old. He cannot get out of it. My Brother and his wife were the most in love couple I've ever seen. Truly meant for each other. Then they had two kids and they don't even sleep in the same room anymore. Stress got to them. Hey I would really like to have a little Chef Tim. Only if I had serious cash so the education was set, nannies were set, and stress wouldn't be such a tremendous factor. I'm just your average schmuck. I can't afford all that. My Dad had three kids. I never saw the guy until he was 55 and retired. Because he was working all the time trying to pay the bills! This is what reality is.
How did your Dad retire at 55?
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I want the fairy tale marriage.
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No kids doesn't mean a bad thing. If you aren't in the right state of mind to raise one, have minimal coin, just pull out.
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I want the fairy tale marriage.
You wanna marry xerces ???
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Not without dinner and a movie first.
Ha ;D
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Ha ;D
8)
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Mars is our father and we are all his children.
Let this be a warning for future parents :-X
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Almost 29 and no kids here. I've enjoyed spending my money on me up to this point.
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I'm 31 with no kids. bought my own house, car etc.
I would like kids one day though, just have to find the right bitch LOL
broke up with my girlfriend in the fall, now back in the market for some poontang LOL
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No kids and won't be having any for a while, but I like diaper porn.
Yeah, baby! ;D
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Yeah, baby! ;D
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I meant the other kind - the one where one hot chick changes the diaper of another, in the middle of which they 69 and do other beautiful things to each other :P
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Ejaculation control is a science that can be controlled = no kids
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I don't have any kids :'(
Perhaps I'll console myself by getting a new toy! :D
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Bay how would you ever have kids, adoption?
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Had my first son at 36 and my 2nd son at 39, best thing ever to happen to me.
They are 7 & 4.
I couldn't even picture having kids till i was 34.
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Early 40's with no kids.
Too many people on this planet as it is, and the population continues to increase exponentially.
Shame on anyone selfish enough to have children.
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i am 40 and married with no kids. best decision i ever made.
congrats xb keep up the good work 8) kids are trouble
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what are good reasons to have kids?
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I'm 31 with no kids. bought my own house, car etc.
I would like kids one day though, just have to find the right bitch LOL
broke up with my girlfriend in the fall, now back in the market for some poontang LOL
str8 up getbig style right thuurr.
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Getbiggers that shouldn't have kids : Johnny Falcon (never)
Sevastase (never)
Swede (not yet )
Ironneck (not yet )
Disturbia (never)
JNN (not yet )
Vince Goodrum (never)
MattT (hmmmmmm)
Tbombz (hmmmmmm)
Its an honor not to be on that list Lol. ::)
i have blue eyes, straight brown hair and im 6ft.2, pretty good genetics id say. Obviously i have not lived up to my genetics fully yet, which is why my arms are only 16 inches lol.
Im not good looking or ugly either.
I think i would produce better children than some brown eyed/black haired midgets of the world.
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what are good reasons to have kids?
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To create a family
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To create a family
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and?
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that's what i thought :)
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that's what i thought :)
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I personally still can't figure out the use of kids apart from 'nice to have' ...... for most people. I most likely will have a kid come 2011 but only because the wife-to-be is getting really broody now and there is really no reason why we shouldn't. I just pray it's a girl as I cannot stand little boys crying, making a racket and generally being a sissy until he man up. Perhaps my experience comes from my girlfriend's brother and his little boy being such a useless little shit that makes fucking noise, burst out in tears if he don't get his way, isn't even remotely likeable and generally just being a fucking oxygen thief. Unlike the gays here on Getbig, I've not met a little boy that's remotely likeable hence me praying for a girl.
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I personally still can't figure out the use of kids apart from 'nice to have' ...... for most people. I most likely will have a kid come 2011 but only because the wife-to-be is getting really broody now and there is really no reason why we shouldn't. I just pray it's a girl as I cannot stand little boys crying, making a racket and generally being a sissy until he man up. Perhaps my experience comes from my girlfriend's brother and his little boy being such a useless little shit that makes fucking noise, burst out in tears if he don't get his way, isn't even remotely likeable and generally just being a fucking oxygen thief. Unlike the gays here on Getbig, I've not met a little boy that's remotely likeable hence me praying for a girl.
generally lil boys and lil girls (like up until two or three) act the same...there is no "Manning Up", they all act like lil shits, lil crybaby's. it's "us" that starts to treat them different based on their sex. They all look at you with those Starry Big eyes and laugh while shit their diapers and laugh when you are changing them, and laugh while you throw them away. They again look at you all Starry Eyed when they throw up in your face, then repeat the cycle all over again.
