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Title: Sigh My Life
Post by: disturbia on March 18, 2010, 08:49:28 PM
I hook this girl up with a free computer through my friend who gives free pc's to lower income people. I give her my near new desk and computer chair before I move away. I hook her up with some free drinks for a few days at my buddy's bar.

She sleeps with my married friend the day I leave.

fml
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: benchmstr on March 18, 2010, 08:50:28 PM
I hook this girl up with a free computer through my friend who gives free pc's to lower income people. I give her my near new desk and computer chair before I move away. I hook her up with some free drinks for a few days at my buddy's bar.

She sleeps with my married friend the day I leave.

fml
bitches are crazy bro....dont lose any sleep over one...

bench
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: ShipSekki on March 18, 2010, 08:51:22 PM
bitches are crazy bro....dont lose any sleep over one...

bench
Good advice. That would make a good tattoo.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: SF1900 on March 18, 2010, 08:53:01 PM
Were you being nice to her for the sole purpose of being nice, or were you being nice so you can get ass in return?

I mean, if you were just doing it to be nice to her, and you had no romantic interest in her, then what would it matter if she slept with one of your friends (granted, its shitty he was married)?

Now if you were being nice to her because you just wanted ass, than that's not right either.

Just trying to get philosophical.  :D
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: WillGrant on March 18, 2010, 08:53:21 PM
I hook this girl up with a free computer through my friend who gives free pc's to lower income people. I give her my near new desk and computer chair before I move away. I hook her up with some free drinks for a few days at my buddy's bar.

She sleeps with my married friend the day I leave.

fml
Send her a turd in the post
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: jtsunami on March 18, 2010, 08:53:57 PM
I hook this girl up with a free computer through my friend who gives free pc's to lower income people. I give her my near new desk and computer chair before I move away. I hook her up with some free drinks for a few days at my buddy's bar.

She sleeps with my married friend the day I leave.

fml

can't give girls shit or come out looking like a trick these days they will see you as weak, gotta be hard and don't simp out, don't care about getting pussy and you will have the upper hand.

Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: disturbia on March 18, 2010, 08:56:22 PM
Were you being nice to her for the sole purpose of being nice, or were you being nice so you can get ass in return?

I mean, if you were just doing it to be nice to her, and you had no romantic interest in her, then what would it matter if she slept with one of your friends (granted, its shitty he was married)?

Now if you were being nice to her because you just wanted ass, than that's not right either.

Just trying to get philosophical.  :D

it was just to be nice, anything else would have been an unexpected bonus
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: SF1900 on March 18, 2010, 08:58:19 PM
it was just to be nice, anything else would have been an unexpected bonus

You seem distraught that she slept with your friend? Any reason? Is it because he's married?
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: 240 is Back on March 18, 2010, 08:58:36 PM
You're single with no emotional attachment... I'd be telling ten girls "I will give a nice desk and free computer to the girl with the freakiest offer."

And I would imagine 2 or 3 of them would subtly offer some play in return for the items.  Times are tough.  A quickie for a free computer and desk, that's a great deal.  Choose the one that looks the best and will go the furthest... and the 2 rejects will be on-call if you need them, having already revealed their whorish nature!
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: benchmstr on March 18, 2010, 09:03:28 PM
it was just to be nice, anything else would have been an unexpected bonus
since you are my bro i feel i need to say this......YOU ARE ENTIRLEY TOO FUCKING NICE FOR A CRAZY PERSON!@!!!!......stop being so nice..everytime you come on here depressed there is always a common link, and that link is=you were overly nice to someone....

just my observation...

bench
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: MJK on March 18, 2010, 09:19:01 PM
I hook this girl up with a free computer through my friend who gives free pc's to lower income people. I give her my near new desk and computer chair before I move away. I hook her up with some free drinks for a few days at my buddy's bar.

She sleeps with my married friend the day I leave.

fml
You got played, I am sure it 's not the first time.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: disturbia on March 18, 2010, 09:29:09 PM
You got played, I am sure it 's not the first time.

and yet you keep trying to get under my skin, even after this entire board has told you that you are a failure. How does it feel to be the only person on getbig to have no effect on me.  lol, the best part is i still dont know why you dont.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 18, 2010, 09:36:52 PM

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"1) FIDGETY MOVEMENTS AND TIGHT SHOULDERS AND TAKING YOURSELF TOO SERIOUSLY OR BEING TOO BUSINESSLIKE OR "SOPHISTICATED" (not laughing or being relaxed) = very visible subconsious (or conscious) self-doubt, overcompensating through non-relaxed state, where you're prepared to deal with anything that could happen. Ever met someone who doesn't blink when you talk to them?


2) TALKING TOO FAST = worried that people will stop listening to you unless you get out something that will interest them before they leave


3) LAUGHING AT YOUR OWN JOKES = covering up that you aren't affected that others didn't laugh, and social nervousness


4) SAYING "RIGHT" OR "YOU KNOW" AFTER STATEMENTS = seeking validation that what you said was true, or saying it because others aren't


5) STANDING WITH LEGS NOT HALF A METER APART AT LEAST = worried that you'll infringe on other people's personal space


6) TALKING TOO SOFTLY OR LOUD = fear that you'll impose yourself on people and their personal space(ie: beta).. alpha males aren't afraid to project their voice.. YET, talking obviously too LOUD can also be seen as OVERCOMPENSATING. Just like guys who wear GENERIC clothes are trying to fit in, or guys who wear OUTRAGEOUS clothes are trying too hard to overcompensate. (hint: be careful with peacocking, find a style that doesn't come off this way, which can be tricky but is still very doable).. Some guys don't talk, some talk too much, etc etc.. Find appropriate balance through trial and error, which is determined through social observation,


7) MOVING YOUR HANDS AROUND WHILE YOU TALK = trying to keep the attention of the group (sometimes can be cool, but most often a form of qualifying yourself)


Cool LEANING IN *or* 'PECKING' = too eager to talk.. NEVER lean in no matter how loud the environment is MAKE HER LEAN IN or just leave but NEVER lean in or "peck" as its also called.


9) FACING BODY/FEET TOWARDS HER BEFORE SHE EARNED IT = trying to gain rapport with her too eagerly.


10) CHASING WHEN SHE WALKS AWAY = hoping she'll listen. If a chick moves away from you, move your bodylanguage MORE away from her, so she'll be drawn back.. don't CHASE her... WTF?!@?!?


11) NOT WITHDRAWING (backturns, etc) WHEN SHE DOES SOMETHING THAT YOU WOULDN'T TOLERATE FROM AN UGLY GIRL OR A GUY = trying too hard to pick her up


12) ANSWERING QUESTIONS TOO QUICKLY/EARLY = too much interest in the conversation


13) TURNING YOUR HEAD (OR "SNAPPING") WHEN YOU'RE ADDRESSED = too eager to be in convo.. so if your head is facing the other direction, and a girl says something to you, turn it SLOWLY to her, don't snap it out of eagerness to hear her


14) GOING BACK TO A PRIOR THREAD THAT WAS INTERUPTED AT THE FIRST CHANCE/BREAK-IN-CONVO THAT YOU GET = trying too hard to impress them.. (ie: when a thread gets broken off in the convo, and you go back to it FIRST chance you get when the other topic ends, you look like you were WAITING to get back to it.. WHY are you so eager to get back on it, unless you don't feel comfortable around the person and you need to qualify yourself to them?) WAIT until THEY say "what was that you were saying before?", and THEN go back to it.. if it doesn't happen, *DROP IT* even if it was good.


