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Alright boys, what do you think?
I'm on Plentyoffish... Been single for half a year. Thought I'd give it a go again and see what's out there. Get me a new honey. Anyways, here's the situation. Been corresponding with this girl for a week and a half now. She's not in town for much longer. She wanted to meet up for sex. She is fucking hot. Well, it finally happened tonight. She came over. We had a bottle of wine. We're making out (so she's obviously attracted). She takes off her sweater. Feel her up, etc.. Then shortly after she says she has to go. Seemed legit, because the last subway was coming. Thing, is I'm pissed, because she false represented herself. She barely gave anything up. She said how about she comes over again on Sunday (she is leaving on Monday for good). NOW, here is the risk involved. I have another girl who actually seems to be girlfriend material who wants to meet me for an ice cream on Sunday night. We have a set date for that night and seeing it's the first date, it looks bad to cancel. I may blow my chances with her, BUT, if I go and see her, I'm blowing my chances of fucking this hot girl who is leaving on Monday.
So, do I take the chance and go for the FUCK on Sunday and let this skank come over again, not even knowing if she's going to stand me up, or not put out fully if she does come over, or do I go on the date with the girlfriend material girl on Sunday and blow off the skank, who I really want to fuck?
Discuss.
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Danimal please post pics of the POF whore.
I say re-schedule the ice cream date, if she's really into you she won't care.
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im sure with a little re arrangement of times, u could see doth of them......but fucking the skank comes first, and if the other is gf mateial, she wont mind doing sunday (day) ice cream............
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Dump the one who monopolized your evening with the promise of sex and then left you blue balled. She had her chance and blew it.
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Fuck the skank and re-schedule the "girlfriend material". Quality women (girlfriend material) are very scarce these days due to most of them being materialistic and childish. If the "girlfriend material" one isn't now, she will be later when she's got you by your balls in a "relationship". Then the self-entitlement starts creeping in and the nut vice tightens... pretty soon she'll be bitching about money over a tub of ice cream while you are staring longingly at your nuts, which will then be in a pickling jar on the top shelf of her vanity. Just a fuck = win/win.
If you re-schedule the girlfriend material date it will make her think your a busy dude and aren't putting your life on hold for her. It will actually make you look good if you re-schedule and take her out another time. As long as you don't cancel too often or 24 hrs before your golden.
If you feel like the skank isn't gonna put out when she rolls over, dangle a carrot of some sort. Make her work for it a little at the first part of the night. Women won't put out if they feel like they are putting too much on the table too soon.
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Dump the one who monopolized your evening with the promise of sex and then left you blue balled. She had her chance and blew it.
You know, I fucking agree with this, but man, she's a fine piece of ass. She's like if she gets started now, she won't be able to stop and she doesn't want to miss her last bus/subway. Damn, I said I was willing to pay for her cab ride home and she refused, making sort of an empty promise to do this again and the right way on Sunday? I was pissed, but tried not to show it too much, but man, it's been a long time since a pussy toyed with me like that...
Then I have this other girlfriend material girl, who is a full fledged commercial lawyer who is really looking forward to seeing me on Sunday night. She's a catch and a half herself, but, the bitch from tonight, was someone I just want to crack open on the kitchen counter and destroy...
What would suck is if I accept to see the skank on Sunday and she cancels on me, the flake that she is.
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Tell the hottie that you've got another date on Sunday and you'll call her when you're free. Play it like you're not interested and she'll be drooling from her panties to give it up. Right now she knows you want it bad and that gives her power. If she knows she's being blown off for another girl...you win.
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Danimal please post pics of the POF whore.
I say re-schedule the ice cream date, if she's really into you she won't care.
First 2 are the POF WHORE, the last one is the girlfriend material one..
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Tell the hottie that you've got another date on Sunday and you'll call her when you're free. Play it like you're not interested and she'll be drooling from her panties to give it up. Right now she knows you want it bad and that gives her power. If she knows she's being blown off for another girl...you win.
Bro, like I said, she's GONE on Monday for good. She's not from here. She's been here on business for 2 weeks and is leaving on Monday. The GF material girl (who is hot in her own right) is really looking forward to seeing me on Sunday (she asked ME out) and if I say no, I'm sure she's getting her fair share of guys knocking down on her door too. She's the one in the bikini on the beach.