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generally lil boys and lil girls (like up until two or three) act the same...there is no "Manning Up", they all act like lil shits, lil crybaby's. it's "us" that starts to treat them different based on their sex. They all look at you with those Starry Big eyes and laugh while shit their diapers and laugh when you are changing them, and laugh while you throw them away. They again look at you all Starry Eyed when they throw up in your face, then repeat the cycle all over again.
Perhaps, but I will have more time for a girl than a boy. I might not be liberal enough here, but I cannot stand boys crying, regardless of age and I might lose respect for the kid if he does. Again, my experiences with seeing boys being raised from a young age is all based on one kid that is very fucking difficult to like. Even watching a movie with a young boy in it (no home, no pedo) still reinforce my view of not wanting boys. If it happens, then so be it, but my overwhelming choice is still a girl.
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Perhaps, but I will have more time for a girl than a boy. I might not be liberal enough here, but I cannot stand boys crying, regardless of age and I might lose respect for the kid if he does. Again, my experiences with seeing boys being raised from a young age is all based on one kid that is very fucking difficult to like. Even watching a movie with a young boy in it (no home, no pedo) still reinforce my view of not wanting boys. If it happens, then so be it, but my overwhelming choice is still a girl.
Hmm, that's odd, most guys don't want a girl because they don't want to go into the whole "her dating" thing...because they know if that little girl grows up to have very pretty face, DD's, a small waist and a nice butt, they know what they would have done as young man at her age.
Boys you can rough house teach football, go to games, teach him how to work on cars, etc.
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Hmm, that's odd, most guys don't want a girl because they want to go into the whole "her dating" thing...because they know if that little girl grows up to have very pretty face, DD's, a small waist and a nice butt, they know what they would have done as young man at her age.
Boys you can rough house teach football, go to games, teach him how to work on cars, etc.
It's cool, at least I will have a good 16 years with her before being done for shooting a guy in the face and taking a dump on his quivering corpse. I think the only time having a boy is cool would actually be at the age where you can open up a car bonnet or go weightlifting with him. It's just getting to that age :o
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haha are you all fucking sterile or what?
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i've got no children, i'm 31.
i think that people generally do children for bad reason :
-accident :uncontrolled ejaculation, condom rupture, women who consciencoulsy forget contraception "baby on the back" as we say in france.
-to save their couple.
-because they got a life plan
ex:married at 25.
buy house at 26.
3 children before 30.
generally divorced before 35.
all these reason are bad reason.
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i've got no children, i'm 31.
i think that people generally do children for bad reason :
-accident :uncontrolled ejaculation, condom rupture, women who consciencoulsy forget contraception "baby on the back" as we say in france.
-to save their couple.
-because they got a life plan
ex:married at 25.
buy house at 26.
3 children before 30.
generally divorced before 35.
all these reason are bad reason.
One smart dude is Cole 8)
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it's an incomparable feeling to find a little creature who looks like you running towards you as soon as you enter the house calling you with a big joy "pappy pappy" and giving you an innocent lovely kiss!!..
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haha are you all fucking sterile or what?
steroids
sterile
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WTF who the hell wants a girl.
1. When she turns 16 your life becomes hell worrying about her.
2. Girls always make a better connection to their mother than father.
3. If she gets married or has children your surname dosen't continue.
4. If you have a son you can lift weights with him and play sports etc, what the fuck could you do with a girl? nothing only their mother could teach them to use makeup/tampons lol.
Kings always wanted sons, daughters were a dissapointment lol.
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then again it won't really bother me much if i never have kids, 20 years of hard work lol. It's probably not worth it.
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i've got no children, i'm 31.
i think that people generally do children for bad reason :
-accident :uncontrolled ejaculation, condom rupture, women who consciencoulsy forget contraception "baby on the back" as we say in france.
-to save their couple.
-because they got a life plan
ex:married at 25.
buy house at 26.
3 children before 30.
generally divorced before 35.
all these reason are bad reason.
Bingo...
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i'm a night worker, and i can see that all my friend working with me.
their life are neverending punishement.
ex: finishing work at 05h 00 am, sleeping two hours, wake up, bring children to school, sleep from 9 to 12 pm; then wake up go to school etc etc
it's even worse when school is closed " i can't sleep today, must take care of children, my wife is at work"
no time for sport, no hobbies, no money, married with un-bangable angry wife, no life.
=SHITIEST LIFE EVER.