15) NOT APPEARING MORE INTO YOUR WINGMAN THEN THE CHICK = trying too hard to pick her up.. you've known your wingman longer than her.. why do you pay more attention to her than your wing???


16) TOO EAGER TO PAY ATTENTION - SAYING "what?" IF YOU CAN'T HEAR HER, PRIOR TO BEING IN RAPPORT = too much interest in what she's saying.. if she mumbles, just STACK OPENERS into an entirely DIFFERENT topic, RATHER than saying "what?" This is fucking KEY KEY KEY. If you say "what?" you'll lose her unless you're already past attraction and into rapport. If this happens, just run a new opener and change the topic. 1- you don't look too eager, 2- you look alpha for being disinterested in what she's talking about which helps anyway


17) REPLYING WITH OVERLY THOUGHT-OUT OF LOGICAL ANSWERS OR WITH OVERLY CLEAR/FORMAL PRONUNCIATION = being concerned that you won't be accepted unless you convince really well (eg. HB: why did you ask me that... RIGHT = I'm talking. (sit and stare) WRONG = because I really need to know since I've been thinking about this for a while.. the FIRST one conveys that you won't qualify yourself to her)


18) TAKING TOO MANY SENTENCES TO STATE AN IDEA THAT COULD BE STATED IN LESS SPACE = qualifying yourself. Commander Zap emails me a few months ago: "Remember TD, don't write what you can say, don't say what you can wink, don't wink what you can smile" TIGHT. The shorter you can explain something in, the more PROFOUND you'll appear. Why? You're not qualifying yourself. (ironically I'm massively guilty of this, due to the fact that I post when I'm really tired - see #21 to spot what was wrong with this last sentence)


19) BEING BOLD INSTEAD OF CONFIDENT = that you know that you can't pick her up, so you compensate with self-defeating actions so that the snub can be on "your terms". Saying "I'm sexy right?" or "baby I want some of that" or even just approaching when the logistics are totally unrealistic is too eager, because a CONFIDENT person wouldn't feel the NEED to say these kinds of things.. these things are symptoms of OVERCOMPENSATION for INSECURITIES.. which leads to..........


20) OVERCOMPENSATING INSECURITIES = fear of not being accepted. Have you ever met a janitor who the first thing he says is "money is over-rated.. I would never get caught up in the corporate world" blah blah.. if they'd have just said "I'm a janitor" and LEFT IT AT THAT we wouldn't have even THOUGHT that anything was wrong with it.. but because they INSTANTLY start overcompensating, it comes off as overcompensating or qualifying. Same with if they BRING IT UP TOO EARLY. Like "hey, I'm Steve.. I'm a janitor and I love it".. They're TRYING to be cocky but it comes off as COMPENSATING. BE COMFORTABLE WITH YOURSELF. If you're BALD, don't say "would you love a bald man?" as a pickup line. It's not COCKY.... its BOLD. If you're bad looking, don't say "don't you think I'm sexy". Just be comfortable with yourself, and don't bring up the issue at all.


21) OVERCOMPENSATING FAILURE OR SHORTCOMINGS = fear of being judged.. if you do poorly on a presentation, or on a sarge in front of a wingman, or on a test, DO NOT SAY DUMB SHIT LIKE "I'm really tired". EVEN IF you're ACTUALLY really tired, the mere act of saying "I'm tired" comes off as QUALIFYING yourself to the person. Just don't bring it up. If you have shitty clothes on, don't say "I have nicer clothes at home." Just don't bring it up. If you meet a girl when you're dressed bad, don't say "I have the coolest club clothes at home" Just don't bring it up.


22) GOING BACKWARDS IN THE PICKUP ON HER SCHEDULE = too eager to lay her.. if you've already GONE THROUGH the whole "let's ballbust and shit test eachother" attraction phase of the pickup, and you're now in RAPPORT -> if she tries to ballbust you at this point then just WITHDRAW ATTENTION. DO NOT BALLBUST BACK. It seems COUNTER INTUITIVE, but once you've gone through that whole little attract phase, and you're now being nice to eachother in rapport, DO NOT let her rewind the sarge by answering her ballbusting with ballbusts of your own. Just withdraw attention, to show that you're not interested in going BACKWARDS in a sarge.


23) WAITING FOR HER IF SHE LEAVES FOR ANY REASON (LIKE SAYS "I'M GOING TO THE WASHROOM, WAIT HERE) = too eager and into the convo.. if she goes to the washroom, make sure you're into another set by the time she gets back.

24) OVERLY REMEMBERING DETAILS ABOUT PAST CONVOS = convo means too much to you, because the person has unusual value to you (ie: a hot chick). Of course, I'm not advocating to be a total dick, but the general rule of thumb is that if you wouldn't have remembered a FAT CHICK or a GUY saying it, then don't remember the HB9 chick saying it. If some random dude said it and you would have remembered, then FINE. If you were in an unusually intimate convo that's also fine. But otherwise FAKE forgetting, even if she's a model and you remember every word. Even forget her name. If you see a random chick from your class or work, but you never talked to her, OPEN LIKE YOU DON'T KNOW HER. Don't give into the temptation to say "we work together". Just open like a random chick, and maybe if you get snubbed then pull out that card to save face, but only as a LAST RESORT.


25) OFFERING TOO MUCH ABOUT YOURSELF TOO *EARLY* = too eager to make them like you.. subcategories of this are:

A) Verbally: if you say to a chick "yeah, I just got back from NYC (or any cool place that would impress)" or "yeah, I just got my Rolex fixed", or "yeah, my stripper ex-girlfriend told me..." then she PICKS UP on the fact that you're trying too hard to impress her.. Same with NAME DROPPING.. DON'T GIVE GIRLS YOUR RESUME TOO EARLY.. Personality conveying routines should convey personality COVERTLY, so it looks like the story is just SO COOL that its WORTH TELLING on its own accord, and it just HAPPENS to have some good things about you in it. When offering good things about yourself, don't offer boring details. Say it with less detail, and it seems less eager. INSINUATE THAT WHICH YOU ARE TEMPTED TO ELICIDATE (holy shit, I just made up that last catchy sentence, but I've gotta say that I'm the shit.. right?)

B) Entertaining: If you have stuff like patterns, or the CUBE, or magic, or photos, or palmreading, and you do this EARLY, it comes off as TRY-HARD. Personally I don't use any of these things, but alot of guys do, and when they bust them out prior to the chick EARNING it, it comes off TRY-HARD. Use the stuff LATER, but not right away.