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The first one looks like nothin to fret over missing out on. Go with the girlfriend material.
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Looks like 3 - 10s
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The first one looks like nothin to fret over missing out on. Go with the girlfriend material.
This is my 3rd option for early/mid next week. This one is HIGH CLASS...
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Whore 1 and Whore 2 are the same girl Croatch. She's the one who gave me blew balls tonight.
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girls wil fuck your mind, end thread.
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girls wil fuck your mind, end thread.
No shit..... Fuck your mind, leave you with blue balls and empty your bank account.
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No shit..... Fuck your mind, leave you with blue balls and empty your bank account.
That's it.
And we still never learn, do we? :D
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That's it.
And we still never learn, do we? :D
Nope, we keep going back for more torture. Is getting pussy, or the promise of it really worth all this effort and headache?
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Nope, we keep going back for more torture. Is getting pussy, or the promise of it really worth all this effort and headache?
Depends on your age-group.
Sometimes we just want to find the one to settle down with/start a family with etc.
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Depends on your age-group.
Sometimes we just want to find the one to settle down with/start a family with etc.
I'm 32 and I'm looking for what you just mentioned. Thing is, this one wild girl who gave me the promise of a wild and crazy night tonight and did not deliver threw me for a loop. I thought no girl could have that power over my hormones anymore. This is why men have affairs and then end up having their loving wife leave them. All because of women like the one who came over tonight and left me fucking hanging. It's 4:00am right now and I still can't get this shit off my mind.
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I'm 32 and I'm looking for what you just mentioned. Thing is, this one wild girl who gave me the promise of a wild and crazy night tonight and did not deliver threw me for a loop. I thought no girl could have that power over my hormones anymore. This is why men have affairs and then end up having their loving wife leave them. All because of women like the one who came over tonight and left me fucking hanging. It's 4:00am right now and I still can't get this shit off my mind.
If you seek a wife / someone that's there for the long haul, you shouldn't worry about that girl, she didn't even deliver!
Why worry? Go for the real material instead.
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If you seek a wife / someone that's there for the long haul, you shouldn't worry about that girl, she didn't even deliver!
Why worry? Go for the real material instead.
Words of wisdom my friend.
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Cancel the date with the ice-cream chick. Cancelling a date makes you appear less desperate and will work for you in the middle of the week when you finally call her to re-arrange. Also - don't take any chick for an ice cream, that's setting yourself up for something platonic.
Have the first chick round but for heavens sake, stop fucking about and give her what she wants this time.
I bet the poor gal sat around for hours dropping hints before finally ripping off her sweater.
Take control, dude.
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Cancel the date with the ice-cream chick. Cancelling a date makes you appear less desperate and will work for you in the middle of the week when you finally call her to re-arrange. Also - don't take any chick for an ice cream, that's setting yourself up for something platonic.
Have the first chick round but for heavens sake, stop fucking about and give her what she wants this time.
I bet the poor gal sat around for hours dropping hints before finally ripping off her sweater.
Take control, dude.
Yeah, but when I finally busted the move on her, she seemed all frigid and acted like she wasn't in the mood and said she had to get going. I tried to be the nice guy and get to know her before taking her to bed, but I guess all that ended up doing was making her not be in the mood for sex. No fucking clue, but canceling on the ice cream chick (her idea), could backfire on me. When women have that many options, if you blow them off (even once), they are on to the next guy.
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I'm 32 and I'm looking for what you just mentioned. Thing is, this one wild girl who gave me the promise of a wild and crazy night tonight and did not deliver threw me for a loop. I thought no girl could have that power over my hormones anymore. This is why men have affairs and then end up having their loving wife leave them. All because of women like the one who came over tonight and left me fucking hanging. It's 4:00am right now and I still can't get this shit off my mind.
dont even mess with that shit. the biggest mistake i ever made was leaving a genuine relationship to pursue some lust-ful hot peice of ass, turned out we didnt even really like each other, and never did more than mess around, lasted all of 2 weeks, and by doing so i lost someone who-while not as 'hot', was so much better for me...this is the kind of shit you regret forever..