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when u have kids your life is over.
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We are here to have kids. The very purpose of our existences is to reproduce, transmit what we have. Your life truly starts when you have kids in fact, not the oposite. The process of growing up leads to being able to have kids. If you dont see the point of having kids, it means your pshycological development is stuck somewhere. There are steps, there is an order in things, that regulates our existences. You cannot flee these steps, you can only pretend to ignore what you re suposed to do to reach the next step. You can only pretend to ignore what you are designed to do. But it wont dismiss th fact that's what you re designed to do.
Want to live like an hedonist until you reach your 50s and then suddenly want your part of eternity, immortality ? i hope you ll be filthy rich and still looking good so you can impregnate a younger submissive woman then. But most men with nothing to offer just end alone banging ugly women who followed the same kind of lifestyle. This is the result of the hedonistic, individualistic and materialistic way of life most westerners follow. People from the third world who are still family oriented will flood and replace us easely. They improve their material life, but they keep being family oriented, cumulating the best of both worlds. They re also harder workers for most immigrants. Most westerners are just somehow killing themselves by not reproducing. Hedonism is suicidal. Laxism is suicidal. Individualism is suicidal. Materialism is suicidal. All of em combined and raised as the new official occidental way of life / model to follow leads to the disapearing of westerners.
Are your own parents separated btw?
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Hmm, that's odd, most guys don't want a girl because they don't want to go into the whole "her dating" thing...because they know if that little girl grows up to have very pretty face, DD's, a small waist and a nice butt, they know what they would have done as young man at her age.
Boys you can rough house teach football, go to games, teach him how to work on cars, etc.
Translation: "if that little girl grows up to have very pretty face, DD's, a small waist and a nice butt"- They themselves will then want to molest it.
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'I like children - fried.' W. C. Fields
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Translation: "if that little girl grows up to have very pretty face, DD's, a small waist and a nice butt"- They themselves will then want to molest it.
exactly. Extreme and regular porn consumption leads to more pedophilia, I'm pretty sure of this. These men who spend hours a week jerking off to pictures of teen girls will develop pedophile tendancies, and if they have daughters we will see an increase in incestuous relationships in tomorrow families.
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Children are the orgasm of life.
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Pumpster approved.
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We are here to have kids. The very purpose of our existences is to reproduce, transmit what we have. Your life truly starts when you have kids in fact, not the oposite. The process of growing up leads to being able to have kids. There are steps, there is an order in things, that regulates our existences. You cannot flee, you can only pretend to ignore what you re suposed to do. What you are designed to do.
Want to live like an hedonist until you reach your 50s and then suddenly want your part of eternity, immortality ? i hope you ll be filthy rich and still looking good so you can impregnate a younger submissive woman then. But most men with nothing to offer just end alone banging ugly women who followed the same kind of lifestyle.
Are your own parents separated btw?
1. There is no "grand order" to things as you think exists.
2. EVERY Homo sapien CANNOT reproduce (unless aided). It is only through our modern technology that infant mortality rates are low and that many who, without the usage of technology, would never have a chance at being pregnant. Most mothers would never survive Child birth and if they did, they would have even a higher chance of miscarriage or infant death. Also consider Some Homo Sapiens are and were genetically hard-wired to be hunters or gatherers and not gene replicators.
3. There is a genetic component in almost everything but that does NOT mean you can`t reverse it or change it. We are not beholden to our "selfish genes" in any way. Just as we can use technology to overcome genetic limitations, we can easily use forethought to choose not to have children. Furthermore, our cultural norms and values and vain desires can also dictate if we replicate. (this is the case for nearly ALL pregnancies.All one has to do is read this very thread on why they are having children) Human civilization may not have made it this far had we behaved or solely acted according to or on our genetic desires.
3. As Steven Pinker says on choosing to be childless-"I am happy to be that way, and if my genes don't like it, they can go jump in the lake."
4. Don`t fool yourself into thinking that your own bias of wanting or raising children is universal and that we all should expect or want children. If your posts are any indicator of your own intentions, then you clearly want children solely out of vanity as you seem to think some pittance of genetic immortality will carry on when in truth you probably have no advantageous mutation whatsoever to contribute to the wide and existing gene pool. The gene pool is so large with so few pressures that any contribution you did make (which is most likely none given the ENTIRELY SMALL amount of likely positive mutations that would arise each generation if any) would be nearly invisible.
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exactly. Extreme and regular porn consumption leads to more pedophilia, I'm pretty sure of this. These men who spend hours a week jerking off to pictures of teen girls will develop pedophile tendancies, and if they have daughters we will see an increase in incestuous relationships in tomorrow families.