*****C) Wanting rapport with someone who didn't earn it: WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS SHIT??? I swear to god, almost *EVERY* PUA I meet live in field does this shit, and its SUPER LAME. Going up to a chick and saying "nice necklace" or "what's your name" or "where did you get that?" is FUCKING DORK SUPER LAME. WHY THE FUCK DO YOU CARE ABOUT THIS STUFF FROM A R-A-N-D-O-M PERSON?Huh? The counter argument to this is that you're not hiding your desires blah blah blah she's a hot girl and she should be happy that you're approaching, but this is INTERNET RHETORIC.. and this approach is STILL hiding your desires behind the GUISE that you're nice, so even if the rhetoric was true, it would STILL be ineffective... In the INTERNET ARMCHAIR GAME this stuff is FINE, but in the REAL FIELD GAME this shit screws you over before you've even started gaming. It's fucking bullshit, and NOBODY who isn't very goodlooking or socially proofed (or whatever high value) PRIOR to going in, can make this kind of approach work consistently on HB8.5+ chicks. TRYING FOR RAPPORT TOO EARLY IS QUALIFYING YOURSELF TO HER BECAUSE SHE HAS NOT EARNED IT.

D) Talking without feedback: When you're talking to someone, and they don't give feedback, and you're talking and talking, you BETA YOURSELF. It's a DOWNWARD SPIRAL, where you start talking TOO MUCH, and you SENSE that you're qualifying yourself, so you overcompensate EVEN MORE by TALKING and TALKING more and more.. Then you feel more and more beta'ed because you qualified yourself, and you're left treading water, grabbing at ANYTHING that will impress the person, so you keep talking in hopes of saying that one thing that will impress them. AVOID this by not talking too much unless THEY give some feedback. IN THE FIELD you do this by PAUSING and FORCING them to fill in the awkward gaps."

Epic Virgin Nerd trying to give advice on how to pick up women....and overthinking the living shit out of it

He's obviously got a lot of first hand experience on being rejected.

Where did you find this Xerxes?
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: MJK on March 18, 2010, 09:38:21 PM
and yet you keep trying to get under my skin, even after this entire board has told you that you are a failure. How does it feel to be the only person on getbig to have no effect on me.  lol, the best part is i still dont know why you dont.
What you see when you look in the mirror. Better rest up, early start tomorrow mowing the lawn at a country club you will never have the financial ability to belong to, run along.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: disturbia on March 18, 2010, 09:43:01 PM
What you see when you look in the mirror. Better rest up, early start tomorrow mowing the lawn at a country club you will never have the financial ability to belong to, run along.

ummm you are right about all this, and i am totally aware of all this, so how in gods name is this supposed to be an insult?

and ironically the guy i rent this house from could in turn say the same things about you financially speaking---you really pull off some monster failures when you post
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: James Blunt on March 18, 2010, 09:43:17 PM
25 usual fuckups
Hope this can help.
I can't believe anyone reads this shit. Reminds me of Dr phil.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: SF1900 on March 18, 2010, 09:45:37 PM
What you see when you look in the mirror. Better rest up, early start tomorrow mowing the lawn at a country club you will never have the financial ability to belong to, run along.

"Everybody can be great... because anybody can serve. You don't have to have a college degree to serve. You don't have to make your subject and verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love." MLK
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: MJK on March 18, 2010, 09:46:05 PM
ummm you are right about all this, and i am totally aware of all this, so how in gods name is this supposed to be an insult?

and ironically the guy i rent this house from could in turn say the same things about you financially speaking---you really pull off some monster failures when you post
I know a guy who knows a guy who could own your friend into financial oblivion..... hahaaa......
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 18, 2010, 09:47:24 PM
3 keys to picking up women.

Be confident

Be funny

Be good-looking

the last one just makes it like shooting fish in a barrel, the first two will suffice
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: clued-up on March 18, 2010, 10:01:49 PM
bitches are crazy bro....dont lose any sleep over one...

bench

Women are not to be trusted, any of them. Once you realize that, and deal with them accordingly.. you will live life with a much healthier outlook (mental attitude).
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: ShipSekki on March 18, 2010, 10:10:03 PM
 Never fall in love. And if you do fall in love, know how to fall out of love quickly when the need arises.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: pugalist666 on March 18, 2010, 10:22:04 PM
when you give a girl your number make sure its written on the back of a fake bank statement that says you have a balance of 5 figures +
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: disturbia on March 18, 2010, 10:26:45 PM
lol poor mjk is getting destroyed in pm's to me---heres one example---there is absolutely no respect  for mjk, its not even hate, people pming me just think he is a complete loser and goof

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Man, that guy (MJK) is a fucking asshole.

I know too many people with a mental illness who can't even hold down a job. Kudos to you for having one. This is not pity--its respect. Good stuff.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: disturbia on March 18, 2010, 10:36:06 PM
User 'MJK' has blocked your personal message.

lol--elite lifter--err mjk is quite the man, cant even take the only pm i sent to him that stated he can feel free to say what he wants, its totally fine. omg this guy is getbigs biggest failure, he should go in the pumpster hall of fame
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: calfzilla on March 18, 2010, 11:24:56 PM
3 keys to picking up women.

Be confident

Be funny

Be good-looking

the last one just makes it like shooting fish in a barrel, the first two will suffice
I agree Groink.  These 3 are the biggest.  For ME, I am funny so that is what I play off of.  But one important thing to remember is, if you are not funny than don't try to be funny.  Same goes with other things too ex (smart, alpha male, sensitive) but everyone should always try to look THEIR best (not try to be better looking than the next guy) and even if your confidence is low, use self tallk and fake it. 
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: pellius on March 18, 2010, 11:37:16 PM
User 'MJK' has blocked your personal message.

lol--elite lifter--err mjk is quite the man, cant even take the only pm i sent to him that stated he can feel free to say what he wants, its totally fine. omg this guy is getbigs biggest failure, he should go in the pumpster hall of fame

MJK has elevated himself as the biggest failure on this board. He's bullied in real life so he hoped to come on this board and "own" people to compensate for his failure in life only to find that he is repeatedly and brutally ass raped in every thread he tries to assert himself. It's to the point that he actually enjoys it as he enjoys being a submissive bottom to the various ghetto thugs in his blighted neighborhood.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: webcake on March 18, 2010, 11:38:00 PM
3 from 3..............damn i'm good.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 18, 2010, 11:40:52 PM
I agree Groink.  These 3 are the biggest.  For ME, I am funny so that is what I play off of.  But one important thing to remember is, if you are not funny than don't try to be funny.  Same goes with other things too ex (smart, alpha male, sensitive) but everyone should always try to look THEIR best (not try to be better looking than the next guy) and even if your confidence is low, use self tallk and fake it. 

Quoted.

Nothing worse than watching a dude do his "act' and no one is laughing.

Sensitive is good too...but you can't act like you have a vagina, it's a fine line there
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: calfzilla on March 18, 2010, 11:54:33 PM
3 from 3..............damn i'm good.
You also have a huge penis too, don't forget that.  So technically you are 4 for 3.   :o
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: WillGrant on March 19, 2010, 12:56:43 AM
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Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: outby43 on March 19, 2010, 02:58:19 AM
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you been hitting up that porntalk site huh?
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: WillGrant on March 19, 2010, 03:24:59 AM
you been hitting up that porntalk site huh?
Im hooked  ;D
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: drkaje on March 19, 2010, 05:14:40 AM
Disturbia,

You're a solid dude.