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I don;t know much about that girl but from that photo she looks like a striaght up hoe that's hunting for dick. She couldn't get any game from you because you couldn't just drop the game on her. Seems like you think too much before you just go for it. If your kissing in your own place or hers, it should be over right there. However you managed to not get some is crazy .That must have been harder to do than actually getting it. That silver dress may as well be a want ad for a wild fuck.
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No shit..... Fuck your mind, leave you with blue balls and empty your bank account.
I love the stories about how the wife gets half, etc. Any fool who gets married, deserves to be played like a tool.
It's a financial agreement, nothing more. Even homos can get married. Means absolutely nothing. ;)
Or when I hear about some guy paying for xyz for his girl, I think...what a fool...ahah If a girl is into, you don't need to buy her anything too lavish. Lay the pipe right, she'll be back...the end.
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I don;t know much about that girl but from that photo she looks like a striaght up hoe that's hunting for dick. She couldn't get any game from you because you couldn't just drop the game on her. Seems like you think too much before you just go for it. If your kissing in your own place or hers, it should be over right there. However you managed to not get some is crazy .That must have been harder to do than actually getting it. That silver dress may as well be a want ad for a wild fuck.
Yeah, that's exactly it. I should have treated her like the whore she wanted to be (in her email she said she wanted to fuck me when she came over). I ended treating her like a "date" in my apartment. Drinking the bottle of wine slowly and asking her about her family and her dreams, when in fact, I should have busted a move as soon as she got up to my apartment. Most girls love it when you talk to them first. This girl I guess wanted one thing. When she realized that wasn't happening RIGHT AWAY, she didn't want it anymore... I kind of don't think she'll be coming back to my place on Sunday. It was like a missed opportunity and now it's just awkward. I'm pissed because she left my place without giving me SHIT and she's probably thinking I'm looking for a relationship and she's definitely not looking for that....
Makes me not want to cancel on the REAL date girl on Sunday.
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I love the stories about how the wife gets half, etc. Any fool who gets married, deserves to be played like a tool.
It's a financial agreement, nothing more. Even homos can get married. Means absolutely nothing. ;)
Or when I hear about some guy paying for xyz for his girl, I think...what a fool...ahah If a girl is into, you don't need to buy her anything too lavish. Lay the pipe right, she'll be back...the end.
Very true. My ex took me to Vegas on her bank account. Flew me there first class. Paid for my entire week at the Rio. Saw some of the best shows and I never dropped a dime. Never had to. Hell, I didn't even own a car. Many girls will do this for you. The ones you meet from the get go who say what will you do for me, are the ones to avoid at all costs.
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Yeah, that's exactly it. I should have treated her like the whore she wanted to be (in her email she said she wanted to fuck me when she came over). I ended treating her like a "date" in my apartment. Drinking the bottle of wine slowly and asking her about her family and her dreams, when in fact, I should have busted a move as soon as she got up to my apartment. Most girls love it when you talk to them first. This girl I guess wanted one thing. When she realized that wasn't happening RIGHT AWAY, she didn't want it anymore... I kind of don't think she'll be coming back to my place on Sunday. It was like a missed opportunity and now it's just awkward. I'm pissed because she left my place without giving me SHIT and she's probably thinking I'm looking for a relationship and she's definitely not looking for that....
Makes me not want to cancel on the REAL date girl on Sunday.
Forget about what you should have done and move on to what you should do now. Move in on option 2. No sense in harping on a bad experience.
I think the Hank Rearden memory approach should be applied here. "Memories are like pointless indulgences" lol.
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Forget about what you should have done and move on to what you should do now. Move in on option 2. No sense in harping on a bad experience.
I think the Hank Rearden memory approach should be applied here. "Memories are like pointless indulgences" lol.
Yeah, but what if she asks me if I still want her to come over on Sunday? Do I last minute ditch the option 2 for her, if she decides she wants to come over for some nookie?
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Yeah, but what if she asks me if I still want her to come over on Sunday? Do I last minute ditch the option 2 for her, if she decides she wants to come over for some nookie?
You're speaking like pussy only come's along every few years. It's great but not so great one should ask so many questions. Especially when one is still in the midst. lol. Take the second option.