Agreed. They will be merely either acting on their genetic and cultural desires and molesting them or using them as a fetish in some way or they will be doing everything in their power to disobey their genetic and cultural desire to carry it out. This particularly rings true to those who masturbate to a younger ideal. Perhaps that will be their release instead of molestation.
They will deny this, but these thoughts surely exist in fathers minds who do have daughters. I doubt any here will admit it however.
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Let me also add;
Or they will obey the laws (incest laws) we have set up to curb their genetic appetite.
Or they will obey cultural norms and values and not engage in incest due to the taboo.
Or they could possibly be disinterested totally which is not one hundred percent likely as the thought at least will surely cross their minds at least once.
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1. There is no "grand order" to things as you think exists.
2. EVERY Homo sapien CANNOT reproduce (unless aided). It is only through our modern technology that infant mortality rates are low and that many who, without the usage of technology, would never have a chance at being pregnant. Most mothers would never survive Child birth and if they did, they would have even a higher chance of miscarriage or infant death. Also consider Some Homo Sapiens are and were genetically hard-wired to be hunters or gatherers and not gene replicators.
3. There is a genetic component in almost everything but that does NOT mean you can`t reverse it or change it. We are not beholden to our "selfish genes" in any way. Just as we can use technology to overcome genetic limitations, we can easily use forethought to choose not to have children. Furthermore, our cultural norms and values and vain desires can also dictate if we replicate. (this is the case for nearly ALL pregnancies.All one has to do is read this very thread on why they are having children) Human civilization may not have made it this far had we behaved or solely acted according to or on our genetic desires.
3. As Steven Pinker says on choosing to be childless-"I am happy to be that way, and if my genes don't like it, they can go jump in the lake."
4. Don`t fool yourself into thinking that your own bias of wanting or raising children is universal and that we all should expect or want children. If your posts are any indicator of your own intentions, then you clearly want children solely out of vanity as you seem to think some pittance of genetic immortality will carry on when in truth you probably have no advantageous mutation whatsoever to contribute to the wide and existing gene pool. The gene pool is so large with so few pressures that any contribution you did make (which is most likely none given the ENTIRELY SMALL amount of likely positive mutations that would arise each generation if any) would be nearly invisible.
I ve never heard of people in ther 50s who are "happy" not to have had kids. Also let's not forget that often not being able to have kids is linked to not being able to have stable relationships with women in the first place. And let's not also forget the fact the desire to have kids develops itself when you re living with a partner.
The desire/pulsion to have kids is biological first and foremost.
Developing the idea thru your life that you dont need to have kids is a societal, environmental construct that might interferes with the biological pulsion.
Progresses of sicence, technology, led to the spread of hedonism, indivualistic and materialistic behaviors. Richer social classes are more prone to be conditionned by hedonism, indivualistic and materialistic behaviors. Poorer social classes -especially from the third world, blacks, asian, arabs- often have stronger family oriented feelings than westerners.
Westerners - whites and blacks- are the only ones who are materialistic, hedonists, individualistic, AND WHO ARE DESTROYING THEIR FAMILIES TIES all by themselves.
Most asians and arabs once they have an access to an improved material life dont become extreme hedonists, dont become more individual, they very often marry/mix/balance strong family ties with the access to an improved material life. These are of course the main trends I ve seen from my own experience.
I also have read several testimonies of men and women in their 50/60s who never had children and are truly desperate about it and consider themselves as abnormal, unfulfilled. They say they spent most of their life trying to rationalize their desire not to have kids, just to figure that they still biolgogically -not intelectually- feel the need to have them. It means that whatever you do or think, you cannot supress the biological desire which is mostly chemically stimulated.
But that's just my own honest opinion.
Ps: Helen Fisher in "why we love" says " the general consensus amongst current top scientists at the moment is that about 50% of our temperament is inherited genetically, the rest is molded by education and our familiy/friend circles."
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i wonder how a kid between uber man and true adonis would turn out :D
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i wonder how a kid between uber man and true adonis would turn out :D
tip: we're both males. Two males aint going to spawn a child.
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tip: we're both males. Two males aint going to spawn a child.
He believes in the "immaculate conception" so there is no telling what kind of cockamamie he has cooked up this time. ;D
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Lots of non-pussy getting mofos in this thread ::). Have fun with all your free time and I will spend time with my daughter. I was just like all you guys before I had a child too, so it's understandable. You will probably look back when you are old and wish you had at least one child.