Chick did you a favor by playing herself this early in the game.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Mr Nobody on March 19, 2010, 05:15:42 AM
Never fall in love. And if you do fall in love, know how to fall out of love quickly when the need arises.
Good post right there Ship.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: newmom on March 19, 2010, 05:56:55 AM
Good post right there Ship.

 ::) ::) ::)
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: CalvinH on March 19, 2010, 07:05:25 AM
3 keys to picking up women.

Be confident

Be funny

Be good-looking

the last one just makes it like shooting fish in a barrel, the first two will suffice




x2
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: YoungBlood on March 19, 2010, 08:32:28 AM
Im hooked  ;D

Glad I could help! :P
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2010, 08:33:59 AM
You seriously believe I'm a virgin  :D? Never had a problem getting laid bro, started at 15.
When my ex dumped me (oh yeah getbig suicide right there lol), I started drinking a lot and partying hard, one of my friends got me into this shit. He was a virgin before this shit and then in 6 months or something had banged 11 chicks so I figured why not.

It is from a pickup company.

I wasn't talking about you....I'm talking about whoever wrote that nonsense
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Natural Man on March 19, 2010, 08:52:50 AM
problematic people appeal to problematic people and keep each others in problematic lifestyles.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: drkaje on March 19, 2010, 08:56:52 AM
problematic people appeal to problematic people and keep each others in problematic lifestyles.

Pointing out flaws is easy.

Help him find the inner Übermensch.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: YoungBlood on March 19, 2010, 09:07:30 AM
3 keys to picking up women.

Be confident

Be funny

Be good-looking

the last one just makes it like shooting fish in a barrel, the first two will suffice


Epic Virgin Nerd trying to give advice on how to pick up women....and overthinking the living shit out of it

He's obviously got a lot of first hand experience on being rejected.

Where did you find this Xerxes?



I wasn't talking about you....I'm talking about whoever wrote that nonsense

The post of Xerxes you quoted, is not nonsense as some would believe it. You may find it as such, but your second post about being funny, confident are all tied into what Xerxes quoted.

Some people are born naturals when it comes to picking up girls. Some people need work. Somehow it becomes frowned upon that people "over think" what they're doing when talking to women...yet it's no different than sitting down and trying to understand why the motor of your car won't start. You go through a process of elimination as to what works and what does not.

So what constitutes being confident? What makes you funny? Not everyone is that born natural, and sometimes they have to find their niche to make it all click. As well, you could try a certain type of humor, because you feel it's funny, but if it's not lined up with who you really are, you'll seem awkward and it comes across that way...negating the mantra of "just be funny, yourself and approach with confidence."
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: SF1900 on March 19, 2010, 09:13:59 AM
Pointing out flaws is easy.

Help him find the inner Übermensch.

Nietzsche would be proud.  :D
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 19, 2010, 09:22:11 AM
25 usual fuckups
Hope this can help.

That's a nice list. In relation to number 24: I was on a date last weekend where the girl asked me if I had any siblings. After my answer I asked her the same. I had already seen on her Facebook profile that she had siblings, but it is better to act stupid and to let her THINK that I had not looked extensively at her Facebook profile.
The date actually went really well. I let her think that I am only semi-interested although I want to fuck her badly.
She is coming to visit me this upcoming weekend.  :)
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 19, 2010, 09:26:36 AM
I agree Groink.  These 3 are the biggest.  For ME, I am funny so that is what I play off of.  But one important thing to remember is, if you are not funny than don't try to be funny.  Same goes with other things too ex (smart, alpha male, sensitive) but everyone should always try to look THEIR best (not try to be better looking than the next guy) and even if your confidence is low, use self tallk and fake it. 

I agree. But recently I have developed my own skills in this area. I advice all of you to be funny in as many obvious situations as possible, where the context suits it:

Good situation:
You are walking with a girl on the way to a café. Both of you notice a big hulk of a man. Say to her he looks like Vince Goodrum (you get the point!!). She will think it is funny because the context you are both experiencing makes her think it is funny.


Bad situation:
Trying to tell a joke about your friends, which she does not know. Here you are trying to hard to be funny, and she does not know the context.. so she will not laugh.


This might seem fairly obvious but I highly recommend thinking about it when dating.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Mr Nobody on March 19, 2010, 09:26:46 AM
That's a nice list. In relation to number 24: I was on a date last weekend where the girl asked me if I had any siblings. After my answer I asked her the same. I had already seen on her Facebook profile that she had siblings, but it is better to act stupid and to let her THINK that I had not looked extensively at her Facebook profile.
The date actually went really well. I let her think that I am only semi-interested although I want to fuck her badly.
She is coming to visit me this upcoming weekend.  :)
Falcon approved.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: tbombz on March 19, 2010, 09:31:07 AM
the list xerxes posted is accurate, but girls dont think about all that shit.

be calm, relaxed, confident, seem interested but not too interested...  :)  

most chicks are looking for their pussy's to get ravaged..   and most chicks really dont have any standards for appearance... just look like you smell good  :)

have the mindset: "i know that im a man, and women like men. women will like me, if i show them im a likeable person." and just build from that.  :)
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: FitnessFrenzy on March 19, 2010, 09:35:55 AM
most chicks are looking for their pussy's to get ravaged..   and most chicks really dont have any standards for appearance... just look like you smell good  :)

This is more true than most men realize. I walk around year round with a ripped body and visible abs. Most girls are close to indifferent when I take my close off and they see me naked for the first time. A decent sized dick and sexual skills in bed is IMO far more important to girls than looks alone.

Any other opinions on this?
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2010, 09:36:02 AM


The post of Xerxes you quoted, is not nonsense as some would believe it. You may find it as such, but your second post about being funny, confident are all tied into what Xerxes quoted.

Some people are born naturals when it comes to picking up girls. Some people need work. Somehow it becomes frowned upon that people "over think" what they're doing when talking to women...yet it's no different than sitting down and trying to understand why the motor of your car won't start. You go through a process of elimination as to what works and what does not.

So what constitutes being confident? What makes you funny? Not everyone is that born natural, and sometimes they have to find their niche to make it all click. As well, you could try a certain type of humor, because you feel it's funny, but if it's not lined up with who you really are, you'll seem awkward and it comes across that way...negating the mantra of "just be funny, yourself and approach with confidence."

LOLOLOL.....OK, Mystery   ::)


I think I'll "stack openers" and stay at least one meter apart with my date tonight...and don't lean in, don't lean back...don't talk with your hands.... and talk loud, but not too loud, don't say "what?" if you didn't hear her, act like you don't care ::) ::)

What a bunch of horsehit
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Natural Man on March 19, 2010, 09:37:04 AM
3 keys to picking up women.

Be confident

Be funny

Be good-looking

the last one just makes it like shooting fish in a barrel, the first two will suffice

holy crap i dont even know where to start.  Emptier words have never been spoken.

You know something is going wrong when someone who's 40 has the reasonning of a 17 y/o.
And we wonder why he's got a single mother taking care of his daughter while he's being "confident, funny and good looking" somewhere else with random younger women who have poor self esteem instead of being with his ex wife and daughter on a daily basis and assuming his responsabilities.
Talking about "licking cornholes" on internet messageboards with young males between 16 and 25 y/o.