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You're speaking like pussy only come's along every few years. It's great but not so great one should ask so many questions. Especially when one is still in the midst. lol. Take the second option.
Thing is, I've been passing up all kinds of pussy on POF (I must have got a good 80-90 responses in a couple of weeks), trying to score big with the Grade A honeys. They're showing interest, but when you're going high end, there comes more pressure. They expect more, because they know they're hot items. The average girls want to come run over and wash your dishes, but I'm passing them up. Wondering if I'm making a mistake doing so?
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Thing is, I've been passing up all kinds of pussy on POF (I must have got a good 80-90 responses in a couple of weeks), trying to score big with the Grade A honeys. They're showing interest, but when you're going high end, there comes more pressure. They expect more, because they know they're hot items. The average girls want to come run over and wash your dishes, but I'm passing them up. Wondering if I'm making a mistake doing so?
I don't care how hot a bitch is, I don't bend over backward to nail anything. For $300, you can get yourself a decent whore...why go through hoops for some pussy. I know guys do, but I'd rather spank it to a 10 for free, than be chump to bang an 8. That's just me though..haha
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Thing is, I've been passing up all kinds of pussy on POF (I must have got a good 80-90 responses in a couple of weeks), trying to score big with the Grade A honeys. They're showing interest, but when you're going high end, there comes more pressure. They expect more, because they know they're hot items. The average girls want to come run over and wash your dishes, but I'm passing them up. Wondering if I'm making a mistake doing so?
I think you need to smoke some marijuana and have a mental seminar on your life. You've got a great deal of uncertainty goin on. I think one of the few times pressure is felt is when someone feels below someone. Sort of like asking a boss for a raise. Be confident. They're just women. High class low class whatever class. They're all human and love to fuck. Drop the pressure. Be confident. You're putting it on a pedestal.
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Very true. My ex took me to Vegas on her bank account. Flew me there first class. Paid for my entire week at the Rio. Saw some of the best shows and I never dropped a dime. Never had to. Hell, I didn't even own a car. Many girls will do this for you. The ones you meet from the get go who say what will you do for me, are the ones to avoid at all costs.
Why is she you ex?
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Why would she take the last sub home, if you're gonna have sex, ie spending the night....reason for leaving is something else
Thing is, I've been passing up all kinds of pussy on POF (I must have got a good 80-90 responses in a couple of weeks), trying to score big with the Grade A honeys. They're showing interest, but when you're going high end, there comes more pressure. They expect more, because they know they're hot items. The average girls want to come run over and wash your dishes, but I'm passing them up. Wondering if I'm making a mistake doing so?
some "grade a"s are complete crazies, not worth it...all this time wasted, you could have banged plenty of 6-7s by now.
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Why is she you ex?
I ask myself that very same question every day. Best girl I ever had and not just because of the money, trips, clothes and restaurants, but because she was quality. When a man is given THAT much, he can take it for granted and I suppose I did. Now she's with some younger French guy, who is shorter than her, has an unkept beard and doesn't even have a job. Saddens me to even think she went for THAT after me... Settling is a bitch.
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Why would she take the last sub home, if you're gonna have sex, ie spending the night....reason for leaving is something else
some "grade a"s are complete crazies, not worth it...all this time wasted, you could have banged plenty of 6-7s by now.
Trust me man, it was a B.S. fucking excuse on her part. I went to go kiss her and she grabs her watch to see what time it is. I'm like WTF? She's like I'm just checking. I don't want to start something I can't finish. I need to catch the last subway. I'm like why do you have to go back home? She's like I'm getting tired and I'm really in the mood. This girl kept me waiting for 10 days and when she finally comes, she shows up 2 hours late and then tries to pull this shit on me. I back off and look pissed and she said you can come back and kiss me. I do, but then she's acting frigid and that was that. She said it's not happening tonight. She's the one who contacted ME and asked me if I wanted to have sex...
Anyways, fuck that for now... I have to get some fucking sleep. Thanks for all the advice guys.
Later.