Were most of you from seperated families or something or have a bad childhood ???
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Lots of non-pussy getting mofos in this thread ::). Have fun with all your free time and I will spend time with my daughter. I was just like all you guys before I had a child too, so it's understandable. You will probably look back when you are old and wish you had at least one child.
Were most of you from seperated families or something or have a bad childhood ???
Where do you fall in accordance with the molestation scale that I mentioned previously?
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Lots of non-pussy getting mofos in this thread ::). Have fun with all your free time and I will spend time with my daughter. I was just like all you guys before I had a child too, so it's understandable. You will probably look back when you are old and wish you had at least one child.
Were most of you from seperated families or something or have a bad childhood ???
;D
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Where do you fall in accordance with the molestation scale that I mentioned previously?
Not on there. IDK why anyone would ever molest a child-anyone convicted of this should be given the death penalty IMO. I would lose my mind if someone ever did that to my daughter. They would be in trouble when the crosshairs of my rifle scope steady over their private area....
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;D
Great novel.
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Not on there. IDK why anyone would ever molest a child-anyone convicted of this should be given the death penalty IMO. I would lose my mind if someone ever did that to my daughter. They would be in trouble when the crosshairs of my rifle scope steady over their private area....
Would you be able to shoot yourself though?
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Would you be able to shoot yourself though?
Are you insinuating he molest his own daughter therefore perhaps needing to turn the gun on himself?
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Are you insinuating he molest his own daughter therefore perhaps needing to turn the gun on himself?
The thought of doing so, if it already has not crossed his mind, will undoubtedly do so at some point in time (even if he is utterly repulsed by it). Whether he acts upon it we may never know.
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Great novel.
yes sure, i like dickens in general!..
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The thought of doing so, if it already has not crossed his mind, will undoubtedly do so at some point in time (even if he is utterly repulsed by it). Whether he acts upon it we may never know.
Dude, in all honesty and respect. wtf?
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I have two children, most fullfilling thing i have ever done in my life, raising a family in todays western materialised world isn't easy would love to have had more, but giving each child the time they need and being able to afford to educate them properly and take care of them the way i feel i need to, by having the best health care plan etc is important to me, affordability isn't the reason i didn't have more, it was more a time thing, I don't see the point of having them if you cant spend time with them, but there are plenty of good kids that come from environments such as boarding schools that turned our academically alright without a huge personal influence from their parents, but as its my time and choice i need to give my children the best opportunity's in life and as much personal time as i can find,so that hopefully they get more from me than just an opportunity to get a good education but thats just the way i approach things.
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Dude, in all honesty and respect. wtf?
It may be taboo and uncomfortable to talk about such things but never discount genetic sexual attraction. Somewhere around 20 percent of all females are molested. Perhaps even more.
Now thinking about it and being repulsed by it or not being repulsed by it occurs 100 percent of the time.
As you can see from several posts on this thread that parents and potential parents fear who their kin will select as a mate and therefore have already formed a mental picture and scenario of the act or acts of sex their offspring will commit and engage in with whomever it may be. They in fact are seeing their kin in a sexual manner and gauging the potential sexuality of their offspring. Some even wish to go a bit further and prohibit any such act unless it is to their standard. (perhaps someone more like themselves) They wish to regulate their offspring`s sexual economy with self-imposed and self-biased regulation. We have to then ask, what is the basis of their regulation and why.
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I have two children, most fullfilling thing i have ever done in my life, raising a family in todays western materialised world isn't easy would love to have had more, but giving each child the time they need and being able to afford to educate them properly and take care of them the way i feel i need to, by having the best health care plan etc is important to me, affordability isn't the reason i didn't have more, it was more a time thing, I don't see the point of having them if you cant spend time with them, but there are plenty of good kids that come from environments such as boarding schools that turned our academically alright without a huge personal influence from their parents, but as its my time and choice i need to give my children the best opportunity's in life and as much personal time as i can find,so that hopefully they get more from me than just an opportunity to get a good education but thats just the way i approach things.
Your first sentence-"most fullfilling thing i have ever done in my life". Is this indicative of the main reason you chose to have children? In other words, you were lacking fulfillment and needed a solution and offspring were it. Or is this simply hindsight and a by-product that you did not expect?
I am curious as to how and why you arrived at your decision if it was or was not out of vanity or if some other area in your life or relationship was lacking or not.
Perhaps it wasn`t even your idea but your companion`s idea and you just went along. Perhaps a mutual decision? Can you take us through YOUR process and agreement?