Definitely a strange definition of "confidence" to say the least.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2010, 09:42:01 AM
holy crap i dont even know where to start.  Emptier words have never been spoken.

You know something is going wrong when someone who's 40 has the reasonning of a 17 y/o.
And we wonder why he's got a single mother taking care of his daughter while he's being "confident, funny and good looking" somewhere else with random younger women who have poor self esteem instead of being with his ex wife and daughter on a daily basis and assuming his responsabilities.
Talking about "licking cornholes" on internet messageboards with young males between 16 and 25 y/o.

Definitely a strange definition of "confidence" to say the least.

I moved across the country to be with my daughter, bought a house three blocks from where she lives and have joint custody....I see my daughter every single day of my life and she stays with me 50% of the time.

Anything else....ASSHOLE?
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: SF1900 on March 19, 2010, 09:50:57 AM
The main points to getting a lady:

Look like SF1900

Have a body like SF1900.

The end  :D

Okay, no, I'm joking. Here are the real keys:

Have a good, stable job.

Physical attraction is hard to pinpoint, since its so subjective. I can't say "have good looks" since everyone has a different opinion of what good looks are. Instead, I will say that there has to be mutual physical attraction. If you don't have that, it does make it tougher to mesh well with someone.

Be honest. Then again, this is a lost trait, which most people don't have or appreciate any more.

Be confident.

Ok, the end.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Natural Man on March 19, 2010, 09:56:55 AM
I moved across the country to be with my daughter, bought a house three blocks from where she lives and have joint custody....I see my daughter every single day of my life and she stays with me 50% of the time.

Anything else....ASSHOLE?


(http://www.georgiapainphysicians.com/downloads/m2_slides/1.Partial%20nerve%20severance.jpg)
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: GroinkTropin on March 19, 2010, 09:57:18 AM
You got played, I am sure it 's not the first time.


x2
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: YoungBlood on March 19, 2010, 09:59:40 AM
LOLOLOL.....OK, Mystery   ::)


I think I'll "stack openers" and stay at least one meter apart with my date tonight...and don't lean in, don't lean back...don't talk with your hands.... and talk loud, but not too loud, don't say "what?" if you didn't hear her, act like you don't care ::) ::)

What a bunch of horsehit


Only person talking about stacking openers or the like...is you.

Because you disagree with people on here, you get uppity. What the fuck is it with you, when presented with a different opinion than yours?

Can you honestly tell me that you think every man on the face of the earth can naturally walk up to women and nail them? Why is it considered unmanly to want to improve yourself and how you interact with girls...but when you need help with resizing a Gif file, fixing your car or to get better at playing basketball, it's not too masculine to have to ask for a little help?

Can you elaborate for me on what being confident is? What makes every girl laugh? Don't skirt the issue this time and just laugh SF-wannabe.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: newmom on March 19, 2010, 09:59:41 AM
I moved across the country to be with my daughter, bought a house three blocks from where she lives and have joint custody....I see my daughter every single day of my life and she stays with me 50% of the time.

Anything else....ASSHOLE?


Groink, do not answer to idiotic posts like uberman. You don't have explain shit to anyone on this board
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2010, 10:00:24 AM
The main points to getting a lady:

Look like SF1900

Have a body like SF1900.

The end  :D

Okay, no, I'm joking. Here are the real keys:

Have a good, stable job.

Physical attraction is hard to pinpoint, since its so subjective. I can't say "have good looks" since everyone has a different opinion of what good looks are. Instead, I will say that there has to be mutual physical attraction. If you don't have that, it does make it tougher to mesh well with someone.

Be honest. Then again, this is a lost trait, which most people don't have or appreciate any more.

Be confident.

Ok, the end.

"honesty" ??  have you lost you senses man !!??!!  ;D ;D

Seriously that's one constant i notice in all of these threads on how to attract women....

Dudes act like they are the Enemy or something....don't be nice, never let them know you care, treat them like shit.....no wonder they are getting dumped left and right
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: SF1900 on March 19, 2010, 10:07:05 AM
"honesty" ??  have you lost you senses man !!??!!  ;D ;D

Seriously that's one constant i notice in all of these threads on how to attract women....

Dudes act like they are the Enemy or something....don't be nice, never let them know you care, treat them like shit.....no wonder they are getting dumped left and right

I always try to be honest; however, it does seem like honesty is a trait that is dying out. Females, and people in general, don't seem to respect that. Its more about how much money you have or who you know or how much power you have.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2010, 10:12:35 AM
Only person talking about stacking openers or the like...is you.

Because you disagree with people on here, you get uppity. What the fuck is it with you, when presented with a different opinion than yours?

Can you honestly tell me that you think every man on the face of the earth can naturally walk up to women and nail them? Why is it considered unmanly to want to improve yourself and how you interact with girls...but when you need help with resizing a Gif file, fixing your car or to get better at playing basketball, it's not too masculine to have to ask for a little help?

Can you elaborate for me on what being confident is? What makes every girl laugh? Don't skirt the issue this time and just laugh SF-wannabe.

You don't know what "confidence" is ?? seriously?   I'm not kidding.

As far as being "funny"...you either are or you aren't. it also has a LOT to do with being relaxed and confident, it's all tied together...if you are all uptight that vibe permeates the air and she will sense it. your jokes will crash and burn
\
If you are chilled out and relaxed she will sense that as well and be more receptive.

If you come up to her and keep looking down at the notes from "Mystery"'s book that you wrote on you hand, you might have a problem.

You sound like someone who  lacks confidence, is intimidated by women and probably isn't all that attractive...not a slam, just an observation
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: drkaje on March 19, 2010, 10:18:52 AM
"honesty" ??  have you lost you senses man !!??!!  ;D ;D

Seriously that's one constant i notice in all of these threads on how to attract women....

Dudes act like they are the Enemy or something....don't be nice, never let them know you care, treat them like shit.....no wonder they are getting dumped left and right

A lot of guys don't like women, G.

I don't mean gay, just that they really don't like or love women but still need them. This goes for both sexes. It's impossible for people who dislike themselves or have severe trust, parent, masculinity, femininity, or whatever baggage to develop healthy relationships.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: YoungBlood on March 19, 2010, 10:33:14 AM
You don't know what "confidence" is ?? seriously?   I'm not kidding.

As far as being "funny"...you either are or you aren't. it also has a LOT to do with being relaxed and confident, it's all tied together...if you are all uptight that vibe permeates the air and she will sense it. your jokes will crash and burn
\
If you are chilled out and relaxed she will sense that as well and be more receptive.

If you come up to her and keep looking down at the notes from "Mystery"'s book that you wrote on you hand, you might have a problem.

You sound like someone who  lacks confidence, is intimidated by women and probably isn't all that attractive...not a slam, just an observation

Can you not see the forest for the trees can you Groink?
In the above post, you just cited a few generalizations as to what makes somebody confident. "If you are chilled out and relaxed she will sense that as well as be more receptive" is what you say...but going one step further, what makes you appear relaxed and chill? What makes you come off as being funny? It's not only the words you're having come from your lips. There's more to it than that...not just as cut and dry.

And I like how you keep referring to Mystery. Keep bringing him up...because while you can keep generalizing, if you delved a little deeper into anything (however, the topic of pick-up is the subject here) you would realize that some places are a "jumping-off point" for people.