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I ask myself that very same question every day. Best girl I ever had and not just because of the money, trips, clothes and restaurants, but because she was quality. When a man is given THAT much, he can take it for granted and I suppose I did. Now she's with some younger French guy, who is shorter than her, has an unkept beard and doesn't even have a job. Saddens me to even think she went for THAT after me... Settling is a bitch.
Danimal, i really think the girl that is the leaving for good, dont bother. If you are truely looking to settle down or for quality relationship, stick with the lawyer. Not because she is a lawyer but I doubt she is into playing games. Most women do.
Alot of men do take advantage of the good ones, not sure why that is. They always seem the grass is greener on the other side.
Why does it bother you she is with this other person. Because she is giving him material things and probably treating him like gold or that he is probably uglier than you (not saying either one of you are ugly).
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Why would she take the last sub home, if you're gonna have sex, ie spending the night....reason for leaving is something else
some "grade a"s are complete crazies, not worth it...all this time wasted, you could have banged plenty of 6-7s by now.
Picture going through life having every guy you know, trying to bang you since 14. Must warp your perception on things. It's funny to see the length some guy will go to, just to bang some girl who looks great, but may be a complete girl....which will usually be the case. This one girl I knew had 3 or 4 different guys give her roses on Valentine's day...haha, what chumps. On top of it, she banged who she wanted anyway, regardless of the gifts and was an ungrateful female. The most effort I put in, is dinner...that's about it...and I'm just ROLLIN in the pussy. ::) haha
It's just not worth the hassle really. If a girl is into, there shouldn't be huge effort involved. If she needs all that, why even bother? Remember, if she's real hot, just means she's had more dick in her than a porn star. Chances are, she'll just lay there like a dead fish. Don't waste your time, low effort, go for 4's. ;D
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I vote for the whore.
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Alright boys, what do you think?
I'm on Plentyoffish... Been single for half a year. Thought I'd give it a go again and see what's out there. Get me a new honey. Anyways, here's the situation. Been corresponding with this girl for a week and a half now. She's not in town for much longer. She wanted to meet up for sex. She is fucking hot. Well, it finally happened tonight. She came over. We had a bottle of wine. We're making out (so she's obviously attracted). She takes off her sweater. Feel her up, etc.. Then shortly after she says she has to go. Seemed legit, because the last subway was coming. Thing, is I'm pissed, because she false represented herself. She barely gave anything up. She said how about she comes over again on Sunday (she is leaving on Monday for good). NOW, here is the risk involved. I have another girl who actually seems to be girlfriend material who wants to meet me for an ice cream on Sunday night. We have a set date for that night and seeing it's the first date, it looks bad to cancel. I may blow my chances with her, BUT, if I go and see her, I'm blowing my chances of fucking this hot girl who is leaving on Monday.
So, do I take the chance and go for the FUCK on Sunday and let this skank come over again, not even knowing if she's going to stand me up, or not put out fully if she does come over, or do I go on the date with the girlfriend material girl on Sunday and blow off the skank, who I really want to fuck?
Discuss.
shes a tart. tell her to fuck off. any broad who was going to fuck you would have done so that nite.
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You won't lose the other girl by blowing her off, she'll only like you more. But I would do what's right and if you want that other as your girl then blow the other one off
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I just...
take them both out for ice cream and make em' lick it off eachothers titties.
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So, do I take the chance and go for the FUCK on Sunday and let this skank come over again, not even knowing if she's going to stand me up, or not put out fully if she does come over, or do I go on the date with the girlfriend material girl on Sunday and blow off the skank, who I really want to fuck?
The chance was already blown when the skank came over. Everything was set in stone and STILL nothing happened. If I were you I wouldn't risk the skank coming over again. Don't be played like a fiddle and go for the girlfriend material. ;)
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Danimal77 not you're fault bro, you did what you thought worked, you didn't realise how much of a slut she was and that you should have hit it right away. You can't read everyone's mind.
Blow her off, go with the other one. If the slut wants it she will contact you.
Oh yeh Croatch is on fucking fire in this thread :D
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Don't blow the gf material one off. The other one had her chance and missed it.
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WTF..Where are the pics
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Don't blow the gf material one off. The other one had her chance and missed it.
Yes there is the answer.