Go a little bit deeper for us if you may as I am generally curious as to the decision making process. I hope you are not taking my line of questioning in a negative way.
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most have a kid by mistake anyways, alot of bros are too dumb to pull out or wear a condom, and dont jack off enouhg=premature ejaculate, im assuming you have a kid now by this speech test i have inflicted upon you, props to you for being a father
women don't have kids "by mistake" that is what they may tell the victim aka father, but it simply doesn't happen.
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Translation: "if that little girl grows up to have very pretty face, DD's, a small waist and a nice butt"- They themselves will then want to molest it.
No, Think back to when you were a teenager and you saw (insert name). And she was fine, or the chick all the dudes wanted. Do you really, really think that their fathers were like, "that's okay, take my daughter out and show her a good time".
Fathers know what men or young men want to do to their daugthers, because it's what we wanted to do to the daugthers of other men. Also men would and should gauge the type of man that his daughter brings home. And hopefully once you have a daughter you would do the the same, and encourage her by example and by keeping a watchful eye, what type of men to date.
Mothers do the same with their sons. Even though, fathers encourage their sons to get as much poon as possible.
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adopt a kid for christs sake, why would any guy now days take the chance of getting a women pregnant who can then leach off your income for years upon years of your life making it hell? Woman now days are not deserving of this, most are whores and money grubbers, couldn't cook a meal if you held a gun to their head or clean a room and have it look half decent.
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It may be taboo and uncomfortable to talk about such things but never discount genetic sexual attraction. Somewhere around 20 percent of all females are molested. Perhaps even more.
Now thinking about it and being repulsed by it or not being repulsed by it occurs 100 percent of the time.
As you can see from several posts on this thread that parents and potential parents fear who their kin will select as a mate and therefore have already formed a mental picture and scenario of the act or acts of sex their offspring will commit and engage in with whomever it may be. They in fact are seeing their kin in a sexual manner and gauging the potential sexuality of their offspring. Some even wish to go a bit further and prohibit any such act unless it is to their standard. (perhaps someone more like themselves) They wish to regulate their offspring`s sexual economy with self-imposed and self-biased regulation. We have to then ask, what is the basis of their regulation and why.
I can perhaps fathom that when the daughter is a teenager and hot. Only then can I believe anyone would entertain that thought for the briefest of seconds. If she's young, sorry, genetic attraction or not, those thoughts shouldn't come up. ever.
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I can perhaps fathom that when the daughter is a teenager and hot. Only then can I believe anyone would entertain that thought for the briefest of seconds. If she's young, sorry, genetic attraction or not, those thoughts shouldn't come up. ever.
I applaud your honesty. Most run from it and deny instead.
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adopt a kid for christs sake, why would any guy now days take the chance of getting a women pregnant who can then leach off your income for years upon years of your life making it hell? Woman now days are not deserving of this, most are whores and money grubbers, couldn't cook a meal if you held a gun to their head or clean a room and have it look half decent.
My girl cooks 7 days a week which is around 15+ meals for us. She refuses to let me do any housework or cleaning because I 'fuck things up and leave it worse off'. The only 'housework' I do is taking out trash, light DIY duties and perhaps loading and unloading the dishwasher. We also split the bills right down the middle. Not all of them are bad.
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My girl cooks 7 days a week which is around 15+ meals for us. She refuses to let me do any housework or cleaning because I 'fuck things up and leave it worse off'. The only 'housework' I do is taking out trash, light DIY duties and perhaps loading and unloading the dishwasher. We also split the bills right down the middle. Not all of them are bad.
Damn man you got it made, I dont get this treament and pay everything. No kids though which is a plus
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My girl cooks 7 days a week which is around 15+ meals for us. She refuses to let me do any housework or cleaning because I 'fuck things up and leave it worse off'. The only 'housework' I do is taking out trash, light DIY duties and perhaps loading and unloading the dishwasher. We also split the bills right down the middle. Not all of them are bad.
Sounds EXACTLY like my Jezebelle. I just go right along and let her do as she sees fit. Your girlfriend, like Jezebelle, is a perfectionist I suspect.
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My girl cooks 7 days a week which is around 15+ meals for us. She refuses to let me do any housework or cleaning because I 'fuck things up and leave it worse off'. The only 'housework' I do is taking out trash, light DIY duties and perhaps loading and unloading the dishwasher. We also split the bills right down the middle. Not all of them are bad.
well title yourself lucky, because entitled woman are running around like no other now days, steeling mens life earnings, sucking them dry, not doing a good damn thing at the house, and all while porking up once they get you caught, ie children, married. Not worth it these days, get clipped and don't marry. There is no benefit to you to get married.