Now, if you can tell that I sound like someone that lacks confidence, isn't attractive and is intimidated by women...you don't know me. Excellent keyboard warrior deduction Groink! Did I take it as a slam? Nope. I actually got a chuckle out of it, because you're trying to show that you are an alpha male...but outside of a few internet bros you're only viewed a pious ass. And a passive aggressive one at that. Not a slam, just an observation.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: tbombz on March 19, 2010, 10:38:45 AM
This is more true than most men realize. I walk around year round with a ripped body and visible abs. Most girls are close to indifferent when I take my close off and they see me naked for the first time. A decent sized dick and sexual skills in bed is IMO far more important to girls than looks alone.

Any other opinions on this?

ill take it one step further with the fact that dick size isnt that important either... sexually, most woman can be satisfied by just about any man or any dick, as long as their is enough stamina and rythm going on.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: tbombz on March 19, 2010, 10:41:39 AM
ill take it one step further with the fact that dick size isnt that important either... sexually, most woman can be satisfied by just about any man or any dick, as long as their is enough stamina and rythm going on.
and of course, emotional attrraction(which can and sometimes does cause physical attraction)
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: drkaje on March 19, 2010, 10:42:31 AM
ill take it one step further with the fact that dick size isnt that important either... sexually, most woman can be satisfied by just about any man or any dick, as long as their is enough stamina and rythm going on.

Any woman who says dick size doesn't matter is a bald faced liar.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: tbombz on March 19, 2010, 10:44:31 AM
Any woman who says dick size doesn't matter is a bald faced liar.
alot of woman LOVE big dicks.  ;D

a lot of woman think big dicks look nice, but could never in a million years take even half of it in their pussy.  :)

even the chicks who love big dicks and are loose like fuck can still orgasm off of an average sized dick. just has to be good sex.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2010, 11:09:05 AM
Can you not see the forest for the trees can you Groink?
In the above post, you just cited a few generalizations as to what makes somebody confident. "If you are chilled out and relaxed she will sense that as well as be more receptive" is what you say...but going one step further, what makes you appear relaxed and chill? What makes you come off as being funny? It's not only the words you're having come from your lips. There's more to it than that...not just as cut and dry.

And I like how you keep referring to Mystery. Keep bringing him up...because while you can keep generalizing, if you delved a little deeper into anything (however, the topic of pick-up is the subject here) you would realize that some places are a "jumping-off point" for people.

Now, if you can tell that I sound like someone that lacks confidence, isn't attractive and is intimidated by women...you don't know me. Excellent keyboard warrior deduction Groink! Did I take it as a slam? Nope. I actually got a chuckle out of it, because you're trying to show that you are an alpha male...but outside of a few internet bros you're only viewed a pious ass. And a passive aggressive one at that. Not a slam, just an observation.

Right...I used general terms,because if you need me to tell you what being "funny' and 'confident" is, you are completely fucking clueless

Do you want me to explain to you what "happiness" is too?

I cited that idiot "Mystery" because the whole reason for our discussion is you took offense at my laughing at that preposterous "list" that sounds like the drivel he espouses.

As far as my assessment of you....you basically admitted it in your first post to me. LOL...I can see you now....armed with the advanced techniques that "mystery" gave you...only to get shot down again because you are just an uninteresting person
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: YoungBlood on March 19, 2010, 11:14:37 AM
Right...I used general terms,because if you need me to tell you what being "funny' and 'confident" is, you are completely fucking clueless

Do you want me to explain to you what "happiness" is too?

I cited that idiot "Mystery" because the whole reason for our discussion is you took offense at my laughing at that preposterous "list" that sounds like the drivel he espouses.

As far as my assessment of you....you basically admitted it in your first post to me. LOL...I can see you now....armed with the advanced techniques that "mystery" gave you...only to get shot down again because you are just an uninteresting person


Thanks for playing. Step over to the right and claim your consolation prize.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2010, 11:22:58 AM

Thanks for playing. Step over to the right and claim your consolation prize.

Is that what your "wingman" says after you return from another failed "mission" stud?  ::) ::)

"You should have "stacked openers" bro....you moved you hands too much, and didn't qualify yourself."   LOLOLOLOL  what a cock.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: TrueGrit on March 19, 2010, 11:28:08 AM
If you want to get girls I'll give you the best tip you'll ever need - yes, looks, money, charm and confidence help but nothing makes women flock to you like already having a girlfriend. They want to out-do each other and I think a lot like the challenge. Plus they know that someone already wants you so you're probably not a weirdo/scat freak. Very often your chick's best friend is the one putting it on a plate. I am amazed how disloyal they can be to each other, worse than men.

Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: YoungBlood on March 19, 2010, 11:28:34 AM
Is that what your "wingman" says after you return from another failed "mission" stud?  ::) ::)

"You should have "stacked openers" bro....you moved you hands too much, and didn't qualify yourself."   LOLOLOLOL  what a cock.


You're trying too hard Groink.

And while what you may say to get over on other feeble minds elsewhere, when actually attempting to ruffle ones feathers, try staying relevant. It does help.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2010, 11:32:00 AM

You're trying too hard Groink.

And while what you may say to get over on other feeble minds elsewhere, when actually attempting to ruffle ones feathers, try staying relevant. It does help.

Oh...right...you're an "intellectual". Who needs me to explain to him in detail what "being funny' is  ::) ::)

Let me guess...another 160 lb. twink who thinks he has all the answers, and is "cooler than thou"






Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Natural Man on March 19, 2010, 11:36:55 AM
A lot of guys don't like women, G.

I don't mean gay, just that they really don't like or love women but still need them. This goes for both sexes. It's impossible for people who dislike themselves or have severe trust, parent, masculinity, femininity, or whatever baggage to develop healthy relationships.
boys then men who dont like women - without being homosexuals- often have divorced/separated parents. THey learnt division, discord, between their mother and father, who were constantly bashing each others in front or behind his/her back, which taught the boy or girl to have ambivalent relationships with either men or women as kids, teenages and later in life as adults themselves.

Basically the way you are loved and the way you love your mother and father conditions the way you will love other men and women or be loved by them once an adult.

If your parents are secure alone and when they live together, if they are secure with their colleagues and friends and family, they teach you how to live with a partner and be secure alone, or with friends /colleagues.

There is a direct, latent, diffuse transmission of everything that surrounds the infant right in his brain in his developmental years. Emotions, gestures, words, that will condition him almost definetly for the rest of his life.


Fact is groink's an insecure, immature guy who flees responsabilities and tries to justify his incapacity to overcome his past and present shortcomings by deluding himself into building a fake tough guy personnality ...on the internet.
The "i'm a tough meathead personnality" he sports at 40 is exactly the same kind of immature behavior any random 17 y/o kid you meet in the street with tons of mental problems would sport.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Natural Man on March 19, 2010, 11:41:34 AM
Can you not see the forest for the trees can you Groink?
In the above post, you just cited a few generalizations as to what makes somebody confident. "If you are chilled out and relaxed she will sense that as well as be more receptive" is what you say...but going one step further, what makes you appear relaxed and chill? What makes you come off as being funny? It's not only the words you're having come from your lips. There's more to it than that...not just as cut and dry.