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Yeah, but when I finally busted the move on her, she seemed all frigid and acted like she wasn't in the mood and said she had to get going. I tried to be the nice guy and get to know her before taking her to bed, but I guess all that ended up doing was making her not be in the mood for sex. No fucking clue, but canceling on the ice cream chick (her idea), could backfire on me. When women have that many options, if you blow them off (even once), they are on to the next guy.
That's your problem right there.
You are putting them on a pedestal - what's all this "women have so many options" crap ?
The way I see it - I have many options and any chick that lands me (OK - landed me - I have 2 kids) is very lucky indeed.
50% of the population are women. The human race is reproducing at a parabolic rate. Therefore, the rest of the world is not having trouble hooking up.
It's just you !
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WTF..Where are the pics
um on the first page
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Reschedule the GF material, either for tonight or early sunday. If its the early Sunday option just make up some family event that you have to attend a couple hours before the whore is supposed to come by. Just make sure she knows the "family event" is the reason you're rescheduling.
Fuck the whore, date the gf material. Pretty simple.
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I ask myself that very same question every day. Best girl I ever had and not just because of the money, trips, clothes and restaurants, but because she was quality. When a man is given THAT much, he can take it for granted and I suppose I did. Now she's with some younger French guy, who is shorter than her, has an unkept beard and doesn't even have a job. Saddens me to even think she went for THAT after me... Settling is a bitch.
It wouldn't have worked anyway. Chances are she is doing the same for that dude. She is th type that will do all that stuff, thinking the man will stay...you don't treat a man like a boy, or he will act like one...
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When women have that many options, if you blow them off (even once), they are on to the next guy.
Doesn't mean her options are any good. You've got 20 options as well, some of them could be shit.
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When women have that many options, if you blow them off (even once), they are on to the next guy.
Doesn't mean her options are any good. You've got 20 options as well, some of them could be shit.
AMEN!!!! girls have options, girls are dumb they will go for the dude who is not nice to her...try it.
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AMEN!!!! girls have options, girls are dumb they will go for the dude who is not nice to her...try it.
Is a man only as faithful as his options? ;)
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Is a man only as faithful as his options? ;)
Ofcourse, its like when you have a one night stand and the bitch gets clingy, she messages you and calls you and "tweets" you should say the only reason why we fucked is because you were the only option that night.
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choose the woman with strong Qur'anic values
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choose the woman with strong Qur'anic values
I see she has a double-taped clip - that tells me she's prepared. ;D
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I see she has a double-taped clip - that tells me she's prepared. ;D
haha yes, she is quite the hot number
incidentally, I bought an identical mag-coupler from Israel a couple years ago
somehow I doubt that's where she got hers . . .
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Alright boys, what do you think?
I'm on Plentyoffish... Been single for half a year. Thought I'd give it a go again and see what's out there. Get me a new honey. Anyways, here's the situation. Been corresponding with this girl for a week and a half now. She's not in town for much longer. She wanted to meet up for sex. She is fucking hot. Well, it finally happened tonight. She came over. We had a bottle of wine. We're making out (so she's obviously attracted). She takes off her sweater. Feel her up, etc.. Then shortly after she says she has to go. Seemed legit, because the last subway was coming. Thing, is I'm pissed, because she false represented herself. She barely gave anything up. She said how about she comes over again on Sunday (she is leaving on Monday for good). NOW, here is the risk involved. I have another girl who actually seems to be girlfriend material who wants to meet me for an ice cream on Sunday night. We have a set date for that night and seeing it's the first date, it looks bad to cancel. I may blow my chances with her, BUT, if I go and see her, I'm blowing my chances of fucking this hot girl who is leaving on Monday.
So, do I take the chance and go for the FUCK on Sunday and let this skank come over again, not even knowing if she's going to stand me up, or not put out fully if she does come over, or do I go on the date with the girlfriend material girl on Sunday and blow off the skank, who I really want to fuck?
Discuss.
Please refer to QB's thread.
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haha yes, she is quite the hot number
incidentally, I bought an identical mag-coupler from Israel a couple years ago
somehow I doubt that's where she got hers . . .
Her basic camo and her two-point stance lets us know that she's ready for anything. Her Quran headband is finishing touch for those 72 virgins. Stand back.