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34 and no children...I may have said this alrdy...anyway, I always get a real kick out of people who tell me that I'm too selfish when I say that I don't want any kids. I give them a cross eyed look and tell them that choosing to HAVE children is, in fact, the MOST selfish act that anyone can commit. They usually get very defensive/argumentative and that's when I turn and get back to whatever I'm doing. It's no wonder that 60% of people are medicated on anti-depressants, anxiety disorders, etc...
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My wife was my first girlfriend ,I met her when I was 29 years old , I remember saying, I'll never get married ,I'll never have kids , now I'm married we have a kid and I would't change a thing about my life .
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34 and no children...I may have said this alrdy...anyway, I always get a real kick out of people who tell me that I'm too selfish when I say that I don't want any kids. I give them a cross eyed look and tell them that choosing to HAVE children is, in fact, the MOST selfish act that anyone can commit. They usually get very defensive/argumentative and that's when I turn and get back to whatever I'm doing. It's no wonder that 60% of people are medicated on anti-depressants, anxiety disorders, etc...
dude...dont have kids, period.
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dude...dont have kids, period.
Do you have kids ,Uberman ?
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Do you have kids ,Uberman ?
che it sounds like it worked out for you so far. But if you do break up and she wants a divorce it's your money to her and the kid for years upon years, while she lives the high life you will be struggling to survive, why, because that is the way the law is setup as of now.
Sounds like your the kind of guy who wants other people to be in your position, wife and kids, many people are perfectly and more content without those responsibilities.
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che it sounds like it worked out for you so far. But if you do break up and she wants a divorce it's your money to her and the kid for years upon years, while she lives the high life you will be struggling to survive, why, because that is the way the law is setup as of now.
Sounds like your the kind of guy who wants other people to be in your position, wife and kids, many people are perfectly and more content without those responsibilities.
sounds like you re the kind of guy who has issues with women / is gay cause he had an abusive overpowering mother.
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sounds like you re the kind of guy who has issues with women / is gay cause he had an abusive overpowering mother.
lol i can't even say good try, take up another field besides psychology
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lol i can't even say good try, take up another field besides psychology
doesnt take a rocket scientist to notice your misoginy. Every post of yours is about how women are whores, cannot be trusted etc, most of your posts are off topic and nobody even understand why your bringing women into them.
Also arent you that guy who posted millions of pictures of some asian looking gay bodybuilder ?
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Sounds like your the kind of guy who wants other people to be in your position, wife and kids,
Not true , many times I tell my friends ,don't have kids or don't get married if you are not ready for it ,and agree with you many people are perfectly content without a wife and kids.
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Your first sentence-"most fullfilling thing i have ever done in my life". Is this indicative of the main reason you chose to have children? In other words, you were lacking fulfillment and needed a solution and offspring were it. Or is this simply hindsight and a by-product that you did not expect?
I had spent my life before getting married and having a family doing what i thought would have fullfilled me, after achieving what i set out to do,and realsing it didn't, i re evaluated my life as a whole. I had found out simply achieving things for myself simply weren't fullfilling me and decided that maybe achieving things that benefit myself and immediate others might be different and in hindsight it is.
I am curious as to how and why you arrived at your decision if it was or was not out of vanity or if some other area in your life or relationship was lacking or not.
Perhaps it wasn`t even your idea but your companion`s idea and you just went along. Perhaps a mutual decision? Can you take us through YOUR process and agreement?
The decision was one taken up by both of us, My wife is the first woman i have been with who i would have had children with, as previously explained, before meeting her, i was living for my own purpose and thus dated women without consideration of a lot of quality's you look for in a wife.
Go a little bit deeper for us if you may as I am generally curious as to the decision making process. I hope you are not taking my line of questioning in a negative way.
Not at all.
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Children are the orgasm of life.
lol
pumpster approved
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dude...dont have kids, period.
Jeez, why would I? It's not like I'm selfish or anything.
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jtsunami is the kind of guy who given the choice, would pick a man over a woman to live alone on a desert island.
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Ubermensch is laying the smack down in this thread.
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Ubermensch is laying the smack down in this thread.
congrats, he just earned his honorary woman card ;D Dude is young and naive, has a lot to learn in life.
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First thread i've ever noticed that has stayed on topic for more than 2 pages also! Amazing. Must be a pretty strong topic and alluring to many.