And I like how you keep referring to Mystery. Keep bringing him up...because while you can keep generalizing, if you delved a little deeper into anything (however, the topic of pick-up is the subject here) you would realize that some places are a "jumping-off point" for people.

Now, if you can tell that I sound like someone that lacks confidence, isn't attractive and is intimidated by women...you don't know me. Excellent keyboard warrior deduction Groink! Did I take it as a slam? Nope. I actually got a chuckle out of it, because you're trying to show that you are an alpha male...but outside of a few internet bros you're only viewed a pious ass. And a passive aggressive one at that. Not a slam, just an observation.

groink is obviously a not so smart guy who has troubles getting intimate and emotionnal. Lot of men like him who are can only communicate superficially, without being able to go past some of their insecurities, which leads to doubts, lies, misunderstandings and finally separations with either the friends, colleagues, or life partners / kids. Most of the time it's because they had themselves troubles communicating with their own parents.

The right thing to do here, is to face these difficulties and overcome em during your lifetime to prevent yourself from repeating the same with your own kids.  But sadly most people dont.
The danger of our modern society which promotes superficiality, is that it makes people like groink justify their own shortcomings as a norm, even if this "norm" makes everyone suffer, even and especially those who pretend they dont suffer from it.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: spinnis on March 19, 2010, 11:43:06 AM
"Uberman" is the type of gay oops I mean guy that stands in a corner at a party looking at the girl he always wanted to talk to but never dared to, as he thinks about the Millions of tips he has gotten from all his "how to approach women" books and thinks "this is finally the night Im gonna do it!" and while he thinks thats, a  "Groink" walks up to the girl, just says hello and starts talking while Uberman is at the corner crying his insides  out, then uberman rushes home, to his only friend ...yet another psychologoly book,

Now he spends his time at Getbig trying to find these "groink" induviduals trying to own them online, because they were the same induviduals that did everything in life "uberman" never dared to.

poor ol' "uberman" lol. Thats also why he puts "uber" in his name to seem like something hes really not. Thats also why he would Never Ever post a photo, not because he doesnt "care" but because everyone would see how pathetic he really is lol.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Natural Man on March 19, 2010, 11:59:16 AM
swede, i know groink is your hero and that both of you are exactly as lost as each others. I also know groink takes a lot of satisfaction to be admired by young losers like you. Actually that's one of his favortie current addictions; come here, fool himself and uneducated young idiots like you with one liners you usually hear in C rated action movies.

But you re both wrong and following a bad path, even if you comfort each others in your shared delirium.

What a nice, pathogene, vicious circle you two are in.

One day you both morons will understand that in a stable relationship with someone else, you have to motivate each others to change and better yourselves, not to follow the same unproductive path right through the wall while whining and keeping each others down in your mutual shortcomings.

Obviously you two are way too uneducated to ever have the opportuniy to develop any meaningful relationship with anyone, nor to keep this relationship if some day it had the chance to happen. Women will always find out you re too immature and only care about yourself sooner or later. And you will always flee reality, the need to adapt and change, to grow up, cause you re just babies in grown up bodies.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: spinnis on March 19, 2010, 12:00:43 PM
here he goes again lol.

posting with uberman is kinda like playing one of those pre recorded pianos, its just too damn easy lol.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2010, 12:01:35 PM
swede, i know groink is your hero and that both of you are exactly as lost as each others. I also know groink takes a lot of satisfaction to be admired by young losers like you.

But you re both wrong and following a bad path, even if you comfort each others in your shared delirium.

What a nice, pathogene, vicious circle you two are in.

One day you both morons will understand that in a stable relationship with someone else, you have to motivate each others to change and better yourselves, not to follow the same unproductive path right through the wall while whining and keeping each others down with your mutual shortcomings.

Obviously you two are way too uneducated to ever have any meaningful with anyone, nor to keep this relationship if some day it had the chance to happen. Women will always find out you re too immature and only care about yourself sooner or later.
Like little boys.

I'm sure you and your boyfriend are very happy together
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: spinnis on March 19, 2010, 12:01:46 PM
"Uberman" is the type of gay oops I mean guy that stands in a corner at a party looking at the girl he always wanted to talk to but never dared to, as he thinks about the Millions of tips he has gotten from all his "how to approach women" books and thinks "this is finally the night Im gonna do it!" and while he thinks thats, a  "Groink" walks up to the girl, just says hello and starts talking while Uberman is at the corner crying his insides  out, then uberman rushes home, to his only friend ...yet another psychologoly book,

Now he spends his time at Getbig trying to find these "groink" induviduals trying to own them online, because they were the same induviduals that did everything in life "uberman" never dared to.

poor ol' "uberman" lol. Thats also why he puts "uber" in his name to seem like something hes really not. Thats also why he would Never Ever post a photo, not because he doesnt "care" but because everyone would see how pathetic he really is lol.

This deserves a BUMP to the new page haha.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2010, 12:09:08 PM
This deserves a BUMP to the new page haha.

LOL...yes it does.

I'm sure uberman is a lot of fun at parties. ::)

I wonder if he walks around giving his unsolicited (and incorrect) assessments of peoples lives and personalities in real life...people must groan when he walks through the door, what a breath of fresh air  ::) ::)
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: spinnis on March 19, 2010, 12:18:36 PM
swede, i know groink is your hero and that both of you are exactly as lost as each others. I also know groink takes a lot of satisfaction to be admired by young losers like you. Actually that's one of his favortie current addictions; come here, fool himself and uneducated young idiots like you with one liners you usually hear in C rated action movies.


You're always forgetting uberman what gives You the sense of "happy" doesn't necessarily give others the same feeling.

I might post up a long ass response what I mean later, too lazy right now.


Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: johnnynoname on March 19, 2010, 01:43:11 PM
I see there has been a discussion about this while I was out.

Groink: your two first points are very true, but for people with no confidence and no social skills it's not that easy to just flip a switch and turn funny and suave. There is alot of theory out there where people try to break it down to make it easier for guys with no clue what to do. Of course this is only theory, but I'd rather listen to the material of people who get paid thousands of dollars to train guys and that have been doing so for over a decade then anyone else. The guy that wrote that went out every single day for 4 years to pick up women, and through trial and error learned a lot.

Youngblood: You with rsd?

Tbombz: Very good short and conscise advice.

To the others:
The pickup material I find interesting has no scripted dialogue.

Alot of guys tend to say "fuck that blabla" when they're given advice about women. It is "supposed" to be something a man knows, right? And when other men try to help/teach/lecture you, people get offended/defensive. If you don't think this works then ok, thats your opinion. If you think this shit is interesting and want to know more, pm me for some material.

you're a tool
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: pugalist666 on March 19, 2010, 01:51:15 PM
LOL...yes it does.

I'm sure uberman is a lot of fun at parties. ::)

I wonder if he walks around giving his unsolicited (and incorrect) assessments of peoples lives and personalities in real life...people must groan when he walks through the door, what a breath of fresh air  ::) ::)
uberman is a female , re-read her posts you will see this to be true
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Palpatine Q on March 19, 2010, 01:53:39 PM
I see there has been a discussion about this while I was out.

Groink: your two first points are very true, but for people with no confidence and no social skills it's not that easy to just flip a switch and turn funny and suave. There is alot of theory out there where people try to break it down to make it easier for guys with no clue what to do. Of course this is only theory, but I'd rather listen to the material of people who get paid thousands of dollars to train guys and that have been doing so for over a decade then anyone else. The guy that wrote that went out every single day for 4 years to pick up women, and through trial and error learned a lot.

Youngblood: You with rsd?

Tbombz: Very good short and conscise advice.

To the others:
The pickup material I find interesting has no scripted dialogue.

Alot of guys tend to say "fuck that blabla" when they're given advice about women. It is "supposed" to be something a man knows, right? And when other men try to help/teach/lecture you, people get offended/defensive. If you don't think this works then ok, thats your opinion. If you think this shit is interesting and want to know more, pm me for some material.

What's RSD ?

Is that a "technique" ?
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: pugalist666 on March 19, 2010, 01:54:50 PM
you're a tool
2x hes alot like severedmantestes , delusional euro trash who come on line and try to lie about there lives and pump up there ego just to gain acceptance from north americans , only to be hated by all for there ignorant douchebagery
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: YoungBlood on March 19, 2010, 02:46:03 PM

Oh...right...you're an "intellectual". Who needs me to explain to him in detail what "being funny' is  ::) ::)

Let me guess...another 160 lb. twink who thinks he has all the answers, and is "cooler than thou"


Why must you insist on putting a moniker to any of this? Whether I'm an intellectual (far from it actually) or not, you're still not understanding the point. Instead of discussing the points I've made and having a civilized talk about it, you're going straight to the bottom and using the most immature form of interaction, is that easier for you?

I have no reason to know what being funny is; it's different for everyone. I ask you describe your blanket statements. Is that so hard? Your statements are blanketed, and Xerxes post was describing some of the intricacies of what "being confident" is. You can't "just be" anything. You cannot just say to a person "just start the car." What if the car doesn't start? Do you have gas? Does the engine turnover? Is there battery power? If any one of those issues arise, you can't "just start the car." Not all men or women can "just be..." Some guys are born naturals, and can be confident- but what makes them come across and be understood as confident? Do they constantly look around, shuffle their feet? What do they do or not do to put others at ease/make them uncomfortable?

I'm sure you started off life knowing the answer to every math problem, every car issue, and of course you hit the ground running with women. Instead of deprecating on anyone for attempting to make you understand that you're the one acting holier than thou by how you're acting within this thread...respond to me in a obliging manner.

What's RSD ?

Is that a "technique" ?

You know, for someone talking in such derogatory manner about such techniques or terms, you seem to know a lot about a subject you don't care for.

Youngblood: You with rsd?

Nope. I've seen some of the stuff out there, and know about what you talk of, but I don't side with any one particular belief as RSD comes across as wanting people to do. I could be wrong though?
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: PANDAEMONIUM on March 19, 2010, 08:57:41 PM
MJK has elevated himself as the biggest failure on this board. He's bullied in real life so he hoped to come on this board and "own" people to compensate for his failure in life only to find that he is repeatedly and brutally ass raped in every thread he tries to assert himself. It's to the point that he actually enjoys it as he enjoys being a submissive bottom to the various ghetto thugs in his blighted neighborhood.

hahaha!!! I don't come on here much anymore, but when I do, I take note of your posts, old friend. You are owning the bitches like there's no tomorrow. The legacy carries on 8)
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Hulkotron on March 19, 2010, 10:16:49 PM
Making a concentrated effort to pick up a woman is the epitome of beta-ness.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: pellius on March 20, 2010, 01:08:43 AM
hahaha!!! I don't come on here much anymore, but when I do, I take note of your posts, old friend. You are owning the bitches like there's no tomorrow. The legacy carries on 8)

I learned from the best. I have very far to go, Master. One of your top students, chaos, still guides me in my more difficult moments.

When I am finally able to drive a gimmick to suicide then I will know I am there.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: pellius on March 20, 2010, 01:11:06 AM
Making a concentrated effort to pick up a woman is the epitome of beta-ness.

The way you tear through quality poon with an effortless flow is legendary here in the islands.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: James Blunt on March 20, 2010, 01:23:04 AM
I see there has been a discussion about this while I was out.

Groink: your two first points are very true, but for people with no confidence and no social skills it's not that easy to just flip a switch and turn funny and suave. There is alot of theory out there where people try to break it down to make it easier for guys with no clue what to do. Of course this is only theory, but I'd rather listen to the material of people who get paid thousands of dollars to train guys and that have been doing so for over a decade then anyone else. The guy that wrote that went out every single day for 4 years to pick up women, and through trial and error learned a lot.

4 years everyday just doesn't make sense. Who could keep up with that?
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: outby43 on March 20, 2010, 01:59:55 AM
Dude people here are on getbig for hours everyday. Picking up women doesn't have to take a long time, you could go in to a club/bar or anywhere really (the store/mall/coffeeshop/whatever), chit chat for a few minutes, get the phonenumber and get out.

That's where you fuck up.  Players like me, Swede and Groink will chat these ho's up for a few minutes and then will be pounding that ass in the bathroom a short time later.  Fuck that phone number and leave shit.  ::)
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: pugalist666 on March 20, 2010, 02:05:43 AM
It was just an example on how it is easily possible to keep this shit up everyday. Not describing what I do.
your brown , women dont like that (even brown women)   hope this helps
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: pugalist666 on March 20, 2010, 02:14:59 AM
Sure, whatever makes you sleep better. I don't really care what YOU (one of the most pathetic posters on getbig) say.

(http://photos-c.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v1819/5/23/739865520/n739865520_5114488_5964.jpg)
ya friends are a great thing  ;) to bad the only sexual pics  of you involve dudes
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: pellius on March 20, 2010, 02:17:45 AM
uberman is a female , re-read her posts you will see this to be true

pugalist666 is a tranny, re-read all it's post and you will see this to be true.
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: freespirit on March 20, 2010, 02:25:05 AM
Too many blokes with personal issues in this one.   :-\
Title: Re: Sigh My Life
Post by: Hulkotron on March 20, 2010, 09:54:11 AM
Xerxes why do you post here?  You don't really look like you work out ???
Title: Re: Sigh My
Post by: disturbia on March 20, 2010, 10:36:17 AM
SEXUAL? A picture where a plastic lightsaber is pointed at my ass and another where I pretend to kiss a guy? OBVIOUSLY you never had sex if you think these are sexual  :-X. I feel sorry for you.

I'm sorry that I haven't posted pictures of sexual acts for you to enjoy (wtf??? and you call me gay?), I don't see the point in posting pictures of my cock in a board full of men (no offence Swede/Sev/Falcon). I can see the fun in posting pictures of girls you bang though for sure, but wouldn't do that to a girl I know. Maybe random ONS in a foreign country but never a girl I know.

Please fuck off you fat selfloathing indian wannabe rocker.

lol good one
Title: Re: Sigh My
Post by: pellius on March 20, 2010, 12:20:52 PM
lol good one


That did crack me up, too.

Shows that anyone can own Pugalist666. It's one thing to try to act like a tough guy but quite another to actually be tough. Soft and flacid Amish homo right there.