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33, no kids, girlfriend of 5 years, house(in my name, I pay the mortgage) split the bills 50/50, she does most of the housework and all the ironing. Best of all, I have a 2 year old Akita!!! ;D
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Sounds EXACTLY like my Jezebelle. I just go right along and let her do as she sees fit. Your girlfriend, like Jezebelle, is a perfectionist I suspect.
When are you and Jezebelle getting married?
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congrats, he just earned his honorary woman card ;D Dude is young and naive, has a lot to learn in life.
You're gay and do steroids, dude. The Ubermensch is far above you.
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You're gay and do steroids, dude. The Ubermensch is far above you.
dude is pathetic, another loser gimmick
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When are you and Jezebelle getting married?
That's the type of name a girl in a circus troupe would have....
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When are you and Jezebelle getting married?
When Gays can get married. Actually, we don`t care whatsoever for marriage. We both think its completely stupid and a waste in all respects.
Marriage is pointless. What is the point?
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When Gays can get married. Actually, we don`t care whatsoever for marriage. We both think its completely stupid and a waste in all respects.
Marriage is pointless. What is the point?
A financial contract between two life partners.
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I always get a real kick out of people who tell me that I'm too selfish when I say that I don't want any kids. I give them a cross eyed look and tell them that choosing to HAVE children is, in fact, the MOST selfish act that anyone can commit. They usually get very defensive/argumentative and that's when I turn and get back to whatever I'm doing.
Exactly.
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When Gays can get married. Actually, we don`t care whatsoever for marriage. We both think its completely stupid and a waste in all respects.
Marriage is pointless. What is the point?
Why, merely due to the fact that society pressures us to think we're somehow a failure if we don't comply to It's wishes, of course.
I agree 100% with everything you've posted in this thread.
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TA, marriage is also a contract that says your girl can't let other guys stick their weiners in her.
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When Gays can get married. Actually, we don`t care whatsoever for marriage. We both think its completely stupid and a waste in all respects.
Marriage is pointless. What is the point?
Hey Brad Pitt
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My wife was my first girlfriend ,I met her when I was 29 years old , I remember saying, I'll never get married ,I'll never have kids , now I'm married we have a kid and I would't change a thing about my life .
First GF at 29? :o
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TA, marriage is also a contract that says your girl can't let other guys stick their weiners in her.
this should already be understood when you are boyfriend / girlfriend.
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First GF at 29? :o
;D What's wrong with that ?
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Why, merely due to the fact that society pressures us to think we're somehow a failure if we don't comply to It's wishes, of course.
I agree 100% with everything you've posted in this thread.
x2, marriage is great for the government, that is why it is pushed so much.
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x2, marriage is great for the government, that is why it is pushed so much.
marriage is great for creating a social construct for relationships
nothing worse than 40yr+ old gay men still living in one bedroom apartments with nobody in their life except only one or two undesirables wanting to be in their rectum... now thats sad... legalize gay marriage to create order!
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you know you can live with someone , build a family have kids WITHOUT BEING MARRIED RIGHT?
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have you ever heard of a thing called COMMON LAW? you should look into it... you might see a problem with your ideas...
Just keep separate mailing addresses and you're free and clear!
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i think the only thing that scares me about marriage, kids, etc. is the financial repercussions of getting a divorce. A
So you get married, have kids, everything is going great for 10-12 years....and then "WHAM!!!" "I want a divorce." "I'm just not happy anymore." Etc, etc. etc.
Now you are stuck paying alimony and child support because uncle sam doesnt want to have to help out your ex-wife.
If you could just end a marriage like you end boyfriend / girlfriend relationships then there wouldnt be much worrying about it, but the government totally screws you over.
seriously, I don't think women would go for this!!!!! that is an outrage, you mean all they get is love in the marriage and no money if they want to leave!!!!!!!!! HORRIBLE
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i think the only thing that scares me about marriage, kids, etc. is the financial repercussions of getting a divorce. A
So you get married, have kids, everything is going great for 10-12 years....and then "WHAM!!!" "I want a divorce." "I'm just not happy anymore." Etc, etc. etc.
Now you are stuck paying alimony and child support because uncle sam doesnt want to have to help out your ex-wife.
If you could just end a marriage like you end boyfriend / girlfriend relationships then there wouldnt be much worrying about it, but the government totally screws you over.
seriously, I don't think women would go for this!!!!! that is an outrage, you mean all they get is love in the marriage and no money if they want to leave!!!!!!!!! HORRIBLE